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lunatica

(53,410 posts)
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 04:48 PM Mar 2020

An indisputable fact that has emerged with this pandemic

We’re all vulnerable AND we’re all carriers. We’re both victims and killers at the same time, if only in potential.

We need to remember that the actions we take to protect ourselves are also protecting those people around us. This isn’t something DUers don’t understand, but I think there are millions of people who just don’t get it. They think that if they’re healthy they’ll survive if they get sick, but they don’t understand that if they have the Coronavirus they are capable of killing their friends, family and colleagues.

We are ALL ACCOUNTABLE with this disease! In this sense we can see that we are all connected on this planet, both as victims and simultaneously as killers. It’s important to keep this in mind because what every single one of us does out in this world is literally a matter of life and death.

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An indisputable fact that has emerged with this pandemic (Original Post) lunatica Mar 2020 OP
Your post reminds me of that piece of advice someone posted about the other day: RockRaven Mar 2020 #1
It definitely bears repeating often lunatica Mar 2020 #2
+1 crickets Mar 2020 #4
+1 ancianita Mar 2020 #12
That's what I'm doing. Butterflylady Mar 2020 #14
+1000 Niagara Mar 2020 #3
Just wait...there are viruses out there that can potentially be far, far worse than this... Moostache Mar 2020 #5
I hear ya! lunatica Mar 2020 #9
Follow this advice IronLionZion Mar 2020 #6
From today's paper in Science: dalton99a Mar 2020 #7
Really? Just today I've been told to mind my own business about it Orrex Mar 2020 #8
Well stupidity does not make you immune. lunatica Mar 2020 #10
When one is in a world alone myob works well but we are all connected. Don't let The Downers get you lunasun Mar 2020 #31
born in a golden bubble Bmoboy Mar 2020 #11
I'm very lucky too lunatica Mar 2020 #13
I'm sorry for your loss, lunatica. LuckyCharms Mar 2020 #16
Thank you, LuckyCharms lunatica Mar 2020 #20
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine losing a child. Take good care of you. Evolve Dammit Mar 2020 #19
Thank you lunatica Mar 2020 #21
You are not alone. Take care and reach out if you need anything. Evolve Dammit Mar 2020 #35
I'm OK. lunatica Mar 2020 #36
My heart goes out to you. JudyM Mar 2020 #25
Thank you for your kind words lunatica Mar 2020 #32
Not strange, it's tender and poignant. JudyM Mar 2020 #37
Thank you lunatica Mar 2020 #38
No, JudyM Mar 2020 #39
I feel the same way about my mother lunatica Mar 2020 #40
I'm so sorry, Rorey Mar 2020 #26
I accept your hug! lunatica Mar 2020 #33
Then go to your local food bank and donate some canned goods, paper products etc. cwydro Mar 2020 #15
Great idea Bmoboy Mar 2020 #42
Welcome to DU! Delphinus Mar 2020 #28
.2% death rate for my age group isn't zero Victor_c3 Mar 2020 #17
You"re right. No age group is exempt lunatica Mar 2020 #22
Well said. Thank you Evolve Dammit Mar 2020 #18
You're preaching to the choir hangaleft Mar 2020 #23
You've made my point for me lunatica Mar 2020 #24
Ubuntu (which I believe means): I am because you are. fierywoman Mar 2020 #27
I need to learn this word - Delphinus Mar 2020 #29
Thanks for teaching me such a conceptual word. lunatica Mar 2020 #34
My husband, who in most ways is pretty damn wonderful, Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 2020 #30
K&R, We need unrestricted testing and isolation !!! We can't get that right now so we're screwed uponit7771 Mar 2020 #41

RockRaven

(14,966 posts)
1. Your post reminds me of that piece of advice someone posted about the other day:
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 04:50 PM
Mar 2020

Don't behave like you are trying to avoid catching the disease. Behave like you already have the disease and are trying not to spread it.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
2. It definitely bears repeating often
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 04:55 PM
Mar 2020

It’s crucial to understand the duality we all exist in with this pandemic. We aren’t one or the other, victim or carrier. We are both so we must behave with this as a fact of life.

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
5. Just wait...there are viruses out there that can potentially be far, far worse than this...
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 05:31 PM
Mar 2020

Humanity is on a glide path to extinction because of our utter lack of respect for nature and the natural world. Antibiotics are in terminal decline for effectiveness, with some strains already on the verge of being untreatable once more - sending us back to the world we had BEFORE penicillin...and that was BEFORE emergent viruses began to get more frequent and obviously more severe - from Ebola to SARS to MERS to COVID-19.

Climate change; antibiotic resistance; soil loss; insect, bird and fish population implosions during the 6th mass extinction underway...it will be a miracle just to get to 2030, but I'll be honest, I am more concerned right now about just getting through the spring and into the summer and I am terrified of the fall already...

Looks like I picked the wrong week to stop sniffing glue... (momentary retreat to silliness is mandatory for me right now):

IronLionZion

(45,433 posts)
6. Follow this advice
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 05:56 PM
Mar 2020
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100213100884

Since we can carry it without showing any symptoms or realizing it. Always do what we can to avoid spreading it to others.

We all have to change our behavior.

Orrex

(63,208 posts)
8. Really? Just today I've been told to mind my own business about it
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 06:09 PM
Mar 2020

That I shouldn't concern myself with how others are acting or how their actions might affect me.

Silly me for going about it all wrong! I've been taking precautions and washing my hands and limiting contact, when all I really needed to do is mind my own business!


k/r

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
31. When one is in a world alone myob works well but we are all connected. Don't let The Downers get you
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 03:00 PM
Mar 2020

off track of doing what is right for all
Think if our local government officials did this and just said hey people can do what they want
Many of the closures are to ensure compliance because that’s what it has come down to now

Bmoboy

(267 posts)
11. born in a golden bubble
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 06:47 PM
Mar 2020

I am lucky, I guess.

White, American male, stocked fridge in a mortgage free home.

So what? I'm still scared and almost 70.

What about all the little towns all over the world with no hospitals?

Too many people with none of my advantages.

Yet I mourn that I may never see my sons again.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
13. I'm very lucky too
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 06:58 PM
Mar 2020

I’m retired and own my condo outright. I live on SS and a pension which is not tied to Wall Street. I’m 71 and I’m very healthy. I’m also a shut in by choice so staying home is just another day for me. My son died a few years ago so I’m alone. I live in grief since he died.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
36. I'm OK.
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 06:15 PM
Mar 2020

I’ve lived alone for a while, and I prefer it. I’m pretty much of a hermit and happy about it. Thanks!

JudyM

(29,236 posts)
25. My heart goes out to you.
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 01:48 PM
Mar 2020

I really felt the emotion in your words. I hope your heart is also feeling some good memories in with the grieving, lunatica.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
32. Thank you for your kind words
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 03:12 PM
Mar 2020

I have wonderful memories of my son and feel quite privileged to have been lucky enough to be his mother. He is worth the pain of the grief that I feel. It’s a strange statement, but I feel it honors his importance.

JudyM

(29,236 posts)
37. Not strange, it's tender and poignant.
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 06:37 PM
Mar 2020

I have experienced grief that way, too. There is something reverential about those deep memories in the heart. To me, when I am able to hold them without as much pain, they feel like hugs.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
15. Then go to your local food bank and donate some canned goods, paper products etc.
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 07:13 PM
Mar 2020

They can use it.

Delphinus

(11,830 posts)
28. Welcome to DU!
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 02:31 PM
Mar 2020


I hear what you are saying - we must be cognizant of others. We are truly all one.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
17. .2% death rate for my age group isn't zero
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 07:18 PM
Mar 2020

2 people out of 1,000 healthy people my age will die, given the current statistics. Low odds, but still not 0%.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
22. You"re right. No age group is exempt
Mon Mar 16, 2020, 11:10 PM
Mar 2020

But every age group are equal in their ability to infect others.

 

hangaleft

(649 posts)
23. You're preaching to the choir
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 09:49 AM
Mar 2020

Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

It’s the assholes like that Kentuckian who tested positive and refused to self-quarantine that have to be reached. And, unfortunately, they never will be. *They’re* the real killers. Guilty of negligent manslaughter. Literally felons.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
24. You've made my point for me
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 11:12 AM
Mar 2020

The only difference between that man and us is that we understand that he will kill his family and friends. He’s obviously unwilling to learn that. Yet I bet he’s armed to the teeth, ready to shoot people dead in order to protect his family. Now he will be their worst threat.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
34. Thanks for teaching me such a conceptual word.
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 03:20 PM
Mar 2020

“I am because you are.” For joy as well as for sorrow.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
30. My husband, who in most ways is pretty damn wonderful,
Tue Mar 17, 2020, 02:56 PM
Mar 2020

does not seem to get this. For instance, he has gone to the grocery store 3 times in the past week. Not telling me ahead of time even of his plans. I only discovered this from checking our credit card online statement. I pointed out that any trips for food need to be planned and discussed to make the most of them and eliminate need for trips in the near future.

I know there is some confusion as to how to best handle this situation, but I'm pretty sure I'm right about this.

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