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Last edited Thu Nov 19, 2020, 07:40 PM - Edit history (2)
I have been wanting to post an update for several days, but there has been nothing good to report.
He has developed pneumonia and his O2 is real low on 8L of Oxygen via a mask.
Today they are administering steroids and palliative care. That is all they can do. He has refused intubation/vent.
So this is it. thank you fucking trump and his fuck face followers.
previous post
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100214515224
Edited in: I can't thank everyone separately. I will be gone for a few days. So thank you all for the heart felt sentiments. They mean a lot.
Don't worry, when I come back (as my Mom always said to me) I will be full of piss and vinegar.
MerryBlooms
(11,776 posts)mercuryblues
(14,552 posts)democrank
(11,112 posts)So sorry....
DonaldsRump
(7,715 posts)Demsrule86
(68,772 posts)malaise
(269,260 posts)sheshe2
(84,009 posts)Sending hugs to you and yours.
Maraya1969
(22,509 posts)a kennedy
(29,754 posts)snowybirdie
(5,249 posts)As you journey through this awful time. Peace to your Dad.
BumRushDaShow
(129,906 posts)I am so so sorry buddy.
Me and my sisters went through that with our mom (several years before covid) and had her moved to a hospice after about a week in the hospital. The palliative care lasted about 3 days and was over.
Sending all my thoughts to you in this difficult time.
healthnut7
(249 posts)Hekate
(90,996 posts)Thanks for letting us know.
renate
(13,776 posts)To be worried, grieving, sad, helpless... that's painful enough.
But for that to be mixed with entirely justified and righteous anger makes it even worse. I'm so, so sorry. This didn't have to happen and I am absolutely furious for what you and your family have to endure.
rustysgurl
(1,040 posts)To feel helpless, and at the same time, anger, must be draining.
Take care of yourself.
moonscape
(4,676 posts)iluvtennis
(19,900 posts)bronxiteforever
(9,287 posts)Peace andy
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)cate94
(2,816 posts)barbtries
(28,817 posts)I hope you are able to be with him and if not IRL, via facetime.
marble falls
(57,429 posts)... trip up Joe. There just are no words to civilly describe what he's done to your family, let alone millions of the rest of the nation.
You and yours are on our minds.
Gilbert Moore
(218 posts)Have you considered contact a hospice organization ? They specialize in palliative care and can often help you with all that you are going thru too. Please feel free to PM me.
Peace,
an ol' hospice volunteer
tosh
(4,424 posts)for your dad and for you. Strength to you both.
boston bean
(36,224 posts)❤️❤️❤️❤️
wryter2000
(46,127 posts)I hope his passing is peaceful. Same for your f-i-l. I hope eventually all the creators of this unbelievable cruelty get their just rewards.
cayugafalls
(5,658 posts)MLAA
(17,366 posts)Fuck all the fucks who voted for trump
TNNurse
(6,931 posts)it is the ultimate act of love and respect.
Will keep you in my thoughts.
Lonestarblue
(10,148 posts)LaMouffette
(2,042 posts)I can just imagine the sense of loss and sorrow and rage you must be feeling. Bless you and your family!
live love laugh
(13,191 posts)chowder66
(9,099 posts)mercuryblues
(14,552 posts)I have often wondered if words from strangers on a message board helps. Unfortunately, now I know. They do. Again, thank you.
Niagara
(7,727 posts)Sending you and your family virtual hugs and healing vibes.
joshcryer
(62,287 posts)Fuck Trump, that piece of shit asshole
LuckyCharms
(17,472 posts)for your dad, for you, for your family.
Very trying, difficult and sad times.
I'm really sorry.
mercuryblues
(14,552 posts)I'm like you I like to take a few moments in meditation sending out positive thoughts in hopes they reach their target or someone else who needs them.
Thank you
Celerity
(43,696 posts)Maeve
(42,306 posts)When we deal with the unimaginable...our thoughts are with you and your family.
flying-skeleton
(698 posts)spanone
(135,921 posts)Tanuki
(14,928 posts)of spirit and healing. I am so sorry that this terrible illness has done this to your beloved father. Peace to you, your parents, and all who hold your father close in their love.
Trueblue Texan
(2,451 posts)I'm sending healing thoughts for your pain. Wish there was more I could offer.
niyad
(113,786 posts)crossing for your father..
Your DU family is here whenever you need us.
JudyM
(29,294 posts)Wishing you comfort, somehow...
Meowmee
(5,164 posts)blogslut
(38,021 posts)❤️❤️❤️
MustLoveBeagles
(11,673 posts)Wishing you and your family the best in this difficult time.
FakeNoose
(32,864 posts)Grief is such a hard thing to bear. I hope you have friends and family members to help you get through this. We are your extended family at DU. Prayers for you and your loved ones.
littlemissmartypants
(22,852 posts)I understand completely. ❤ lmsp
BusyBeingBest
(8,059 posts)as they can possibly make him right now.
brer cat
(24,643 posts)Keeping you in my thoughts and sending positive vibes.
pazzyanne
(6,560 posts)Just a reminder to take care of you during this sad, stressful time. You cannot take care of others if you do not take care of you first. You have many people who care and will send you virtual and well wishes. Looking forward to your return.
greatauntoftriplets
(175,767 posts)Take care of yourself and be there for your mother. socially distanced