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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWas late for the self check in at a kiosk.
It was supposed to shut down 45 minutes before the flight but I was at the airport an hour before my departure and couldn't use it.
While standing in line for the next counter clerk to check me in as people with large bags took their time I asked if anyone else in line had the same problem and a young black guy about five people back said his attempt failed too. He was on the same flight as me to LAX and like me, had a shuttle scheduled at the other end. When I got to the counter I mentioned him to the lady and she told him to come forward and she did us both together. Then told us to run. TSA took three minutes. (I timed it) after that he said, "I'm following you Boss" as we made a bee line for the gate. As we dashed for our flight I said, "Don't call me "boss", since Obama, you could be MY boss." He was all grins as we shook hands as we ran. We made the flight.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)You probably made that guy's day.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)...he did the interview late so I went to his home so I got to meet his family.
His first question was, "Do you mind working for a black man?" He must have had problems with that in the past. That must be the worse nightmare for a racist. It's no wonder they're going insane. We became good friends after and he has since moved to Hawaii to retire. We still exchange e-cards at Christmas.
mrmpa
(4,033 posts)My car broke down in a predominantly Black area of town. I had to walk into a bar to use the phone to call my Dad and for a tow. When I walked out to the street, about 3 men from the bar exited and took up places in entrances to 3 businesses. I was 25, and played it cool, but was a bit nervous. None of them men said anything to me & just stood in their places.
About 30 minutes later, my Dad showed up, got out of his car, while approaching me, one man left his post and said "Hey, Dan is this your daughter, we were keeping an eye out for her." My Dad, looked at him, then me, and introduced me to his foreman.
It was cool, any worries I might have had disappeared.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)mrmpa
(4,033 posts)Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Maybe it's the union brotherhood that forms a bond. I saw that amongst UAW workers in Michigan.
mrmpa
(4,033 posts)Both were members of the Brotherhood of Maintenance & Way Workers. The foreman remained a member & was paid at a higher rate to perform the foreman duties.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Before that, his father and his father before him worked for the railroad.
I have one of these handed down.
http://www.mccord-museum.qc.ca/en/collection/artifacts/M17008§ion=196
siligut
(12,272 posts)Glad you both made your flight.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Last seat on the right so I was one of the last ones off so I didn't see him again.
I hope he thinks twice before using that "boss" line in the future. I hear that from some Hispanics too. It's not like I'm in a suit or anything. I'm usually in $15 jeans from Kmart or shorts and a t-shirt with sneakers.
siligut
(12,272 posts)Maybe it is common there. I also heard a young guy in California use it casually while handing out boxed lunches. The male he said it to, told him not to call him that and this young, white male seemed taken aback, though probably because it seemed like he was getting a reprimand rather than respect.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Saying "boss" in a cynical manner is kinda cool if it's done right.
greytdemocrat
(3,299 posts)Except for the "since Obama" part.
lastlib
(23,226 posts)...Jus' sayin'.....
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)holy shit...
sP
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)It's done to show "respect" but it automatically puts them in a lower role.
That needs to end.
HipChick
(25,485 posts)and folks were treating him as if he was a FA
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Mariana
(14,857 posts)Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)It's like Americans acting like there are no skilled surgeons in third world countries. As if things like a compound fracture are treated with a dancing ritual by someone in costume.
HipChick
(25,485 posts)Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)and it still has nothing to do with Obama...
sP
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)They're DETERMINED to stop his example.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)You are aware that Obama wasnt the first boss of color, right?
Smells kinda fishy and contrived to me
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)You'll get the drift,....maybe....
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)It wasn't the grin you think it was. He probably felt very uncomfortable after that comment.