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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsSix years ago my heart broke
I still cry for those innocent sweet girls and boys and their brave caregivers. #sandyhookpromise
JuJuYoshida
(2,217 posts)Was just such a horrible day. Any child that dies at the hands of a madman is just tragic.
Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)I relive it every Dec 14th. I know Facebook isn't that big a deal but I have a lot of friends on there and aside from maybe two other people nobody acknowledges it. I don't understand.
Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)Squinch
(51,084 posts)Six years ago, I almost had a heart attack thinking it was their class that was hit.
To this day I cannot imagine the pain those parents go through.
Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)What's seared in my brain forever is the scene at the firehouse where all the parents waited for word, as each set of parents were told their child was okay. The feelings and emotions of the remaining parents as the crowd whittled down and others were reunited with their children....
Squinch
(51,084 posts)Two things stick with me: Obama crying and the cop talking about what it was.like in the building.
Some of Lanzas journals or something were released recently. What a disgusting slug of a person.
Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)My husband called me that morning just to say hello and tell me he loved me, asked me how I was doing and I snapped at him. I think Lanza was a case of true mental illness, but his mother was a gun extremist and gave her son easy access.
brooklynite
(94,973 posts)Thoughts and prayers.
OldEurope
(1,273 posts)marybourg
(12,648 posts)OldEurope
(1,273 posts)Perhaps my English is to bad for understanding this. But sarcasm on broken hearts? Not ok for me.
marybourg
(12,648 posts)spanone
(135,928 posts)nothing has changed.
sandensea
(21,714 posts)Mention Sandy Hook, and most will rattle off the NRA's conspiracy theories about how "they're still alive", how "Adam Lanza was under MK-Ultra mind control," or whatever other nonsense suits them at any given moment.
spanone
(135,928 posts)Leith
(7,814 posts)In the following days, I realized that cons and rethugs were completely devoid of any human feeling, empathy, or care. As long as they could come up with vicious conspiracy theories and excuses to defend firearms that could do this, they were beyond redemption. The louder they got - and they got much too loud - the more I knew that they would always refuse to see the horror and destruction they shared culpability for. That was the day when I finally realized that there was no reasoning with them, no talking to them, and no finding common ground with them.
Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)but it was the beginning of the crazy that's taken over the country
Bettie
(16,147 posts)I cried all day...tearing up today too.
The families of those kids have to live with that loss every day and it hurts so much to have that hole in your life. It never goes away. Never.
demmiblue
(36,914 posts)Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)as compared to Sept 11th with Bush as president....night and day
LuckyLib
(6,822 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)at that time?
llmart
(15,567 posts)I don't believe I'll ever get over this.
I lay the blame squarely on the fucking NRA who has fought every goddamned sensible gun control initiative for years and who has bought and paid for the fucking congresscritters who look the other way and take the money.
Yeah, I'm mad as hell. After six years what have we done to stop this madness? Did these children die in vain? What kind of a country are we that we keep moving on from one mass shooting to another? Why does the NRA even exist? Why have't we shut them down?
I don't know what to think any more. This is personal for me.
3catwoman3
(24,117 posts)...and cruelty of those who deny Sandy Hook happened is nastiness beyond my comprehension. A hearty FU to those creeps.
NewJeffCT
(56,829 posts)to the person that called in a threat to the Sandy Hook school today.
https://www.cnn.com/2018/12/14/us/sandy-hook-evacuated-threat/index.html
malaise
(269,282 posts)FU
Luciferous
(6,087 posts)My son was a first grader when it happened, and I still remember all of the crying parents hugging their children outside our school at pick up that day. I tear up now thinking of those poor babies.
Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)And on the other side of it this year I became friends with a woman who is good friends, went to college with one of the dads who lost his son. It drives me crazy that those conspiracy psychos make those poor parents lives harder with their cruelty.
Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)Bizarre beyond words. But I try.
Dem2theMax
(9,660 posts)He died that morning, in a hospital, surrounded by professionals, and me sitting there holding his hand. He was 93 years old. I had no idea of what was happening in the world that morning. It wasn't until a cousin sent me a text, to say she was sorry my dad had passed away, and she mentioned the 'horrible thing' that had happened. I didn't know what she was talking about, and I had to ask one of the nurses. She told me about all of these children who had just lost their lives.
I was already sitting there with a broken heart, but my dad got to have 93 wonderful years. And these little kids had their lives taken away.
I woke up this morning, and grief was the first thing I felt. It has been that way for the past six December fourteenths.
I cannot imagine how the parents of those children must feel, and not just on December 14th, but every day of their lives. They were cheated out of everything with their children. When, oh when will the insanity stop?
malaise
(269,282 posts)Sugarcoated
(7,736 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Its almost an automatic reaction now, just thinking of all the victims over the years. The tears are always near the surface. I feel the same way about the children at the border.
rurallib
(62,482 posts)ETA: I think one of the reasons I cry now is that nothing has been done since. School shootings still happen and the gun lobby is still politically huge
malaise
(269,282 posts)johnp3907
(3,736 posts)Kids who are 6 now have no knowledge of a world where something like this seems unthinkable.
aikoaiko
(34,186 posts)In terms of gun control Red Flag laws will probably have the most impact on mass shootings like the Sandy Hook massacre.
Universal background checks may reduce some guns in the criminal use pipeline.
Putting semi-autos on a low-cost NFA type registry would reduce their use and require deeper background checks.