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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:42 AM Original message |
Lost in the supermarket |
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postulater (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:47 AM Response to Original message |
1. That is sick! |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
2. Your experience is identical to one I have had many times in Henderson County,Texas |
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Angry Dragon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
3. You should have reamed him a new one right there |
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DCKit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:09 AM Response to Reply #3 |
13. +1 The only thing they understand is public shaming. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:17 AM Response to Reply #13 |
25. 100% correct |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:21 AM Response to Reply #13 |
31. I considered it. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:08 AM Response to Reply #31 |
104. Well, it needn't have been obvious, really... |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 06:35 AM Response to Reply #104 |
229. Perfect.... |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 09:28 AM Response to Reply #104 |
242. You see, pipi_k, this is why I love you |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 09:35 AM Response to Reply #242 |
246. Uh, oh... |
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Enthusiast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 07:00 AM Response to Reply #13 |
235. I'm with you! nt |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:56 AM Response to Reply #3 |
80. Yep |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:11 PM Response to Reply #3 |
135. I think a letter (perhaps more than one) to his higher-ups will be as or more effective |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 09:30 AM Response to Reply #135 |
243. Do both.. .The customer at the check-out is a powerful figure. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
4. I'm just lucky that my most convenient supermarket is a union shop. |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:24 AM Response to Reply #4 |
34. my local markets are both union shops, thankfully. that does not stop me from calling corporate |
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spooky3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:49 PM Response to Reply #4 |
214. Agreed. And, if the employee is working late, that's not "part of the job" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
5. we dont know what is going on. what if she is consistently late? what if she relieves someone else |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:04 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Management, Ma'am, Is Best Presumed Guilty.... |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:58 AM Response to Reply #7 |
87. But, you know, only dirty leftist liberals think like that. |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:16 AM Response to Reply #87 |
114. A Baby's Tears, Sir, Are Mother's Milk To Me.... |
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redwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:15 AM Response to Reply #114 |
269. Mr. Magistrate Sir, I love you. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:24 AM Response to Reply #269 |
272. lol |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:04 PM Response to Reply #269 |
277. Sir, you are the bomb. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:05 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. It never makes it okay to speak with an employee like that in front of customers. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:08 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. yes... and it really was pretty gentle. what are we going to do with you. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:14 AM Response to Reply #11 |
18. It actually sounded like the manager was speaking to a three year old. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:17 AM Response to Reply #18 |
23. look, pulling her off reg, remembering and bringing into office after shift... that makes it a big |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:26 AM Response to Reply #23 |
38. A younger man "wagging his finger" at an older lady |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:27 AM Response to Reply #38 |
42. lets see... this is a job. not an age issue. employer, employee. if he behaved different |
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ms liberty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:27 AM Response to Reply #42 |
121. NO. What he did was wrong, no matter what the specific circumstances... |
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CrownPrinceBandar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:03 PM Response to Reply #121 |
133. You are correct.......... |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 06:40 AM Response to Reply #133 |
231. Exactly. |
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Brigid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:42 PM Response to Reply #38 |
189. Replies like this . . . |
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Enthusiast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 07:05 AM Response to Reply #38 |
236. DAMN RIGHT! nt |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:26 AM Response to Reply #23 |
39. NOT in front of a customer. EVER. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:12 AM Response to Reply #39 |
111. +1000000000 |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:26 AM Response to Reply #23 |
40. She was bagging, not on the register. Management can win. This |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:28 AM Response to Reply #23 |
43. SB, you're missing the point |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:31 AM Response to Reply #43 |
45. she may have been embarrassed because she lied. if she said, sorry, i was late |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:40 AM Response to Reply #45 |
57. Deleted message |
Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:36 AM Response to Reply #23 |
52. Obviously the OP thought it was very demeaning and he was there... |
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Dyedinthewoolliberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:49 AM Response to Reply #23 |
67. I must call, how do we say..... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:52 AM Response to Reply #67 |
72. having had issues with being on time. i have had exactly this done, with those words |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:08 AM Original message |
Like trying to explain to a blind-from-birth person what's the difference between red and green. |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:09 AM Response to Reply #18 |
105. Condescending. Very. n/t |
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Zoeisright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:39 AM Response to Reply #11 |
56. No, that isn't gentle. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:43 AM Response to Reply #56 |
60. not only have i tried, but i have eperienced exactly that. with exactly those words.... |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 06:45 AM Response to Reply #60 |
232. So |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:59 AM Original message |
It doesn't excuse the inappropriate dressing down of an employee in front of a customer. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
94. i jsut dont think it was much of a dressing down. and yes.... inappropriate works |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:09 AM Response to Reply #94 |
106. If I was that lady I would suffer enormous embarrassment from the kid's remark. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:14 AM Response to Reply #106 |
112. we dont even know if it caused pain. we dont know anything really |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #112 |
153. Well, not to put too fine a point on it, but if we "don't know" why not err on the |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 01:28 PM Response to Reply #153 |
154. i would be fine with that. but |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 09:11 AM Response to Reply #8 |
240. No, it's not...During my working life the "rule" was that you "correct" an employee |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:02 AM Response to Reply #240 |
261. I am hopeful that you are responding to the wrong post. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 07:51 PM Response to Reply #261 |
288. I believe I was just offering confirmation... |
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nuxvomica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:07 AM Response to Reply #5 |
9. It should be none of our business |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:38 AM Response to Reply #9 |
54. Quite true, and it was highly unprofessional but an older manager |
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ret5hd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:08 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. what difference does ANY of that make? he was publicly humiliating her! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:11 AM Response to Reply #10 |
14. i think it done pretty gently. i dont see "humiliation, berate". maybe no |
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Cirque du So-What (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:15 AM Response to Reply #14 |
20. It was still DONE IN PUBLIC...for at least the third iteration! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:18 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. he has all of ten seconds to let her know ... dont be late. pull off reg, take into office |
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Cirque du So-What (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:26 AM Response to Reply #27 |
41. Yeah, whatever... |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:37 AM Response to Reply #27 |
53. One, she was bagging, not on the register. Two, I assume that her shift |
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Angry Dragon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:17 AM Response to Reply #14 |
24. 'i was called into office' |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:20 AM Response to Reply #24 |
29. whatever. people want to make a big deal about this, roll eyes at management |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:29 AM Response to Reply #29 |
44. Look, I AM management and I would never reprimand |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:32 AM Response to Reply #44 |
48. i understand. i just dont see it as a big deal. may have rolled eyes at him |
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shimmergal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:33 AM Response to Reply #48 |
124. Giggling with the employee isn't |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:38 AM Response to Reply #124 |
126. meh... it happens. "(you've flubbed tis one.)". you should have seen outrage |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:27 PM Response to Reply #126 |
199. you cannot get in the way of three minutes of hate |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:30 PM Response to Reply #199 |
200. ya |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:44 AM Response to Reply #29 |
62. you are making a big deal of supporting an arrogant little punk with no people skills |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:46 AM Response to Reply #62 |
65. so, cause a number of people are responding to what i say, and i am answering their post, i am makin |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:34 AM Response to Reply #29 |
125. It's not about "being justified being late"! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:41 AM Response to Reply #125 |
127. and we dont know that he is a creepy little asshole manager either.... |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 01:12 PM Response to Reply #127 |
151. IMO, people who humiliate others in public |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #151 |
152. that is how we operated. so tell me... he asks, what time. she says sorry boss. late. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:06 PM Response to Reply #152 |
158. None of it would have happened |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:14 PM Response to Reply #158 |
160. oh, come one. that is so stretchin it, she clocks in and such warped concept of time |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:13 PM Response to Reply #160 |
197. You are assuming she lied |
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underseasurveyor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:28 PM Response to Reply #125 |
215. +++++++++++++1 |
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hugo_from_TN (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:54 AM Response to Reply #125 |
274. Maybe she should show a little respect for the manager if she wants some in return. |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 02:28 PM Response to Reply #274 |
285. you just don't get it, do you? one NEVER reprimands an employee in front of customers, other |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:39 AM Response to Reply #14 |
55. It is a big deal. Good management would never allow this admonishment in front of the customers. |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:57 AM Response to Reply #55 |
131. Absolutely. n/t |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:40 AM Response to Reply #14 |
58. Doing it in public is unprofessional. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:44 AM Response to Reply #58 |
63. yes. and still, not an OUTRAGE, or degrading, humiliating, belittling |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:46 AM Response to Reply #63 |
64. As you can tell, you stand alone on this one. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:49 AM Response to Reply #64 |
66. yes. i can tell i stand alone. me, all by myself. that is ok. i dont have to be a group |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:51 AM Response to Reply #66 |
69. All I ask is that you, please, never consider a job in management and/or |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:52 AM Response to Reply #69 |
71. Agreed. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:53 AM Response to Reply #69 |
74. not only management, but owner. now, without any knowledge, tell me how you feel sorry |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:56 AM Response to Reply #74 |
78. Nope. Remember, I'm not the outraged one, you are. With that I will say... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:57 AM Response to Reply #78 |
83. wait... you have all the knowledge you need? this is it? lol. and no, you arent going to say it, |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:59 AM Response to Reply #83 |
89. Yes this has become a joke. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:02 AM Response to Reply #89 |
95. i could also say, that it says something if you think this is all it takes.... |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:06 AM Response to Reply #95 |
101. It was? Your initial post was in defense of the indefensible. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #101 |
110. i dont think it is a big deal. that is all i have said. i have agreed |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:51 AM Response to Reply #66 |
70. Wow. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:54 AM Response to Reply #70 |
75. what? it does not matter what i say, you will be outraged. you point out i am alone |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:57 AM Response to Reply #75 |
82. The only outrage I have seen has come from you, sb. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:58 AM Response to Reply #82 |
88. ah sm... really? nt |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:59 AM Response to Reply #88 |
90. Really nt. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:09 AM Response to Reply #88 |
107. Yes, really. You seem to be the only one who thinks that belittling a person |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:16 AM Response to Reply #107 |
113. i have had management say this to me.... and i was younger. men tend to talk to women this way |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:02 PM Response to Reply #113 |
157. It's funny you say that |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:18 PM Response to Reply #157 |
161. do you see anywhere i am justifying the behavior. i am making a statement what men tend to do |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:29 PM Response to Reply #161 |
169. You don't talk to ANYONE in this manner |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:31 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. lol |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 03:08 PM Response to Reply #170 |
172. There's a plan |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:31 AM Response to Reply #75 |
123. No, it is just your lack of empathy and common sense is flabbergasting. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:43 AM Response to Reply #123 |
128. empathy and commen sense? you challenge that i am the only one. i acknowledge i am the only one |
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kelly1mm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:19 PM Response to Reply #66 |
178. You are not alone - I agree with your position which I understand as |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:21 PM Response to Reply #178 |
181. lol, about it. |
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kelly1mm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:34 PM Response to Reply #181 |
188. I know you got hammered - I read the whole thread. That is why I wanted |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:07 PM Response to Reply #188 |
195. thank you. nt |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 01:56 PM Response to Reply #14 |
156. One person's mild (and laughable) rebuke... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:21 PM Response to Reply #156 |
165. no one is that good. you cannot have that expectation of everyone as you ask |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:17 PM Response to Reply #165 |
198. Still not the point |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:12 AM Response to Reply #5 |
16. um.... he could have asked her to step aside |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:13 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. i jsut dont see it as a big deal. what are we going ot do with you, sounds like a gentle way of |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:15 AM Response to Reply #5 |
21. We do know that he acted unprofessionally in front of a customer; we also |
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JitterbugPerfume (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:19 AM Response to Reply #5 |
28. the point is |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:21 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. if she is humiliated for being spoken to about being late, awfully sensitive. are you serious...nt |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:23 AM Original message |
the fact remains, he had no business talking to her like that in front of a customer, EVER |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
33. dont think it was a big deal. if he had asked and she said, was late, sorry |
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Cirque du So-What (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:53 AM Response to Reply #33 |
73. I started a poll |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:54 AM Response to Reply #73 |
76. cool. like i give a shit, lol. nt |
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Cirque du So-What (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:57 AM Response to Reply #76 |
81. That's obvious to the most casual of observers |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:57 AM Response to Reply #81 |
84. +eleventy billion. No outrage there. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:59 AM Response to Reply #81 |
91. uh.... people are posting on my posts. i answer. should i ignore people? |
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Cirque du So-What (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:02 AM Response to Reply #91 |
97. 'It's almost rude to ignore...' but it's OK for a boss to berate an employee in public. Got it. |
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fascisthunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:26 AM Response to Reply #97 |
118. make it 50 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:27 AM Response to Reply #97 |
120. i never argued it was not rude nor professional. further, i stated it was unprofessional. |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:43 AM Response to Reply #91 |
259. SB, we may disagree about this |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:46 AM Response to Reply #259 |
260. i do appreciate you saying that. |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:03 AM Response to Reply #260 |
262. It's OK! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:23 AM Response to Reply #262 |
271. that is exactly the conclusion i have come to. from my own experiences |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:13 PM Response to Reply #271 |
279. Heck, yes. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:08 AM Response to Reply #76 |
102. Deleted message |
seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:19 AM Response to Reply #102 |
116. so, because i dont care about a poll, i dont care about human race. because i care about a teacher |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:35 PM Response to Reply #73 |
201. my vote is that 'berate' is kind of a strong word for what happened here. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 06:35 PM Response to Reply #33 |
211. If the customer was made to feel uncomfortable about this..then the manager was wrong. |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:23 AM Response to Reply #5 |
32. No, we don't. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:24 AM Response to Reply #32 |
35. what are we going to do with you pat.... is hardly a "chew out". nt |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:34 AM Response to Reply #35 |
50. worse |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:32 AM Response to Reply #35 |
249. Are you joking? Asking her check-in time, correcting her, telling her her overtime meant nothing? |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:51 AM Response to Reply #5 |
68. Any one of those issues is best handled in private. There was no reason to do it when she was on |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:55 AM Response to Reply #5 |
77. So. |
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fascisthunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:56 AM Response to Reply #77 |
79. yup |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:00 AM Response to Reply #79 |
93. There always is. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:58 AM Response to Reply #5 |
86. Deleted message |
seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:05 AM Response to Reply #86 |
100. seriously. nt |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:33 AM Response to Reply #100 |
250. Interesting, agreeing with a deleted post. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:36 AM Response to Reply #250 |
254. i dont know, you think the post might have gotten deleted AFTER i responded? nt |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:08 AM Response to Reply #5 |
103. It is ALWAYS inappropriate for the customer to see an employee be reprimanded |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:10 AM Response to Reply #5 |
109. Whatever she is doing... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:12 PM Response to Reply #5 |
136. then handle the matter privately, instead of discussing it while she's helping customers |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:15 PM Response to Reply #5 |
139. It's never okay to reprimand an employee in front of a customer. |
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Lugnut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:30 PM Response to Reply #5 |
143. It makes no difference what the circumstances were. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 06:38 AM Response to Reply #5 |
230. Regardless |
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Celebration (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 09:31 AM Response to Reply #5 |
244. one thing we do know, though |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:30 AM Response to Reply #5 |
248. It's called "having a meeting in private." |
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nuxvomica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
6. Good idea to send a letter of complaint to Hannaford's |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
12. No one insults a worker in front of me |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:14 AM Response to Reply #12 |
19. ^This. |
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Aerows (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:18 AM Response to Reply #12 |
26. You said it, malaise |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:31 AM Response to Reply #12 |
46. with you 1000%. he definitely would have heard from me, in front of as many people as I could |
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ArcticFox (654 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
15. Good little Eichmann |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 02:08 AM Response to Reply #15 |
221. Deleted message |
reformist2 (998 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
22. You should have given her a $5 tip, let her know somebody was on her side. |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:25 AM Response to Reply #22 |
36. There's a no tipping policy |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:41 AM Response to Reply #36 |
59. You could try anyway... |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:32 AM Response to Reply #22 |
47. oh yes! |
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janet118 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:33 AM Response to Reply #22 |
49. I don't believe tips are allowed at Hannaford's . . . |
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reformist2 (998 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:28 AM Response to Reply #49 |
122. I had no idea. Could she get in trouble for accepting it?! |
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Davis_X_Machina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:58 AM Response to Reply #49 |
132. When I and my brothers.. |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
37. Make sure to write them ... |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
51. k and r--thank you for sharing this with us. it is hard, sometimes, knowing what is the best option |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
61. you definitely could have said something to him. |
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fascisthunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
85. There is a time and place for everything |
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Joe the Revelator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
92. 20 minutes late? She's lucky she wasn't fired. She lied to his face as well. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:02 AM Response to Reply #92 |
96. OMG...You have 2 DU accounts?! |
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Joe the Revelator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:03 AM Response to Reply #96 |
98. ? |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:09 AM Response to Reply #98 |
108. You have a comrade-in-arms upthread. Valiantly fighting for the strong against the weak. |
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underseasurveyor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:44 PM Response to Reply #96 |
216. HAHAHA |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
99. Oh, this touches a big nerve for me... |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
115. 17 minutes requires a public call out? |
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Agony (865 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:23 AM Response to Reply #115 |
117. For the $2.07 that cost the business many times that? |
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Brigid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:57 PM Response to Reply #117 |
192. I seriously doubt this little punk went to business school. |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:27 AM Response to Original message |
119. Reminds me of a movie |
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MH1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
129. Really jerkwad of the manager. And I would add, I prefer to bag my own when ... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:49 AM Response to Reply #129 |
130. This is why I tend to always go to the same store... |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:54 PM Response to Reply #129 |
283. She did a stellar job of bagging |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
134. Is it possible, just possible, that the lady doing the bagging *wants* to |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:37 PM Response to Reply #134 |
145. Sorry, but... |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:28 PM Response to Reply #145 |
185. There is a world of difference between telling someone, in public, they were |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:38 PM Response to Reply #185 |
202. Call it whatever... |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:53 PM Response to Reply #134 |
205. Just thought of this... |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:40 AM Response to Reply #134 |
258. There was ZERO need for him to "correct" this employee AT THAT TIME. |
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A HERETIC I AM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
137. Something you should know about Hannafords.... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:40 PM Response to Reply #137 |
146. They own Food Lion now? |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 03:32 PM Response to Reply #146 |
177. Food Lion IMO sucks! |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
138. That's called public reprimand and most union contracts ban it. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:42 PM Response to Reply #138 |
148. Yet another good reason to be a part of a union. |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
140. wait, was he saying employees aren't paid for their extra time when they have to stay late? |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:25 PM Response to Reply #140 |
142. Oh, Bingo! |
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Ikonoklast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 01:03 PM Response to Reply #140 |
150. Still very common in non-union retail food stores. |
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Brigid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:05 PM Response to Reply #150 |
194. Hasn't Wal-Mart gotten sued for this? |
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Ikonoklast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:41 PM Response to Reply #194 |
203. Yep. More'n oncet. |
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laundry_queen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:23 PM Response to Reply #150 |
212. Every place I've ever worked retail was like this |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
141. I've read the whole thread, |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:41 PM Response to Reply #141 |
147. Good catch. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:58 PM Response to Reply #141 |
149. clock in/clock out. paid. maybe ... she is staying late cause an employee is late |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:18 PM Response to Reply #149 |
162. It's plainly suggested |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:22 PM Response to Reply #162 |
167. it does not mean that. her working late has nothing to do with her being late for work |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:24 PM Response to Reply #162 |
182. There is nothing in the narrative that suggested working off the clock late. As for |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:12 PM Response to Reply #141 |
159. I would NEVER work a job that made me work overtime... |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:21 PM Response to Reply #159 |
164. That is why |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:20 PM Response to Reply #141 |
179. The narrative did not suggest that the lady stayed late *off the clock.* Since |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:24 PM Response to Reply #179 |
183. my father at 72 is looking for a job. he has worked all his life. he likes it |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:44 PM Response to Reply #183 |
190. I go to that convenience store for coffee every morning. A few |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:08 PM Response to Reply #190 |
196. lol. that is cute. nt |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:34 AM Response to Reply #183 |
251. You have defined "irrelevancy". |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:37 AM Response to Reply #251 |
256. it is relevant to the poster i responded to. discussion on his enjoyment of working |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:55 PM Response to Reply #179 |
206. Well, if she stayed late, |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
144. You never, ever dress down an employee in public. Ever. nt |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
155. Union grocery store? What's that? I don't think I've ever even heard of one |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:22 PM Response to Reply #155 |
166. Safeway used to be union. |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:35 PM Response to Reply #166 |
171. Never had one anywhere near here. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 03:16 PM Response to Reply #166 |
174. Safeway is still union |
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druidity33 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 09:39 PM Response to Reply #155 |
213. Stop & Shop here in MA is Union. nt. |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
163. I always shop at Hannafords because it's only 3 miles from where I live, |
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HappyMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 03:08 PM Response to Reply #163 |
173. This is true. I have a Hannaford's within walking |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 02:33 PM Response to Reply #163 |
286. The store itself is great. |
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jillan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
168. I once had my supervisor reprimand me in front of a customer (I was in my 30s). Afterwards |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
175. Baggers tardiness=Bad store image |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #175 |
266. Done. Courteously, of course. |
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steve2470 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
176. Thank you for caring about her |
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madmax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:20 PM Response to Original message |
180. Geeez, what a story. So sad. |
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Zax2me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
184. Doesn't sound right. He won't be a manager long.... |
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Brigid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
186. Epic Fail on that kid's part. Epic Fail. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
187. Management 101 |
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Vehl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
191. How horrible :( K&R |
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progressoid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
193. Damn, I thought this was going to be a thread about The Clash. |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
204. awful! thanks for sharing your story. n/t |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
207. This is elder abuse and it has to stop. |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
208. Happier story about older worker: Ralph's employee of the year |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 06:04 PM Response to Original message |
209. Why didn't you confront him? |
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revolution breeze (510 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 06:20 PM Response to Reply #209 |
210. Absolutely. |
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underseasurveyor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:54 PM Response to Original message |
217. How else do you expect employers to keep employees in their place? |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-11 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
218. Thank you for caring |
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Anser (200 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:58 AM Response to Original message |
219. Very sad.. |
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Iwillnevergiveup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 01:25 AM Response to Original message |
220. AHA - caught you! |
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mackerel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 02:42 AM Response to Reply #220 |
222. Here's me thinking this was going to be about The Clash. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 09:33 AM Response to Reply #220 |
245. I wish we could all remember to do that... |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:09 AM Response to Reply #220 |
265. Always praise! |
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The Wizard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 03:28 AM Response to Original message |
223. Tape a thumb tack to your finger |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 03:53 AM Response to Original message |
224. There are many things you can do here |
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DesertDiamond (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 04:34 AM Response to Original message |
225. Coming in late is punished, while working late without pay is expected? YES!! WE NEED UNIONS!! |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 06:54 AM Response to Reply #225 |
234. We don't know that the working late was in fact without pay. The employee |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 04:51 AM Response to Original message |
226. Do they have comment cards? |
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Citizen Worker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 05:13 AM Response to Original message |
227. "I'll make it up," she said, "you know, I've been staying later some nights." "That's part of the |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 05:19 AM Response to Original message |
228. One thing for sure: He was out of place in upbraiding an employee in public. |
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Enthusiast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 06:53 AM Response to Original message |
233. Without this callous Ayn Randian |
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secondwind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 07:10 AM Response to Original message |
237. I think I would have said something, my Latina outrage would have taken over, LOL. |
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geckosfeet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
238. Oh my - 10:17. 17 minutes. Ones life and sustenance can hinge on 17 minutes. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 09:28 AM Response to Reply #238 |
241. How about ten minutes... |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 08:49 AM Response to Original message |
239. Thank you, friends |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:26 AM Response to Original message |
247. UPDATE--Letters are in the mail |
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underseasurveyor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #247 |
267. Yay |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:33 AM Response to Reply #247 |
273. good for you-- |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:48 PM Response to Reply #273 |
281. Also... |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:44 PM Response to Reply #247 |
280. Yay!!!!! I hope you told them... |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
252. So when did you get lost in the supermarket? |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:12 AM Response to Reply #252 |
268. 1980 or so. |
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boomerbust (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
253. You should have |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
255. AMAZING. Some cannot grasp that A PUBLIC JOB REPRIMAND IS SIMPLY NOT DONE. |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
257. Young manager guy has probably never heard of the manager rule of "praise in public, scold in |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:16 AM Response to Reply #257 |
270. I have been in a similar situation myself only it was my bosses boss who |
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VoteProgressive (664 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
263. +1 |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
264. I whole-heartedly agree that the discussion should have taken place off the sales floor. |
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hugo_from_TN (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
275. A lot of ageism in this thread. |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:03 PM Response to Reply #275 |
276. I grant you. |
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Iwillnevergiveup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:10 PM Response to Reply #276 |
278. We need many, many more like you, lapistzi |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 01:01 PM Response to Reply #275 |
284. Who knows... |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 07:01 PM Response to Reply #284 |
287. last week, I turned in a head cashier (an older woman) for gossiping about one of the young clerks |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-07-11 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
282. He never should have humiliated her in front of a customer. |
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