Although that was not about my comments, my comments were on a situation of difficulties in life that can occur for anyone.
But fighting is not fighting, in my perspective, however if a soldier thinks that fighting is fighting and he does it for compassion of other people, that would be education issue, and he would be doing right by intent. And much of military is defense and enforcement if open and transparent to avoid wars for profit, or other reasons.
Interestingly this song could be seen to be about Dadt, and I support repealing Dadt, and civil rights, in part because the enemy of my enemy is my friend. Also it is simple to see that asking people to be quiet or lie is not correct for better concepts of society.
It is also about the regrets of some that thought they should have fought in parts of history, a difficult thing, but it can be shown it was a better decision with better intents with information and ways of thought.
So it can be explained that by not fighting you fight the toughest battle, and that is fighting.
I agree it being about the military totally misses the point. But shrug, seems people see things differently.
For instance in ww2 many people believed that what was happening could not happen, and trusted in compassion of basic humanity, and concepts of justice, and even stuck with family. By not fighting, and by most intents, they made the better choice. If they all would have fought, then the truth of the evil of the systems would not have been known. Instead it would have been a prison for terrorist, or called a civil war. If it was not for their innocence, and mostly nonviolence, then many people would not have seen the evil that killed Jews, Communist, and Gays for no reason but to try and create a 'entity' or group without regard or dignity for the people.
They also trusted in faith, and although I don't think it was seen in life by all, I believe God was faithful to them in the after, that is my belief. Really hard to explain, without hundreds of pages.
People that believe in community, actually believe in individuality, since it is dignity for all people that lets you think about entire communities.
The bad side evil was treating people as resources for a 'entity' not of people for dignity and respect of all people, but that uses people as property for the 'goal' of that entity. In that case they said the entity was the state, but it can happen anytime empathy and dignity of the individual breaks down.
I think Moses got the better part by heading to the holy mountain, and what I think that song is about. And Gandhi did not resort to violence, and neither did MLK. And of coarse Jesus did not either.
My point is DADT is not about military.
Sarah McLachlan - Answer
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jKHIxBBfWUHere is the really interesting part. I posted the thought on Moses choosing the better part and the Holy mountain, before ever hearing that song. Then I find that song a few days later. I Wonder about that stuff sometimes.