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Booster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:20 PM Original message |
I hate it when preacher's use a person's funeral to give a |
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DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:22 PM Response to Original message |
1. You have got to be kidding. |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
2. All of the funerals in churches I've ever attended had some sort of a message about |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:34 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. Everlasting life at a funeral. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's a religious service, so what do you expect? Nobody has to have |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:24 PM Response to Reply #3 |
24. Exactly. I'm a UCC clergyperson. I tell people upfront that I'm a Christian clergyperson, |
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theHandpuppet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
4. That happens at my Dad's funeral |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:13 PM Response to Reply #4 |
17. If it was infuriating and disrespectful, why did you have a religious service? |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:14 PM Response to Reply #17 |
48. Zackly. nt |
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hobbit709 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
5. When a friend of mine's father died about 15 years ago. |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
6. Did he have an altar call? |
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Booster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:33 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Wow. I would have been offended also. That's ridiculous. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
8. I hate it when they use it as a commercial for Jesus. |
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JonTheGreat (80 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
9. Crazy. How would one make sure that diden't happen? n/t |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:21 PM Response to Reply #9 |
22. Don't have a clergyperson lead the service. Obviously. nt |
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Union Scribe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-13-11 12:41 AM Response to Reply #22 |
43. Also, I hate it when I hire a clown for a party and all he does is joke around. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
11. Happened with my Dad. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 07:07 PM Response to Reply #11 |
38. It would have been good if your Dad had made his wishes known in advance. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-13-11 12:33 AM Response to Reply #38 |
41. Yeah, maybe it would have been. I'd pass that useful bit of info along to him, but he's dead. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:35 PM Response to Original message |
12. Worse yet is when the preacher sells life insurance. n/t |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
13. Can you define "sermon"? A sermon is a part of our funeral liturgy (UCC). |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
14. My grandfather's funeral included three altar calls. |
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dbonds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
15. Every funeral in my family we have told the preacher to absolutely not preach. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:16 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. And he had the option to tell you, in that case, |
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dbonds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:40 PM Response to Reply #19 |
27. Well, he didn't have that option because we have them at the funeral home. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 07:00 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. A "preacher" isn't obligated to participate in a secular service. |
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provis99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
16. yeah, it's sickening. |
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Wait Wut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
18. They did that at my mother-in-law's funeral. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:20 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Umm...it is a church service. nt |
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Wait Wut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:36 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. It's a funeral. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 07:05 PM Response to Reply #26 |
37. A funeral service at a place of worship is a religious funeral service. |
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Hassin Bin Sober (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
28. The person you are responding to says they had two different church based experiences. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:08 PM Response to Reply #28 |
45. Then just hire a DJ with a mic. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
20. I don't get why people would go to a religious service and then be shocked |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
23. Easy solution. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
25. Not always true |
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Booster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:51 PM Response to Reply #25 |
31. Now, that's the way it should be done. That's really nice. |
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Still Blue in PDX (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
29. Especially when the person being buried was not a Christian. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:10 PM Response to Reply #29 |
46. Why did you have a Christian pastor do it? nt |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
30. My father thinks the pastor at his parish is an idiot more focused |
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MurrayDelph (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:52 PM Response to Original message |
32. Two stories about family funerals. |
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Booster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 07:02 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. LOL. Good for you. |
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Motown_Johnny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:52 PM Response to Original message |
33. Preacher + Congregation = Sermon |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
34. Usually you talk to the minister ahead of time |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:13 PM Response to Reply #34 |
47. This is exactly what I do--meet with the family ahead of time |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
39. We had the experience sort of in reverse recently. |
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Booster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-12-11 08:47 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. That's just as ridiculous as a preacher giving a sermon. Makes |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-13-11 12:36 AM Response to Reply #39 |
42. I know. Those Atheists, always marching into churches and demanding equal time. |
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jmowreader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-13-11 12:59 AM Response to Original message |
44. Old war story follows |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
49. Peter, the fisherman.... |
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Erose999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
50. My aunt asked not to have a funeral. The family put one together anyway, and the guy preached fire |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
51. A preacher? In a church? Giving a sermon? The outrage! (nt) |
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Lucinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
52. I've been to very few funerals but none of them turned into a sermon. |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
53. I know. My father's was delivered by a relative who is a Pentecostal minister |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
54. My UCC minister gave the eulogy at my atheist fathers funeral. |
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jeepnstein (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-14-11 12:29 PM Response to Original message |
55. I'm going to have them make an Invitation at mine. |
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