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Stinky The Clown

(67,798 posts)
Sat May 26, 2018, 08:07 AM May 2018

Holidays have meanings. "Happy Memorial Day" is this holiday's antithesis.

Monday we observe Memorial Day. Please keep in mind what the day is about; its meaning. We are remembering not military who get thanked for their service when we meet them on the street, but military who died while engaged with an enemy in actions ordered by their commander in chief.

THIS is Memorial Day:











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Holidays have meanings. "Happy Memorial Day" is this holiday's antithesis. (Original Post) Stinky The Clown May 2018 OP
"Happy Memorial Day" is akin to "Happy Good Friday". no_hypocrisy May 2018 #1
B-b-but all the sales on mattresses and patio grills! Dave Starsky May 2018 #2
When I was a child growing up in a very small town in Nebraska, this holiday was known as DrDan May 2018 #3
We made a trip to Fort Leavenworth tazkcmo May 2018 #4
A much needed reminder. Lars39 May 2018 #5
Exactly. Thank you. 3catwoman3 May 2018 #6
Maybe Ivanka will grace us by giving us her famous champagne smirkymonkey May 2018 #7

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
2. B-b-but all the sales on mattresses and patio grills!
Sat May 26, 2018, 08:20 AM
May 2018

That puts a little joy in it, don't you think?

How about free popcorn and suckers for the kids?

DrDan

(20,411 posts)
3. When I was a child growing up in a very small town in Nebraska, this holiday was known as
Sat May 26, 2018, 08:23 AM
May 2018

Decoration Day.

We would, as a family, gather with my grandparents and visit the local graves of relatives where we would mow, weed and otherwise "decorate". We would pack a large picnic basket and make a day of it.

Now, as a Monday Holiday, it is little more than a day away from work.

tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
4. We made a trip to Fort Leavenworth
Sat May 26, 2018, 08:30 AM
May 2018

And did the same at the graveyard there. Wasn't a lot of mindless backyard barbecuing and beer-guzzling although that was a major part every other weekend.

3catwoman3

(23,975 posts)
6. Exactly. Thank you.
Sat May 26, 2018, 10:22 AM
May 2018

"Happy Memorial Day," just sounds insensitive.

I pointed this out to one of the staff nurses at my practice yesterday, when she said it to me. Well intended, without a doubt. She said she had never really considered that and seemed to respect my explanation. She is probably about half my age, and has never been in the military. I'm 67 and was in the AF nurse corps for 4 yr of active duty and 8 in the reserves.

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