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Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
Thu May 31, 2018, 03:42 PM May 2018

Butterbean

Butterbean
I have had her for almost a week. There has been progress. The first day she found a couple of hidey holes and stayed in them. She was using the litterbox and eating so I took that as a good sign.
I know where her hiding places are but I’m leaving them alone. I think everything has been hard on her and she needs a safe place.
Saturday I began staying in her room. I had a pillow and I took naps at times. She began to come out and check on me. Then on Monday she stayed put right outside of a hidey hole. She let me pet her and she LOVED that. I have learned not to make sudden movements and to let her see my hands.
Now she will come out when I go in the room and call her. I will pet her some and then sit on the floor. She is now coming down to be with me. She wants pets and tummy rubs. She has been purring for several days now.
Tater has apparently decided that either she should be in the room supervising or I should be with her all the time. Miss Potato flung a huge fit and scared Butterbean into hiding. I have no idea what Tater was saying. Moonpie is still chill about all of it.
I will introduce Bb to them in a few days. I can tell that Butterbean wants me to stay and pet her. I think she is getting tired of being in there and alone.
I used my Ipad to take these photos. She was very leery of it. In one, she is a nanosecond from disappearing. In the other she is coming towards me.
I think that everything has gone as well as can be expected. So on we go.

More:
Butterbean really seems to want to leave the room. I will start letting her meet M & T.
I am taking her to the vet for a general checkup. I want to make sure there is nothing that might be wrong that could be passed to the others. She has a lot if nasal discharge but it’s clear and she acts fine. She eats a lot.
This should be interesting.




Moonpie on the right. Tater on the left.

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Butterbean (Original Post) Are_grits_groceries May 2018 OP
I thought this was going to be about,..... Floyd R. Turbo May 2018 #1
Please post a warning. Are_grits_groceries May 2018 #3
Aww, beautiful kitty! mcar May 2018 #2
Ooh ooh ooh! Beauties! Cuties! sprinkleeninow May 2018 #4
Too gorgeous malaise May 2018 #5
crazy color patterns on her fur. lol Demovictory9 May 2018 #6
She is a beautiful kitty! GoCubsGo May 2018 #7
SO GREAT she loves being petted -- RandomAccess May 2018 #8
What a gorgeous bunch! Ohiogal May 2018 #9
you're doing it right. inch by inch IcyPeas May 2018 #10
Thanks! Are_grits_groceries May 2018 #11
"how to introduce a new cat".... IcyPeas May 2018 #12
How do you post pics that show up as pics instead of links? janx May 2018 #13
Love that face! AwakeAtLast May 2018 #14

mcar

(42,307 posts)
2. Aww, beautiful kitty!
Thu May 31, 2018, 03:47 PM
May 2018

All your babies are precious.

Used to be a Southern food buffet near us called The Speckled Butterbean. Hated seeing it go out of business. The food was amazing.

sprinkleeninow

(20,242 posts)
4. Ooh ooh ooh! Beauties! Cuties!
Thu May 31, 2018, 04:01 PM
May 2018

Yeah, they hide for awhile, then venture out eventually. As long as she's eating. Good girl!

These do my heart well! 💓 Thx.

💙🇺🇸🌊

GoCubsGo

(32,080 posts)
7. She is a beautiful kitty!
Thu May 31, 2018, 04:19 PM
May 2018

As are her new siblings. It sounds like she is making good progress. Hope the vet trip goes well.

 

RandomAccess

(5,210 posts)
8. SO GREAT she loves being petted --
Thu May 31, 2018, 04:40 PM
May 2018

AFAIC (no expert here, by any means), that's a tremendous leap forward.

You're doing great, I think.

Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
11. Thanks!
Thu May 31, 2018, 05:13 PM
May 2018

I am trying. She calls the shots. I try not to spook her and she is becoming less and less skittish.
I am not sure about the vet visit but I want to give her a chance to meet the others. I really don’t want to do that until she has an exam.
I don’t think my bro ever took them to the vet. He was really having problems because he used to make sure his cats were checked. Makes me sad.
Hopefully, she can meet the other two.
Spontaneous combustion.

IcyPeas

(21,863 posts)
12. "how to introduce a new cat"....
Thu May 31, 2018, 06:37 PM
May 2018

there are articles regarding the best way to do this. sounds like you are already on the right track. Ask at the vet's office too for their advice. but these articles are great and may give you some ideas as to what to do and not do. Best of luck for all these beautiful kitty cats. You'll only get one chance to do it right and patience is key (jackson galaxy says you have to do it on the cats' time, not yours). Please give us updates (with pictures of course).

https://bestfriends.org/resources/introducing-new-cat

https://www.jacksongalaxy.com/blog/how-to-introduce-two-cats/

janx

(24,128 posts)
13. How do you post pics that show up as pics instead of links?
Thu May 31, 2018, 06:44 PM
May 2018

Do you use the link button or just paste the link from imgur or photobucket?

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