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To those who are still upset that Eric Schneiderman had to resign... (Original Post) brooklynite May 2018 OP
If the BDSM relationship was consensual solara May 2018 #1
its a rare BDSM relationship where women are hit in the face with fists Hamlette May 2018 #3
The article said he slapped them, not punched them. But he slapped them hard enough to leave tblue37 May 2018 #4
He was not even in a relationship with one of them. Ms. Toad May 2018 #5
The question I answered seemed to be a general question solara May 2018 #7
Hell no. TheCowsCameHome May 2018 #2
I don't live in NY, so it's not my issue. herding cats May 2018 #6

solara

(3,836 posts)
1. If the BDSM relationship was consensual
Tue May 8, 2018, 10:24 PM
May 2018

I would not have a problem with it.

I am only upset Schneiderman had to resign because he was holding PINO trump's feet to the fire. I hope his replacement can and will do the same.



Hamlette

(15,411 posts)
3. its a rare BDSM relationship where women are hit in the face with fists
Tue May 8, 2018, 10:39 PM
May 2018

which I understand was part of the allegations. Did she use the safe word? This sure doesn't sound like a "healthy" BDSM relationship to me.

tblue37

(65,340 posts)
4. The article said he slapped them, not punched them. But he slapped them hard enough to leave
Tue May 8, 2018, 11:57 PM
May 2018

marks the next day, and it was not consensual.

He choked them, too. Choking is one of the worst signs in domestic abuse--one closely correlated with eventual escalation to homicide.

Apparently he also humiliated and demeaned them, and he threatened them.

The article was horrifying.

Ms. Toad

(34,066 posts)
5. He was not even in a relationship with one of them.
Tue May 8, 2018, 11:59 PM
May 2018

So I don't think the women's use of safe words are really the issue.

solara

(3,836 posts)
7. The question I answered seemed to be a general question
Wed May 9, 2018, 04:36 PM
May 2018

"would you really want to have a candidate who acknowledges a BDSM relationship with multiple women running for re-election?"

I don't think a BDSM relationship is unhealthy as I said, if it is consensual. This Schneiderman situation does not seem at all consensual, so I am not sorry to see him go. I only hope his replacement believes strongly in the Rule of Law and will not give in to PINO trump in any way.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
6. I don't live in NY, so it's not my issue.
Wed May 9, 2018, 12:02 AM
May 2018

I'm more than happy to let those who live there argue this one. I have more than enough local matters to deal with where I am without borrowing yours.

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