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Six years ago my heart broke (Original Post) Sugarcoated Dec 2018 OP
I cried in my office JuJuYoshida Dec 2018 #1
Yes, beyond sad. Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #2
They would've been twelve today... Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #3
I have a niece and nephew, twins, who were first graders in the OTHER school in that town. Squinch Dec 2018 #4
That must've been so awful to go through Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #10
It was only a half hour getting through to my sister but it almost did me in. Squinch Dec 2018 #13
So many wtfs that day, so horrible I think I went into a mild form of shock Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #33
Sorry, it's too soon to politicize this... brooklynite Dec 2018 #5
I think you should consider to delete your post. /nft OldEurope Dec 2018 #17
Poster forgot the marybourg Dec 2018 #28
I think sarcasm is an inappropriate answer to the OP OldEurope Dec 2018 #36
Yes, Perhaps it is. marybourg Dec 2018 #37
we cry, the republicans yawn. spanone Dec 2018 #6
They yawn, at best. sandensea Dec 2018 #21
they disgust me. spanone Dec 2018 #22
All Our Hearts Broke Leith Dec 2018 #7
Didn't know it at the time Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #35
Those poor babies and the adults as well Bettie Dec 2018 #8
Indeed. demmiblue Dec 2018 #9
I remember being so thankful to have a leader like President Obama to guide us through this Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #11
We once had a President who could feel, and who could say just the right thing. LuckyLib Dec 2018 #14
Could you imagine how much more of a nightmare it would have been if Trump had been president smirkymonkey Dec 2018 #24
OMG! I'm crying again. llmart Dec 2018 #20
As if the loss of one's child were not enough, the absurdity... 3catwoman3 Dec 2018 #12
and, an extra FU NewJeffCT Dec 2018 #15
I want an arrest as well as an malaise Dec 2018 #25
My brother is one of those deniers- I haven't really talked to him since he told me that. Luciferous Dec 2018 #29
So is my BIL Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #34
I know, right? Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #31
My dad, who also happened to be my best friend, died that day. Dem2theMax Dec 2018 #16
Too sad malaise Dec 2018 #26
I'm so very sorry Sugarcoated Dec 2018 #32
I'm crying about it again lunatica Dec 2018 #18
yep me too rurallib Dec 2018 #19
Six years malaise Dec 2018 #23
Most of the victims were 6. johnp3907 Dec 2018 #27
Even as a RKBA DU member, I agree that there are things we can do to reduce gun killings aikoaiko Dec 2018 #30

JuJuYoshida

(2,217 posts)
1. I cried in my office
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 02:41 PM
Dec 2018

Was just such a horrible day. Any child that dies at the hands of a madman is just tragic.

Sugarcoated

(7,736 posts)
2. Yes, beyond sad.
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 02:48 PM
Dec 2018

I relive it every Dec 14th. I know Facebook isn't that big a deal but I have a lot of friends on there and aside from maybe two other people nobody acknowledges it. I don't understand.

Squinch

(51,084 posts)
4. I have a niece and nephew, twins, who were first graders in the OTHER school in that town.
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 03:21 PM
Dec 2018

Six years ago, I almost had a heart attack thinking it was their class that was hit.

To this day I cannot imagine the pain those parents go through.

Sugarcoated

(7,736 posts)
10. That must've been so awful to go through
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 04:13 PM
Dec 2018

What's seared in my brain forever is the scene at the firehouse where all the parents waited for word, as each set of parents were told their child was okay. The feelings and emotions of the remaining parents as the crowd whittled down and others were reunited with their children....

Squinch

(51,084 posts)
13. It was only a half hour getting through to my sister but it almost did me in.
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 04:43 PM
Dec 2018

Two things stick with me: Obama crying and the cop talking about what it was.like in the building.

Some of Lanzas journals or something were released recently. What a disgusting slug of a person.

Sugarcoated

(7,736 posts)
33. So many wtfs that day, so horrible I think I went into a mild form of shock
Sat Dec 15, 2018, 01:33 AM
Dec 2018

My husband called me that morning just to say hello and tell me he loved me, asked me how I was doing and I snapped at him. I think Lanza was a case of true mental illness, but his mother was a gun extremist and gave her son easy access.

OldEurope

(1,273 posts)
36. I think sarcasm is an inappropriate answer to the OP
Sat Dec 15, 2018, 02:53 PM
Dec 2018

Perhaps my English is to bad for understanding this. But sarcasm on broken hearts? Not ok for me.

sandensea

(21,714 posts)
21. They yawn, at best.
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 05:16 PM
Dec 2018

Mention Sandy Hook, and most will rattle off the NRA's conspiracy theories about how "they're still alive", how "Adam Lanza was under MK-Ultra mind control," or whatever other nonsense suits them at any given moment.

Leith

(7,814 posts)
7. All Our Hearts Broke
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 03:41 PM
Dec 2018

In the following days, I realized that cons and rethugs were completely devoid of any human feeling, empathy, or care. As long as they could come up with vicious conspiracy theories and excuses to defend firearms that could do this, they were beyond redemption. The louder they got - and they got much too loud - the more I knew that they would always refuse to see the horror and destruction they shared culpability for. That was the day when I finally realized that there was no reasoning with them, no talking to them, and no finding common ground with them.

Bettie

(16,147 posts)
8. Those poor babies and the adults as well
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 03:44 PM
Dec 2018

I cried all day...tearing up today too.

The families of those kids have to live with that loss every day and it hurts so much to have that hole in your life. It never goes away. Never.

Sugarcoated

(7,736 posts)
11. I remember being so thankful to have a leader like President Obama to guide us through this
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 04:18 PM
Dec 2018

as compared to Sept 11th with Bush as president....night and day

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
24. Could you imagine how much more of a nightmare it would have been if Trump had been president
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 06:10 PM
Dec 2018

at that time?

llmart

(15,567 posts)
20. OMG! I'm crying again.
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 05:05 PM
Dec 2018

I don't believe I'll ever get over this.

I lay the blame squarely on the fucking NRA who has fought every goddamned sensible gun control initiative for years and who has bought and paid for the fucking congresscritters who look the other way and take the money.

Yeah, I'm mad as hell. After six years what have we done to stop this madness? Did these children die in vain? What kind of a country are we that we keep moving on from one mass shooting to another? Why does the NRA even exist? Why have't we shut them down?

I don't know what to think any more. This is personal for me.

3catwoman3

(24,117 posts)
12. As if the loss of one's child were not enough, the absurdity...
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 04:42 PM
Dec 2018

...and cruelty of those who deny Sandy Hook happened is nastiness beyond my comprehension. A hearty FU to those creeps.

Luciferous

(6,087 posts)
29. My brother is one of those deniers- I haven't really talked to him since he told me that.
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 08:00 PM
Dec 2018

My son was a first grader when it happened, and I still remember all of the crying parents hugging their children outside our school at pick up that day. I tear up now thinking of those poor babies.

Sugarcoated

(7,736 posts)
34. So is my BIL
Sat Dec 15, 2018, 01:38 AM
Dec 2018

And on the other side of it this year I became friends with a woman who is good friends, went to college with one of the dads who lost his son. It drives me crazy that those conspiracy psychos make those poor parents lives harder with their cruelty.

Dem2theMax

(9,660 posts)
16. My dad, who also happened to be my best friend, died that day.
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 04:53 PM
Dec 2018

He died that morning, in a hospital, surrounded by professionals, and me sitting there holding his hand. He was 93 years old. I had no idea of what was happening in the world that morning. It wasn't until a cousin sent me a text, to say she was sorry my dad had passed away, and she mentioned the 'horrible thing' that had happened. I didn't know what she was talking about, and I had to ask one of the nurses. She told me about all of these children who had just lost their lives.

I was already sitting there with a broken heart, but my dad got to have 93 wonderful years. And these little kids had their lives taken away.

I woke up this morning, and grief was the first thing I felt. It has been that way for the past six December fourteenths.
I cannot imagine how the parents of those children must feel, and not just on December 14th, but every day of their lives. They were cheated out of everything with their children. When, oh when will the insanity stop?

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
18. I'm crying about it again
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 05:00 PM
Dec 2018

It’s almost an automatic reaction now, just thinking of all the victims over the years. The tears are always near the surface. I feel the same way about the children at the border.

rurallib

(62,482 posts)
19. yep me too
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 05:05 PM
Dec 2018

ETA: I think one of the reasons I cry now is that nothing has been done since. School shootings still happen and the gun lobby is still politically huge

johnp3907

(3,736 posts)
27. Most of the victims were 6.
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 06:30 PM
Dec 2018

Kids who are 6 now have no knowledge of a world where something like this seems unthinkable.

aikoaiko

(34,186 posts)
30. Even as a RKBA DU member, I agree that there are things we can do to reduce gun killings
Fri Dec 14, 2018, 08:41 PM
Dec 2018

In terms of gun control Red Flag laws will probably have the most impact on mass shootings like the Sandy Hook massacre.

Universal background checks may reduce some guns in the criminal use pipeline.

Putting semi-autos on a low-cost NFA type registry would reduce their use and require deeper background checks.

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