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Mark Maker (168 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 12:59 AM Original message |
KTAR: Gabrielle Giffords shooting devastates Jared Loughner's parents |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:03 AM Response to Original message |
1. Few families can handle serious mental illness on their own. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:11 AM Response to Reply #1 |
6. I haven't seen any evidence the guy was ever diagnosed with |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:35 AM Response to Reply #6 |
22. It's true that you can't force treatment on an adult unless |
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eppur_se_muova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 02:13 AM Response to Reply #22 |
45. another legacy of Saint Ronnie ... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 02:59 AM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Interesting link, thanks. |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:43 PM Response to Reply #47 |
76. been there. n/t. |
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Little Star (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:41 PM Response to Reply #6 |
75. Well, then you haven't looked around DU much..... |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:03 AM Response to Original message |
2. They are enduring the tragedy the way the rest of us are... |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:28 PM Response to Reply #2 |
68. Exactly - we are all grieving for the victims, |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:04 AM Response to Original message |
3. What a tragedy for everyone. |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:07 AM Response to Original message |
4. I don't understand why any of his friends didn't intervene before this tragedy. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:10 AM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Very little that anyone can do. In most places, everybody will tell you |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:15 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Exactly. It's very difficult to force an evaluation of the mentally |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:19 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. You ever heard of the Baker Act? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:22 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. As of now, we have no information suggesting anyone tried |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:27 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. Based only on what the biology teacher reported to the police |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:32 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Yes. It's a shame the school didn't have some kind of authority |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:34 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. The school told him he needs to get an evaluation if he wants |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:41 AM Response to Reply #20 |
28. Generally, a letter will not influence the severely mentally ill |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:35 AM Response to Reply #17 |
21. I think on paper, they do. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:37 AM Response to Reply #21 |
24. This reminds me a lot of Virginia Tech. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:40 AM Response to Reply #24 |
27. I know. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:42 AM Response to Reply #21 |
31. Perhaps, but the "immediate danger" criteria |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:48 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. I meant "oops" for my bad typing. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:54 AM Response to Reply #34 |
39. Oh, sorry for the misunderstanding on the oops. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:58 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. Laughing is good for your circulation and it's free. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:59 AM Response to Reply #41 |
42. Good to know on the circulation E. |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:32 AM Response to Reply #9 |
18. I didn't say anyone did, just pointing out that it's not that difficult to force someone into an |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:39 AM Response to Reply #18 |
25. In my area it is indeed difficult. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:42 AM Response to Reply #25 |
30. In San Francisco, if you report someone in a meltdown as a threat |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:45 AM Response to Reply #30 |
32. I remember a woman who was killed by police in my state |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:51 AM Response to Reply #32 |
37. Thank goodness. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 08:47 AM Response to Reply #25 |
58. You are quite wrong. It's not just immediate threat IF THE FAMILY CONTACTS AUTHORITIES- |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:06 PM Response to Reply #58 |
63. I am not wrong when it comes to the laws in my state. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:24 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. The problem is, no one wants to take responsibility |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:36 AM Response to Reply #11 |
23. I guess we just have a good mental health program around here then |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:39 AM Response to Reply #23 |
26. That's great. I know when we lived in the LA area |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 03:11 AM Response to Reply #11 |
52. Even when families seek the responsibility -- seek involuntary |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:29 AM Response to Reply #8 |
14. Ever tried to have an adult committed outside the state |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:41 AM Response to Reply #14 |
29. Yes, it's pretty easy where I live... |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:46 AM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Glad to hear that. Perhaps Florida should be a model for |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:53 AM Response to Reply #33 |
38. Yes, we definitely need better mental health services in this country |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:56 AM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Agreed. It is an illness. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 03:04 AM Response to Reply #29 |
48. It's a nightmare here in Washington and in many other states. |
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foxfeet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 04:45 PM Response to Reply #48 |
79. Guardianship and involuntary commitment are two separate legal processes |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 05:07 PM Response to Reply #14 |
84. As have I, please read my post below. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 03:14 AM Response to Reply #8 |
53. Just because the Baker Act exists doesn't mean that judges |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:30 PM Response to Reply #8 |
69. They get 72 hours - |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 05:06 PM Response to Reply #8 |
83. We have that here in FL. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-12-11 11:45 AM Response to Reply #83 |
88. Glad all ended ok. |
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Carolina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 08:30 AM Response to Reply #5 |
56. exactly |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #5 |
74. that's just uninformed. state law varies widely re mental health law |
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GReedDiamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:26 AM Response to Reply #4 |
12. It seems to me that his "friends" were more likely acquaintances,.. |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:33 AM Response to Reply #12 |
19. Sure is. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:51 AM Response to Reply #12 |
36. Thank you for this... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 03:04 AM Response to Reply #4 |
49. What friends? People this sick often don't have any real friends. |
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maritimer (37 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:22 PM Response to Reply #4 |
66. they may not have been able to do much for him |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:22 AM Response to Original message |
10. My nephew sunk into heroin a year or so ago. |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:31 AM Response to Reply #10 |
16. people don't know what to do, so they sit tight & hope for the best. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 03:09 AM Response to Reply #16 |
51. And what could they have done? They can't force treatment. |
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kwolf68 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
15. I feel for these parents |
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Catherina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:49 AM Response to Original message |
35. "crying non-stop since Saturday" |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 02:07 AM Response to Original message |
43. I find it hard to believe they didn't know of some sort of mental issue with him. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 03:07 AM Response to Reply #43 |
50. Suppose they knew. He's an adult -- you can't force treatment |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:16 PM Response to Reply #43 |
64. I have a friend whose adult son is mentally ill. |
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Mojeoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 02:09 AM Response to Original message |
44. I'm sure that poor Mom and Dad have been worried about him for a while. |
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BlueCheese (897 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 02:35 AM Response to Original message |
46. Reminds me of the reactions... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
54. I couldn't imagine being in their position. |
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NotThisTime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 08:14 AM Response to Original message |
55. Is that why they boarded up their house and wouldn't let the FBI in? |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 08:32 AM Response to Reply #55 |
57. Maybe it is |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 08:53 AM Response to Reply #55 |
59. They were probably hiding from the media |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
60. This retired social worker tried to help families with this situation many times. |
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young_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 12:21 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. People forget that Reagan cut funding for mental health and it's been downhill ever since |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 12:30 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. Exactly (n/t). |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
65. You'll have to forgive me if I'm not shedding any tears. |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:24 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. Does your family know every aspect of everything you do? |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:34 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. Seeing as how I still live at home, yeah--I think they do. |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 02:53 PM Response to Reply #71 |
78. So they track your online activities, know what websites you post on, |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 05:02 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. The college that suspended him send the letter to his home |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 05:37 PM Response to Reply #81 |
85. And?? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 05:40 PM Response to Reply #85 |
86. Well many people who read the you tube videos attributed |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 06:55 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Oh, I agree, they make him look like a whackjob, but I don't recall anyhting suggesting violence.. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #65 |
73. Sometimes families can't because the law doesn't let |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
70. I feel bad for them |
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spanone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
72. i can't imagine.... |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
77. As an MHP I see this all too often. Who knows what their story is, but it's tragic. |
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foxfeet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. Well put. |
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steve2470 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-11-11 05:04 PM Response to Reply #77 |
82. Good post. |
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