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katty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 08:35 PM Original message |
Why Men Don't Listen to Women |
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FormerDittoHead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
1. How long is this going to be? Just get to the point, please. |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
2. Well, I guess I'm among the 9% |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
3. Works both ways. |
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enough (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 09:07 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Absolutely. I am a woman and mother of two adult daughters. I was reading this |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 09:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. i had a woman tell my son in the grocery store laughing, .... men dont know anything about cooking |
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OneTenthofOnePercent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:06 AM Response to Reply #9 |
24. My wife and M.I.L are terrible cooks. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:10 AM Response to Reply #24 |
26. i didnt use my oven/stove for over 6 months when i moved into house when single. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:48 AM Response to Reply #9 |
35. As soon as our sons could safely use the stove, I taught them to cook |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:51 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. "did their own laundry & had to clean their own bathrooms" damn, i have to get on that |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:55 AM Response to Reply #37 |
40. I gave up on their rooms.. I just shut the door |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:10 AM Response to Reply #35 |
42. +1 |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:13 AM Response to Reply #42 |
44. My 36 yr old son still has his "airplane quilt I made for him when he was 5" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:20 AM Response to Reply #44 |
47. thing is, i grew up with two brothers, have two sons. i see, that their want and need no different |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 07:17 PM Response to Reply #47 |
74. good point! |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 07:42 AM Response to Reply #3 |
19. The article doesn't say "all men"... |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
4. I provide care for a couple celebrated their 70th Anniversary last weekend |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 11:47 PM Response to Reply #4 |
13. My parents will celebrate their 65th anniversary next Wednesday |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
5. Aw, STHU. |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
6. It's not rocket surgery - life is just much less interesting when we listen to all that |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
8. If I had a dime for every girl and woman who complains about men not listening, |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 10:02 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Did you just say something? |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 11:29 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. See what I mean? |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:33 AM Response to Reply #8 |
49. Bea, were you saying something? |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 12:24 PM Response to Reply #49 |
71. I get the feeling that you do listen to the lady in your life. |
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Gaedel (802 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:46 AM Response to Reply #8 |
53. I selectively listen |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 12:27 PM Response to Reply #53 |
72. Hmmm, I don't know........... |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:02 AM Response to Reply #8 |
61. But I have the same situation with my teenagers all the time. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:05 AM Response to Reply #61 |
62. lmfao. that is so fuckin funny. and so true. i am going to use that |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:13 AM Response to Reply #62 |
66. ...and I left out the laundry list of other favors, demands and pipe-dreams that were.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:15 AM Response to Reply #66 |
67. bah hahaha. my oldest, the talker, just took drivers ed. i tell him, need to focus on driving |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 12:32 PM Response to Reply #61 |
73. Well, teenagers are from another planet. |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 10:00 PM Response to Original message |
10. It's stuff like this that makes me happy to have chosen to remain single all my life, |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:38 AM Response to Reply #10 |
50. Same here. I have run into lots of men like this, |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:08 AM Response to Reply #50 |
65. It IS the Xtian way. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-27-11 11:54 PM Response to Original message |
14. Well, MAYBE if women stopped talking SO much we'd assume it's important when they do! |
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Shrek (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:13 AM Response to Reply #14 |
28. +1 trillion |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:11 AM Response to Reply #14 |
43. -1 |
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harun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:13 AM Response to Reply #14 |
45. +1, we can only absorb so much.... |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:40 AM Response to Reply #14 |
51. I've actually gotten the opposite complaint... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:54 AM Response to Reply #51 |
56. my brother is very expressive. his wife was not. he would get so frustrated she would not talk |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:54 AM Response to Reply #14 |
55. +1 and I 'm a woman |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 01:33 AM Response to Original message |
15. "Men have fragile egos and you have to PROTECT them." |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 07:38 AM Response to Reply #15 |
18. the weaker sex. i am so damn tired of having to consider males fragile ego. i mean, wtf |
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Shandris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 03:48 AM Response to Original message |
16. The one about problem solving gets me. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:47 AM Response to Reply #16 |
34. I didn't like the one about rationality, and I'm a woman. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:53 AM Response to Reply #34 |
38. one of the things i love the most, having a mate. he grounds me when i need it. BUT |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 03:52 AM Response to Original message |
17. Maybe it's because a lot of times they talk about stuff we don't care about. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:28 AM Response to Reply #17 |
48. LOL |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 07:50 AM Response to Original message |
20. I divorced that problem right out of my life |
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OneTenthofOnePercent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 07:53 AM Response to Original message |
21. Probably hearing loss from the persistance or prior nagging. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 07:56 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. my husband and youngest son nag. my oldest and i dont. but we love them anyway. roles.... |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:50 AM Response to Reply #21 |
36. Oh, right.....maybe they wouldn't have to be nagged if they didn't expect women to do everything. |
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SmileyRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
23. Mine doesn't need to listen |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:33 AM Response to Reply #23 |
68. Exactly my situation. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:10 AM Response to Original message |
25. Yawn. I am personally tired of validating and emotionally supporting |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:11 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. there you go. i am so all over this. nt |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:16 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Sometimes when my ego is hurt, I lash out emotionally. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:19 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. lmfao. nt |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 11:27 AM Response to Reply #25 |
70. +1 |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
30. What? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
32. Listening sucks. |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:20 AM Response to Original message |
33. Two Way Street |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 08:55 AM Response to Reply #33 |
39. both my boys are capable and willing. but we do the same with them. they want to be heard |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:05 AM Response to Reply #33 |
41. I hated that idiotic Venus and Mars book. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:59 AM Response to Reply #41 |
58. I can identify with that |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:14 AM Response to Original message |
46. Same Sex Couples |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:01 AM Response to Reply #46 |
60. What was the Kate Millet essay that was so famous? |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:45 AM Response to Original message |
52. This is a personality thing, not a gender thing. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
54. lol |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
57. There is going to be some lag there from the days |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:06 AM Response to Reply #57 |
64. Palin, Bachman, Angle and O'Donnell don't help! ... so true. +1. nt |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
59. I'm sorry,I wasn't listening. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
63. What?... Sorry, I was......nt |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
69. Sorry can you start over? I wasn't listening. |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-28-11 07:42 PM Response to Original message |
75. Uh huh. Yep. That's whatever you were talking about for you. |
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