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yortsed snacilbuper

(7,939 posts)
Mon May 27, 2019, 06:27 PM May 2019

With His Job Gone, an Autoworker Wonders, 'What Am I as a Man?'

Mr. Marsh voted for trump, as did a majority of voters in Trumbull County, a small square on the map of northeast Ohio.

Mr. Marsh had never had a definitive moment with politics, a sudden clarity in which he clicked with a candidate. That changed in 2016. He remembers sitting at home watching a debate between Mr. Trump and Hillary Clinton. He was expecting suit-and-tie civility. Instead, he got a circus. Mr. Trump was like a boxer who kept landing punches. It was electrifying.

“I said, ‘Wow, I’ve never seen anything like this,’” he said.

He knew what it looked like. Mr. Trump was kind of crazy. But he liked the fact that he didn’t back down. Then Mr. Trump brought up Nafta, and it was like he was speaking directly to Mr. Marsh. Nothing else mattered — not Russia, not porn stars, not divorces.

He voted for Mr. Trump, and so did his father, along with just under half the workers represented by the union.

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With His Job Gone, an Autoworker Wonders, 'What Am I as a Man?' (Original Post) yortsed snacilbuper May 2019 OP
Why do so many men think they're whole identity is wrapped up in their job? Downtown Hound May 2019 #1
In all honesty Ohiogal May 2019 #3
I'm a woman. Every time I've lost a job, there's been a month of being disoriented. no_hypocrisy May 2019 #7
That may be easy to say........ MyOwnPeace May 2019 #12
It's not hard to figure out lunatica May 2019 #13
Well said. dem4decades May 2019 #28
This. It's all part of our culture of toxic masculinity NickB79 May 2019 #37
Most people spend most of their adult waking hours at their job. meadowlander May 2019 #17
Many people, maybe most of them, PoindexterOglethorpe May 2019 #18
Capitalism demands it. WhiskeyGrinder May 2019 #21
That's not limited to capitalism fescuerescue May 2019 #30
Back when I was a single mom with no child support it was vastly important... Hekate May 2019 #29
To Drumph and the thuglicans... wcmagumba May 2019 #2
They vote GOP and they know Republicans revile unions (smh). Thomas Hurt May 2019 #4
Whoa. sheshe2 May 2019 #5
Perhaps Mr. Marsh will have seen the light..... ProudMNDemocrat May 2019 #6
Another group of ignorant white wingers attracted to a racist candidate. Nothing new. Hoyt May 2019 #8
I don't think that applies to this guy and his dad. Blue_true May 2019 #25
A trumpanzee is a trumpanzee wellst0nev0ter May 2019 #35
Exactly. Everyone who voted for trump knew what he was. Hoyt May 2019 #38
His lack of awareness of the world.......... MyOwnPeace May 2019 #9
You are NOTHING as a man because you voted for Trump. bitterross May 2019 #10
+1000000! SammyWinstonJack May 2019 #27
Idiots all of them. WTF were they watching? Hillary won all those debates. brush May 2019 #11
+1000 John Fante May 2019 #16
Do people really expect auto makers will keep producing Historic NY May 2019 #14
Womp womp, Mr. Marsh. John Fante May 2019 #15
No sweat! Jobs aplenty in the booming coal industry Trump is bringing back. keithbvadu2 May 2019 #19
"He seemed totally crazy and uninformed. So I voted for him" struggle4progress May 2019 #20
As good a reason as any. Different Drummer May 2019 #24
Well at least he didn't say ProudLib72 May 2019 #41
I'm a retired auto worker. I have been laid off too many times to count. blueinredohio May 2019 #22
This tells you all you need to know about what he is as a man. Different Drummer May 2019 #23
he was excited by trump during the debates & liked the crazy lunasun May 2019 #26
He just sounds so...misogynistic in his view of the debates. Hillary sounded like a policy wonk ... Hekate May 2019 #31
A living wage Aussie105 May 2019 #32
To me, this would be a no-brainer peggysue2 May 2019 #33
'Nobody Had Our Backs' mia May 2019 #34
If we had an infrastructure program wellst0nev0ter May 2019 #36
"Mr. Marsh and many of his neighbors, far from knowing how they will vote in 2020?" yortsed snacilbuper May 2019 #39
The scary thing is that they won't do anything to change it. Initech May 2019 #40
I'm sending this Dipshit thoughts and prayers n/t maxrandb May 2019 #42
As far as I'm concerned .. ananda May 2019 #43
Wish I could feel for him HAB911 May 2019 #44

no_hypocrisy

(46,101 posts)
7. I'm a woman. Every time I've lost a job, there's been a month of being disoriented.
Mon May 27, 2019, 06:41 PM
May 2019

I tie myself up in what I can do when I'm working.

MyOwnPeace

(16,926 posts)
12. That may be easy to say........
Mon May 27, 2019, 07:04 PM
May 2019

unless you've been in that situation.

If you have not, good for you.

To those that have - and are:

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
13. It's not hard to figure out
Mon May 27, 2019, 07:07 PM
May 2019

It isn’t the job that defines you if you’re a middle class worker. It’s your ability to be a good provider which in turn gives you the ability to be a father and husband.

If he loses his job then he can’t do the important things for his family that define him.

NickB79

(19,236 posts)
37. This. It's all part of our culture of toxic masculinity
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:51 PM
May 2019

Men are defined by their ability to support their families. If they lose that ability, they're emasculated.

It's the same reason so many men can't handle their wives earning more money than them. They lose that "breadwinner" status and they're directionless.

meadowlander

(4,395 posts)
17. Most people spend most of their adult waking hours at their job.
Mon May 27, 2019, 08:05 PM
May 2019

They see their coworkers more than their kids in a lot of cases.

It's usually one of the first questions you ask when you meet a new person - "So what do you do?" And it's one of the first and most important grown up life decisions that people make.

It is an important part of your identity.

Not to say that it's the end of the world if you lose your job or have to reskill and do something else but I don't think the significance of work to peoples' identities should be downplayed either.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,856 posts)
18. Many people, maybe most of them,
Mon May 27, 2019, 08:12 PM
May 2019

define themselves by their job. For decades now I've marveled at that and when I try to suggest that defining oneself by the job is not a good thing, people think I'm, I dunno, unAmerican or belittling what they do or some such.

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
30. That's not limited to capitalism
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:14 PM
May 2019

over my life, I have known several people who lived under other systems (including the former soviet union), who have gone through similar life trama.

Unfortunately, for most of us, our survival revolves around work or service of some sort. It's true in every time and place and unless we have the fortune of coming from a wealthy or politically connected family.

I suppose there are a few "outs". Such as living unconnected in the wilderness ala ted kaczynski, but those require a different type of work.

Hekate

(90,681 posts)
29. Back when I was a single mom with no child support it was vastly important...
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:11 PM
May 2019

My children depended on me, and I was proud (identity) that I could provide for them.

For all of us, our work is a big part of our identity.

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
5. Whoa.
Mon May 27, 2019, 06:39 PM
May 2019
yortsed snacilbuper

0. With His Job Gone, an Autoworker Wonders, 'What Am I as a Man?'


snip

He knew what it looked like. Mr. Trump was kind of crazy. But he liked the fact that he didn’t back down. Then Mr. Trump brought up Nafta, and it was like he was speaking directly to Mr. Marsh. Nothing else mattered — not Russia, not porn stars, not divorces.


With His Job Gone, an Autoworker Wonders, 'What Am I as a Man?'


Mr. Marsh? Guess you should ask these men.



ProudMNDemocrat

(16,785 posts)
6. Perhaps Mr. Marsh will have seen the light.....
Mon May 27, 2019, 06:39 PM
May 2019

That Trump let him down big time. That the tax cut was a tax hike. That the rust-belt jobs he promised are actually gone.

Perhaps Mr. Marsh will have learned his lesson NEVER trust a Snake Oil salesman.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
25. I don't think that applies to this guy and his dad.
Mon May 27, 2019, 09:53 PM
May 2019

They voted for a Black man twice. The son says he will vote for anyone that can fix the problem, regardless of race or sex. I take him at his word.

I think the telling part of the story was automation. The number of jobs in the paint shop where he started was 38 in 1970 and 4 in 2016. My guess in a few years it may be one in a massive paint shop, the work done by robots with one man or woman to monitor them. That is where the world is headed. Even small companies would use robots if they can afford them, that is going to accelerate.

Some here have mentioned GI as a solution. I think that people other than just Andrew Yang need to start seriously thinking about how that solution would be implemented in a largely jobless economy.

 

wellst0nev0ter

(7,509 posts)
35. A trumpanzee is a trumpanzee
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:49 PM
May 2019

no matter how he voted in the past. Racism and general crassness were not dealbreakers for him, fuckim.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
38. Exactly. Everyone who voted for trump knew what he was.
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:59 PM
May 2019

Endorsing a racist pretty makes one a racist too.

MyOwnPeace

(16,926 posts)
9. His lack of awareness of the world..........
Mon May 27, 2019, 06:59 PM
May 2019

and the way it works shows. For instance:

“He might understand business, but he doesn’t understand our business.” ...he says about the bankrupt king who won't even reveal ANY of his business records. Did he really think that a "business genius" snake that had bitten so many was simply going to crawl up to him and give him a hug?

Yes, I feel terrible for him - and all of the workers that are suffering under this current international trade situation. But you don't just give it all up and vote for the latest flim-flam medicine man that comes into town promising you health, wealth, and happiness, especially one with the track record like the "Stable Genius" IQ45!



 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
10. You are NOTHING as a man because you voted for Trump.
Mon May 27, 2019, 06:59 PM
May 2019

You didn't bother to think or look out for your family. You didn't bother to look at history and see that Trump is nothing but a con artist. You didn't bother to stop being a racist.

YOU are NOTHING and you SHOULD be full of shame.

brush

(53,778 posts)
11. Idiots all of them. WTF were they watching? Hillary won all those debates.
Mon May 27, 2019, 07:01 PM
May 2019

It just reveals their inner white male privilege/preference and sexism.

They just wanted another white guy in the WH no matter how unfit and crazy he was.

I have no sympathy.

John Fante

(3,479 posts)
16. +1000
Mon May 27, 2019, 07:48 PM
May 2019

I'll never forget Chuck Todd arguing - with a big shit-eating grin on his face - that Trump won the second debate. They saw what they wanted to see.

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
14. Do people really expect auto makers will keep producing
Mon May 27, 2019, 07:24 PM
May 2019

at plants the don't need. Should Ford continue to make cars when the don't sell. For that matter should Toyota which has storage lots packed with cars they can sell. GM is trying to survive, he lucky he has had a good ten year run and they didn't go belly up. The Republicans clearly would have let that happen. A direct result was keep pieces of the GM supply chain were sold off . China ended up with the parts reconditioning-rebuilding end and they literally just spray paint some of the crap and send it back. People are becoming obsolete in auto factories as more and more robotic take over the boring jobs many always complained about. Being a global company GM and the other should be able to produce anywhere w/o threats from Trump.

Of course no one told him how Trump screws over his own employees and contractors.

John Fante

(3,479 posts)
15. Womp womp, Mr. Marsh.
Mon May 27, 2019, 07:45 PM
May 2019

There are babies in cages at the border right now, being traumatized for life by this administration. The ones that haven't died, of course.

I couldn't give one solid shit about your issues. Anyone with half a brain could see that Trump gave the three worst debate performances in the history of presidential politics. Electrifying? Fuck you.

keithbvadu2

(36,800 posts)
19. No sweat! Jobs aplenty in the booming coal industry Trump is bringing back.
Mon May 27, 2019, 08:47 PM
May 2019

No sweat! Jobs aplenty in the booming coal industry Trump is bringing back.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
22. I'm a retired auto worker. I have been laid off too many times to count.
Mon May 27, 2019, 09:23 PM
May 2019

Lose my seniority then get called back to start all over again, I didn't think I would ever get enough time in to retire. What pisses me off about people like this is they suck the union teat get every benefit the union gets for them then turn around to stab them in the back to vote republican.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
26. he was excited by trump during the debates & liked the crazy
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:02 PM
May 2019

Voted for trump...along with just under half the workers represented by the union.

Hekate

(90,681 posts)
31. He just sounds so...misogynistic in his view of the debates. Hillary sounded like a policy wonk ...
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:21 PM
May 2019

..with a woman's heart for others' misfortunes. (May I point out right here that I like that in a candidate.) Trump went in swinging and grabbed people by their hindbrains. The guy said Trump "kept landing blows" like a boxer (i.e. a manly man, amirite?), but what a lot of the rest of us saw was a well-prepared woman who was not playing any games up against a stalking abusive bully.

We saw her preparedness, and that guy saw a man beating a woman.

Aussie105

(5,395 posts)
32. A living wage
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:42 PM
May 2019

even for those not working.

That's what is needed.

Retired school teacher here, 40 years in the job.

When you first start working, you find that the routine impinges greatly on your freedoms. You trade your freedom and time for an income.
You get used to it, and after a while, get to like the structure the routine brings to your life.
When you retire, or lose your job, you have to reverse this process.

I had all sorts of reasons for working, but in the final analysis, the need for an income is the main one.
In my case, I stashed away money so that in the end, it made no difference financially if I quit early.

The solution to auto workers cut adrift? A living wage, paid despite someone not working. It's called unemployment benefits or a pension, seems to work well in other parts of the world, why not America?

I wouldn't vote for a Snake Oil Salesman promising things he could never deliver. But I would vote for someone who can promise an income safety net to those who are retrenched, leave work due to ill health, or retire early.

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
33. To me, this would be a no-brainer
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:42 PM
May 2019

Trump lied through his teeth, pretended to know things he knew nothing about (unions, the coal industry, trade deals) and tried his best to kill the ACA with no replacement and has threatened Medicaid recipients with severe cuts. Mr. Marsh has a child with cerebral palsy, for God's sake. That alone should have his head spinning into an anti-Trump rant. But no, the framing of 'all politicians are the same, Dems & Repubs' has taken root and become fact for the man.

This is the sort of cognitive disconnect all our candidates will need to address: an economy that works for the greatest number, not merely the CEOs/investors and sustainable, reliable healthcare across the board. There are other issues to address certainly but for someone like Marsh and his coworkers, this is at the heart of the matter for 2020.

mia

(8,360 posts)
34. 'Nobody Had Our Backs'
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:43 PM
May 2019
“It’s literally in your face — the decline of manufacturing,” he said. “You can work where I work and watch it.”

Nafta had given him a new political awareness: Republicans may have started it, but it was Democrats who sealed the deal.

“That’s when I realized these parties were not so different,” he said. “They are all there to make money on our backs.”

Still, he kept voting for Democrats, including twice for Barack Obama. He gives him credit for the bailout of G.M. The company would have died without that help. But it made him angry that a financial crisis that started with banks ended with autoworkers giving up raises and the right to strike, which seemed to him the only real leverage they still had.


I voted for Obama twice but for Bernie in the primaries because he was opposed to NAFTA and the TPP. I could never figure out why Obama and the Clintons favored these trade deals. I voted for Hillary, nevertheless.
 

wellst0nev0ter

(7,509 posts)
36. If we had an infrastructure program
Mon May 27, 2019, 10:50 PM
May 2019

that would jump start the manufacturing industry, but nope, they had to vote for the racist conman.

Fuckim.

yortsed snacilbuper

(7,939 posts)
39. "Mr. Marsh and many of his neighbors, far from knowing how they will vote in 2020?"
Mon May 27, 2019, 11:08 PM
May 2019

These people are going to take us all down the tubes with them!

Their only hope is a Democratic President, Senate, and House.

Initech

(100,072 posts)
40. The scary thing is that they won't do anything to change it.
Mon May 27, 2019, 11:13 PM
May 2019

They'll just keep voting for the same right wing trash time and time again. Definition of insanity.

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