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I'm quickly correcting myself on the best replacement name for 'Karens'. This is PERFECT! (Original Post) Siwsan Jun 2020 OP
Yes! So obvious after it's pointed out. Hermit-The-Prog Jun 2020 #1
Karen is a simple two syllable word, starts hard and drops off. Ivanka less fluid and harsher. TheBlackAdder Jun 2020 #38
Those who are called out and mocked are harsh, not fluid, and feel privileged. Hermit-The-Prog Jun 2020 #39
True, but that's not why names catch on. They do so because they are phonetically easy to say. TheBlackAdder Jun 2020 #40
I prefer Gladys Kravitz MagickMuffin Jun 2020 #60
LOL. DEbluedude Jun 2020 #61
Yeah, she was always the busy body and calling the cops. But she wasn't nasty like these new types. TheBlackAdder Jun 2020 #63
She knew her place or Samantha would twitch her little nose . . . MagickMuffin Jun 2020 #74
How about cannabis_flower Jun 2020 #83
that's why I call her Barbie, among other reasons. n/t dixiegrrrrl Jun 2020 #87
Karen is funny because it is anonymous. Chemisse Jun 2020 #53
So is Jemima or Ben or Tom! whistler162 Jun 2020 #56
Not sure what you mean; I never found those names to be funny. n/t Chemisse Jun 2020 #66
++++K & R n/t pdxflyboy Jun 2020 #2
I agree! Rebl2 Jun 2020 #3
I like that one, too. wnylib Jun 2020 #22
Wow, that IS perfect! CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2020 #4
1000000000000000000% YES! Love it. nt Quixote1818 Jun 2020 #5
I have said it before. LakeArenal Jun 2020 #6
But that wouldn't be fair to all of the other women named Ivanka ... StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #7
lol uponit7771 Jun 2020 #11
I mean ... Isn't the point of changing it is that calling racist women "Karen" is unfair StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #16
+1000 chia Jun 2020 #18
The moniker Ivanka conjures up so much more than the Karens do lunatica Jun 2020 #27
You know of ONE Ivanka with those characteristics StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #30
I don't know of any other Ivankas lunatica Jun 2020 #34
All the other Karens are pretty safe, too StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #35
Yup. lunatica Jun 2020 #37
It's a common Slavic name, a feminized version of "Ivan", which is equivalent to "John". Crunchy Frog Jun 2020 #52
I think it means little Ivana Rhiannon12866 Jun 2020 #75
MiSoGyNy WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2020 #28
I thought that same thing this morning thinkingagain Jun 2020 #8
K&R, My cousin's name is Karen and she is so sweet uponit7771 Jun 2020 #9
I passed it on to the twittersphere Historic NY Jun 2020 #10
Make it so! n/t lark Jun 2020 #12
YAS.. onecaliberal Jun 2020 #13
I'll do my part on twitter and here rainin Jun 2020 #14
Awright!!! keithbvadu2 Jun 2020 #15
Correct Traildogbob Jun 2020 #17
There. I fixed it. BaronChocula Jun 2020 #19
I dunno, it's not that great a fit. Disaffected Jun 2020 #20
Melania's personality and wnylib Jun 2020 #25
We only see her rehearsed face Siwsan Jun 2020 #29
Yes! karin_sj Jun 2020 #21
Probably should be Buffy, you know Chads significant other. They always think they are special. LiberalArkie Jun 2020 #23
Yes! zentrum Jun 2020 #24
How is this? trumppits ( Karen's. ) Doreen Jun 2020 #26
Exactly. hlthe2b Jun 2020 #31
No. Such behaviors are far too vulgar for an Ivanka. betsuni Jun 2020 #32
Nope. Karens aspire to be wealthy elites. Voltaire2 Jun 2020 #33
I'm sure 99.999% of the Karens don't behave so entitled. Siwsan Jun 2020 #36
99% of Ivankas are also probably pretty decent people StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #41
I wonder how common a name that is, in Eastern Europe Siwsan Jun 2020 #43
So, the commonality of the name determines whether using it as a meme is mysogynistic? StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #45
Ok. Have a restful remainder of the day Siwsan Jun 2020 #46
I rest my case. StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #47
If you think so, then good for you! Siwsan Jun 2020 #49
Duh! Mme. Defarge Jun 2020 #42
I actually prefer Melania Hulk Jun 2020 #44
I find them to be interchangeable, but yea Siwsan Jun 2020 #48
I agree McCamy Taylor Jun 2020 #50
We need a title that isn't anybody's real name. I feel terrible for anyone named Karen Liberty Belle Jun 2020 #51
My earlier post suggested something like Qaronon Siwsan Jun 2020 #54
I have a niece named Karen greymattermom Jun 2020 #55
I have a cousin Karen who is a lovely woman and Dark n Stormy Knight Jun 2020 #78
Good one! Thekaspervote Jun 2020 #57
From Twitter: efhmc Jun 2020 #58
I've heard males who exhibit similar behavior referred to as 'Kevins' Siwsan Jun 2020 #59
That tweet just made me realize the humanity of what was going on with this labeling, efhmc Jun 2020 #69
I guess people all have their own thresholds formed by their own experiences Siwsan Jun 2020 #70
I'd be OK with that. Is there anyone else in the world with that name? ecstatic Jun 2020 #62
that makes so much more sense. Yes, Ivankas!! samsingh Jun 2020 #64
Perfect! relayerbob Jun 2020 #65
Sorry, Ivankas have people to do that for them. whttevrr Jun 2020 #67
Which is kind of why, in a bizarro world way, it works Siwsan Jun 2020 #68
imagine that, can't even BBQ in peace... whttevrr Jun 2020 #71
I can't even begin to comprehend that kind of behavior Siwsan Jun 2020 #72
Some of the black people that I know... whttevrr Jun 2020 #73
OMg.. I thought of that yesterday when Cha Jun 2020 #76
Very good! Since that is a rare name treestar Jun 2020 #77
My liberal friend, Karen, doesn't mind Karens having that name. BComplex Jun 2020 #79
As far as I know, Ivanka never called the cops on a black person FakeNoose Jun 2020 #80
This is a movement I can support superpatriotman Jun 2020 #81
Absolutely excellent... El Mimbreno Jun 2020 #82
Um, nope lykemike Jun 2020 #84
Recommended. H2O Man Jun 2020 #85
How about we call them Kellyanne? jls4561 Jun 2020 #86

TheBlackAdder

(28,209 posts)
38. Karen is a simple two syllable word, starts hard and drops off. Ivanka less fluid and harsher.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 06:07 PM
Jun 2020

.

Becky, Karen, Susan & Gertrude are all two syllables and easy to think internally or speak.

.

MagickMuffin

(15,943 posts)
74. She knew her place or Samantha would twitch her little nose . . .
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 08:52 PM
Jun 2020

and bye bye nosey Gladys!

I'm surprised Endora didn't play with her more. That would have brought in a whole new element into the show!

Chemisse

(30,813 posts)
53. Karen is funny because it is anonymous.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:04 PM
Jun 2020

Your mind just fills in the blanks and it can be funny.

Ivanka is only funny in that 'better to laugh than cry' way that all things Trumpian are. Sometimes it's nice to have a hearty laugh that is not politically tarnished.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
16. I mean ... Isn't the point of changing it is that calling racist women "Karen" is unfair
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:28 PM
Jun 2020

to all of the non-racist women named Karen? So is changing the name to another woman's name any better? It just means that non-racist women named "Ivanka" would be the new victims.

I'll just stick with "Karen" since obviously this really isn't really about what people claim it is, at all ...

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
27. The moniker Ivanka conjures up so much more than the Karens do
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:51 PM
Jun 2020

Karens, as we already know, are white busybody racist women Who feel they are not only entitled to ban all Black people from public places but who feel it is their job to do it themselves, in person. They have the police on speed dial because they feel the police work for them personally and will shoot anyone who they are told to shoot. It is a limited role per say. They are not meant to be seen because they prefer the obscurity of underhanded anonymity.

Ivankas, on the other hand, are daddy’s precious little girls who believe their role in the world is to rub elbows with royalty and world leaders and the other rich beautiful people and that they must always be seen to be doing it in ubiquitous photographs. Like Paris Hilton Ivankas are meant to just be famous, for no other reason than that they have famous last names and have access to all the latest in fashion, plastic surgery and Botox. Their role in life is to be seen.

Ivankas may act like Karens on occasions but Karens are never to be confused with Ivankas.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
30. You know of ONE Ivanka with those characteristics
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:54 PM
Jun 2020

Why should every Ivanka in America be punished?

You're doing to the Ivankas what you claim people are doing to the Karens.

You can't win this argument because if it's wrong to attach a woman's name to particular behavior because it's mysogynistic and unfair to the women with that name who don't share those characteristics, it's wrong to attach ANY woman's name to that behavior for the same reason.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
34. I don't know of any other Ivankas
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 06:01 PM
Jun 2020


Never heard the name before. Maybe it’s a Slovenian thing, or wherever her mother Ivana is from. Come to think of it I’ve never heard of another Ivana either. Ever.

I’m pretty sure all other Ivankas are pretty safe. If any exist the worst that they will suffer will be they’ll be confused with rich daddys’ girls who must always be photo ready.

Crunchy Frog

(26,587 posts)
52. It's a common Slavic name, a feminized version of "Ivan", which is equivalent to "John".
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:03 PM
Jun 2020

"Ivanka" is an affectionate diminutive of that name.

I'm only aware of one person in the country who uses that name. It may be relatively common in Slavic countries.

Rhiannon12866

(205,530 posts)
75. I think it means little Ivana
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 09:20 PM
Jun 2020

My grandmother was Polish - similar language - and they used the same diminutives for female names. I looked up Ivana and she's Czech.

Traildogbob

(8,756 posts)
17. Correct
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:30 PM
Jun 2020

Nothing more insulting than to be called that. She is the poster child of what “Karen’s” are. Spoiled selfish princess. Fake person.

BaronChocula

(1,559 posts)
19. There. I fixed it.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:34 PM
Jun 2020

"Dear people of the world: Please stop calling entitled, horrible WHITE women 'Karens.'..."
It makes all the difference in the world. The central vexing fact about Karens is that they use their WP as a trump in every situation they can. A Karen is not only a woman. it is a white woman. If you're not a Karen, you should have no problem acknowledging that.

Disaffected

(4,557 posts)
20. I dunno, it's not that great a fit.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:36 PM
Jun 2020

Sure, Ivanka is a vacuous, entitled nini but she does not seems to be nearly as angry and mean as a lot of the "Karens" we have read about here.

Leona Helmsley, the 'Queen of Mean', might be a better candidate although I expect most have forgotten about her by now.

wnylib

(21,487 posts)
25. Melania's personality and
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:46 PM
Jun 2020

demeanor fit better than Ivanka's.

It was Melania who wore the coat saying, "I really don't care. Do you?"

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
29. We only see her rehearsed face
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:52 PM
Jun 2020

I imagine the behind the scenes demeanor might be a bit more biting.

LiberalArkie

(15,719 posts)
23. Probably should be Buffy, you know Chads significant other. They always think they are special.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:44 PM
Jun 2020

They always win at everything. They always ________________. Fill in the blank. Buffy has always been with Chad.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
26. How is this? trumppits ( Karen's. )
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:47 PM
Jun 2020

Use the Karen in parentheses until people get the idea of using trumppits. Do not capitalize the first letter of the name as to not give any respect. That is unless it is the first letter in the sentence. Like female trump supporters are the pits.

I do not think there is a chance of offending anyone's name that way.

betsuni

(25,539 posts)
32. No. Such behaviors are far too vulgar for an Ivanka.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:59 PM
Jun 2020

Ivankas do not mingle with the public. One has staff for that.

Voltaire2

(13,062 posts)
33. Nope. Karens aspire to be wealthy elites.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 05:59 PM
Jun 2020

They punch down to feel powerful for a moment.

Ivanka is a powerful wealthy elite.

Big difference.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
36. I'm sure 99.999% of the Karens don't behave so entitled.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 06:04 PM
Jun 2020

And who knows what actually goes on behind closed doors, in Ivanka-land.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
43. I wonder how common a name that is, in Eastern Europe
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 06:25 PM
Jun 2020

My gut says it's pretty uncommon in these here parts.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
49. If you think so, then good for you!
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 06:43 PM
Jun 2020

I just find this kind of purposely obstreperous and (what I see as) needlessly confrontational discourse to be far too exhausting to continue. But that's just me. I understand others think differently.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
44. I actually prefer Melania
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 06:25 PM
Jun 2020

She's as worthless and disgusting as her sugar daddy. Ivanka is just an idiot.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
48. I find them to be interchangeable, but yea
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 06:40 PM
Jun 2020

Both have sold their souls - if they ever had one, in the first place.

Liberty Belle

(9,535 posts)
51. We need a title that isn't anybody's real name. I feel terrible for anyone named Karen
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:02 PM
Jun 2020

or anyone named Ivanka whose last name isn't Trump.

Maybe Privileged White Woman (PWW)? or Spoiled White Woman (SWW). Or Wihte Overbrearing Obnoxious Female (WOOF)

Like we used to say MCPs for Male Chauvinist Pigs in the '60s.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
54. My earlier post suggested something like Qaronon
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:07 PM
Jun 2020

I do like WOOF but you have to know there are some who would likely do enough parcing to equate that to another hat tip to calling someone a 'female dog'.

greymattermom

(5,754 posts)
55. I have a niece named Karen
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:08 PM
Jun 2020

who is a Karen. I still like Ivanka better. There aren't many other Ivankas to be innocently included.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
78. I have a cousin Karen who is a lovely woman and
Mon Jun 29, 2020, 05:35 AM
Jun 2020

wouldn't support Trump, or any R, in a million years. This Karen as a pejorative fad is upsetting. She's talking about changing her name.

efhmc

(14,731 posts)
58. From Twitter:
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:10 PM
Jun 2020

Besides my sweet sister being named Karen, battling through COVID, and now back on the frontlines as a nurse, this is what pisses me off most about it. NEVER is there a male equivalent to get the same amount of hate and vitriol, even though more fat slob MAGA monsters are male.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
70. I guess people all have their own thresholds formed by their own experiences
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 08:03 PM
Jun 2020

And we can discuss and disagree without umbrage or confrontation. Easiest way to learn from each other.

relayerbob

(6,544 posts)
65. Perfect!
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:41 PM
Jun 2020

Yeah, I know too many nice Karens. Someone trumped up not calling them Ivankas in the first place. LOL

whttevrr

(2,345 posts)
67. Sorry, Ivankas have people to do that for them.
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:47 PM
Jun 2020

Ivankas would never be caught dead:
in a public park BBQ (ugh, the nerve)
in Walmart (that's where the 'people' go)
in Target (That's where the other 'people' go)
without an assistant (who may be a 'Karen' for hire)

It just doesn't work. Ivankas have assistants who do the 'Karening' for them.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
68. Which is kind of why, in a bizarro world way, it works
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 07:49 PM
Jun 2020

IMHO, of course. But I do miss the BBQ Becky days. Those spontaneous names were great.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
72. I can't even begin to comprehend that kind of behavior
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 08:26 PM
Jun 2020

Life is just far too short to spend any of it causing unnecessary turmoil.

whttevrr

(2,345 posts)
73. Some of the black people that I know...
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 08:50 PM
Jun 2020

One woman in her twenties worked two full time jobs to save up a down payment on a home and moved her ailing mom in with her. She kept her other full time job, but her family is still around and she is doing well.

Another woman is older and has her own home and works a full time job to pay for it all, but will always accept overtime to pay for home improvements that increase the value of her property, no matter what.

Then there is the other woman who owns her own home, works full time as a professional, and takes a part time job to pay for things to make life fun for her and others. She is so generous with her time and money. Hey girl!

The men are just as equally impressive. An 80+ year old man who works 40 hours a week no matter what. Just the nicest guy ever. You know the one? The older guy that always has a kind word for everyone, believes in God, sings hymnals, and everyone loves.

Another man who worked two full time jobs for years well into his 60's. He retired from one job but kept the other just because it is all he knows: To Work. He worked his whole life and could not have imagined it any other way.

The younger guy that does whatever it takes to provide for his family. He learns as much as he can about policy and procedures, takes an active role in educating others, and keeps plugging away and makes sure he applies for every promotional opportunity available.

They are all fucking super stars and it is heart breaking to think they will be treated differently just because of the color of their skin. It makes me weep to think about it.


treestar

(82,383 posts)
77. Very good! Since that is a rare name
Sun Jun 28, 2020, 09:55 PM
Jun 2020

and evokes only one person to most people, rather than evoking one of their friends or loved ones.

BComplex

(8,053 posts)
79. My liberal friend, Karen, doesn't mind Karens having that name.
Mon Jun 29, 2020, 09:18 AM
Jun 2020

She doesn't take it personally, because she's not mentally ill, and she knows the "other" Karens are batshit crazy.

FakeNoose

(32,645 posts)
80. As far as I know, Ivanka never called the cops on a black person
Mon Jun 29, 2020, 10:26 AM
Jun 2020

Of course I'm talking about a specific person - Ivanka Trump.

The use of the name "Karen" is universal and ubiquitous, but at the same time it's generic. We all know someone like that Karen, who's a self-important white-privileged busybody. But most of us don't know Ivanka Trump other than what's presented in the media.

So for that reason I'm going to stick with "Karen" as a white-privilege moniker, and I'll still make jokes about Ivanka Trump whenever I can.

H2O Man

(73,559 posts)
85. Recommended.
Mon Jun 29, 2020, 04:21 PM
Jun 2020

I've been sick as a dog since Thursday afternoon. But I keep reading this every time I head to the bathroom, to keep my spirits up.

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