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I have had her for almost a week. There has been progress. The first day she found a couple of hidey holes and stayed in them. She was using the litterbox and eating so I took that as a good sign.
I know where her hiding places are but Im leaving them alone. I think everything has been hard on her and she needs a safe place.
Saturday I began staying in her room. I had a pillow and I took naps at times. She began to come out and check on me. Then on Monday she stayed put right outside of a hidey hole. She let me pet her and she LOVED that. I have learned not to make sudden movements and to let her see my hands.
Now she will come out when I go in the room and call her. I will pet her some and then sit on the floor. She is now coming down to be with me. She wants pets and tummy rubs. She has been purring for several days now.
Tater has apparently decided that either she should be in the room supervising or I should be with her all the time. Miss Potato flung a huge fit and scared Butterbean into hiding. I have no idea what Tater was saying. Moonpie is still chill about all of it.
I will introduce Bb to them in a few days. I can tell that Butterbean wants me to stay and pet her. I think she is getting tired of being in there and alone.
I used my Ipad to take these photos. She was very leery of it. In one, she is a nanosecond from disappearing. In the other she is coming towards me.
I think that everything has gone as well as can be expected. So on we go.
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Butterbean really seems to want to leave the room. I will start letting her meet M & T.
I am taking her to the vet for a general checkup. I want to make sure there is nothing that might be wrong that could be passed to the others. She has a lot if nasal discharge but its clear and she acts fine. She eats a lot.
This should be interesting.
Moonpie on the right. Tater on the left.
Floyd R. Turbo
(28,205 posts)Are_grits_groceries
(17,111 posts)I did not want to see that.
mcar
(43,176 posts)All your babies are precious.
Used to be a Southern food buffet near us called The Speckled Butterbean. Hated seeing it go out of business. The food was amazing.
sprinkleeninow
(20,443 posts)Yeah, they hide for awhile, then venture out eventually. As long as she's eating. Good girl!
These do my heart well! 💓 Thx.
💙🇺🇸🌊
malaise
(274,721 posts)Demovictory9
(33,107 posts)GoCubsGo
(32,746 posts)As are her new siblings. It sounds like she is making good progress. Hope the vet trip goes well.
RandomAccess
(5,210 posts)AFAIC (no expert here, by any means), that's a tremendous leap forward.
You're doing great, I think.
Ohiogal
(33,635 posts)IcyPeas
(22,287 posts)Butterbean is gorgeous. look at those toesies.
Are_grits_groceries
(17,111 posts)I am trying. She calls the shots. I try not to spook her and she is becoming less and less skittish.
I am not sure about the vet visit but I want to give her a chance to meet the others. I really dont want to do that until she has an exam.
I dont think my bro ever took them to the vet. He was really having problems because he used to make sure his cats were checked. Makes me sad.
Hopefully, she can meet the other two.
Spontaneous combustion.
IcyPeas
(22,287 posts)there are articles regarding the best way to do this. sounds like you are already on the right track. Ask at the vet's office too for their advice. but these articles are great and may give you some ideas as to what to do and not do. Best of luck for all these beautiful kitty cats. You'll only get one chance to do it right and patience is key (jackson galaxy says you have to do it on the cats' time, not yours). Please give us updates (with pictures of course).
https://bestfriends.org/resources/introducing-new-cat
https://www.jacksongalaxy.com/blog/how-to-introduce-two-cats/
janx
(24,128 posts)Do you use the link button or just paste the link from imgur or photobucket?