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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 07:56 PM Original message |
My sexual harassment story: |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 07:58 PM Response to Original message |
1. good for you, unfortunately some people fear career ending retribution |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:12 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. I worried for about 10 minutes that I'd lose my job |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:35 AM Response to Reply #8 |
38. It's a little different when it's your boss |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:47 PM Response to Reply #8 |
44. That might be a life-threatening decision if you were alone with the guy. |
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Morning Dew (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:17 PM Response to Reply #1 |
11. True, that. One size does not fit all. |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
2. Good for you. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:34 PM Response to Reply #2 |
23. Bring on the hand wringers |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
3. K&R |
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RKP5637 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:02 PM Response to Original message |
4. +1000 +++ n/t |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
5. Love it |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
6. I heartily approve of the physical retaliation on the spot. Justice delayed is |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:25 PM Response to Reply #6 |
18. He ended up in prison for something |
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liberal N proud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
7. Good for you |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
9. That's what I'm talking about! |
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safeinOhio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:15 PM Response to Original message |
10. Muhammad Ali once said something like this. |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:18 PM Response to Original message |
12. I have a story too, but I am more sympathetic toward the women |
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JohnnyLib2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:24 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Completely realistic at that time. Hopefully a few things have |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:29 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. You would think that things have gotten better, but |
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la la (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:28 PM Response to Reply #16 |
31. i'm in my early 70s---and i have some of those same stories- |
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appleannie1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:28 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. In those days, you would have been considered a trouble maker and not hired anywhere else. |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:31 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. I agree. But do you think that it is any different today? |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:33 AM Response to Reply #19 |
36. Exactly |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 08:41 PM Response to Reply #12 |
59. it DEFINITELY would have ended your career for life |
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midnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:19 PM Response to Original message |
13. Women who fear for their jobs keep their mouths shut and just grin and bear it.... |
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appleannie1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
14. I 'accidentally' dropped a whole plate of spaghetti down a guys suit jacket and smeared it in with a |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:20 PM Response to Reply #14 |
29. Wanna start a support group? |
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RebelOne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:22 PM Response to Original message |
15. Yippee for you!!! Glad one of those jerks got what was coming to hin. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:21 PM Response to Reply #15 |
30. I'm sorry |
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la la (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:31 PM Response to Reply #15 |
32. me too, rebelone, me too...... n/t |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
17. Excellent! Next time he has to grab something, he'll grab his balls in fear, to keep someone |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
21. I'd like to slap |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:08 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Get in line |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 10:15 PM Response to Reply #26 |
35. OK....you |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
24. Slapping him makes you liable for assault. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:19 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. I don't care. I'd do the same thing again without blinking. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:39 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. You could call me for bail (if I could afford it) |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:56 AM Response to Reply #28 |
37. That's unfair. |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 12:28 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. it was violence to address violence! |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:45 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Read my post. |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 03:08 PM Response to Reply #43 |
55. what if what if what if. |
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Zoeisright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 02:22 PM Response to Reply #37 |
53. Bull. SHIT. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:49 PM Response to Reply #28 |
45. Would you do it if you were alone in a dark car and didn't know the guy |
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Voice for Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-09-11 01:41 PM Response to Reply #45 |
61. scary |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:39 AM Response to Reply #24 |
39. +1 |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 12:27 PM Response to Reply #24 |
40. did you read what he did to her? |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 02:12 PM Response to Reply #24 |
50. It depends on the state definitions: but reasonable force to stop a sexual assault is justified. |
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Fawke Em (79 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 02:19 PM Response to Reply #24 |
51. That's not true. |
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Cerridwen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
25. Kick. |
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Cerridwen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
27. Kick. |
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Voice for Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
34. great story but doesn't always work that way |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:51 PM Response to Reply #34 |
47. That was my point, too. She could do it because she was in a safe place |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
42. Many people grow up in abusive households. |
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Hubert Flottz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
46. Good for you... |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
48. It's the outrageous sense of entitlement |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
49. Someone start a page on Facebook, My Sexual Harassment Story. Give everyone a voice |
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Zoeisright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
52. Women also need to bite more often. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
54. i was on a bus and a guy groped me |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 08:23 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. +1 |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
57. Sounds like a clear case of self defense to me ... a guy tried to grab you ... |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 08:37 PM Response to Original message |
58. yeah well you were working in a bar |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
60. You had many people there to support you when it happened. Most women do not. |
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