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FM123

(10,053 posts)
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 12:16 PM Apr 2020

Women are using code words at pharmacies to escape domestic violence during lockdown

(CNN) On Sunday, a woman walked into a pharmacy in the French city of Nancy, one of the few public places still open after the government imposed a nationwide lockdown to prevent the spread of a dangerous virus.

But the woman wasn't there for medicine; she was there to tell the pharmacist that her partner had abused her. Soon after, the woman's spouse was arrested by police.
As the coronavirus pandemic forces countries everywhere to take unprecedented steps to restrict the movement of their citizens, victims of domestic violence have suddenly found themselves trapped at home with their abusive partners. Some are unable -- or too afraid -- to call the police, experts say.

So France, inspired by a similar scheme in Spain, has started telling victims to head to drugstores. If they can't talk openly in the store, they can simply say the codeword "mask 19" to the pharmacist behind the counter. The woman in Nancy was the first to seek help since the government launched the initiative last week, the spokesperson for Marlene Schiappa, the French minister for equality, told CNN.
As lockdown measures across Europe get stricter, charities and police forces are raising the alarm over a potential spike in domestic violence. Being confined at home with their abuser makes victims more vulnerable, because there is no escape.

(Read More) https://www.cnn.com/2020/04/02/europe/domestic-violence-coronavirus-lockdown-intl/index.html

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Women are using code words at pharmacies to escape domestic violence during lockdown (Original Post) FM123 Apr 2020 OP
Women and children being locked down with their abusers EllieBC Apr 2020 #1
And men being locked down with their abusers uppityperson Apr 2020 #15
+1 It does go both ways! lagomorph777 Apr 2020 #16
Just not by the numbers. So we'll be sure to build a safe house for the men while we build ... Hekate Apr 2020 #26
That's genius. gibraltar72 Apr 2020 #2
Kicketty Kickin' Faux pas Apr 2020 #3
K&R! SheltieLover Apr 2020 #4
Stellar DarthDem Apr 2020 #5
K&R for visibility. crickets Apr 2020 #6
K & R...for visibility...nt Wounded Bear Apr 2020 #7
Thank heaven, pharmacies here should take heed lambchopp59 Apr 2020 #8
There may be a few pharmacies in the US that still won't give CaptYossarian Apr 2020 #20
That was also in David Halberstram's book, "The Reckoning" Grins Apr 2020 #9
Isn't that wonderful,... a support mechanism to the rescue... magicarpet Apr 2020 #10
What's the code word for abuse of a nation by a president? n/t SpankMe Apr 2020 #11
NOV-3 lagomorph777 Apr 2020 #17
+1 2naSalit Apr 2020 #18
DUzy !! FailureToCommunicate Apr 2020 #21
Yep grantcart Apr 2020 #23
Stupid as I am, I've only considered this since I read about the problem last week ... marble falls Apr 2020 #12
Wife beaters are gonna beat. LittleGirl Apr 2020 #13
Kick and rec!..n/t bluecollar2 Apr 2020 #14
I knew this was going to be a serious problem malaise Apr 2020 #19
Sadly, this follows every natural disaster, too. Haggis for Breakfast Apr 2020 #28
That is genius. roamer65 Apr 2020 #22
Friend's coworker killed her husband last week live love laugh Apr 2020 #24
So sorry imavoter Apr 2020 #30
Nice Place Indeed colsohlibgal Apr 2020 #25
I applaud this. And the Ministry for Equality. Imagine that, an actual cabinet dept for equality. niyad Apr 2020 #27
Some countries, cultures, religions, societies BigmanPigman Apr 2020 #29

EllieBC

(3,014 posts)
1. Women and children being locked down with their abusers
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 12:20 PM
Apr 2020

is a huge unintended consequence. Yet I feel like they will be overlooked.

Hekate

(90,683 posts)
26. Just not by the numbers. So we'll be sure to build a safe house for the men while we build ...
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 07:17 PM
Apr 2020

...a safe multi-story apartment house for the women and children. Seriously, lots of sympathy for anyone being abused, and no sarcasm whatsoever.

lambchopp59

(2,809 posts)
8. Thank heaven, pharmacies here should take heed
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 01:13 PM
Apr 2020

It took one long, arduous, expensive and roundabout litigation to impose protective measures, including placing my late father in a lock-down nursing home to end the nightmare of abuse my mother was disability-trapped in some years back now. Numerous visits from the local sherriff's representatives helped the process. My dad didn't help his own free-dum case by pulling a gun on his caregiver, who quit immediately and instigated major family intervention.
Although my mother couldn't have been helped by this system by her own inept memory issues, this sounds like a plan that could help countless others. I envision the "get me a G-D beer, woman" Duck Dienasty types in handcuffs to the sounds of my applause.

CaptYossarian

(6,448 posts)
20. There may be a few pharmacies in the US that still won't give
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 02:01 PM
Apr 2020

the "day after" pill.

Being a safe haven for women might be a stretch for these knuckle-draggers.

Grins

(7,217 posts)
9. That was also in David Halberstram's book, "The Reckoning"
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 01:21 PM
Apr 2020

Same thing was mentioned in David Halberstram's book on the auto industry ("The Reckoning") when GM/Ford/Chrysler were hit in late 1973 with both high gas prices because of the oil embargo, and Japanese imports that were cheaper, had far better MPG, and had MUCH higher quality.

A huge drop in sales and they had to lay-off thousands. And because of that, spousal abuse in the Detroit area jumped 40%.

Still a great book. I may have to re-read it.

magicarpet

(14,150 posts)
10. Isn't that wonderful,... a support mechanism to the rescue...
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 01:21 PM
Apr 2020

... so the victimization comes to a halt.

Men go stir crazy, women get beaten up.
Or USA, USA, USA - - the women get shot.

marble falls

(57,081 posts)
12. Stupid as I am, I've only considered this since I read about the problem last week ...
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 01:23 PM
Apr 2020

we need to implement a program right now in the US.

I loathe bullies.

live love laugh

(13,109 posts)
24. Friend's coworker killed her husband last week
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 06:04 PM
Apr 2020

I predict many bad situations will arise with people living in close quarters under financial stress.

I hope I’m wrong.

niyad

(113,302 posts)
27. I applaud this. And the Ministry for Equality. Imagine that, an actual cabinet dept for equality.
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 08:06 PM
Apr 2020

But we have the misogynist in chief.

BigmanPigman

(51,590 posts)
29. Some countries, cultures, religions, societies
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 11:24 PM
Apr 2020

around the world right now will still not help an abused woman, virus lockdown or no lockdown. The right people need to be locked up, not locked down. Lock up the abusers! Yeah for Spain and France.

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