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About the tv commercials this time of year: have you ever received or given a CAR as a (Original Post) Atticus Nov 2018 OP
No. And yes. onenote Nov 2018 #1
In 1998 I bought my wife a Jeep Cherokee for Christmas. spanone Nov 2018 #2
No and No. Ohiogal Nov 2018 #3
A giant expensive surprise like that would not result in smiles at my house. lagomorph777 Nov 2018 #43
Good point Rorey Nov 2018 #52
It's really not possible... brooklynite Nov 2018 #4
What then is the relevant and resultant difference in regards to it being a gift? LanternWaste Nov 2018 #15
Nonsense. Hassin Bin Sober Nov 2018 #54
Yes regnaD kciN Nov 2018 #5
I often wonder who these commercials are for. Initech Nov 2018 #48
No malaise Nov 2018 #6
I really dislike those commercials RT Atlanta Nov 2018 #7
See Below RT ProfessorGAC Nov 2018 #19
LOL RT Atlanta Nov 2018 #38
I bought my wife a Cadillac for Valentines day. gibraltar72 Nov 2018 #8
I HATE those commercials! Have for years! Greybnk48 Nov 2018 #9
My parents bought me one years ago Midnightwalk Nov 2018 #10
I had a friend who would give new cars to everyone @ the holidays ! lunasun Nov 2018 #36
Ads are selling an aspirational lifestyle, not realistic? THE HELL YOU SAY. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2018 #11
I sold cars for a couple years during the 80s and sold many cars for Christmas delivery TeamPooka Nov 2018 #12
I'd guess at least some of those "gift" cars were planned car purchases anyway, just timed highplainsdem Nov 2018 #17
Most of them were Dads trying to surprise family members TeamPooka Nov 2018 #27
I've never given one for Christmas, but did give one as a birthday present many years ago. highplainsdem Nov 2018 #13
Only if you count Hot Wheels and Hess trucks. JHB Nov 2018 #14
Asked my wife last night, who the hell can afford 2 brand new pickup trucks for x-mas? jcgoldie Nov 2018 #16
Third One! ProfessorGAC Nov 2018 #21
That one sends me running for the remote as well utopian Nov 2018 #29
Well they are offering 20% discounts on them.... Historic NY Nov 2018 #53
I'm With You ProfessorGAC Nov 2018 #18
Not for Xmas mercuryblues Nov 2018 #20
Cars aren't just for Christmas.... OnDoutside Nov 2018 #22
Nope Olafjoy Nov 2018 #23
Mazda.... Chipper Chat Nov 2018 #24
My grandparents bought my mother a car. Aristus Nov 2018 #25
That and the jewelry commercials are foreign to me Marrah_Goodman Nov 2018 #26
Yes! regnaD kciN Nov 2018 #30
and I really hate that they equate jewelry for love Marrah_Goodman Nov 2018 #34
Never for Christmas and never brand new. Zing Zing Zingbah Nov 2018 #28
Not as a Christmas gift, but as a gift, yes. bearsfootball516 Nov 2018 #31
Nope. MrsCoffee Nov 2018 #32
I haven't, but.. luvs2sing Nov 2018 #33
I received a used beater Jeep for my birthday, not Xmas. Thomas Hurt Nov 2018 #35
No, but the ads make me want to look at new cars. jalan48 Nov 2018 #37
And the MSRP sticker makes me want to stop exboyfil Nov 2018 #42
That's the smart way to do it. I didn't own my first car until I was 31. The back floorboards jalan48 Nov 2018 #55
Does a motorcycle count? Runningdawg Nov 2018 #39
Yes, yes and yes GusBob Nov 2018 #40
Platforms for oil/gas consumption.. .. pretzel4gore Nov 2018 #41
I haven't SoCalNative Nov 2018 #44
I have given a car as a gift fescuerescue Nov 2018 #45
Yep. You saved me a whole bunch of typing. Hassin Bin Sober Nov 2018 #51
used car yes and yes dembotoz Nov 2018 #46
I got one as a gift once. Codeine Nov 2018 #47
Yes zipplewrath Nov 2018 #49
No and no. Initech Nov 2018 #50
Nope and not likely to. MuseRider Nov 2018 #56

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
43. A giant expensive surprise like that would not result in smiles at my house.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:03 PM
Nov 2018

I don't know what kind of marriages TV people have, but they are apparently quite different from those on this side of the screen.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
52. Good point
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:16 PM
Nov 2018

Buying big ticket items that involve the family finances shouldn't be a surprise, IMO. Owning a brand new vehicle is definitely not at the top of my list of priorities.

brooklynite

(94,546 posts)
4. It's really not possible...
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 10:20 AM
Nov 2018

Cars require State registration and you can't register one in someone's name without their knowledge. What you're really doing is buying one for yourself and then transferring the title later.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,326 posts)
54. Nonsense.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:31 PM
Nov 2018

Wives sign for their husbands. Husbands sign for their wives. Parents sign for their kids. I used to manage the business department of a large dealer group. It’s done all the time.

The dealer can hold up title paperwork to add or change a name or send it through as-is depending on the circumstances. For instance, we would never finance a car without all the signatures. But a cash deal? Meh.

That said, I can count on one hand the times cars were purchased as surprise type gifts.

I once drove a car to Schenectady New York for a Doctor buying a Buick Park Avenue for his parents as a surprise . We couldn’t find anyone to transport it on short notice so I said fuck it and drove it out there with my dad. My dad was retired from American Airlines so we flew back on his privileges. We had a blast - and got paid by the Doc.

regnaD kciN

(26,044 posts)
5. Yes
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 10:25 AM
Nov 2018

In 1980, my parents gave my wife and I (both in our early 20s) a car to replace our old Corvair that, after a long and noble life, was literally rusting out. They didn’t actually give us a car in the driveway with a bow on it; they just pledged up to $5,000 for the purchase of one we’d decide on, which turned out to be a Toyota Tercel.

With current new car prices starting in the $20-$30K range, and the ones that show up in ads with a big red bow on top being closer to $40-$50K range, I really can’t imagine anyone outside the 1% being able to do so any more.

Initech

(100,070 posts)
48. I often wonder who these commercials are for.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:07 PM
Nov 2018

And my favorite right now is Honda where they just flat out say "Hey remember how much joy you got when you got that car for your present last year? Do it again!". Hey, you still owe $32,000 on that loan you took out, so why not make it $64,000? Someone's got to pay for these cars!

I also love the Hyundai commercials where they're like "find your perfect present at your local Hyundai store today!". Uh no, your dealers are not stores.

malaise

(268,993 posts)
6. No
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 10:28 AM
Nov 2018

The funniest car gift ever was A man sending a spanking new red Jaguar to his wife's office on Valentine's Day on a tow truck complete with a bow. It was quite the circus.
Of course every rational person suspected that he was having a major affair and this was just for show.
They were correct - after all the TV and newspaper coverage, the wife discovered that he was having an affair with a woman 25 years his junior. She filed for divorce - kept the car and took the house.

RT Atlanta

(2,517 posts)
7. I really dislike those commercials
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 10:29 AM
Nov 2018

They just scream of 'white monied privilege' to me (and I'm a white dude). Rarely is there anything resembling folks other than whites.
Like you note, who in the hell has the $$ to give a freakin' car for X-mas?

The most egregious of those commercials is the one that from GMC where there is a 30ish yrs old white couple, made to look like they live in this fancy contemporary house (which would easily cost in the high hundreds of k to low millions in parts of ATL) where the guy purchases a GMC truck and SUV for he and his spouse (which I presume would add up to another $50-70k worth of vehicles). Isnt everything just lovely....

VOMIT.....

ProfessorGAC

(65,021 posts)
19. See Below RT
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:16 AM
Nov 2018

I mentioned that same commercial. On top of that, she takes the truck he bought for himself and then at the end says "Well, i like red."

They're so spoiled that they had to debate over which brand new car was for one vs. the other.

Entitled to the max.

gibraltar72

(7,503 posts)
8. I bought my wife a Cadillac for Valentines day.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 10:31 AM
Nov 2018

Parked it sideways in driveway with a red bow on the door before she came home from work.

Greybnk48

(10,168 posts)
9. I HATE those commercials! Have for years!
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 10:31 AM
Nov 2018

It always shows young married couples, with perfect white kids, ending up outside of their multi-million dollar home. What a slap in the face to most other people.

We're not bad off financially, but these ads are such a sham they're like fingernails on a blackboard for me. I was just raving about the new Mercedes SUV ad last night with the smug 30 something white couple, 2 perfect daughters, and the wife asking why he put miles on her new SUV as she's parked outside of their multi-million dollar mountain home, probably just for getaways.

I hate how they must make other people feel.

Midnightwalk

(3,131 posts)
10. My parents bought me one years ago
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 10:40 AM
Nov 2018

Color was great and it was FAST

I'm pretty sure it was a Lamborghini but I'm not sure. It was a long time ago.

[link:http://matchbox.wikia.com/wiki/File:6920_Lamborghini_Marzal_R.JPG|]

seriously though I wouldn't give anything that expensive as a present. I think the ads don't necessarily target people shopping for presents. If they get people thinking of getting a new car they worked. Jewelry ads may not care if you buy a huge diamond for xmas so long as they get you thinking about buying jewelry.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
36. I had a friend who would give new cars to everyone @ the holidays !
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:50 AM
Nov 2018

I bought you a new car he would tell all -matchbox of course

TeamPooka

(24,225 posts)
12. I sold cars for a couple years during the 80s and sold many cars for Christmas delivery
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:00 AM
Nov 2018

intended as gifts. Usually for wives, daughters, or sons.

highplainsdem

(48,975 posts)
17. I'd guess at least some of those "gift" cars were planned car purchases anyway, just timed
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:12 AM
Nov 2018

to turn them into a gift and make them seem more special.

highplainsdem

(48,975 posts)
13. I've never given one for Christmas, but did give one as a birthday present many years ago.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:07 AM
Nov 2018

Couldn't afford to do it now.

jcgoldie

(11,631 posts)
16. Asked my wife last night, who the hell can afford 2 brand new pickup trucks for x-mas?
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:11 AM
Nov 2018

"I like red."

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
53. Well they are offering 20% discounts on them....
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:27 PM
Nov 2018

some places even better. I know people that would jump to change, just for the color, yup, color. His answer its turned out to be 70 dollars cheaper than his current one. (that he still owed 3 yrs on.)

I worked with a guy the same thing he changed them faster than you would buy underwear. Such a deal he'd say. I'd reminder him that there is tax of 8 3/4 percent, tags, and refinancing fees. So such a deal really isn't, in their minds it is.

ProfessorGAC

(65,021 posts)
18. I'm With You
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:14 AM
Nov 2018

The new GMC commercial where the guy says he got both of them something for black friday and it's two cars!

Of course, the kitchen they're in at the beginning is big enough to land a plane in, and the front entry way looks like the entrance to a Niemann-Marcus.

So that might answer the question.

Notice that MANY of them are for high end vehicles. I don't see these ads for the starter models.

Lexus, Mercedes, BMW, GMC, Inifinty, etc. I haven't seen one for Kia or Hyundai.

mercuryblues

(14,531 posts)
20. Not for Xmas
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:17 AM
Nov 2018

but yes and yes.

We bought one for our daughter her junior year in collage. She got a full ride scholarship and saved us at least 60-80,000 in tuition. So we bought her a Cobalt when her car was getting ready to blow the transmission.

The reveal was epic. Even better than what they advertise in these commercials.


A few years ago my husband was looking for a new truck and the salesman was not budging an inch. Which pissed us off, we had bought several cars from him. I whispered to my husband, My birthday is in a few days, let's go and by me a new car. He said let's go. I wasn't about to tell him I was joking, I was getting a new car. The morning of my birthday it was in the driveway with a huge bow on it.

Aristus

(66,348 posts)
25. My grandparents bought my mother a car.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:34 AM
Nov 2018

It was just after my parents had separated, and my dad had skipped town with the entire bank account. My mother and we kids were doing everything we could to keep our heads above water. (My dad didn't bother to pay the mortgage with the money he left with, natch...) I was working three jobs, delivering papers in the mornings before school, McDonald's after school, and caddying golf on the weekends.

My grandparents, who had a comfortable retirement but were not spectacularly well-off, bought my mother a bare-bones, standard Ford Escort so we could at least get around.

It didn't show up in the driveway with a big bow on it like in the commercials. But it was still a much-appreciated gift.

Marrah_Goodman

(1,586 posts)
26. That and the jewelry commercials are foreign to me
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:34 AM
Nov 2018

I just don't live in that world. I am not surrounded by anyone who does.

regnaD kciN

(26,044 posts)
30. Yes!
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:41 AM
Nov 2018

The notion that Christmas is the perfect time to get engaged really puzzles me. There’s even a store in town that’s running a “From Merry to Marry” ad campaign.

Marrah_Goodman

(1,586 posts)
34. and I really hate that they equate jewelry for love
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:46 AM
Nov 2018

Like... if no one is buying you expensive jewelry then you are obviously not really loved. I hate Christmas commercials and am glad I gave up cable tv.

Zing Zing Zingbah

(6,496 posts)
28. Never for Christmas and never brand new.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:37 AM
Nov 2018

My dad gave me his old car when I was teenager and then I gave him one my old cars a few years ago. I have another old vehicle to give to my son when he gets a license.

bearsfootball516

(6,377 posts)
31. Not as a Christmas gift, but as a gift, yes.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:41 AM
Nov 2018

My father in law bought my mother in law a new car as s surprise gift when she gave birth to their first child.

luvs2sing

(2,220 posts)
33. I haven't, but..
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:42 AM
Nov 2018

a couple years ago, a friend gave his two adopted sons a (gently used) car for a Christmas. The whole story behind his adoption of these two high-risk teenagers is heart melting, and the gift was perfect. There wasn’t a dry eye to be found. ❤️

Thomas Hurt

(13,903 posts)
35. I received a used beater Jeep for my birthday, not Xmas.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:47 AM
Nov 2018

Drove it through most of college. I would never have learned any mechanic skills if I had owned a new shiny car.

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
42. And the MSRP sticker makes me want to stop
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:02 PM
Nov 2018

I was looking at our bulletin board at work at 5+ year old cars going for $15K. A coworker asked me if I saw anything interesting. I said I pray my 2002 Cavalier and 2009 HHR keep on running.

Never received a car. Never gave a car. Did not have a car in college. Worked 8 months before I bought my first car (I waked to work). Neither kid got cars from me. My oldest didn't have a car while she was off to college, and my youngest drove one of our two cars back and forth to college and work (the college and hospital are next to each other). I tell my youngest to defer the car purchase for as long as possible. My oldest bought a 2000 Corolla from her aunt.

I plan to go down to one car when I retire, and, if it was just me, I would go without a car after I retire.

jalan48

(13,864 posts)
55. That's the smart way to do it. I didn't own my first car until I was 31. The back floorboards
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:34 PM
Nov 2018

of that car were rusted out so you could see the road underneath as you sat there. I'm with you on having one car. I hope my Prius makes it that long.

Runningdawg

(4,516 posts)
39. Does a motorcycle count?
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 11:58 AM
Nov 2018

Last year for Christmas my BIL gave my husband a 3 month old Honda Shadow 750 because his wife gave him a new Harley.

GusBob

(7,286 posts)
40. Yes, yes and yes
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:00 PM
Nov 2018

It's a great gift in my opinion as it is the least expected.

ETA: it also is the most functional and longest lasting. Now that I think about all the gifts are still being used by the recepients, in one case 7 years ago

 

pretzel4gore

(8,146 posts)
41. Platforms for oil/gas consumption.. ..
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:01 PM
Nov 2018

You (we) have been had. By 1960, 90% of autos would've been electric powered (using compressed air dynamo battaries) and many hundreds of billions/tonnes of carbon still in situ, where god put the oil. Technically, we would have ended poverty and built colonies in the moon etc by now, but ....
Otoh, who's complaining? We've had a good go, and the future can spend the hundred trillions $ s to clean up our shit (if they wanna) and the war on drugs etc is necessary to morals etc
Merry xmas

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
45. I have given a car as a gift
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:05 PM
Nov 2018

But not at Christmas.

The ads, btw are not really about giving cars as gifts. That's just the surface appearance and they make for cute commercials.

The ads are about keeping the car/product fresh in everyones minds, so that when they do go to buy a car, it's top of mind, has nice things associated with it and you'll consider it.

The manufacturers don't give a rip if its a gift. They just want to sell you a car, the next time you are in the market for a car. Hence the ads are directed at ALL car buyers.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,326 posts)
51. Yep. You saved me a whole bunch of typing.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:15 PM
Nov 2018

I ran the business department of a large dealer group. This is the dead time of year. Especially closer to Christmas when the snow is pilling up on the windows the salespeople are staring out.

And hey, why not, maybe someone will get the bug up their ass and splurge on themselves.

dembotoz

(16,803 posts)
46. used car yes and yes
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:06 PM
Nov 2018

sometimes a clunker gives its last clunk

and a family member steps up and helps out

much more needed gift than a sweater

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
47. I got one as a gift once.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:06 PM
Nov 2018

1/35 scale Corvette, complete with a tube of brain-melting model glue and some paints. Being 11 was great.

Initech

(100,070 posts)
50. No and no.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:10 PM
Nov 2018

Those ads are ridiculous though and they get more ridiculous every year. They're symbols of excess.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
56. Nope and not likely to.
Thu Nov 29, 2018, 12:48 PM
Nov 2018

Actually, could not afford it and would never do that, it is way overboard for the holiday.

I find many if not most of the advertising these days, all during the year, are targeting people with more money than most of us.

There was one I saw last week. This is your brother-in-law, then it goes on to say many things about the guy but it ends by saying something like, "The only way you could like him more is if you made more money than he did." It was for E Trade I think and I get how that applies but that is just so very tacky but it probably reflects many of their targeted audience. Found it. https://www.ispot.tv/ad/wHqf/etrade-you-like-your-brother-in-law

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