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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:36 PM Original message |
why do girls/women still expect boys/men to pay on the date? |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
1. do they? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:41 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. you think whoever asks should have to pay? what if a friend asks? do you expect the friend to pay? |
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WHEN CRABS ROAR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:53 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. It should be made clear beforehand who is paying or sharing. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:56 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. Yeah, or a "you get the tickets, I get the popcorn" type thing. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:59 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. that is what i always did. nt |
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RUMMYisFROSTED (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:25 AM Response to Reply #10 |
224. But the popcorn costs twice as much as two tickets! |
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Mojeoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:06 PM Response to Reply #224 |
250. Men STILL make more money than women |
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RUMMYisFROSTED (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 04:19 PM Response to Reply #250 |
317. For popcorn AND tickets? |
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trueblue2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:25 PM Response to Reply #1 |
254. THEY DON'T. What a stupid sterotype for the original poster to make. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:55 PM Response to Reply #254 |
257. in the op i put that i paid my own way too. so, obviously from the start it is not ALL |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-04-11 04:15 PM Response to Reply #254 |
334. That isn't the norm and truth is never a stereotype. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:43 PM Response to Original message |
3. Around here the guys pay and expect something in return. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:45 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. i have never had such low standards as to ever deal with or allow a moocher. both |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:50 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. As I said, many guys expect "something" in return. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:51 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. hm... |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:03 PM Response to Reply #6 |
289. Here's a catch-22 |
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BeFree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:53 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. so.. if a woman pays |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:58 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. how often do we hear from men that men are paying for it one way or another. |
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BeFree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:07 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. well I prefer sahring |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:09 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. lol. that is another reason i wanted to pay my own way. i would get the littlest and cheapest |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:58 PM Response to Reply #8 |
75. Yes, by God. I expect the dishes and at least two loads of laundry. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:59 PM Response to Reply #75 |
78. bah hahahaha. lol. nt |
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BeFree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:24 PM Response to Reply #75 |
108. That would be fine |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:34 AM Response to Reply #75 |
183. *snort* |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
9. I don't have a problem paying. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:00 PM Response to Reply #9 |
17. i bet, if you are making more money, you have bigger bills. nt |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:07 PM Response to Reply #17 |
23. Eh, I have more money because I have few bills. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:10 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. good for you. |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:21 PM Response to Reply #23 |
290. 'zactly |
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leftstreet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
11. If a lady invites a gentleman to her home for a meal, who pays? |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:57 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. The dishwasher. |
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tinymontgomery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:34 PM Response to Reply #13 |
56. The Lady |
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krawhitham (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:43 PM Response to Reply #56 |
62. self delete |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:01 PM Response to Reply #11 |
19. the guys that would have a real issue would then be treated to dinner at my house |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:59 AM Response to Reply #11 |
211. No money exchanges hand. The gentleman should bring wine for the meal. |
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leftstreet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:22 PM Response to Reply #211 |
273. Who bought the groceries? What is her labor worth if she cooked it? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:50 PM Response to Reply #273 |
275. i love du. we are all just so funny.... nt |
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amandabeech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 02:06 AM Response to Reply #11 |
303. In olden days, |
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cui bono (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 02:39 PM Response to Reply #11 |
306. The neighbors |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
12. I haven't dated in a while but 10-15 yrs ago |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
14. I think it's one of those old fashioned notions that is dying out. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:03 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. oh good, lol. you bring me another good to hear. i haev been out of it for a while |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:14 PM Response to Reply #20 |
33. Oops rePlied to wrong post |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:18 PM Response to Reply #33 |
37. when he brought this up, this is what i was thinking. since he is already nervous with just startin |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:29 PM Response to Reply #37 |
52. Refreshments are way costlier, haha. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:31 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. i know. i dug down deep and gave youngest 16. he was short.... |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:35 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. We sneak candy in and just pay for the soda. Still ridiculous. 1000% profit margin for them. |
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jp11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:03 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. Paying is half the 'conservative outdated notion' the first half is who asks who out. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:11 PM Response to Reply #21 |
28. Yep. Again, times are changing, but the notion that women who ask men out |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:13 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. i would really think that has gone along the roadside, for sure. i see no reason for that. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:23 PM Response to Reply #32 |
45. Yes, even more than the old tradition of who pays. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 01:58 AM Response to Reply #28 |
186. Glad to hear that |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:31 PM Response to Reply #21 |
291. Seems we (collectively) have common ground, but it begs... |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
18. It's called etiquette. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:11 PM Response to Reply #18 |
29. Yeah, but, it really depends on context. If you ask someone out, the assumtion is you're paying... |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:15 PM Response to Reply #29 |
36. Sure. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:22 PM Response to Reply #36 |
42. Same here. I would have a very difficult time letting the woman pay. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:24 PM Response to Reply #42 |
46. no way. you never had a woman say, nope, gotta share in the cost? |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:18 PM Response to Reply #18 |
38. I was about to write the same sentence. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:03 PM Response to Reply #38 |
126. I've found that men tend to offer, and I do accept that as normal conditioning. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:20 PM Response to Reply #126 |
131. Well, I think that if a guy asks me out he should treat. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:04 AM Response to Reply #131 |
189. I get that, but I'm not comfortable with that, myself. |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:48 PM Response to Reply #126 |
293. I agree with both points. |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:04 AM Response to Reply #38 |
213. why Bea, would you like a banky? on me, of course.... |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:21 AM Response to Reply #213 |
232. Thank you!!! |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:27 AM Response to Reply #232 |
233. Bea, i'm not some kind of cad you know! |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:22 PM Response to Reply #233 |
238. Says he.............. |
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amandabeech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 02:17 AM Response to Reply #18 |
304. That's how things went back in the '80s when I was dating. |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
22. I've think that there are two types of women now. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:11 PM Response to Reply #22 |
30. interesting. good to hear |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
26. They do? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:15 PM Response to Reply #26 |
35. lol lol. i am with you. granted, i have been out of it a while. i have heard men talk on du... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:40 PM Response to Reply #35 |
118. I just feel that first and second dates are often awkward |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
31. My 23 yr old daughter tells me that the person who does the asking out, pays for the date. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:20 PM Response to Reply #31 |
40. look at you, lol. you have a daughter in the know. |
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Luminous Animal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:04 PM Response to Reply #31 |
127. I'm 52 and that was the expectation during my dating days, oh so long ago. |
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spooky3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:34 PM Response to Reply #127 |
140. exactly |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
34. broad brush generalizations are rarely, if ever, productive |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:23 PM Response to Reply #34 |
43. +1 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:26 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. hey... i have learned a lot. and i have heard a lot of men bitch about it... on du |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:40 PM Response to Reply #48 |
59. i don't know where or with whom you hang out |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:45 PM Response to Reply #59 |
64. i have heard it a number of times. a lot. on du. from a lot of men. often. lol |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:25 PM Response to Reply #48 |
133. I've never heard that either. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
39. the only women that I know who want guys to pay are those looking for someone who |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:23 PM Response to Reply #39 |
44. interesting, and good to know. i can revise my impression of what is happening out there |
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antigone382 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
41. I think society expects the genders to relate that way, more than one expecting the other. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:28 PM Response to Reply #41 |
51. wow |
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antigone382 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:42 PM Response to Reply #51 |
61. Like I said, it was a result of my own choices. You learn as you go. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:51 PM Response to Reply #61 |
67. well, |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
47. Women were paid a lot less back then |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:30 PM Response to Reply #47 |
53. this is what i told my son.... about way, way back then, lol. and |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
49. I didn't. I usually offered to go dutch. It depended on the situation, though, |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
50. The Sunday NY Post had an article on dating in NYC. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:33 PM Response to Reply #50 |
55. one woman whose date "forgot" his wallet 3 dates in a row |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:00 PM Response to Reply #55 |
125. Yeah, she dumped him after that date. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:45 PM Response to Reply #50 |
122. Is this NYC as a WHOLE, or just Manhattan? n/t |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:51 PM Response to Reply #122 |
123. It said NYC. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:45 PM Response to Reply #50 |
156. In what sense is that balance? |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:50 PM Response to Reply #156 |
160. Yep |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
58. Probably because there are enough women who expect it |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:42 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. Well, if they'll be furious, why would you want to go out with them anyway? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:52 PM Response to Reply #60 |
68. ya. lol. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:52 PM Response to Reply #60 |
69. Sex most likely |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:56 PM Response to Reply #69 |
73. The planet will *never ever* be lacking for floozies. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:58 PM Response to Reply #73 |
77. Then the world will never be short of men |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:00 PM Response to Reply #77 |
81. so, you really are saying it. geeez. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:10 PM Response to Reply #81 |
88. That some people are willing to trade sex for money? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:11 PM Response to Reply #88 |
89. we are talking about a date. a date. not buying a prostitute to use for sex. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:13 PM Response to Reply #89 |
91. No, in that conversation that you insinuated yourself in to |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:14 PM Response to Reply #91 |
93. you twisted a date into a floozie which was my whole point. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:15 PM Response to Reply #93 |
96. No I didn't |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:16 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. uh hu. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:20 PM Response to Reply #97 |
102. No seriously |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:24 PM Response to Reply #102 |
107. ooops, he bought me an icecream then we went home and had sex. i am a floozie now. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:30 PM Response to Reply #107 |
112. Break everything that occurs in a relationship down in to discrete bits |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:59 PM Response to Reply #73 |
80. floozies? so is the guy having sex a floozie too. or is it just a woman that wants sex a floozie |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:11 PM Response to Reply #80 |
90. Not to speak for anyone else but |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:15 PM Response to Reply #90 |
95. so... define whore. same as floozie and prositute. you saying, a man buys woman dinner, sex=whore |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:18 PM Response to Reply #95 |
99. You seem intent on being offended here, for some reason |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:18 PM Response to Reply #90 |
98. . |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:19 PM Response to Reply #80 |
100. The male equivalent would be a horn-dog or a man-whore maybe. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:58 PM Response to Reply #69 |
76. so the men are paying to get them some.... ergo, all women are whores one way or another? lol |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:02 PM Response to Reply #76 |
83. What do you think the point of a date is? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:05 PM Response to Reply #83 |
85. this post |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:08 PM Response to Reply #85 |
86. Not fundamentally |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:38 PM Response to Reply #83 |
148. Ever seen the Pepsi commercial where a young couple is on a first date? |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:41 PM Response to Reply #148 |
151. Men want sex |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:55 PM Response to Reply #151 |
168. I don't know about the diet soda, but men definitely want sex. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:16 AM Response to Reply #168 |
180. I envy gay guys. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 01:58 AM Response to Reply #83 |
187. Women enjoy sex too, you know. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:39 PM Response to Reply #76 |
150. It took five weeks before my fiancee let me even kiss her. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:55 PM Response to Reply #150 |
165. Maybe... |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:58 PM Response to Reply #150 |
169. Hmmm, can you introduce me to some of those friends of yours? |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:37 AM Response to Reply #169 |
184. Plenty of guys are like that. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:26 AM Response to Reply #184 |
225. I'm an extrovert. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:04 AM Response to Reply #150 |
188. Good for you |
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OneTenthofOnePercent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:45 AM Response to Reply #150 |
218. Once upon a time, I dated my wife for about a year and a half before getting any. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:14 PM Response to Reply #69 |
94. So, the men who don't take into consideration |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:22 PM Response to Reply #94 |
105. You can agree with them |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:26 PM Response to Reply #105 |
109. Well, that would be my point. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:33 PM Response to Reply #109 |
113. That's using one broad-brush unsubstantiated claim |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:35 PM Response to Reply #113 |
114. What part of my statement was broad brushed ? |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:38 PM Response to Reply #114 |
115. Not what I meant |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:39 PM Response to Reply #115 |
116. Not getting you. Sorry. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:42 PM Response to Reply #116 |
120. You said this thread was in response to another |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:44 PM Response to Reply #120 |
121. Oh. I only brought up the other thread to give context. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:40 PM Response to Reply #115 |
117. Oh, I think I see my confusion. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:56 PM Response to Reply #69 |
124. ... |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:12 PM Response to Reply #124 |
129. And yet the OP assumes that all women are opposed to this |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:15 PM Response to Reply #129 |
130. It would seem that you do based on statements you've made. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:23 PM Original message |
My statements are all based on facts |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:26 PM Response to Original message |
134. Look, you're the one who said it. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:31 PM Response to Reply #134 |
135. Funny, I don't remember saying any of that |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:32 PM Response to Reply #135 |
137. It's in the title of your very first post. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:34 PM Response to Reply #137 |
142. I take it you didn't make it past the first sentence then? |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:33 PM Response to Reply #134 |
138. BTW: |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:34 PM Response to Reply #138 |
141. If it were only a minority, then the OP's position is false. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:36 PM Response to Reply #141 |
144. Ok I see the problem |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:37 PM Response to Reply #144 |
146. Nope. Read it all. n/t |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:39 PM Response to Reply #146 |
149. Clearly you did not |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:43 PM Response to Reply #149 |
153. You just aren't going to get it. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:46 PM Response to Reply #153 |
157. I'm not going to get my own argument/beliefs? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:51 PM Response to Reply #157 |
161. No, you aren't getting mine. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:53 PM Response to Reply #161 |
164. Like I said |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:08 AM Response to Reply #164 |
177. And it's not a complicated concept |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:50 PM Response to Reply #153 |
159. I get what you're trying to have me say |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:53 PM Response to Reply #159 |
163. I'm not saying what you claim I am, either. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:55 PM Response to Reply #163 |
166. Sigh, no I am not supporting the OP |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:58 PM Response to Reply #166 |
170. No, not all people act solely in their own self interest. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:59 PM Response to Reply #170 |
172. "The point is the custom doesn't persist. " |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:01 AM Response to Reply #172 |
174. Well, then I didn't misread you. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:04 AM Response to Reply #174 |
176. Ok, |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 04:25 PM Response to Reply #166 |
247. Nothing like a serious dose of libertarianism |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:38 PM Response to Reply #141 |
147. For instance |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:41 PM Response to Reply #147 |
152. The rest of your post was supporting what you said. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:45 PM Response to Reply #152 |
155. Wait, so my post supported what I said? The horror! |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:50 PM Response to Reply #155 |
158. Yep. You did. Exactly what I'm saying. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:51 PM Response to Reply #158 |
162. Ah and which statement exactly was I responding to? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:55 PM Response to Reply #162 |
167. But the OP wasn't just claiming it happens. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:58 PM Response to Reply #167 |
171. Perhaps I 'blew it off' because it wasn't my assertion? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:00 AM Response to Reply #171 |
173. I don't know why you blew it off. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:03 AM Response to Reply #173 |
175. The two posts that were broad-brushes were not mine |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:17 AM Response to Reply #175 |
181. YOu don't have to refute anything you don't want to. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:54 AM Response to Reply #181 |
207. It is confusion |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:33 AM Response to Reply #175 |
182. This might help. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:57 AM Response to Reply #182 |
209. Actually you kind of argued my case |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 01:46 AM Response to Reply #129 |
185. My whole point is that gender has nothing to do with opinions or values. |
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krawhitham (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
63. If the guy asks the girl out he pays, if the girl asks the guy out she pays |
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southernyankeebelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:46 PM Response to Original message |
65. If a guy asks her out then he should pay. I knew when a guy asked me out I usually |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:55 PM Response to Reply #65 |
72. Well that works out really well for the women since |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:22 PM Response to Reply #72 |
106. I suppose you could see it that way |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:30 AM Response to Reply #106 |
216. Yes it's my fault. That women didn't ask men out. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:33 AM Response to Reply #216 |
217. lol, wallude |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #217 |
249. not fair.... you changed your post. what happened. ah well. nt |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:28 PM Response to Reply #249 |
255. Fat lot of good it did me.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:58 PM Response to Reply #255 |
258. i thought the original post, before edited, was done tongue in cheek |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:36 AM Response to Reply #216 |
234. There are several women on this thread who say they have asked men out |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:23 PM Response to Reply #234 |
253. No I'm suggesting that in my day it was considered |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 04:58 PM Response to Reply #216 |
248. I've found that quite often |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:18 PM Response to Reply #248 |
251. Well when some anonymous poster comes on and |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 02:44 PM Response to Reply #251 |
308. You can of course point out the relevant passages... |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:10 PM Response to Reply #65 |
87. I always put out on a first date if the chemistry was right! I love sex! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:13 PM Response to Reply #87 |
92. you floozie. they are talking about you further up the post |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:19 PM Response to Reply #92 |
101. Yeah but I didn't say who paid for the date! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:21 PM Response to Reply #101 |
103. ya, well, and we both pay, at least we will both be floozies, lol. together. equally. nt |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:22 PM Response to Reply #92 |
104. Not in a negative way! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:26 PM Response to Reply #104 |
110. bah hahaha. k.... i am off to bed, with hubby. i made him dinner. he is such a |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:28 PM Response to Reply #110 |
111. I thought he was the cook... >:P |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:35 PM Response to Reply #87 |
143. Damn straight, I hate that shit where women take more flack for liking getting laid |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:44 PM Response to Reply #87 |
154. Really? |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:29 PM Response to Reply #154 |
276. I've been lucky insofar as all but one woman I've dated |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:08 PM Response to Reply #276 |
295. I have never done that. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:18 PM Response to Reply #295 |
298. Actually, the vast majority. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:34 PM Response to Reply #298 |
302. OK, it seems to work out for you. |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 02:33 PM Response to Reply #295 |
305. Huh? For reals, player? |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:00 PM Response to Reply #305 |
322. I don't sleep on first dates. |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:42 PM Response to Reply #322 |
330. I'm like the other guy... |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-03-11 09:29 AM Response to Reply #330 |
331. I didn't say that there was nothing to look forward to after sex. |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-04-11 04:11 PM Response to Reply #331 |
333. How can it be a guy/girl thing? |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:51 PM Response to Reply #154 |
281. I'm 50 years old. So this was more than 3 decades ago +/- |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:02 PM Response to Reply #281 |
294. Yep, life has a funny way of biting us in the butt. LOL!!! |
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musette_sf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:46 PM Response to Original message |
66. Since I never expected it |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:54 PM Response to Reply #66 |
71. yup, lol |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:53 PM Response to Original message |
70. Wow was there some kind of epiphany today? |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:59 PM Response to Reply #70 |
79. That thread was the reason for this thread. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:01 PM Response to Reply #70 |
82. actually, i have been going to start this thread a while. after a conversation with 15 yr old |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 09:58 PM Response to Original message |
74. When I was younger, I think I offered to split the bill. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:04 PM Response to Reply #74 |
84. i hear ya. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:15 AM Response to Reply #74 |
179. Nothing wrong with that. |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
119. My experience in California has been |
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tabbycat31 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
128. I don't |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
132. I always look at it as if I ask someone out then I pay. |
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Silver Swan (805 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
136. When I divorced back in 1999 after 27 years of marriage |
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spooky3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:33 PM Response to Original message |
139. Because, per Miss Manners, whoever does the inviting should expect to pay, unless |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:52 AM Response to Reply #139 |
193. lol... really, that has been his dating experience. one very persistent girl. |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-11 11:37 PM Response to Original message |
145. Women still make less than men, not to mention all kinds of other |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:09 AM Response to Original message |
178. I like when my guy pays. |
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pansypoo53219 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:15 AM Response to Original message |
190. price of make up, bras, pretty close and finally |
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Tx4obama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:31 AM Response to Original message |
191. If a man asks a woman out he should pay, open the door, and push her chair in. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:11 AM Response to Reply #191 |
194. Hah! :) |
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Tx4obama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:37 AM Response to Original message |
192. Here ya go seabeyond |
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a la izquierda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:48 AM Response to Original message |
195. I usually went dutch with my boyfriends... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:55 AM Response to Reply #195 |
196. husband and i were talking about this the other day. seperate accounts. |
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a la izquierda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:02 AM Response to Reply #196 |
198. Yeah, i couldn't care what others do or think... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:06 AM Response to Reply #198 |
199. ha ha ha. in this very conservative area, i love pulling out card to pay for dinner |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:57 AM Response to Original message |
197. The man who doesn't, at least initially, is a cheapskate at heart. He will protest the cost of |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:08 AM Response to Reply #197 |
200. i dont see that at all. my son will turn 16 soon and between school, cross country |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:12 AM Response to Reply #200 |
202. Pfft, if I ran across your twin it'd be like an infinite loop. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:16 AM Response to Reply #202 |
203. nah. cause i do it up front |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:19 AM Response to Reply #203 |
204. Gotcha, and yeah as I said up thread, generally that's how it works (at least for me). |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:22 AM Response to Reply #204 |
205. thumbs up. nt |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:57 AM Response to Reply #200 |
208. I said "man" specifically for a reason, and not "teen-ager." |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:58 AM Response to Reply #208 |
210. gotcha. thanks. nt |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:19 PM Response to Reply #210 |
262. Cool. :-) |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:09 AM Response to Reply #197 |
201. I'm an extraoridinary cheapskate, but I respect the formal conditions for dating. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:49 AM Response to Reply #197 |
206. If you're dating with the intention of finding Mr./Ms. Right, pay close attention |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:02 AM Response to Reply #206 |
212. lol... first, i agree. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:04 AM Response to Reply #212 |
214. Psssttt... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:07 AM Response to Reply #214 |
215. this is another issue i am having with culture today and stressing with the boys |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:48 AM Response to Reply #197 |
229. I agree. |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:21 PM Response to Reply #197 |
299. I agree. As I posted upthread, my past experience with guys who don't |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
219. You solve this issue by having sex first... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:14 AM Response to Reply #219 |
221. ah ha. you know |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
220. Being able and willing to pay is a signifier of high status in men |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:20 AM Response to Reply #220 |
223. there are a lot of women out there not marrying for money. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:42 AM Response to Reply #223 |
228. Oh sure. Being hot gives one higher status. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:58 AM Response to Reply #228 |
231. the thing about holding onto this as a must doesnt work for me because |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
222. I've never been on a date. |
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Little Star (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
226. When a man asks me out for a dutch treat date, if I accept, then I'll ... |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
227. They shouldn't |
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upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
230. Camille Paglia used to drive me nuts |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 01:21 PM Response to Reply #230 |
239. there is a lot she says i dont like. and there are things she says i think she is |
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upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:22 PM Response to Reply #239 |
252. from a distant memory, but... |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
235. An accounts payable guy once explained to me - If you don't ask for free stuff, you won't get it |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:18 PM Response to Original message |
236. Because they want to? None of anyone else's business, really, is it? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 12:22 PM Response to Reply #236 |
237. wow, you know, with this snarky comment we can not talk about ANYTHING on a discussion board |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:29 PM Response to Reply #237 |
264. "i don't think much of the woman that expects it. lol. just sayin." Start with snark, expect more. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:49 PM Response to Reply #264 |
265. opinion? not allowed? nt |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:59 PM Response to Reply #265 |
266. The comment in the OP wasn't opinion; it was judgmental hogwash. Just sayin' lol |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
240. Everytime I start to think I should get together with someone I read a DU thread on gender. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 01:43 PM Response to Reply #240 |
241. ah hahaha. chicken. lol. nt |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 01:50 PM Response to Reply #241 |
242. A smart chicken. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
243. As the mom of five sons and one daughter |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
244. I'm the first to say that I usually insist on paying. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:53 PM Response to Reply #244 |
246. lol lol, to a part of your post. |
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taught_me_patience (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
245. The person who asks should pay |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
256. Way too much nuance in this thread. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:01 PM Response to Reply #256 |
259. i love your line. that is so cute. |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:18 PM Response to Reply #259 |
261. Today's teens have to make their own decisions on this. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:15 PM Response to Reply #261 |
267. i dont dictate my sons behavior. has a damn fine head on his shoulders as far as decision |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
260. On the first few dates, of course he should pay! It's about respect |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:17 PM Response to Reply #260 |
268. how is it reciprocated? what is the equal that we are showing him the respect we define |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:27 PM Response to Reply #268 |
284. That's why any guy must be selective in |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:37 PM Response to Reply #284 |
286. ah. so a vested interest in whom he choses. lol. ok. nt |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:33 PM Response to Reply #260 |
277. What are you putting into it to earn his respect? nt |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
263. It's common etiquette. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:20 PM Response to Reply #263 |
270. i have never in a lifetime expected a friend to pay my way when we went out. ever. never a thought |
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PBS Poll-435 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:39 PM Response to Reply #270 |
274. I'm getting ribs and a Margarita. And maybe some cheesecake. |
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PBS Poll-435 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
269. I want to post on this thread so bad. So, so bad |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:21 PM Response to Reply #269 |
271. ooops, you did too. nt |
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PBS Poll-435 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 07:22 PM Response to Reply #271 |
272. :-) |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
278. All I can say is that when husband and I dated, whoever had money paid... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:44 PM Response to Reply #278 |
279. i hear ya. i like that. nt |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:01 PM Response to Reply #279 |
283. We were pretty broke in those days...kinda like we are now. :) n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:39 PM Response to Reply #283 |
287. i like it. because i dont want a man to feel his worth is in his money. and i dont |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
280. i dunno |
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Honeycombe8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
282. Because men like it that way (they think of themselves as "providers") and lots of women like it ` |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:36 PM Response to Reply #282 |
285. ah ha. cute. (money out window). thanks. nt |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
288. Doesn't this happen to everyone? |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
292. You know what this discussion really lacks? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 02:42 PM Response to Reply #292 |
307. what i see that really lacks is the men that think it ought to be both genders paying |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 03:40 PM Response to Reply #307 |
313. Yes, I noticed that, too... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 03:45 PM Response to Reply #313 |
314. can't really say much on that. i wouldnt like that person much. |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 03:54 PM Response to Reply #307 |
316. Honest to goodness, this is what my friend posted. This is awesome! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 04:21 PM Response to Reply #316 |
318. firstly, how would you like that awesome attitude of the men being "boys" yet she |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 04:38 PM Response to Reply #318 |
320. hahaha! It was precious, though, wasn't it?! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 04:52 PM Response to Reply #320 |
321. i cringed.... |
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 04:36 PM Response to Reply #307 |
319. seabeyond, what can you make of this? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:00 PM Response to Reply #319 |
323. what i make of it is.... |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:04 PM Response to Reply #319 |
325. Not all social opportunities require lots of money. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #307 |
324. Currency in a man's wallet serves the function of a peacock's feathers. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:24 PM Response to Reply #324 |
327. actually, when a man uses it as his peacock feathers,.... i am turned off. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-03-11 11:35 AM Response to Reply #327 |
332. We are exceptions to the rule. |
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UnDued11 (34 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
296. I always thought itwas more about who asked whom |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:17 PM Response to Reply #296 |
297. welcome. and i guess that is defining. "i would like to take you out". nt |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
300. most i know don't expect the guy to pay |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-11 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
301. I do expect a guy to cook for me but i would be willing to pay for the ingredients |
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Fearless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
309. I'm a fan of the "trade off" |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
310. I've been off the market a little while now but |
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RedCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
311. A lady once bought me a beer by complete surprise! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 03:28 PM Response to Reply #311 |
312. lol, that is so sweet, and unique conclusion you came to. |
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RedCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 03:47 PM Response to Reply #312 |
315. Yes the beer was good, on a hot day by a beach. |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
326. I don't know...there were times I'd take a woman out on a date who was employed and I wasn't... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:26 PM Response to Reply #326 |
328. doesnt it feel.... |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-02-11 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
329. I prefer dutch treat myself, unless where my date wants |
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