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FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:13 PM Mar 2018

How the baby boomers not millennials screwed America

Everyone likes to bash millennials. We’re spoiled, entitled, and hopelessly glued to our smartphones. We demand participation trophies, can’t find jobs, and live with our parents until we’re 30. You know the punchlines by now.

But is the millennial hate justified? Have we dropped the generational baton, or was it a previous generation, the so-called baby boomers, who actually ruined everything?

That’s the argument Bruce Gibney makes in his book A Generation of Sociopaths: How the Baby Boomers Betrayed America. The boomers, according to Gibney, have committed “generational plunder,” pillaging the nation’s economy, repeatedly cutting their own taxes, financing two wars with deficits, ignoring climate change, presiding over the death of America’s manufacturing core, and leaving future generations to clean up the mess they created.

I spoke to Gibney about these claims, and why he thinks the baby boomers have wrecked America.

A lightly edited transcript of our conversation follows.

https://www.vox.com/2017/12/20/16772670/baby-boomers-millennials-congress-debt

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How the baby boomers not millennials screwed America (Original Post) FarCenter Mar 2018 OP
Being a certified Boomer-- I agree. Our parents told us of sacrifice during... TreasonousBastard Mar 2018 #1
They invested $ and serious community involvement to build SharonAnn Mar 2018 #31
Unneeded divisiveness. marybourg Mar 2018 #2
But that is the point of billh58 Mar 2018 #8
Aw. NurseJackie Mar 2018 #3
lol - Solid. NCTraveler Mar 2018 #14
Winner! Floyd R. Turbo Mar 2018 #24
Ageism Sucks! MineralMan Mar 2018 #4
Correction "Republican" baby boomers. honest.abe Mar 2018 #5
Exactly right. Boomers have been and still are split down the middle ideologically. The... brush Mar 2018 #18
Yes, the Silent Generation is right wing Awsi Dooger Mar 2018 #22
I was referring to the right wing half of the baby boomer generation...boomers were born 1946-'64. brush Mar 2018 #33
So every baby boomer born in those years is right wing...no that is not true. Demsrule86 Mar 2018 #41
Read both of my posts again, but drink your coffee first. You're missing stuff. brush Mar 2018 #47
I read your posts...and what a nasty crack... Demsrule86 Mar 2018 #48
Sorry, but I think you missed the point of my posts, which was that the baby boomer generation... brush Mar 2018 #62
your posts were very clear - I understood (and agreed) first time through DrDan Mar 2018 #59
Thank you. I think they're pretty clear also. brush Mar 2018 #63
There are many members of the "silent" generation marybourg Mar 2018 #53
Again with this shit? SammyWinstonJack Mar 2018 #6
You Beat Me To It ProfessorGAC Mar 2018 #9
boxes, and generalizations....YUCK. Not helpful. NRaleighLiberal Mar 2018 #7
Another young rich venture capitalist heard from. hack89 Mar 2018 #10
My father, who was a member of "The Greatest Generation", DURHAM D Mar 2018 #11
I would tend to agree about "The Greatest Generation" FarCenter Mar 2018 #27
Yes, that generation did ride the gravy train. PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2018 #35
From the DU Terms of Service: MineralMan Mar 2018 #12
+1,000 !! CountAllVotes Mar 2018 #23
Amen. Boomers were civil rights activists, music prophets, nolabear Mar 2018 #44
Blah blah fucking blah. . . DinahMoeHum Mar 2018 #13
Yep. Never trust anyone over 30. Remember? Eyeball_Kid Mar 2018 #20
Stupid ass article . The split is race, not generation JI7 Mar 2018 #15
The split is class far more than race or age Amishman Mar 2018 #40
How The People Pitting Millennials Against Baby Boomers Are Screwing America. Iggo Mar 2018 #16
"How The People Pitting Millennials Against Baby Boomers Are Screwing America" Wwcd Mar 2018 #57
This isn't helpful MustLoveBeagles Mar 2018 #17
The Baby Boomers Or The Repugs?..... global1 Mar 2018 #19
generational bashing is divisive and serves no purpose Dyedinthewoolliberal Mar 2018 #21
This MustLoveBeagles Mar 2018 #30
One could also ask BannonsLiver Mar 2018 #46
I am forced to ask the question; Dyedinthewoolliberal Mar 2018 #49
He won by landslides both times he ran BannonsLiver Mar 2018 #56
Here is a breakdown by age bracket of who voted for whom Dyedinthewoolliberal Mar 2018 #64
*sigh* Texasgal Mar 2018 #25
Lol. Tipperary Mar 2018 #26
Being a late-ish boomer, female, 1st generation American Fresh_Start Mar 2018 #28
The older generation always bears the blame... vi5 Mar 2018 #29
Everything would be better if we simply went back to the 1940's and '50s... kentuck Mar 2018 #32
The millenials still have time to screw things up worse. aikoaiko Mar 2018 #34
And that's the reality of it. Iggo Mar 2018 #45
Blaming generations isn't the way to go here. PatrickforO Mar 2018 #36
Probably one of the dumbest things I've read on DU. Talk about generalization. denverbill Mar 2018 #37
Which ones are the millennials, again? HeartachesNhangovers Mar 2018 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author shanti Mar 2018 #39
We Didn't Start the Fire peggysue2 Mar 2018 #42
Don't ever change, FarCenter. WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2018 #43
Actually I think the generation that has the most promise is not Boomers or Millennials crazycatlady Mar 2018 #50
"Everyone"? I never bashed millennials. marybourg Mar 2018 #51
REPOST: No generation since the great depression knows what real economic suffering is. Binkie The Clown Mar 2018 #52
Generations don't know what real economic suffering is, but many families and individuals braddy Mar 2018 #61
The Millennials have not had time to screw up much of anything. MineralMan Mar 2018 #54
As a Baby Boomer, and mother of a milennial cilla4progress Mar 2018 #55
This article blows its credibility from the first sentence. EVERYONE likes to bash millennials? DFW Mar 2018 #58
I am a baby boomer. I agree with the premise of the OP. Blue_true Mar 2018 #60
Republican boomers who brought in Reagan marlakay Mar 2018 #65

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
1. Being a certified Boomer-- I agree. Our parents told us of sacrifice during...
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:20 PM
Mar 2018

the Depression and WWII.

But what they ended up teaching uswas that all that shit was over and now we could waste to our hearts' content-- and we learned that lesson well.

SharonAnn

(13,772 posts)
31. They invested $ and serious community involvement to build
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:16 PM
Mar 2018

the country we grew up in. Schools, roads and highways, bridges, libraries, etc. They are the ones who led the demand for environmental protection. Yes, we boomers were deeply involved, by their generation actually voted to put the EPA into place.

They made many mistakes, sure, but they invested in building a democracy and improving the lives of citizens. And they finally addressed Civil Rights issues and women's equality.

They left much to be done, but they rebuilt the country and the world so that we could continue toe work. Instead, it seems that we've squandered it.

I'm ashamed.

billh58

(6,635 posts)
8. But that is the point of
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:24 PM
Mar 2018

these attacks isn't it? More than one DUer has pointed out the obvious goal of these posts today, and it isn't to promote Democrats.

honest.abe

(8,678 posts)
5. Correction "Republican" baby boomers.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:22 PM
Mar 2018

If we had consistent Democratic control of the Government during the past several decades the situation would not be so dire.

Of course not all issues are easily solved. The problems with the economy and manufacturing are more to do with globalization and automation which are not simply good or bad issues.

brush

(53,778 posts)
18. Exactly right. Boomers have been and still are split down the middle ideologically. The...
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:38 PM
Mar 2018

Last edited Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:15 PM - Edit history (1)

socially conscious ones of us who seek a safety net and responsive-to-peoples-needs government v

the selfish, greedy, bigoted, mostly old, white male-run other half who cheat to win elections.

It's always been this with the boomer generation, and frankly, probably so with all generations.

This OP and the others like it recently are posted by shit stirrers with a divisive agenda.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
22. Yes, the Silent Generation is right wing
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:45 PM
Mar 2018

Born between 1928 and 1945, immediately preceding baby boomers.

That generation turned 18 with either an unpopular Democrat in office or popular Republican in office, so the predisposition was Republican and it held up that way.

brush

(53,778 posts)
33. I was referring to the right wing half of the baby boomer generation...boomers were born 1946-'64.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:17 PM
Mar 2018

The two halves have been butting heads since the tumultuous '60s—the socially conscious liberal/progressive half vs the selfish, greedy, bigoted, cheating and election stealing half.

Demsrule86

(68,567 posts)
48. I read your posts...and what a nasty crack...
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:31 PM
Mar 2018

I think we all have a role to play in stopping Trump. I am sure the Righties and Russian trolls want to pit us against each other...just not a good idea. Not saying you are either.

brush

(53,778 posts)
62. Sorry, but I think you missed the point of my posts, which was that the baby boomer generation...
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 05:22 PM
Mar 2018

was and still is split down the middle ideologically—socially conscious folks, some activists/protestors, who became our present-day Democrats/progressives have been butting heads versus the young repugs from back in the day who have become the greedy, selfish alt-right, neo-nazi right wing deplorables of today who can only win elections by committing treason and/or cheating.

I don't see how you get out of that that I'm trying to pit us against anybody but the aforementioned greedy, selfish alt-right, neo-nazi right wing conservatives who elected trump.

We are on the same side, just a misunderstanding.

DrDan

(20,411 posts)
59. your posts were very clear - I understood (and agreed) first time through
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 03:29 PM
Mar 2018

not many boomers ride the fence - pretty split ideologically

marybourg

(12,631 posts)
53. There are many members of the "silent" generation
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:56 PM
Mar 2018

right here on DU, being anything but silent and anything but right wing. On the east coast, where I grew up, most members of my generation were fairly progressive.

This is just another over-broad divisive generalization, like the OP. And not in our best interests to continue to push.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
10. Another young rich venture capitalist heard from.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:25 PM
Mar 2018

I love how some people develop a conscience only after they enter the 1%.

DURHAM D

(32,609 posts)
11. My father, who was a member of "The Greatest Generation",
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:26 PM
Mar 2018

would argue that it was his generation that was on the gravy train.

jftr - he hated the title "Greatest Generation" because it implied they were better than everyone else. He thought that they were willfully unaware that their children were paying for their ticket to ride. He referred to public policy post WWII as the world's longest most enduring "thank you" note.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
27. I would tend to agree about "The Greatest Generation"
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:58 PM
Mar 2018

Last edited Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:30 PM - Edit history (1)

A lot of the damage was done under presidents from Kennedy through GHW Bush.

Kennedy was 26 years younger than Eisenhower, and he was the first WW II combat vet president. GHW Bush was 33 years younger than Eisenhower, and he was the last WW II combat vet president. All the presidents in between were born from 1908 (Johnson) to 1924 (Carter).

So the boomers were growing up and coming of age during a period from Camelot through Its Morning Again in America - A period when the Greatest Generations triumphal spirit of national hubris was at its peak.

----

PS - Clinton, W, and Trump were all born in 1946. See Malcolm Gladwell's book, Outliers, for the advantages of being older in a cohort.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,856 posts)
35. Yes, that generation did ride the gravy train.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:31 PM
Mar 2018

Yes, the had the Great Depression and WWII, but after that they rode the tsunami of the most amazing economic growth and prosperity ever. Wages rose sufficiently so that many wives and mothers stayed home with the kids, they bought homes, sent their kids to college. Not long after the first Boomers got out of college things started declining. Wages stagnated. Two incomes were needed to afford the now very pricey homes. Sending their own kids off to college became a lot harder unless serious loans were taken out.

And so on.

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
12. From the DU Terms of Service:
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:27 PM
Mar 2018
No bigotry/insensitivity
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Ageism is Bigotry.

CountAllVotes

(20,870 posts)
23. +1,000 !!
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:52 PM
Mar 2018

I grow weary of these various ageism bashes on the DU.

I rarely read them as they are offensive to me.



nolabear

(41,963 posts)
44. Amen. Boomers were civil rights activists, music prophets,
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:53 PM
Mar 2018

War protesters, EPA founders, space pioneers, alternative energy inventors, SPCA creators, education reformers, union members, etc. etc. etc.

Every generation has its pendulum and its divisions. This kind of black and white condemnatory thinking does tremendous harm in families, societies and countries.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
15. Stupid ass article . The split is race, not generation
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:30 PM
Mar 2018

Younger generations are more liberal because they are more diverse.

Amishman

(5,557 posts)
40. The split is class far more than race or age
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:45 PM
Mar 2018

The top of the heap plundering everything; ripping off the middle class, poor,and future generations.

The correlation is that currently the boomers hold most of the wealth and compromise a disproportionate amount of the rich robber barons.

Iggo

(47,552 posts)
16. How The People Pitting Millennials Against Baby Boomers Are Screwing America.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:37 PM
Mar 2018

That's the article I want to see.

(Trash thread.)

 

Wwcd

(6,288 posts)
57. "How The People Pitting Millennials Against Baby Boomers Are Screwing America"
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 03:07 PM
Mar 2018

K & R for the most sensible post of the week.

I think DU needs to do some troll hunting.
We keep seeing this same extreme & intentionally divisive subject showing up.

Pitting one group against another with broadbrushing & lack of intellectual substance.

Divide & conquer is why Putin buried our media in bots.

Can MIRT be notified please?


MustLoveBeagles

(11,609 posts)
17. This isn't helpful
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:38 PM
Mar 2018

When I was younger I scapegoated the boomers for all this countries problems. And then I grew up. There are good and bad people in every generation. Scapegoating and stereotyping is wrong no matter who does it to whom.

global1

(25,247 posts)
19. The Baby Boomers Or The Repugs?.....
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:39 PM
Mar 2018

Repeatedly cutting their taxes, financing two wars with deficits, ignoring climate change, presiding over the death of America’s manufacturing core, and leaving future generations to clean up the mess they created.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,574 posts)
21. generational bashing is divisive and serves no purpose
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 12:41 PM
Mar 2018

except to sell books and make one group feel superior over the other. If we really want to understand how things work, why not just examine who has all the money in this country and what they do with it?

BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
46. One could also ask
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:58 PM
Mar 2018

Exactly when did the seeds for the current economic inequality we have get sewn and who put that person (Reagan) in power.

It certainly wasn’t Gen Xers and Millenials. It was Boomers and their parents.

That said, I don’t believe generations are monolithic so the demonization of Boomers is pointless.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,574 posts)
49. I am forced to ask the question;
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:42 PM
Mar 2018

do you have data that show the majority of those born between 1946 and 1958 or 59 voted for Reagan?

BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
56. He won by landslides both times he ran
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:58 PM
Mar 2018

The proof is sort of in the pudding. For that to happen, a helluva lot of boomers had to vote for him. Pretty obvious.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,574 posts)
64. Here is a breakdown by age bracket of who voted for whom
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 05:47 PM
Mar 2018

in the 1980 election:
https://ropercenter.cornell.edu/polls/us-elections/how-groups-voted/how-groups-voted-1980/

I'm not sure it proves baby boomers elected him but certainly more voted for him than I would have suspected......s
*edited for spelling*

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
28. Being a late-ish boomer, female, 1st generation American
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:10 PM
Mar 2018

I have never had power nor have others who were similarly situation.
Don't blame us.

Like guns this can be blamed primarily on white males.

 

vi5

(13,305 posts)
29. The older generation always bears the blame...
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:12 PM
Mar 2018

...as they should. Millenials have zero power, other than their buying power and even that is not much. Anyone who blames them for anything is a fool. Same for those who blamed Generation X when they were in their teens and twenties.

I remember when I was in my 20's (I'm Gen X), we kept saying "Oh when our grandparents generation dies and the boomers take over that's when we'll get real progress!!"

Then the boomers took over and didn't really improve things by much. So now my kids generation is saying "Oh when those selfish boomers die off then there may be some hope!"

Unfortunately I think it's just a tendency of people to get old and more solipsistic as they get older and that lends itself to selfishness and conservative thinking and policies.

I wish I could say that I expect Gen Xers to be any better once we are the majority in charge but I can't even say that I think that is likely.

kentuck

(111,094 posts)
32. Everything would be better if we simply went back to the 1940's and '50s...
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:17 PM
Mar 2018

Not!

I don't buy this argument. It wasn't the boomers that repeatedly cut their own taxes, or financed wars with deficits, etc... The Congress was not full of 30-35 yr olds when Reagan was President. Dick Cheney was not a "baby boomer". George HW Bush was not a "baby boomer". GWB was a boomer but his Cabinet and advisers were of a previous generation mostly. Even the leadership in Congress now is made up of a previous generation before the "boomers".

I don't think his argument matches the facts.

Where would women be without the "Baby Boom" generation? Where would minorities be without the "Boom" generation? There is a lot to criticize but we should not overlook historic accomplishments.

Iggo

(47,552 posts)
45. And that's the reality of it.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:56 PM
Mar 2018

They're just getting started.

They've got a lot of catching up to do!

PatrickforO

(14,574 posts)
36. Blaming generations isn't the way to go here.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:35 PM
Mar 2018

I see what you mean, but many of us boomers have fought the good fight for decades. Yes in some substantial ways the world is worse than it was 50 years ago. No doubt.

But to say a whole generation fucked it up? That's no more fair than bashing the whole generation of millennials.

Right now, we need to focus on flipping the US House and Senate, and getting as many Dems in local and state government as possible, so I must ask how such a post helps us focus on that imperative?

denverbill

(11,489 posts)
37. Probably one of the dumbest things I've read on DU. Talk about generalization.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:36 PM
Mar 2018

Pretty clearly it was Republicans/conservatives/libertarians that did all the tax cutting and people of those beliefs come in all age groups.

"Bruce Cannon Gibney is a venture capitalist and writer."

Clearly, Bruce is getting low on venture capital and decided to write a shitty book that will stir people up. I don't know why any DUer would help him advertise it.

38. Which ones are the millennials, again?
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:41 PM
Mar 2018

I can never remember if the millennials are the ones just out of college, or their parents. Or maybe their kids. I have a hard time remembering trivial non-facts.

Response to FarCenter (Original post)

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
42. We Didn't Start the Fire
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 01:52 PM
Mar 2018

To quote Billy Joel. And the one thing we don't need is a generational war game to flare up before November.

Regardless of age, we're all on the same page when it comes to defeating the odious Trumpsters. Regardless of age, the Trumpster crew are the wreckers, the racists, the arsonists. No single generation can be blamed for everything wrong in the world or the country. Not even the boomers.

Please stop.

As for millennials? They'll make their own mistakes, and then their children will howl about them. Because that's what human beings do.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
50. Actually I think the generation that has the most promise is not Boomers or Millennials
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:47 PM
Mar 2018

But Gen Z (or iGeneration as I've heard them called). They're taking on the NRA while still in high school.

marybourg

(12,631 posts)
51. "Everyone"? I never bashed millennials.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:49 PM
Mar 2018

As a member of the so-called "silent" generation, I occasionally had something to say about the boomers getting concessions that WE never got, but commercially-driven divisiveness takes it to a whole new level and does not serve any of us well.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
52. REPOST: No generation since the great depression knows what real economic suffering is.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:51 PM
Mar 2018

Yes, there are many individuals who suffer economically, but as an aggregate, neither the boomers (or pre-boomers like myself) nor the children and grandchildren of the boomers, has experienced any kind of mass deprivation.

Born and raised in a technological wonderland and surrounded by the energy equivalent of a couple hundred slaves working around the clock for each and every one of us, we have never tilled the land like our lives depend on it, or hewn logs to build shelter. Not one of us has to walk three miles for a jug of clean water, or empty our chamber pots into the gutter.

Throughout all of human history we of the late 20th and early 21st century are the most privileged, pampered, and coddled people that have ever existed. And for one group of privileged, pampered, coddled, spoiled rotten people to throw blame at a very slightly older group of privileged, pampered, coddled, spoiled rotten people is to expose a woefully lacking understanding of history, and a shameful lack of perspective on the global human condition in general.





 

braddy

(3,585 posts)
61. Generations don't know what real economic suffering is, but many families and individuals
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 03:42 PM
Mar 2018

within generations do.

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
54. The Millennials have not had time to screw up much of anything.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:57 PM
Mar 2018

Their time will come, and they'll probably screw up just like every other generation has. But, so far, they haven't made much of an impact. They're still young. Many haven't even started realizing they should vote. Give them time. They'll get around to making their own mistakes.

cilla4progress

(24,731 posts)
55. As a Baby Boomer, and mother of a milennial
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 02:58 PM
Mar 2018

I entirely agree with you about the mis-placed blame on millennials. My daughter and her peers are more likely to be contributing, concerned, aware, activist citizens, than the stereotypes describe and generations preceding them.

As far as Baby Boomers...who my age (63) recalls the period of the 70s dubbed the "me generation" and YUPPIES? (Young Urban Professionals). I attended college in the early/mid-70s and came of age as a hippie love child. I still subscribe to these values. However, many of my cohort and just after became very self-absorbed and materialistic. Some I attended college alongside.

Generational swings, I suppose.

I for one, anyway, do not find millennial to be self-absorbed whiners; in fact, just the opposite.

DFW

(54,378 posts)
58. This article blows its credibility from the first sentence. EVERYONE likes to bash millennials?
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 03:23 PM
Mar 2018

My wife and I are baby boomers, and our daughters are millennials. Our fathers were both drafted into their respective armies in World War II, and fought on opposite sides. My father came back in one piece. My father-in-law did not. Neither of them would have thought for a second to call themselves "Great" let alone "Greatest."

My wife and I have protested in every conflict our respective countries were in since we were teenagers, although her country was not involved in any armed conflict from mid-1945 til Afghanistan. I did not "lower my taxes" or vote for it or ask for it. I have paid the maximum rate since before I was 30, all out of my W-2. We try to enjoy undisturbed nature somewhere every year, and leave it in the same state in which we found it. We ignore nothing and plunder nothing. We are not great exceptions to some newly-made-up rule, either.

Our children were deliberately NOT spoiled, kept on a tight allowance through their teenage years, encouraging them to try to find ways to earn pocket money creatively--finding babysitting jobs, offering to translate for people needing German-English translations while they were in the States, etc.--and they did. They demanded nothing, found their own jobs (one even refused my offer of help, saying, "I want to do this on my own" ). They were both out of the house before age 20, and only return to visit. One lives 250 KM from us, the other 5000 KM from us. Yes, they use their smart phones more than we do, but then I don't even use one, so that's not difficult to accomplish, and their best friends are scattered across North America, Asia and Europe, so I don't begrudge them that, either.

The easy way to counter my comments, of course, is to say what exceptions we are, but I call BS on that as well. Our boomer friends tell similar stories, both about themselves and their kids. Not all of them, but most of them. Right-wing boomers have caused damage, and right wing millennials will cause more damage. I refuse to take the rap for any of them, and I don't expect my children would do so either.

We bash no one (except radical Republicans), and would appreciate the same courtesy from people who purport to be our political allies.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
60. I am a baby boomer. I agree with the premise of the OP.
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 03:38 PM
Mar 2018

I think rights for minorities and women's rights scared a lot of boomers, suddenly they had to truly compete for jobs and titles against people who society had long made non factors.

marlakay

(11,465 posts)
65. Republican boomers who brought in Reagan
Thu Mar 15, 2018, 05:55 PM
Mar 2018

Screwed things up. It has just gone down hill from there starting with union busting, for profit healthcare, etc.

Doesn’t do a bit of good though to look at the past, lets fight to get power back now and help the younger ones!

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