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madaboutharry

(40,211 posts)
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:36 PM May 2018

Schneiderman sounds like a dangerous and sick man.

I know that many here want to push back against this, but this alleged behavior is outrageous. Schneiderman is not denying this, he is claiming that it was consensual.

He can not continue in his job as he no longer has credibility. A replacement will continue with the cases in the AG 's office.

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Schneiderman sounds like a dangerous and sick man. (Original Post) madaboutharry May 2018 OP
Gee, thanks for letting us know! Vinnie From Indy May 2018 #1
This is a place where people get to state their opinions. madaboutharry May 2018 #2
As I said, thanks for telling us all how to think Vinnie From Indy May 2018 #3
I don't see where the OP told anyone how to think n/t FreeState May 2018 #7
"He can not continue in his job as he no longer has credibility." Vinnie From Indy May 2018 #10
Someone statIng their opinion on du is telling everyone how to think? Are you series? uppityperson May 2018 #16
Not seeing it at all n/t FreeState May 2018 #35
You might want to read the article in the New Yorker. yardwork May 2018 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author spooky3 May 2018 #25
Yes. Sorry. Fixed my post. yardwork May 2018 #26
Really. Thanks. elleng May 2018 #32
The OP didn't tell you or anyone else how to think. Blue_true May 2018 #33
I want evidence Matthew28 May 2018 #4
He floated what is called an "affirmative defense" jberryhill May 2018 #27
If Schneiderman is not denying this Eko May 2018 #5
It's alleged that it was not consensual madville May 2018 #9
Then he is denying it. Eko May 2018 #14
It is alleged that it wasn't consensual. madaboutharry May 2018 #12
I think the way you framed it was incorrect. Eko May 2018 #17
I was told in another thread that enjoying physical and verbal abuse of women madville May 2018 #6
There is a difference between sex game and rape DonCoquixote May 2018 #19
Exactly. uppityperson May 2018 #23
For some reason. Blue_true May 2018 #34
well DonCoquixote May 2018 #36
If it's consensual, then it is fine. 2 consenting adults can engage in a large variety of sex play uppityperson May 2018 #21
Some forms of consent should be written jberryhill May 2018 #29
Exactly EffieBlack May 2018 #30
that is why DonCoquixote May 2018 #31
And consent can be stopped at any moment uppityperson May 2018 #40
sorry BUT.... chillfactor May 2018 #8
Jane Mayer and Ronan Farrow are excellent journalists - and we believed them when EffieBlack May 2018 #15
They seem credible madville May 2018 #18
I agree EffieBlack May 2018 #11
This message was self-deleted by its author sheshe2 May 2018 #20
I recommend that you read the New Yorker article. yardwork May 2018 #22
He just resigned uppityperson May 2018 #24
Scheinderman resigns sabbat hunter May 2018 #28
Preet would be an excellent choice. roamer65 May 2018 #37
Legislature is going to be picking the next AG. LisaL May 2018 #38
term is up sabbat hunter May 2018 #39

Vinnie From Indy

(10,820 posts)
10. "He can not continue in his job as he no longer has credibility."
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:49 PM
May 2018

I guess you missed this part of the OP.

Response to yardwork (Reply #13)

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
27. He floated what is called an "affirmative defense"
Mon May 7, 2018, 10:05 PM
May 2018

He admits beating them up, but says it was consensual.

He’s an attorney. You get that sort of consent in the form of tangible evidence.

madville

(7,410 posts)
9. It's alleged that it was not consensual
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:48 PM
May 2018

He says it was consensual.

He is not denying that he enjoys physically and verbally abusing women. His argument is that they all liked it.

madaboutharry

(40,211 posts)
12. It is alleged that it wasn't consensual.
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:50 PM
May 2018

The women have said the physical abuse was not consensual, which is what Schneiderman is claiming.

Eko

(7,299 posts)
17. I think the way you framed it was incorrect.
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:54 PM
May 2018

"I know that many here want to push back against this, but this alleged behavior is outrageous. Schneiderman is not denying this, he is claiming that it was consensual. "
Obviously he is denying the behavior, namely that it was not consensual.

madville

(7,410 posts)
6. I was told in another thread that enjoying physical and verbal abuse of women
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:47 PM
May 2018

is fine as long as they like it, it is consensual and was done in private. Some people will defend anything that has a (D) beside it apparently.



DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
19. There is a difference between sex game and rape
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:54 PM
May 2018

But as any dominatrix worth her salt will tell you, anyone that cannot tell the difference between a game two people play and wanting to hurt people for real needs to be run out and ratter out, no questions. There is a mantra: safe, sane and consensual.

If this person stopped trying to be safe, sane AND consensual, they need to be dealt with to the fullest extent of the law. This is not an attempt to marginalize the leather lovers, as they would be the first to rip into people like this. I still remember telling me how she would scare off people who even had a hint of rape, where the club members would warn the person that if he was seen around the club. not only would the cops get him, but that they would gladly show a lot of the nastier tricks they would do to a rapist (I cannot get into detail, but they involved uses of a spoon that ruined Tea forever.)

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
34. For some reason.
Mon May 7, 2018, 10:28 PM
May 2018

Being tied up with an apple in my mouth and someone lashing my ass with a whip just doesn't do it for me, not remotely so.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
36. well
Mon May 7, 2018, 11:00 PM
May 2018

different strokes for different folkd, but I assure you, those who act responsible would find a way to ensure things were not an irresponsible mess.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
21. If it's consensual, then it is fine. 2 consenting adults can engage in a large variety of sex play
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:56 PM
May 2018

Or more than 2. Consensual between adults, their political party doesn't matter.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
29. Some forms of consent should be written
Mon May 7, 2018, 10:06 PM
May 2018

What kind of a jackass does that, in his position, without tangible evidence of consent.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
31. that is why
Mon May 7, 2018, 10:11 PM
May 2018

many people do this in clubs, where there are very watchful people who act as a safety net.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
15. Jane Mayer and Ronan Farrow are excellent journalists - and we believed them when
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:53 PM
May 2018

they covered Weinstein.

Schneiderman isn't denying he likes abusing women. He's just saying they let him do it.

He needs to go.

madville

(7,410 posts)
18. They seem credible
Mon May 7, 2018, 09:54 PM
May 2018

He's not denying any of this occurred. He is saying the physical and verbal abuse was consensual, that they agreed to it and willingly took part. They say they did not, that he surprised them with it, all have a similar stories of his excessive drinking and then surprise verbal and physical abuse.

Response to madaboutharry (Original post)

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
38. Legislature is going to be picking the next AG.
Mon May 7, 2018, 11:10 PM
May 2018

So it really doesn't matter who the excellent choice is.

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