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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:37 AM Original message |
Author Joanne Faulkner says parents should get real on Santa instead of lying to kids |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
1. There's always somebody looking to get in the news. |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:43 PM Response to Reply #1 |
65. + |
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Paper Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:46 AM Response to Original message |
2. The author is a party pooper. Santa is just as much fun for adults. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
3. yada yada yada, was fun when kids were little. now older, fun for them to remember when they were |
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TNDemo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
4. I think I'm with her. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:56 AM Response to Reply #4 |
7. really? you werent able to figure out the fun in it. deiscern the disfference between |
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TNDemo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:11 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. They were pretty adamant about having to believe |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:17 AM Response to Reply #11 |
14. i hear ya. none of it was such a big deal. i am not much of a liar. i forget and dont hide well |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 09:36 AM Response to Reply #11 |
41. I was pretty old when I found out, probably about same age as you were, and |
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retread (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:42 AM Response to Reply #7 |
32. "it is that simple." Not exactly. The true meaning of xmas is buy, buy, buy! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:53 AM Response to Reply #32 |
35. depends how you play it as a parent. a parent can also use it as a lesson to implement the exact |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 09:06 AM Response to Reply #32 |
39. I believe that is a central theme in her book. Consumerism and innocence. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:18 AM Response to Reply #39 |
44. socks, underwear, bedspreads, posters, .... and now |
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nebenaube (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:52 AM Response to Original message |
5. Well, if that is that case |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:54 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. I tell my daughter glenn beck isn't real, she already figured out he was a fake though |
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retread (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:07 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Hope you're happy!! You just ruined it for the Beckerheads here!! n/t |
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dmallind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:01 AM Response to Original message |
8. perfectly correct |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:09 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. mewling pouts of kids inability to discern play from real is selective projecting also. nt |
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dmallind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:16 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. behavior a bit more forgiveable in children though, surely? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:20 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. hell yes kids are capable. they are very clever beings.... by the time they get to the age |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:26 AM Response to Reply #8 |
19. Yes, my brother told his son to lie to his schoolmates / teachers about being sick... |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:28 AM Response to Reply #8 |
22. learning fantasy from reality is part of growing up. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:35 AM Response to Reply #22 |
27. Uh, you can put on an insane facade if you really wanted to. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 09:38 AM Response to Reply #8 |
42. Great post. nt |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:17 AM Response to Original message |
13. I bet Dr. Faulkner is a hoot at parties. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:20 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. "Dr Faulkner has two children aged nine and 17." I guess you didn't read the linked article. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:29 AM Response to Reply #15 |
23. Goody! Everybody's favorite uncle is here! |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:39 AM Response to Reply #23 |
29. The conversation died. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:41 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. You responded to another post after mine, but you go on with your bad self. nt |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:21 AM Response to Original message |
17. oh horseshit. nt |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:22 AM Response to Original message |
18. lol. OK, Madame Grinch n/t |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:31 AM Response to Reply #18 |
25. This is journalistic sensationalism, this is likely the consumerization aspect of the book. |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
20. Kids figure it out on their own & tend to play along for a few years. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:32 AM Response to Reply #20 |
26. or/and because they enjoy it too. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:38 AM Response to Reply #20 |
28. I think most people don't do the Santa thing to any extreme extent. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
21. Note that she let her own kids believe |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:41 AM Response to Reply #21 |
31. Now you read the article. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:54 AM Response to Reply #31 |
36. I'll leave that to you, dear Uncle. I avoid judging other people |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 09:02 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. Some shoes are not fit for wearing. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:33 AM Response to Reply #38 |
48. Yeah, I find Sanctimonious Know-It-Alls neither sexy nor comfortable on my feet. |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
24. Part of the fun was wondering if he WAS real or not. |
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Coventina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:47 AM Response to Original message |
33. I agree, I think it's wrong to lie to children. I grew up not believing |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:52 AM Response to Original message |
34. I suspect that her heart is two sizes too small (nt) |
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GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:56 AM Response to Original message |
37. I plan on leveling with my son as well. I don't see the upside of leading him on ... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
40. I totally agree with her. I felt betrayed when I found out I'd been lied to about Santa. |
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TNDemo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:09 AM Response to Reply #40 |
43. Trust was probably an issue in mine too. |
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Coventina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:23 AM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Hi There TNDemo! We're on the same page with this issue, |
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TNDemo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:02 AM Response to Reply #46 |
50. Hi back! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:20 AM Response to Reply #40 |
45. i had a mother (and father) that i could trust with my best interest ALWAYS. |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:32 AM Response to Original message |
47. It worked for my kids - Christmas, Easter, & Halloween have always been fun games of make-believe |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
49. Every year, some wet blanket tries to out-Grinch the Grinch |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
51. Rec for your last line - I completely agree :) nt |
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Douglas Carpenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
52. a Swedish friend told me that it was the custom let children know that Santa Claus was make believe |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 09:29 PM Response to Reply #52 |
61. Agree -- an enlightened appraoch! |
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Angry Dragon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
53. Is she next going to go after churches and religions?? |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
54. Santa's bringing my girl a pit bull, GTA3, and a large SUV for Xmas |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
55. this kind of opportunism comes out every year. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 07:29 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. Indeed (nt) |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
57. They won't believe Jesus is real either. |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:13 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. Most historians of the period agree that Jesus existed. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:57 PM Response to Reply #62 |
69. "Most historians of the period".... according to Wikipedia. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
58. Of course, there will always be the people who will say |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
59. My older girl was furious at me when she finally found out. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
60. Agree ... felt slimey passing this lie onto our kids ... and |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
63. Looney toon |
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asdjrocky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
64. What dose she mean- |
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Zanzobar (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
66. Shall the circle be unbroken? |
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sylvi (169 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
67. I felt more betrayed when Mickey Dolenz changed his hairstyle |
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leftstreet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:58 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. LOL |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
68. "Parents should not create a fantasy...."? Fine. Stop taking them to church. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-14-10 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
70. Fuck off, lady n/t |
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