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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAn indisputable fact that has emerged with this pandemic
Were all vulnerable AND were all carriers. Were both victims and killers at the same time, if only in potential.
We need to remember that the actions we take to protect ourselves are also protecting those people around us. This isnt something DUers dont understand, but I think there are millions of people who just dont get it. They think that if theyre healthy theyll survive if they get sick, but they dont understand that if they have the Coronavirus they are capable of killing their friends, family and colleagues.
We are ALL ACCOUNTABLE with this disease! In this sense we can see that we are all connected on this planet, both as victims and simultaneously as killers. Its important to keep this in mind because what every single one of us does out in this world is literally a matter of life and death.
RockRaven
(14,966 posts)Don't behave like you are trying to avoid catching the disease. Behave like you already have the disease and are trying not to spread it.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Its crucial to understand the duality we all exist in with this pandemic. We arent one or the other, victim or carrier. We are both so we must behave with this as a fact of life.
Butterflylady
(3,543 posts)Niagara
(7,605 posts)Moostache
(9,895 posts)Humanity is on a glide path to extinction because of our utter lack of respect for nature and the natural world. Antibiotics are in terminal decline for effectiveness, with some strains already on the verge of being untreatable once more - sending us back to the world we had BEFORE penicillin...and that was BEFORE emergent viruses began to get more frequent and obviously more severe - from Ebola to SARS to MERS to COVID-19.
Climate change; antibiotic resistance; soil loss; insect, bird and fish population implosions during the 6th mass extinction underway...it will be a miracle just to get to 2030, but I'll be honest, I am more concerned right now about just getting through the spring and into the summer and I am terrified of the fall already...
Looks like I picked the wrong week to stop sniffing glue... (momentary retreat to silliness is mandatory for me right now):
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Being woke during our species extinction is scary as hell!
IronLionZion
(45,433 posts)Since we can carry it without showing any symptoms or realizing it. Always do what we can to avoid spreading it to others.
We all have to change our behavior.
dalton99a
(81,470 posts)(SARS-CoV-2 is the virus that causes COVID-19)
Orrex
(63,208 posts)That I shouldn't concern myself with how others are acting or how their actions might affect me.
Silly me for going about it all wrong! I've been taking precautions and washing my hands and limiting contact, when all I really needed to do is mind my own business!
k/r
lunatica
(53,410 posts)And, as we all know, up you cant cure stupid.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)off track of doing what is right for all
Think if our local government officials did this and just said hey people can do what they want
Many of the closures are to ensure compliance because thats what it has come down to now
Bmoboy
(267 posts)I am lucky, I guess.
White, American male, stocked fridge in a mortgage free home.
So what? I'm still scared and almost 70.
What about all the little towns all over the world with no hospitals?
Too many people with none of my advantages.
Yet I mourn that I may never see my sons again.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Im retired and own my condo outright. I live on SS and a pension which is not tied to Wall Street. Im 71 and Im very healthy. Im also a shut in by choice so staying home is just another day for me. My son died a few years ago so Im alone. I live in grief since he died.
LuckyCharms
(17,425 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)I appreciate your kind words.
Evolve Dammit
(16,725 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Its pretty bad.
Thanks.
Evolve Dammit
(16,725 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Ive lived alone for a while, and I prefer it. Im pretty much of a hermit and happy about it. Thanks!
JudyM
(29,236 posts)I really felt the emotion in your words. I hope your heart is also feeling some good memories in with the grieving, lunatica.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)I have wonderful memories of my son and feel quite privileged to have been lucky enough to be his mother. He is worth the pain of the grief that I feel. Its a strange statement, but I feel it honors his importance.
JudyM
(29,236 posts)I have experienced grief that way, too. There is something reverential about those deep memories in the heart. To me, when I am able to hold them without as much pain, they feel like hugs.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Did you lose a child too?
my dad, less than 2 years ago. Miss him a lot.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Rorey
(8,445 posts)I'd give you a hug if I could.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)They can use it.
I have learned not to brag about my good deeds.
Delphinus
(11,830 posts)I hear what you are saying - we must be cognizant of others. We are truly all one.
Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)2 people out of 1,000 healthy people my age will die, given the current statistics. Low odds, but still not 0%.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)But every age group are equal in their ability to infect others.
Evolve Dammit
(16,725 posts)hangaleft
(649 posts)Not that theres anything wrong with that.
Its the assholes like that Kentuckian who tested positive and refused to self-quarantine that have to be reached. And, unfortunately, they never will be. *Theyre* the real killers. Guilty of negligent manslaughter. Literally felons.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)The only difference between that man and us is that we understand that he will kill his family and friends. Hes obviously unwilling to learn that. Yet I bet hes armed to the teeth, ready to shoot people dead in order to protect his family. Now he will be their worst threat.
fierywoman
(7,683 posts)Delphinus
(11,830 posts)it's so true!
lunatica
(53,410 posts)I am because you are. For joy as well as for sorrow.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,760 posts)does not seem to get this. For instance, he has gone to the grocery store 3 times in the past week. Not telling me ahead of time even of his plans. I only discovered this from checking our credit card online statement. I pointed out that any trips for food need to be planned and discussed to make the most of them and eliminate need for trips in the near future.
I know there is some confusion as to how to best handle this situation, but I'm pretty sure I'm right about this.