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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:38 PM
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Marry a Muslim or die' threat to Harry Potter actress revealed as brother is jailed for beating her
Marry a Muslim or die' threat to Harry Potter actress revealed as brother is jailed for beating her up

The full horror of a three-hour attack on one of the stars of the Harry Potter films was revealed in court for the first time as her brother was jailed for beating her up.

Ashraf Azad has been locked up for six months after setting upon his sister Afshan having discovered she was involved in a relationship with a non-Muslim man.

Manchester Crown Court heard he left his younger sister bruised and swollen after grabbing her by the hair, throwing her across a room and punching her in the head and back as she cowered on the floor of the family home.

Actress Afshan, 22, played Padma Patil, a classmate of the young wizard at Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1349326/Harry-Potter-actresss-brother-jailed-nasty-attack-star-dating-non-Muslim.html#ixzz1BihCw8Am
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derby378 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:40 PM
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1. Uh-uh, NONE of that shit anymore
I hope that bigot has a little more time alone in his cell to reflect on his sins.
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icnorth Donating Member (954 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:47 PM
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8. Unless he was able to have
Second Amendment Bachmann as his roomie for a couple of months...
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derby378 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:30 PM
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28. We've finally found a use for Batshit Bachmann!
Saaaaalute! :patriot:
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TheMadMonk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:11 PM
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41. Stuff alone. Most prisons have a lifer with a special talent for...
...delivering a scientific beating. The sort of beating which marries a maximum of pain, with a minimum of injury.

It is amazing how often these individuals somehow end up in an exercise yard with a prisoner who manages to upset both the screws and the lags. eg. child abusers.
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derby378 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 03:45 PM
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61. "Scientific beating" is a term that makes me wince a bit
I think the falaka is scientific enough for me, thank you very much. :scared:
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:41 PM
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2. Religion is good how?
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 07:41 PM by Lucian
The world will be better off without religion.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:35 PM
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30. Fundamentalism is good how?
The world would be better off without fundamentalists trying to force their will on others.
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:48 PM
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34. It'd be better without religion.
Religion is irrational. Irrationality is the reason why our country is going down the shithole. If religion were gone, maybe it'd make people think more rationally.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:18 PM
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43. Having personal privately held beliefs is...evil? Interesting definition of irrationality. eom
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:52 PM
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46. Look what their beliefs do.
It's around you. Hatred of homosexuals, acts like what just happened to this "Harry Potter" actress, female circumcision, suicide bombers, the West Bank, The Crusades, Israel, Hezbollah, Sunnis, Shiites, Kurds, Islam, Priests and little boys...the list goes on. Do I really need to spell it out for you?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:55 PM
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47. Sounds like Fundamentalism is the problem. Not individual countries or everyone of a certain religio
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 09:57 PM by uppityperson
Yes. Spell out how anyone who has any belief is part of that nastiness. Please. Tell me how I am. Tell me how I, and any other DUers who may hold any sort of belief are irrational and part of that nastiness. Please.
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 10:20 PM
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49. I don't want to waste anymore of my time with you.
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 10:21 PM by Lucian
Watch the show House and pay attention to Dr. House's views on religion. I share those same exact views.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 10:23 PM
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50. You can not answer. OK. Bye. Thanks for insulting me and all who hold any sort of belief
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 10:24 PM by uppityperson
Fundamentalism is harsh on many.
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Richard Steele Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 10:26 PM
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51. HOUSE? Welcome to "ignore". nm
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 10:43 PM
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52. I'll sure miss your snark towards me.
:)
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antigone382 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 04:27 PM
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63. Female circumcision is not religious in origin. It is a cultural practice.
It is practiced throughout the region, in both Muslim and non-Muslim areas. The one Muslim text that mentions female circumcision says that if it is going to be done, a more mild form that retains the capacity for sexual pleasure should be performed.

If you study anthropology, you will see that the values that spring up in religious beliefs generally reflect the society itself, rather than vice versa.
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antigone382 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 04:23 PM
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62. Have you looked at your avatar recently???
I have been an atheist for several years now...but the belief that religion is responsible for human irrationality is a pretty irrational belief in itself. Religion is like any other human institution; it can be used for great good, or great evil. In the absence of religion, people will find other reasons to hate and dehumanize one another, whether it be race, nationality, political belief, or any other difference that can be exploited by the powerful to incite the ignorant.

The bottom line is that religion a part of this world and a part of many peoples' worldview, and nothing you ever do is going to remove it. Adopting the stance that religion is fundamentally evil, and everyone who has a religious faith must be fundamentally irrational and unworthy of respect is both useless, destructive, and profoundly ignorant of human nature.
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TheManInTheMac Donating Member (512 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 04:39 PM
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64. +1,000,000
I'm so sick of phony atheists who are really just anti-religion. They get under my skin as much as any other proselytizer, maybe more.
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MicaelS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 04:46 PM
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65. You have the temerity to say this?
While you have a man who was a committed Christian and an ordained Minister as your avatar? Talk about disconnects.
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demosincebirth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:02 PM
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38. Ditto.
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DCKit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 11:59 AM
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56. Fundamentalism is hardly an excuse in this case. He was also drunk.
Not quite sure how that fits with ANY fundy beliefs, be they Xtian, Muslim, or whatever.

He's a hypocritical, misogynistic freak who claims to be religious.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 03:01 PM
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57. It's that old pick and chose parts of whatever religion you want.
Another part of many types of Fundamentalists is the picking and chosing of which parts you want to impose on others. Many are hypocritical misogynist freaks who claim to be religious.
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DCKit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 03:11 PM
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58. That's a given.
My point is the drinking. Isn't that a stoning offense for "religious" Muslims?

He's probably quite the player, too.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 03:17 PM
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59. I am in agreement with you. It is very hypocritical. eom
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:42 PM
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3. The Daily Mail isn't a reliable source...
It's a bigoted and incredibly unreliable source...
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:44 PM
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5. I thought the same but unfortunately, this appears to be a legit story.
I googled it and it's all over every reputable source as well from cbs news, to Huffington Post and more.

What a shame.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:52 PM
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12. Thanks. It's a real shame some DUers use the Daily Mail as a source n/t
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:57 PM
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15. Well gee, how about a list of accepted papers?
That'd make it a lot easier on everyone. I'm sorry you don't like the newspaper or the article. As has been shown it was a legitimate news story regardless of the source.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:00 PM
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19. What bit of the newspaper being a hatemongering source is difficult to get?
This isn't difficult to comprehend. No-one's telling you to work from an accepted list of sources. What's been pointed out is that you posted a link to a source that's a site that engages in hatred and bigotry. If you want to keep on posting from it, go for yr life...
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:45 PM
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6. How's this?
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:50 PM
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11. If you had another source, why post the Daily Mail at all? n/t
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:55 PM
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13. I searched for another source after your comment...
I saw the article and posted it. Did not know anything about the paper, just the article.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:58 PM
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16. No worries. There was a discussion of the Daily Mail in the UK forum not long ago...
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=191x32644

It's a nasty one and many American DUers aren't aware of just how nasty it is. I reckon it's always worth pointing it out coz most people like yrself will post from an alternative and reliable source next time :)
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:02 PM
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20. You wouldn't have any opinion on the actual story, would you?
Since we've sorted out the bit about the Daily Mail.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:03 PM
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23. I do. Do you? n/t
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:06 PM
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25. Yeah. I think it's seriously fucked up.
I think someone needs to go to prison.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:10 PM
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26. We're on the same page there...
The father should be sent to prison as well as he also threatened to kill her. Nasty business...
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Mojeoux Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:36 PM
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45. Thanks Will
The HP article had a FB link and the other one didn't. Don't let the Judgey Mc Judgersons get you down about your news source.

This topic comes at people sideways anyway.

This abuse is why one of the best friend's of my life, ran away away away away away from her family in 1970.

Religion is no excuse, it just makes good Muslims look bad. It is sexism and racism and we in free societies cannot abide these family secrets anymore.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:00 PM
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18. Edit. Delete.
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 08:01 PM by Warren DeMontague
Not aware of the whole Daily Mail brou-ha-ha.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:02 PM
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22. Deleted by me n/t
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 08:05 PM by Violet_Crumble
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:48 PM
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10. in this case, it looks like they're not unreliable
Brother jailed for attack on 'Harry Potter' star

(AFP) – 56 minutes ago

LONDON — The brother of a "Harry Potter" film actress was jailed for six months Friday for assaulting her because her boyfriend was not Muslim.

Afshan Azad, 21, who played Potter's classmate Padma Patil in the smash hit films, was subjected to a "prolonged and nasty" beating over her Hindu boyfriend, Manchester Crown Court in northwest England heard.

Her brother Ashraf, 28, overheard her talking on the phone to her boyfriend and subjected to her a lengthy ordeal before her family in which she feared for her life.

During the row at the family home in Manchester on May 21 last year, she was branded a "slag" and a "prostitute" and told: "Marry a Muslim or you die!"

The actress called for leniency and begged the judge not to jail her brother.

However, Roger Thomas sent Ashraf Azad to prison for six months after he pleaded guilty to assault occasioning actual bodily harm.
<snip>

http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5gO5eGL91XG_dE77_TKslAOwSrLxg?docId=CNG.8c7c2d37b80a7efbfd66908fa452bb99.ba1

12:45PM GMT 21 Jan 2011

Afshan Azad, 21, who played Padma Patil, a classmate of the teenage wizard, in the blockbuster Hollywood films based on JK Rowling's children's books, feared for her life during the three-hour ordeal, Manchester Crown Court heard.

She was punched, dragged around by her hair and strangled by her brother Ashraf Azad, 28, who threatened to kill her after he caught her talking on the phone to her Hindu boyfriend on May 21 last year, the court was told.

During the row at the family home in Longsight, Manchester, which also involved her mother and father, she was branded a ''slag'' and a ''prostitute'' and told: ''Marry a Muslim or you die!''

<snip>

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/film/film-news/8273984/Brother-of-Harry-Potter-star-jailed-for-attacking-her.html
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:56 PM
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14. Of course the Daily Mail is an unreliable source...
People don't get to pick what they like and don't like out of it. It's an unreliable source all the time with no exceptions. And that's what I was pointing out, not that there might actually be some basis to the actual story itself...
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:59 PM
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17. the story they printed was factual
ergo, it is not unreliable in this instance, though I wouldn't argue with you that it is an unreliable source.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:04 PM
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24. Fair enough. I read the HuffPo one posted in this thread, btw...
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 08:06 PM by Violet_Crumble
I didn't even bother clicking on the link to the Daily Mail...
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druidity33 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:43 PM
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32. wait a minute...
you consider HuffPo a reliable source?

:shrug:

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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:08 PM
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40. Of course I do. Shouldn't I?
If it's a hatemongering rag fuelled by racism and bigotry, I'll stand corrected, but I haven't noticed that when I read it...
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druidity33 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 07:19 AM
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54. maybe not as hateful...
but just as biased.

:shrug:

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GoneOffShore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 10:57 PM
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53. The Daily Mail may be an "unreliable source"
The Telegraph, despite its distinctly Tory leanings is a paper that will invariably provide close to unbiased news coverage.

Their editorial page, on the other hand.......
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StarsInHerHair Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:30 PM
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29. lovely peaceful religious advertizement there......
nt
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BOG PERSON Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:02 PM
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21. the daily mail!
cor blimey moppet! wot-wot! bloody 'ell innit!
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:43 PM
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4. All fundamentalism is fundamentally anti-woman
as well as wrong.

ALL fundamentalism...including free-market fundamentalism.
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:45 PM
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7. +1000. could not have said it better. nt
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HillbillyBob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 07:47 PM
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9. Putting the mental into fundymentalism....
nt
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:18 PM
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27. Religion = Evil.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:37 PM
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31. Fundamentalists trying to force their will on others=Evil.
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BOG PERSON Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:53 PM
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36. n/m
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 08:56 PM by BOG PERSON
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BOG PERSON Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:53 PM
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35. if you think there are good and evil things in this world
maybe you should give religion another shot
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:32 PM
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44. Atheist stereotype FAIL.
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Le Taz Hot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 07:32 AM
Response to Reply #35
55. Why in the world would you equate good/evil with
religion? Just because all religions claim the concepts as their own doesn't make it so. That's like saying in order for a person to be ethical and honest they have to be religious. No connection there.
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WillyT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:48 PM
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33. It's A Cultural Thing, Don'tcha Know...
:mad:

:puke:

:kick:
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saras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 08:58 PM
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37. What's unusual about the Daily Mail
Sure it's unreliable, a hatemonger, and is regularly shown up as a liar.

So is every other mass media outfit I've encountered in my whole life. Are we to not quote any of them on DU ever?

God knows the New York Times hasn't done much better. Fact-check their reporting of Al Gore, for example.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:05 PM
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39. Yr comparing the Daily Mail to the New York Times??
Edited on Fri Jan-21-11 09:07 PM by Violet_Crumble
The Daily Mail is incredibly racist. Have you ever looked at it before? Getting something wrong about Al Gore is not racist or hatemongering, btw...

Here's a link to a thread about the Daily Mail that was in the UK forum recently. Many Americans are totally unaware of what sort of source it is, which is why when it's posted at DU people need to be told. Many of them would avoid posting from it once they're aware of what it is...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=191x32644
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:12 PM
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42. Enforce the fucking LAW. Easy.
And while we're at it, do likewise for pedophile clerics.
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genna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-11 09:57 PM
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48. How awful
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-11 03:18 PM
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60. Everyone is blaming this on religion when it's really the
Edited on Sat Jan-22-11 03:22 PM by Cleita
culture. Most of those "muslims" really don't practice that much. The fact the brother was drinking is testimony to that. It's really a cultural thing about family honor and more likely the family wanting to make a marriage that is beneficial to them. What the girl wants is unimportant to them. I had an Egyptian friend back when I was in college, who was Christian. It was the same dynamic and they married her off to a rich Lebanese son of one of her father's business associates even though she had fallen in love with an American. She was never beaten, but her brothers closed in on her when they heard of the romance with the American and they never left her alone until the day she was married to a man she hardly knew and didn't love.
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