one of the good guys:
"Further I cannot envision God rubbing His hands in sadistic joy as He sees a young man racked with pain in the last stages of the dread disease AIDS. To allow that would be to deny Christ's abrogation of the command "An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth." The God of my life is the God Isaiah describes as a loving mother unable to forget the child of her womb and the father of the prodigal son. That father is God patiently waiting for his prodigal son to return after the son had wished him dead and then squandered his inheritance.
In present-day society, many people have subtly developed a "hierarchy of sin" according to which sexual sins are the most abhorrent. Although I in no way condone sexual immorality, I find that the stress on this sin allows sins of perhaps greater gravity to be considered as not all that important. As long as there is no sexual impropriety, many people think they can supply bullets to friends who kill people we don't like, stockpile nuclear bombs, ignore a dehumanizing farming problem, and shrug off racism as an issue of secondary importance. We must reach out to people with AIDS as Jesus reached out to lepers with the tenderness of love that is neither judgmental nor condescending. Like Him we must join our touch with prayers for healing. And added to our prayers should be support for the research that will bring a medical cure for AIDS. "
http://frmikesdailythoughts.blogspot.com/2007/07/isnt-scourge-of-aids-punishment-from.htmlThere are a lot of media priests out there pushing a right wing agenda politically while preaching that only celibate males should be priests, that we should pray in Latin, etc. More than one of those guys has been found taking advantage of people who've come to them for help. (It may be legal to have sex with an adult female, but it's not ethical to have sex with a patient, so to speak.) That's hypocrisy, but it's not what this story seems to be about.
I know a lot of people here have no use for religion and/or no use for any priest, but this guy talks about a Jesus who loves people. A lot of people forget or don't realize that a vow of celibacy is as much a vow to be alone as it is a vow not to have sex. I for one think it's bogus to require the vow. Set aside the lurid second cousins aspect, this sounds like two lonely people who found and loved each other.