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japple

(9,839 posts)
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 08:44 PM Mar 2020

My Covid-19 story started around Feb. 18 when I went to see my doctor for an annual examination.

I'm 70 yrs. and she said I would need to have another baseline mammogram since I hadn't had one for many years. My physical exam was good. Weight, lungs, reflexes, lab screenings were all normal. Went for mammogram and my doctor called me at 7:30 the next morning to schedule a biopsy and said that I had been scheduled for appointment with surgeon/oncologist for March 18.

I had the biopsy on March 2nd. On March 18th, I met with the surgeon and after a long discussion with pictures and diagrams and physical breast exam, I agreed to have a partial mastectomy of my left breast with sentinel lymph node biopsies followed by either 3 or 6 weeks of radiation, depending on the lymph node biopsies. My surgery was scheduled for March 27th.

I went for my preoperative exam at the hospital on March 24th. On March 25th, the surgeon's office called and said that surgery had to be postponed because the surgeon had a fever and that he could not be cleared until his body temp was normal for 48 hours. On Friday, March 27th, I received a call from the surgeon's office saying that he had tested positive for Covid 19. At that point, I don't really remember what advice I was given about what to do, or how to proceed. Everything has just become a big blur these days and even though I have been trying to carry on with normal activities and keep my sanity, it seems like this is all just a big fucking joke. I have been in a self-imposed quarantine since March 18 to try to keep anyone other my sister (housemate) from possible contamination and it looks like I might be able to go back to the grocery store on April Fool's Day! Yeeeehaaaaa!

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My Covid-19 story started around Feb. 18 when I went to see my doctor for an annual examination. (Original Post) japple Mar 2020 OP
I wish you a very happy April Fool's Day. In_The_Wind Mar 2020 #1
Hang in there. Stay strong. Hermit-The-Prog Mar 2020 #2
I am so sorry. What a terrible ordeal for you. Fla Dem Mar 2020 #3
Is there another surgeon who could do the surgery? I'm so sorry this has happened to you. pnwmom Mar 2020 #4
I live in a very small town that is fortunate enough to have a fully functional hospital, japple Mar 2020 #5
Is an out of state surgery a possibility? Lars39 Mar 2020 #6
My thoughts are with you. morillon Mar 2020 #7
If you catch it, qwlauren35 Mar 2020 #8
I hope you get all the care you need asap. So sorry this is happening to you. BeckyDem Mar 2020 #9
Yikes! 2naSalit Mar 2020 #10
Oh, jeez, when it rains, it pours. I hope things work out for you soon. Sending good thoughts Karadeniz Mar 2020 #11
Good grief! tosh Mar 2020 #13
Fight on! malaise Mar 2020 #12
Prayers and good vibes on their way to you. pazzyanne Mar 2020 #14
I'm so sorry. I hope you can get top priority when your Ilsa Mar 2020 #15
I Know RobinA Mar 2020 #16
Hope your radiation treatments cause no side effects. Sending you a big japple Mar 2020 #21
Thank You! nt RobinA Mar 2020 #23
Take care, japple. gademocrat7 Mar 2020 #17
Stay positive. Hugs to you. nt iluvtennis Mar 2020 #18
Best of luck to you on all your tests and (pending) surgery! MojoWrkn Mar 2020 #19
All the best to you in this dilemma, stay strong & glad you posted appalachiablue Mar 2020 #20
That must be terrifying. Hang in there. At some point this will pass. Vinca Mar 2020 #22
I certainly hope your surgeon beats it or your GP makes an appt. with a different surgeon for you. appleannie1 Mar 2020 #24
I wish you the best of luck with your operation Beringia Mar 2020 #25
Similar experience when I was 70. demigal Mar 2020 #26
Thank you. I realize that it is pointless to worry about this as I have no control over japple Mar 2020 #28
My dear friend hermetic Mar 2020 #27
Thanks so much, hermetic. I do have a network of friends and family that are all in my corner. japple Mar 2020 #29
Thanks to everyone who responded to this post. I appreciate the comments, kind thoughts, japple Mar 2020 #30
Stay cool. The only statistic that matters is of course Hortensis Mar 2020 #31
You are a TRUE soldier on the front line of this battle against the virus rama2020 Mar 2020 #32
Thinking good thoughts for you dai13sy Mar 2020 #33

Fla Dem

(23,741 posts)
3. I am so sorry. What a terrible ordeal for you.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 08:52 PM
Mar 2020

I’m sending good thoughts and wishes your way, that 1.) you remain healthy and the exposure you had to covid19 does not develop into the virus. 2.) that you are able to schedule your surgery with another dr very soon and 3.) that you recover fully from your surgery and live a long healthy life.

All the best.

pnwmom

(108,991 posts)
4. Is there another surgeon who could do the surgery? I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 08:53 PM
Mar 2020

I can imagine how scary this must be.

japple

(9,839 posts)
5. I live in a very small town that is fortunate enough to have a fully functional hospital,
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 08:57 PM
Mar 2020

part of a national network. I worked there for 10 years until I retired in 2015. I know this surgeon and he is the best in this area. I would trust one of his associates to do the surgery and will go that route if necessary. I hope it will not be necessary.

Lars39

(26,115 posts)
6. Is an out of state surgery a possibility?
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 09:16 PM
Mar 2020

I know an excellent surgeon in Nashville if you want a name.

morillon

(1,185 posts)
7. My thoughts are with you.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 09:37 PM
Mar 2020

I had breast cancer 3 years ago, and since this whole Covid-19 thing began, I've often thought what it must be like for those who are going through all of that worry and uncertainty AND having to manage not getting sick with the virus, too.

I remember from my experience that I wanted that...thing out of me as soon as humanly possible. If they'd said I could start treatment that very afternoon, I would've been all for it. I had 6 sessions of chemo+immunotherapy, a full right-side mastectomy, 6 weeks of radiation, and another 8 months of immunotherapy.

Hopefully you can get some answers this week about how long it'll be before another surgeon can take over and do your surgery. If they say it can wait a while, I think that means that whatever they saw on images and in the biopsy says it's fairly slow growing. They can usually paint a pretty accurate picture from those datapoints.

I wish you all strength and health and good luck. If you have any questions, feel free to PM.

2naSalit

(86,775 posts)
10. Yikes!
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 10:04 PM
Mar 2020

I hope things work out for you and that your treatment/surgery goes well when you can get it.

Karadeniz

(22,572 posts)
11. Oh, jeez, when it rains, it pours. I hope things work out for you soon. Sending good thoughts
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 10:18 PM
Mar 2020

Your way!❤

pazzyanne

(6,556 posts)
14. Prayers and good vibes on their way to you.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 10:31 PM
Mar 2020

Stay strong. Stay positive, and remember there are a lot of people who care!

Ilsa

(61,698 posts)
15. I'm so sorry. I hope you can get top priority when your
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 10:32 PM
Mar 2020

Medical team can start seeing patients again.

You'll be in my prayers, Japple

RobinA

(9,894 posts)
16. I Know
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 10:38 PM
Mar 2020

what you are going through. I’m a little ahead of you in this horrendous process. I’ve had my surgery, at least, and am due to start radiation tomorrow. I am terribly afraid I will get sick and have to stop the radiation midway. I’m still working, so I really can’t isolate much. Good luck to you. Don’t worry too much about the surgery, it’s a cakewalk compared to daily life these days.

appleannie1

(5,068 posts)
24. I certainly hope your surgeon beats it or your GP makes an appt. with a different surgeon for you.
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 09:49 AM
Mar 2020

Stay strong.

Beringia

(4,316 posts)
25. I wish you the best of luck with your operation
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 09:56 AM
Mar 2020


I had a close call myself last month. Had a routine mammogram. My last one was 30 years ago. They found a less than 1 cm mass and recommended biopsy. The biopsy was benign.

The doc who told me I had a mass, from the look on her face and her demeanor, I thought for sure it was going to be bad news.

demigal

(15 posts)
26. Similar experience when I was 70.
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 11:52 AM
Mar 2020

I had to wait about 6 weeks after my biopsy for surgery. Of course I was concerned but my surgeon explained that because of my age the chances were that my cancer was not fast growing and that I probably had it for years. Turned out he was correct, only radiation and femara for 5 years were required. I am in my 10th year after a partial mastectomy. Try to anticipate good news and good luck.

japple

(9,839 posts)
28. Thank you. I realize that it is pointless to worry about this as I have no control over
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 12:49 PM
Mar 2020

it. to your anniversary and I look forward to the same.

hermetic

(8,310 posts)
27. My dear friend
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 12:10 PM
Mar 2020

I am so sad that you have to deal with this in these trying times. I send you thoughts of wellness and strength. Having been through a somewhat similar situation, I know the value of having a support group to talk to, even if it is only on the phone. I sincerely hope you have that and if not, feel free to reach out to me and others here who really have your best interests at heart.

japple

(9,839 posts)
29. Thanks so much, hermetic. I do have a network of friends and family that are all in my corner.
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 12:52 PM
Mar 2020

I haven't told a lot of folks about it yet. I wanted to get the surgery part out of the way first. Thanks, too, to everyone here at DU who, whether they know it or not, helps to keep us connected and somewhat sane during this recent unpleasantness.

Thanks again for the good vibrations (and for the book group page.)

japple

(9,839 posts)
30. Thanks to everyone who responded to this post. I appreciate the comments, kind thoughts,
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 12:56 PM
Mar 2020

prayers, good vibes, smilie hugs. DU has such a kind, caring group of people.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
31. Stay cool. The only statistic that matters is of course
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 01:05 PM
Mar 2020

your own, but nevertheless death rates from COVID-19 for those 65-84 are reportedly somewhere in the 3-11% range depending.

Here's wishing you, if you must catch it, a good, immunizing cold.

 

rama2020

(12 posts)
32. You are a TRUE soldier on the front line of this battle against the virus
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 04:51 PM
Mar 2020

You are another normal life affected by abnormal consequences. I salute you for fighting the fight which drafts those selected at random from millions and millions. You deserve the highest reward for your contribution to the world wide battle against a common enemy which attacks the common person.....I am waiting until my time to join others against this common enemy which can affect us all......

dai13sy

(340 posts)
33. Thinking good thoughts for you
Mon Mar 30, 2020, 06:50 PM
Mar 2020

I know what you mean - all of life seems like a big fucking joke right now - we have an idiot for a President, we are all surrounded by this disease no one has ever heard of and don't know how to fix it and you need surgery and your doctor has this plague but I am sending you healing thoughts and magic and hope and whatever it takes to make you well. Keep us posted on your journey forward because I feel a happy beginning

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