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CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
Sun Nov 3, 2019, 05:26 PM Nov 2019

So I called Zappos to exchange some boots I had ordered (and was sent the wrong boots)...

and had a surreal experience with the lady on the phone. For some reason, she needed to confide personal stuff as became evident early in the conversation. Something went off the rails in our discussion about the style of the boot and she started to ramble...

---"not a good style of boot because not everyone likes a pointy toe. This man I was involved with would like something like that on me but it's not my style..." and then it got more and more personal about her relationship with some guy.

I was nice but I think I tried to hard to be nice.

Anyway, I think she needed somebody to listen to her because she upgraded my return and exchange with a non-pointy toed boot.

God knows what will arrive in a box from Zappos. I'm a little afraid to order something from that company again...

Edit to add: She went on my Facebook page while we were on the phone and told me that I looked nice and very interesting...

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JesterCS

(1,827 posts)
5. Sadly in today's day and age of employers
Sun Nov 3, 2019, 05:33 PM
Nov 2019

You're probably right. Employers care little for mental/physical health. Only the bottom line of dollars

Chellee

(2,097 posts)
6. Uuhh... no.
Sun Nov 3, 2019, 05:36 PM
Nov 2019

At first, I thought this poor lady just is a people person and doesn't really understand professional boundaries. I also thought you're a nice person for not cutting her off. I thought all that right up until the point where she stalked you on Facebook. Now she's just creepy and wrong and all kinds of nope.

No, no, no, no... NO. Creepy Zappos Lady, stop that.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
7. I just wanted to get the boots exchanged...I have the feeling she'll get canned (booted?) soon
Sun Nov 3, 2019, 05:45 PM
Nov 2019

enough...

 

UniteFightBack

(8,231 posts)
10. You were very nice and kind...but Why the fuck is she going on your facebook page? Like her
Sun Nov 3, 2019, 06:35 PM
Nov 2019

ramblings weren't unprofessional enough...then she goes on snoops on your page??? Oh hell no.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
11. I wonder if stuff like this is more prevalent than we might think. Anyone who has your name can
Sun Nov 3, 2019, 06:38 PM
Nov 2019

look you up on Facebook and see what you look like and learn personal stuff about you. It's not incriminating it's just creepy.

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