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MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 12:23 AM Jan 2019

Today I observe, but not celebrate a special anniversary.

As of today, January 14, 2019, I have been sober for 29 years.

If you're actively abusing substances, the most important day of your recovery is today. The only difference between you and I is that I have a whole bunch of one day at a times under my belt. If I go out and get drunk tomorrow, than I'm back to zero.

If you're afraid of entering into recovery though, please believe that you CAN get here from there.

Hang in there, and thank you for reading.

RESIST!

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Today I observe, but not celebrate a special anniversary. (Original Post) MarianJack Jan 2019 OP
Thanks Tracyjo Jan 2019 #1
Best wishes, always Hekate Jan 2019 #2
Good for you SCantiGOP Jan 2019 #3
My condolences for your one friend and my... MarianJack Jan 2019 #21
A major accomplishment, to be sure. 3catwoman3 Jan 2019 #4
Congratulations on your sobriety, my dear MarianJack! That's a huge milestone. CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2019 #5
Thank you, ... MarianJack Jan 2019 #22
Congratulations!! nt littlemissmartypants Jan 2019 #6
Congratulations! 29 Years of Sobriety is Incredible! dlk Jan 2019 #7
Congratulations, MarianJack. Laffy Kat Jan 2019 #8
I've had enough people tell me, "It's been a while" that I know exactly how impressive 29 years is. Pope George Ringo II Jan 2019 #9
Congrats. onecaliberal Jan 2019 #10
Congrats! Stinky The Clown Jan 2019 #11
Congrats. I hear Year 30 is the toughest. ODAAT JDC Jan 2019 #12
Congrats! ffr Jan 2019 #13
My sobriety date is May 27, 1997. joshdawg Jan 2019 #14
Congratulations!! Stonepounder Jan 2019 #15
Brilliant! Bravo! fierywoman Jan 2019 #16
Good for you! democrank Jan 2019 #17
Well done, MarianJack. Granny M Jan 2019 #18
Good on ya, MarianJack! Cha Jan 2019 #19
Congratulations Lifelong Protester Jan 2019 #20
Well done! Vinca Jan 2019 #23
Congratulations Andy823 Jan 2019 #24
congratulations!! niyad Jan 2019 #25
I wish my Mom had been succcesful in her fight with alcohol. redstatebluegirl Jan 2019 #26
Thank you so much for sharing your anniversary. It means a lot to me. WeekiWater Jan 2019 #27
That. Is. Awesome.! Kurt V. Jan 2019 #28
Congratulations and Happy "29th birthday" CousinIT Jan 2019 #29
Thank you and well done! backtoblue Jan 2019 #30
Thanks, I needed that TrogL Jan 2019 #31
You have a great positive attitude and message! lunatica Jan 2019 #32
Well done - and thanks for the sober support! Rhiannon12866 Jan 2019 #33
Wonderful news! Congratulations! hostalover Jan 2019 #34
Congratulations, volstork Jan 2019 #35
Congratulations! denvine Jan 2019 #36
Congrats lillypaddle Jan 2019 #37
29 years!?!?! Victor_c3 Jan 2019 #38
K and R. warmfeet Jan 2019 #39
That's quite an achievement! Congrats! sweetroxie Jan 2019 #40
Congratulations! GeoWilliam750 Jan 2019 #41
👍🏼 spanone Jan 2019 #42
Congrats. sellitman Jan 2019 #43
Congratulations, you're a few months ahead of me. KY_EnviroGuy Jan 2019 #44
Wonderful,... MarianJack Jan 2019 #45

SCantiGOP

(13,873 posts)
3. Good for you
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 12:28 AM
Jan 2019

I had one of my closest friends commit “accidental suicide” when he drugged and drank himself to death at 45.
My other best friend should have died but he is now 4 years sober. I’m flying out to see him next week.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
21. My condolences for your one friend and my...
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 08:23 AM
Jan 2019

.best wishes for your other friend. I do believe that if I hadn't sobered up I'd have boozed myself into a coffin 25 years ago. My wife wouldn't have spit on a drunk me (or maybe she WOULD have).

RESIST!

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,703 posts)
5. Congratulations on your sobriety, my dear MarianJack! That's a huge milestone.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 12:34 AM
Jan 2019

I cannot even begin to imagine how tough it is to stay sober.

I profoundly respect your strength to have gotten there, and STAYED there.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
22. Thank you, ...
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 08:27 AM
Jan 2019

..and I am very grateful to you and the others who've given such wonderful and positive and moving feedback.

RESIST!

dlk

(11,576 posts)
7. Congratulations! 29 Years of Sobriety is Incredible!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 12:39 AM
Jan 2019

It has taken an enormous amount of courage, honesty and commitment to go this far. Thank you for sharing.

Pope George Ringo II

(1,896 posts)
9. I've had enough people tell me, "It's been a while" that I know exactly how impressive 29 years is.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 12:48 AM
Jan 2019

Heck of an accomplishment on several levels, and the only bad part is that you never, ever, get to rest on those laurels.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
15. Congratulations!!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 02:41 AM
Jan 2019

29 years is a phenomenal achievement! You have a whole bunch of 'one day at a times' under your belt and may your have many, many more ahead of you!!

Vinca

(50,304 posts)
23. Well done!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 08:36 AM
Jan 2019

My brother is in a similar situation. He must be more than 40 years now. It's amazing where he started and where he ended up. He's made a huge success of his life and, as far as I know, has never wavered in his determination to stay sober. It really is "one day at a time," but then you look up and realize it's been a month, a year, a decade, a life. You're right . . . you CAN get here from there.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
26. I wish my Mom had been succcesful in her fight with alcohol.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 01:27 PM
Jan 2019

Not sure how, but I am able to socially drink without doing what she did to her body. She died at 41. Good for you, you are truly blessed to have gone that long sober. Addiction is horrible, it impacts everyone around you.

 

WeekiWater

(3,259 posts)
27. Thank you so much for sharing your anniversary. It means a lot to me.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 01:34 PM
Jan 2019

The closest person to me throughout my life is an alcoholic. 12 years sober. I am such a better person because of their unbelievable strength. I love all of you who face this battle and notch one day of sobriety in your belt, with tomorrow being a chance for two days.

TrogL

(32,822 posts)
31. Thanks, I needed that
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 06:16 PM
Jan 2019

I’ve got 13 years but Craftygal and I are going through some rough times with her medical issues. I can certainly get through one day.

Rhiannon12866

(206,016 posts)
33. Well done - and thanks for the sober support!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 07:02 PM
Jan 2019

9 years, 8 months and 15 days here (April 30, 2009) One Day at a Time.

denvine

(802 posts)
36. Congratulations!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 07:33 PM
Jan 2019

Good for you, seriously! Remain strong and as you said, day by day! Your accomplishment is to be commended!

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
38. 29 years!?!?!
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 08:36 PM
Jan 2019

That is hella-impressive. Something like 1/30 people don’t have a relapse, most do relapse.

I’ve made it about 6 months, but usually I get messed up around summer. Lots of bad stuff happened to me in summer and everything puts me back into that time.

Your example gives me something to aspire for!

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,494 posts)
44. Congratulations, you're a few months ahead of me.
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 11:22 PM
Jan 2019

September 14, 1990 is my anniversary date.

ODAT........... .......

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