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C Moon

(12,213 posts)
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 11:40 AM Apr 2020

Nice neighbor, not being nice regarding the virus.

I was taking my dog out for a walk, and I opened the garage door. A neighbor (who loves my dog) was walking by and called her. I told her, "No," and she began walking back to me; Then he walked toward her and called her again and gave her a bear hug.

I had a mask on. He knew I was being wary of the virus, and I told him so. He said, "Oh, it's all so ridiculous."

I pulled my dog away and said, "I'm not being political about this."

What is wrong with people? They can at least respect others who are concerned.
He's actually a nice person, but now I think he's probably a Fox News viewer.

Just because they decide to "drive around without a seat belt," doesn't mean the rest of us have to.

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SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
1. Must be a repuke!🤬
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 11:41 AM
Apr 2020

Wash your dog in Dawn dish detergent. (Won't hurt dog's skin if done occasionally.)

Liberal In Texas

(13,548 posts)
2. It may be time to start walking with a cane.
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 11:43 AM
Apr 2020

If someone starts to get too close to you, raise the cane pointed at them and tell them you want them to stay back.



WhiteTara

(29,705 posts)
8. I have waited my entire life
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 12:11 PM
Apr 2020

to do the old lady with a cane thing. Waving that stick around with intent would definitely back someone up.

niyad

(113,284 posts)
4. I adore animals, and they love me, but, even before this plague, I would never pet one without
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 11:45 AM
Apr 2020

its human's permission. Absolutely so now. Basic courtesy.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
9. That's not a nice neighbor.
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 12:13 PM
Apr 2020

Grabbing someone's ass is not nice, and hugging someone's dog even though they tried to discourage you is invasive and totally inconsiderate, never mind doing it during a pandemic. Fuck people like this who put on a facade of being "nice" but are passive aggressive and borderline creepy inside.

enough

(13,259 posts)
10. Calling your dog after you have called her to you is not friendly, it's hostile.
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 12:27 PM
Apr 2020

With or without a pandemic.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
11. Like the first day of this separation, March 13? a neighbor with a dog that I love so. I started
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 04:11 PM
Apr 2020

walking to her and she was doing an arm movement of separation. Now, to be fair, first day of it and I did not register what she was doing with her arm. I walked right up to the dog and loved on it, hugs some more. Then turned around and walked away waving to her. It was an hour or so afterward that I processed the arm movement as separation.

My bad.

I wave at her from a distance but have not been close enough to tell her, my bad, sorry. I will when this is all done, but I still feel guilty about it. Meh....

C Moon

(12,213 posts)
12. That's understood. With this neighbor, I wouldn't have been so abrupt with him
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 04:35 PM
Apr 2020

if he'd said, "Oh sorry, I forgot..." or didn't say something to the effect of the lock-down being ridiculous.


LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
13. Right. I hear you. I am so isolated and not around others, and really, think little about the virus
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 04:49 PM
Apr 2020

on walks that I forget 6 ft. That is a huge distance. A couple times I have had conversation with others, like asking what kind of tree it is that is blooming these really pretty flowers, and I think I start getting closer than the huge distance of 6 ft. But, I have done pretty good. I might naturally want to be at about 4 ft. We all have our personal comfort zone we are battling too.

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