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LAS14

(13,783 posts)
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:46 PM Mar 2018

I would like to propose a new DU rule. That is...

... that we stay away from all or nothing language, even when applied to Trump voters. We need to do something to fight back against the Russians and their bots who dive in on BOTH sides of divisive issues to Balkanize our society.

When I say "rule" I mean the kind of thing that is used for alerts.

What do you think?

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I would like to propose a new DU rule. That is... (Original Post) LAS14 Mar 2018 OP
DU doesn't really have any rules. Just guidelines. MineralMan Mar 2018 #1
I mean a new thing like we use for alerts. Whatever you want to call it. nt LAS14 Mar 2018 #4
Believe you're thinking of the "TOS"; Terms of Service Fla Dem Mar 2018 #8
I tend to do that already, a major cause of Hortensis Mar 2018 #60
You're the second person to talk about... LAS14 Mar 2018 #72
In conflict with existing rules zipplewrath Mar 2018 #2
How does refreaining from saying "All Trump voters....." LAS14 Mar 2018 #5
You will support all democrats zipplewrath Mar 2018 #6
No. "You will support all democrats," is not labeling... LAS14 Mar 2018 #11
I need to check with my handler and get back to you. dameatball Mar 2018 #3
Da, me too. n/t rzemanfl Mar 2018 #53
I don't understand how never using "all of nothing" language would help fight infiltrators muriel_volestrangler Mar 2018 #7
Do we really think infiltrators are just as likely... LAS14 Mar 2018 #9
Yes, 'both sides...' can be very pernicious muriel_volestrangler Mar 2018 #50
Me too. But it's a far cry from that crowd to all people who voted Republican. nt LAS14 Mar 2018 #70
both siderism is huge w trolls. Like saying its bigotry to call out bigots. bettyellen Mar 2018 #76
I kinda like this idea Amishman Mar 2018 #10
How about no? Adrahil Mar 2018 #12
You really are pulling out all the stops to protect Trump supporters, aren't you? EffieBlack Mar 2018 #13
I'm not trying to protect Trump voters. I'm trying to protect our democracy. LAS14 Mar 2018 #14
Riiight ... and changing the rules for discussion on DU will protect our democracy? EffieBlack Mar 2018 #15
When "the ones who did" is "the ones who voted for Trump," then... LAS14 Mar 2018 #18
Oh, please - you've been falling all over yourself defending them EffieBlack Mar 2018 #21
Looks like you've figured it out, too! NurseJackie Mar 2018 #28
Yup. EffieBlack Mar 2018 #37
Sorry. Trump voters cheered... sheshe2 Mar 2018 #47
Yes, SOME Trump voters cheered. I'm not... LAS14 Mar 2018 #55
Sorry. sheshe2 Mar 2018 #63
They're Birthers & Lock Her Up Says It All Me. Mar 2018 #62
You are correct, me. sheshe2 Mar 2018 #64
What A Nice Thing To Say Me. Mar 2018 #66
You are my sister... sheshe2 Mar 2018 #67
Oh My Me. Mar 2018 #71
See my response #73. LAS14 Mar 2018 #74
Everyone knows they're not ALL birthers. So I don't see how... LAS14 Mar 2018 #73
That Is A Totally Preposterous Response Me. Mar 2018 #77
"They'" some of them. "They" does not equal all of them. Don't you get that????? LAS14 Mar 2018 #78
Clearer Thinking Is What Is Needed To Save This Country Me. Mar 2018 #79
OK. What do you think I said that this is an answer to? LAS14 Mar 2018 #82
So Which Members Of His Base Do You THink Aren't Me. Mar 2018 #85
In the post you're replying to, I identified "the group" as Trump Voters. LAS14 Mar 2018 #86
You're Trying Really Hard Me. Mar 2018 #87
'There are good people on both sides'. -nt poboy2 Mar 2018 #16
Trump voters/supporters are the dumbasses we can credit for oasis Mar 2018 #17
I thought we weren't supposed to be advocating executing anyone, MGKrebs Mar 2018 #19
OMG I totally lost track of time! Is it HUG-A-DEPLORABLE DAY again already? NurseJackie Mar 2018 #20
Cute, but no. It's "remember that deplorables fill only one of two baskets" day. nt LAS14 Mar 2018 #22
### NurseJackie Mar 2018 #26
As I recall, you were a big Hillary fan. Are you denying that she was making... LAS14 Mar 2018 #29
Oh, good lord! NurseJackie Mar 2018 #33
Sorry, I'm not getting your response.... LAS14 Mar 2018 #36
Then we're even. NurseJackie Mar 2018 #38
And, God forbid that someone who lines up with and votes with deplorable to elect the king of the de EffieBlack Mar 2018 #31
No... way too subjective Demsrule86 Mar 2018 #23
I am not sure it could be enforced as a rule genxlib Mar 2018 #24
All Trump voters are bigots ismnotwasm Mar 2018 #25
+100 n/t billh58 Mar 2018 #30
If I was ever on a jury for a breaker of that rule, I'd let 'em skake. 50 Shades Of Blue Mar 2018 #27
This takes me back to the Bernie-Hillary supporter wars when posts were getting alerted and hidden EffieBlack Mar 2018 #35
Nailed it! Thank you for telling-it-like-it-is!!!! (You rock!) NurseJackie Mar 2018 #40
So do you! EffieBlack Mar 2018 #42
No Glamrock Mar 2018 #32
How do you feel about all the other terms of service we are bound by? nt LAS14 Mar 2018 #34
Not really down with em except for being remotely civil. Glamrock Mar 2018 #39
no because ALL trump voters are dumb ass shit stains gopiscrap Mar 2018 #41
Oh, great, now you've done it. How are we EVER going to get them to vote Democratic if you're so mea EffieBlack Mar 2018 #43
yeah I know because it's so easy to reason with them! Sarcasm intended!!! gopiscrap Mar 2018 #45
Good luck with that. First, we can't say what we think about a certain senator lunamagica Mar 2018 #44
Bingo! EffieBlack Mar 2018 #46
Woah. sheshe2 Mar 2018 #48
And Meanwhile, Hillary, Pelosi and DiFi are fair game from dawn to dusk then all night long EffieBlack Mar 2018 #52
" Makes you wonder what's lies beneath." NurseJackie Mar 2018 #58
no thank you DrDan Mar 2018 #49
This sounds an awful lot like moving to the political center to appear reasonable bucolic_frolic Mar 2018 #51
ugh. No, thank you. herding cats Mar 2018 #54
Hard no...nt SidDithers Mar 2018 #56
herr drumpf's supporters do not belong on DU. Period. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2018 #57
Did you read most post as wanting to invite Trump supporters to DU????? LAS14 Mar 2018 #69
no thanks. Mosby Mar 2018 #59
I assume all Trump voters are bigots. nt LexVegas Mar 2018 #61
While a rule like this would be unenforceable, I do respect the sentiment. MGKrebs Mar 2018 #65
Trolls usually use strict forum rules as a weapon fescuerescue Mar 2018 #68
Please don't tell me (us) lillypaddle Mar 2018 #75
No Lunabell Mar 2018 #80
I was getting flagged often. I added folks seemingly prone to flagging and haven't been for months. TheBlackAdder Mar 2018 #81
What is a jury blacklist? nt LAS14 Mar 2018 #84
Under My Account, there is a tab called Jury Blacklist, you add 15 people you don't want on a jury. TheBlackAdder Mar 2018 #88
Ah. How commonsensical. Thanks. nt LAS14 Mar 2018 #89
Some things are inherently wrong meadowlander Mar 2018 #83

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
1. DU doesn't really have any rules. Just guidelines.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:49 PM
Mar 2018

In place of rules, we have community moderation, in the form of alerts and juries.

I think making hard and fast rules here is probably not going to fly. I can't imagine how a rule like the one you are suggesting would even be worded so it made sense. Want to give it a try? Write a sample rule for us.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
60. I tend to do that already, a major cause of
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:30 PM
Mar 2018

run-on sentences in my posts, so I'm sympathetic to the principle.

But a rule? Give trolls and other predators another weapon to stalk members with? Thanks for the laugh, LAS14!!!!

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
72. You're the second person to talk about...
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 01:37 PM
Mar 2018

...trolls using forum rules to their advantage. I hadn't heard about that. Can you point me somewhere to read up on how they do it? How they know about it? E.g, here on DU you can't ever tell who alerted a post.

tia
las

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
2. In conflict with existing rules
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:49 PM
Mar 2018

It's all or nothing on support of democrats. You either do, or you leave.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
5. How does refreaining from saying "All Trump voters....."
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:53 PM
Mar 2018

translate into not supporting Democrats. That's my point. We shouldn't let ourselves be sucked into the kind of hateful lazy thinking that Russia is trying to promote.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,311 posts)
7. I don't understand how never using "all of nothing" language would help fight infiltrators
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:57 PM
Mar 2018

We need to say "we always respect a woman's right to choose" for abortion. We need to say "Trump is unsuitable as president". Infiltrators are just as likely to use equivocation and "both sides..." language as anything divisive.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
9. Do we really think infiltrators are just as likely...
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:01 PM
Mar 2018

...to use "both sides" language? I don't think so. Anyway, I'm not saying we can't take clear positions on any issue. It's the ad hominem labeling of ALL people in a group as this or that that is lazy thinking and truly divisive of a society.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,311 posts)
50. Yes, 'both sides...' can be very pernicious
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:54 PM
Mar 2018

eg Trump's "there were good people on both sides" about Charlottesville. I'm happy to label all the people on the pro-slavery demonstration 'bad'.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
76. both siderism is huge w trolls. Like saying its bigotry to call out bigots.
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 03:40 PM
Mar 2018

It’s ridiculous, but they do it all the time.

Amishman

(5,557 posts)
10. I kinda like this idea
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:03 PM
Mar 2018

The Trump voter societal problem is a lot more complicated than we like to make it. Blanket statements encourage flawed oversimplified thinking.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
13. You really are pulling out all the stops to protect Trump supporters, aren't you?
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:15 PM
Mar 2018

Having trouble holding your own in your defense of Trump supporters in various DU threads is not sufficient reason for DU to change its rules for discussion.

Nice try, though.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
14. I'm not trying to protect Trump voters. I'm trying to protect our democracy.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:19 PM
Mar 2018

We're playing into their hands if we divide along black and white hate filled lines.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
15. Riiight ... and changing the rules for discussion on DU will protect our democracy?
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:30 PM
Mar 2018

Okaaay.

You might have been less transparent if you had made your example any other group of people who tend to get lumped together - and do get lumped together often on DU - e.g., black voters, women voters, Hillary supporters, Bernie supporters, Republicans, conservatives, millennials... But you gave yourself away when you pointed to, of all people, Trump voters - especially on the same day you've been actively defending them in various threads.

And considering the number of times I and others have had to defend ourselves from accusations that we're calling ALL Trump voters something or another, when we're doing no such thing, as evidenced by our explicit use of such terms as "some," "The ones who," etc., I suspect that your "proposal" is intended to lay a predicate for harassment and intimidation through alerts and hiding on anyone who criticizes any Trump voters.

So, hell no on your idea.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
18. When "the ones who did" is "the ones who voted for Trump," then...
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:48 PM
Mar 2018

.... it's too broad a brush. And I'm focusing on lumping all Trump voters together because, of course, in DU no one is lumping those other groups together. And I haven't been defending Trump supporters. I've been trying to defend DU as a place which collects together intelligent, passionate progressives.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
21. Oh, please - you've been falling all over yourself defending them
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:01 PM
Mar 2018

And now you want to change the rules to protect them.

sheshe2

(83,751 posts)
47. Sorry. Trump voters cheered...
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:45 PM
Mar 2018

This woman:


They cheered trump for making fun of a disabled reporter:


They cheered "Lock her up."
They cheered "All Mexicans are rapists."
They cheered "Build that wall"
They cheer Russian now.
They cheer Treason now.

Sorry no, they are all deplorable and I would not waste one minute on them. Not one.


LAS14

(13,783 posts)
55. Yes, SOME Trump voters cheered. I'm not...
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:15 PM
Mar 2018

...denying that some Trump voters (maybe a majority) are awful people, bigots, misogynists, racists. I'm just denying that ALL are. Your examples don't go any distance to illustrating that ALL are. More importantly, I'm urging us all to avoid "ALL" thinking. It's lazy, inaccurate and plays into the hands of Russia, which is trying to exacerbate hate filled divides.

sheshe2

(83,751 posts)
63. Sorry.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:34 PM
Mar 2018

They watched him and listened to him and saw the bigoted, misogynist and racist hate. Nope, they saw it all and voted for him anyway because they agreed with what he said. BTW, I am not lazy and THEY are the hate filled ones not Democrats that you seem to be saying are so easily swayed and falling into the hands of Russia. They voted for the man they saw, they got the man they wanted. If a few break away, good for them yet the majority will always stay on the side of hatred of anyone less white, not female, lgbt or other than them. They believe in white male supremacy. It is as simple as that. I have no time for any of them.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
73. Everyone knows they're not ALL birthers. So I don't see how...
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 02:29 PM
Mar 2018

... this post speaks to what I said. Except to illustrate the problem. This is lazy thinking. We progressives should be better than this. I've always liked to think that our conversations were in general more intelligent than most if the right's. But I see us drifting into their mode of communication.

Me.

(35,454 posts)
77. That Is A Totally Preposterous Response
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 03:45 PM
Mar 2018

Here's the real problem...they tell us over and over who they are...by their screaming at rallies, by their posts on various websites and, most importantly their votes. Do you get that....they vote for him. And yet we constantly have people telling us not to believe our lying eyes.I am completely fed up with both. If there is a change in behavior required, it's theirs. Let's see them vote/support for someone other than Comrade Trump and his complicit Congress. The only lazy thinking going on is that which allows a corrupt, venal, vindictive president and his cronies subject this country to their crimes. So please take your scold and deliver it to those who are harming this country with their biases and ignorance.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
78. "They'" some of them. "They" does not equal all of them. Don't you get that?????
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 03:49 PM
Mar 2018

Apparently not. I want to be able to be proud that the left is clearer thinking, more intelligent than most of the right. That is slipping.

Me.

(35,454 posts)
79. Clearer Thinking Is What Is Needed To Save This Country
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 03:53 PM
Mar 2018

not a desire to enable to those who allow the harm to continue. As I said, if someone tells you who they are, especially over and over...believe them.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
82. OK. What do you think I said that this is an answer to?
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 05:15 PM
Mar 2018

I can't figure out what you think you're arguing about. I said we shouldn't say "ALL" members of a group are this thing or that thing. You keep replying with assertions about SOME members of a group (Trump voters). I never denied that the things you say are true about some/most of them. So what's your point? Who are you arguing with?

Me.

(35,454 posts)
85. So Which Members Of His Base Do You THink Aren't
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 05:45 PM
Mar 2018

And what you seem to be ignoring is who they are...which gives us the government they deserve. Clearly we aren't going to agree on this.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
86. In the post you're replying to, I identified "the group" as Trump Voters.
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 05:49 PM
Mar 2018

Obviously, not all Trump voters are his base. One could reasonably define "his base" as just those kind of people you're describing. That's fine. I'll go along with that. If they are not as you describe, then they're not "his base."

oasis

(49,381 posts)
17. Trump voters/supporters are the dumbasses we can credit for
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:47 PM
Mar 2018

a giant leap backward for America.

Sensible gun legislation, climate change, women's reproductive rights, racial and religious tolerance, economic inequality etc. Giant leap backwards.

There are enough avenues that indulge, promote and embrace their stupidity. Just not here.

MGKrebs

(8,138 posts)
19. I thought we weren't supposed to be advocating executing anyone,
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:52 PM
Mar 2018

even republicans. But I have been corrected on that. It's apparently OK to advocate for executing your political enemies here.
So trying to split hairs about over-generalization is peanuts. Fagedaboudit.
You just have to keep in mind what sandbox you are playing in.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
29. As I recall, you were a big Hillary fan. Are you denying that she was making...
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:12 PM
Mar 2018

... the point that only some Trump voters are deplorable?

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
31. And, God forbid that someone who lines up with and votes with deplorable to elect the king of the de
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:12 PM
Mar 2018

Gets confused for a deplorable.

Poor babies. They must be protected from enduring any of the natural consequences of their choices. Let's change all the rules so that anyone who criticizes them or their companions can be alerted on, harassed, and hidden.

Your obsessive desire to force everyone on this board to adhere to your rather bizarre attachment to people who voted for a racist ass is noted.

genxlib

(5,526 posts)
24. I am not sure it could be enforced as a rule
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:08 PM
Mar 2018

But it does seem like we lack nuance sometimes.

I am a big believer in gray. Nothing is ever black or white.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
35. This takes me back to the Bernie-Hillary supporter wars when posts were getting alerted and hidden
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:19 PM
Mar 2018

left and right.

But this time it would be Trump supporter sympathizers doing the alerting. What could go wrong with that?

gopiscrap

(23,758 posts)
41. no because ALL trump voters are dumb ass shit stains
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:23 PM
Mar 2018

on the ass pimple of mankind and need to crawl back into the racist, ignorant, xenophobic, mysogonistic cave they came out of

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
43. Oh, great, now you've done it. How are we EVER going to get them to vote Democratic if you're so mea
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:26 PM
Mar 2018

to them?!

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
44. Good luck with that. First, we can't say what we think about a certain senator
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:33 PM
Mar 2018

who is constantly bashing Democrats.

And now you want us to walk on eggshells when we discuss trump voters?

Not happening.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
52. And Meanwhile, Hillary, Pelosi and DiFi are fair game from dawn to dusk then all night long
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:01 PM
Mar 2018

But let's make sure we tread very lightly when talking about Trump supporters.

Makes you wonder what's lies beneath.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
58. " Makes you wonder what's lies beneath."
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:25 PM
Mar 2018

Makes you wonder what's lies beneath.
I already know. It's painfully obvious.

I know it's obvious to you as well... only we must both "tread lightly" for obvious reasons and to avoid obvious risks.

Isn't that sad?

Definitely sadder than the hurt feelings of the deplorables that we forgot to hug.

bucolic_frolic

(43,148 posts)
51. This sounds an awful lot like moving to the political center to appear reasonable
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:59 PM
Mar 2018

or lay down your arms. We always lose that way.

I think it would be dumb as a rule. But posters should always filter their posts for credibility, a modicum of respect, and to try to tie down all the loose ends and incontrovertible language so as to innocculate themselves from being skewered by the right.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
54. ugh. No, thank you.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:03 PM
Mar 2018

Last edited Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:36 PM - Edit history (1)

People who voted for Trump are at best a bunch of racist enablers. They're also selfish, shallow and a large chunk of them are bigots.

How about they change to be included in our party, rather than we change to be more inclusive of them.

MGKrebs

(8,138 posts)
65. While a rule like this would be unenforceable, I do respect the sentiment.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:45 PM
Mar 2018

It would be nice if our dialogue could be elevated beyond "all trump supporters should be executed" or something similar, but it ain't going to happen. The members who have the most free time to post and are the most judgmental rule the day.

Sad but true.

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
68. Trolls usually use strict forum rules as a weapon
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:59 PM
Mar 2018

They goad the other person into breaking the forums strict rules on whatever, then the opponent gets banned or admonished.

That's trolling 101.

In fact, as I think about all the forums I participate in, those with the strictest rules (ahem), have the worst trolling problems.

TheBlackAdder

(28,189 posts)
81. I was getting flagged often. I added folks seemingly prone to flagging and haven't been for months.
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 05:10 PM
Mar 2018

Note: I don't ignore anybody, but I did stack my Jury Blacklist with top flaggers who seem to back each other up.
It would be nice if the Jury Blacklist could be extended to 30, instead of the 15 that presently is allowed.

TheBlackAdder

(28,189 posts)
88. Under My Account, there is a tab called Jury Blacklist, you add 15 people you don't want on a jury.
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 07:46 PM
Mar 2018

If someone flags a post you make, there is a reach out for jury candidates to rule on your post. If there are people who you might have not gotten along with, or who you might think are predisposed to vote against you, you can add them to this list and they won't be called on to decide your post's fate.

meadowlander

(4,395 posts)
83. Some things are inherently wrong
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 05:16 PM
Mar 2018

and need to be spoken out against in "all or nothing" terms.

If someone does take an unnuanced position it is usually a trigger for a discussion that tests the statement and then walks it back. That's the whole purpose of a forum like this.

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