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Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(108,127 posts)
Sun Sep 20, 2020, 11:56 PM Sep 2020

For Women, the Death of Ruth Bader Ginsburg Brings a Particular Grief

WASHINGTON — In Waco, Texas, Lily Coffman, 15, donned her handmade “R.B.G.” coronavirus mask and “dissent collar” earrings on Saturday night and joined a small crowd of mostly mothers and daughters in a candlelight vigil at the county courthouse. There, they held an 87-second moment of silence — a second for each year of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s life.

In Denver, Sheena Kadi, 38, who describes herself as a “queer Arab millennial woman,” was making chicken soup on Friday night when she learned of the justice’s death. “I walked over to my desk, lit my R.B.G. candle, opened a bottle of Barolo and cried,” she said.

In Danbury, Conn., Bonnie Rubenstein Wunsch, 59, was helping to run her synagogue’s Rosh Hashana service over Zoom on Friday night when she heard the news. She has been comforted, she said, by a post circulating on social media: In the Jewish tradition, someone who dies on the holiday is considered a “tzaddik” — a righteous person.

For these women and so many others around the country, the loss of Justice Ginsburg brought on a very particular kind of grief. It was not the grief of liberals agonizing over President Trump’s pronouncement that he intended to quickly fill the justice’s seat and the possibility of long-term conservative domination of the Supreme Court, though there was plenty of that.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/for-women-the-death-of-ruth-bader-ginsburg-brings-a-particular-grief/ar-BB19eJs6?li=BBnb7Kz

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For Women, the Death of Ruth Bader Ginsburg Brings a Particular Grief (Original Post) Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2020 OP
Off to greatest with you! niyad Sep 2020 #1
Yes. It was deep and it was profound. FM123 Sep 2020 #2
I hurt inside. TruckFump Sep 2020 #3
I have felt like I lost a member of my own family. Dem2theMax Sep 2020 #4
I lit a candle with an American flag BigmanPigman Sep 2020 #5
. Dem2theMax Sep 2020 #7
It has taken me days grieving in silence saidsimplesimon Sep 2020 #11
WE ARE NOT GIVING UP OUR RIGHTS for anyone.. yuiyoshida Sep 2020 #6
I did that too! Dem2theMax Sep 2020 #8
And the few men in my life Wawannabe Sep 2020 #9
Votes matter ramapo Sep 2020 #10

TruckFump

(5,812 posts)
3. I hurt inside.
Mon Sep 21, 2020, 01:33 AM
Sep 2020

It's like someone near and dear to me has passed from my life. She was there for so many years and she was so wise and so wonderful. It's like losing a good friend who always gave the best advice.

There is never be another RBG.

Dem2theMax

(9,652 posts)
4. I have felt like I lost a member of my own family.
Mon Sep 21, 2020, 01:33 AM
Sep 2020

I've sat here and cried, or sat here and felt numb for the past few days. At midnight last night I went out and put this in front of my house. It was the only thing I could think to do. I took a picture of it this morning.




I'm 64 years old. I think of the things this wonderful woman has done to make my life better, let alone the lives of all the other women in this country. We've lost a giant.

BigmanPigman

(51,617 posts)
5. I lit a candle with an American flag
Mon Sep 21, 2020, 01:39 AM
Sep 2020

wrapped around the base on my outside steps. I let it burn all the way down. It was a purple candle that I had saved from the last Womens March. Today, when I heard her speech from her confirmation hearing, I think, about why abortion is a woman's right as an equality issue I cried again.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
11. It has taken me days grieving in silence
Tue Sep 22, 2020, 03:49 PM
Sep 2020

to utter a simple thank you to Justice Ginsberg for her service on the court and her life of example for US all.

Wawannabe

(5,674 posts)
9. And the few men in my life
Mon Sep 21, 2020, 11:32 AM
Sep 2020

Do not understand why I've been so upset this weekend. Even tho I point blank said why. They STILL don't get it!

ramapo

(4,589 posts)
10. Votes matter
Mon Sep 21, 2020, 05:57 PM
Sep 2020

I know too many women who ‘didn’t like’ Hillary and didn’t vote for her. And those who voted for Reagan and Bush while saying the SC would never rule against Roe. Well it took decades but Republicans never took their eyes off the prize.

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