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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIf your teen daughter's friend's father said this to your child, what would you think?
From the Vanity Fair article written by a school friend of Ivanka's:
https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2020/11/ivanka-trump-was-my-best-friend-now-shes-maga-royalty
Can you imagine being that teenager, and having your friend's FATHER say that to you, to your face? Instant mortification and a lifelong therapy topic!
I suggest remembering this anecdote, and relating it to the MAGAt Trumphumpers in your life. A very simple story to tell that illustrates who that man is. They might high-five his "locker" talk about grown women, but when put in context of their teenaged daughter, it might suddenly hit home.
Just ask them: "Say, just curious; how would you feel if a man said this to your teen daughter?"
MineralMan
(146,345 posts)Then I'd try to keep my kid away from him.
hunter
(38,340 posts).
GopherGal
(2,010 posts)(now long regretted). I imagine tweener Ivanka's puzzlement as, one by one, her junior high BFFs are forbidden by their mothers from attending her sleepovers, fearful of the presence of her creepy father.
But when she proved to be just an opportunistic apologist ("oh he does that" when asked about his invasion of the Miss Teen USA changing rooms), my sympathy for the Princess evaporated pretty quickly.
PSPS
(13,628 posts)"If I divorce my wife, will she still be my daughter?"
Mike 03
(16,616 posts)a pack of entitled degenerates and thieves with impulse-control problems:
intrepidity
(7,346 posts)but, to be fair, he was a kid and was probably flirting with his sister's friend, in that hair-pulling adolescent way. I'd cut the young Trump some slack here.
But the GROWN ASS MAN father? Oh hell no! Unforgivable, inexplicable, and downright outrageous.
brush
(53,968 posts)We know he likes his own daughter, who was a teen then, that way. And then there was his friendship with Epstein, the teen girl procurer.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)He was born that way. I am convinced of it. His father might have made things worse, but I honestly believe that there was something wrong with him from the start.
CatMor
(6,212 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Their brains are wired differently. Even if he had been born into the most loving family, he still would have ended up being a massive shithead. He is just a giant POS and he always has been.
intrepidity
(7,346 posts)MyOwnPeace
(16,949 posts)WHICH ONE are you talking about - Sr. or Jr.!!!!!!
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Senior, initially, but you could apply the same to Jr and his siblings. There is just something genetically wrong with all of them.
MyOwnPeace
(16,949 posts)IsItJustMe
(7,012 posts)I personally think it's the person who was their role model growing up. But hey, you could be right.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I think most people are born tabula rasa. There are very few people who are really born defective, but I think he was one of them. On top of that, he had a brutal, unloving, cruel father and an absent mother, but how many people have been dealt those same cards and have not turned out as sick as Donald Trump?
In fact, there are children who have been through much worse than he has been through and have come out of it much better. They have grown up to be wonderful people. Then there are people who are psychopaths like Donald and usually they find that there was some kind of brain abnormality that accounts for their sickness. I am not a professional, so I don't know for sure. I only know what I have read. But I honestly believe he was a bad seed. And he will never change. He will only get worse.
Midnight Writer
(21,831 posts)If you have family that encourages bad behavior instead of steering a child productively, you get a Trump clan.
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)You can't expect Trumphumpers to reasonably perform the mental exercise you'd be asking of them there. It would involve the concept of empathy, but unfortunately their brains are not sophisticated enough to make such connections.
Their response would be more like:
"I'd thank him if she had been getting porky! Also obviously she's making up all kinds of lies about Trump because he hurt her feelings once when she was a little girl. What a snowflake!"
intrepidity
(7,346 posts)It's just such a simple, precise, visceral illustration.
*ALL* adult females can relate to having been a teenaged girl. Without exception. Empathy or not.
Men with daughters can be *expected* to maybe be able to relate (obviously that doesn't preclude anyone else from understanding, as well, but it's the "at minimum" qualification).
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)In my experience, these people are all far more defective than I think you may be imagining.
You're projecting upon them an ability for empathy that they simply do not possess.
But by all means, give it a shot.
Let me know how that works out
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Were they taught NO manners?
Celerity
(43,683 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Of course.
MyOwnPeace
(16,949 posts)There's a house down my street where a family has 2 young daughters who were 3 & 5 in 2016. Lovely family and we live on a cul-de-sac and I'm at the "turn-around" end while they're in the middle of it all. I saw them all out on the street one day teaching the girls to ride their bikes. I suggested they come up to the end of the street (3 houses away) so as to have a better view of traffic and a better chance of having to get the girls out of the way of any cars. They DID do that and it was the perfect place for them to ride.
Later in the year (again, 2016) I saw a "TRUMP" sign in their front yard. Couldn't believe it!
(Here's where I blew it - "no guts/no glory" ) I NEVER approached them about that - and it bothers me to this day! How could ANY FATHER of any daughter (OK, yeah, how could ANY THINKING HUMAN BEING.........) support that HOG??????
And yes, the signs were out there again this year.
I still "wave" driving by - the girls wave back, as do their parents, but still.................
WHAT DRIVES A MIND TO SUPPORT SUCH AN IMMORAL PERSON?
intrepidity
(7,346 posts)if you ever talk to them. Needn't be confrontational at all, just a "oh, can you imagine this happening to your daughter" sort of thing.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,487 posts)I've read on here that speaking straight facts like that isn't an insult if it's the truth.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Who says that to a young girl? That's sick!
intrepidity
(7,346 posts)to make a point)
Celerity
(43,683 posts)offer their wives up to him for 'dessert'.
MyOwnPeace
(16,949 posts)but the pics from "MAGA" rallies with the women wearing the shirts - arrow pointing down: "GRAB ME HERE!"
We DO have a problem here in this country..........
intrepidity
(7,346 posts)but if they have any preteen daughters at home, I imagine they'd object to what Trump said to his daughter's friend. If they're being honest, that is.
Like, I hope there's not a shirt that says "Grab My Daughter's ______!"
MyOwnPeace
(16,949 posts)Now you know that MAGATS tend to be a bit "selective" concerning honesty, don't you?
MyOwnPeace
(16,949 posts)what an amazing file of pics you have (said the wolf!).
Hey, Celerity:
intrepidity
(7,346 posts)"I don't have a racist bone in my body"
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)So much wrong with all of them!
MyOwnPeace
(16,949 posts)are you talking about the pictures - or the RepubliCons?
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I am constantly nauseated.
3catwoman3
(24,091 posts)...want to hurl - especially the last one.
I would not want Trump within 100 yards of me for any reason.
hauckeye
(637 posts)He once told a woman employee, you like your candy dont you
GopherGal
(2,010 posts)Mr. Two-Scoops.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Seriously. Per Noel Casler. Just watched a video on it today about The Apprentice. It was disgusting. Really disgusting. Trump is in no position to criticize anybody for anything. He is the most disgusting pig on the planet.
ismnotwasm
(42,022 posts)Comments about the size of my breasts, my weight, what a real man was. He was gross. I thought he was a man of his time took me years to understand what he was. How his comments about my friends weight or appearance was disgusting. There were other behaviors.
He died almost unmourned. Left one hell of a lot of wreckage. One reason I KNOW Trumps adult kids are fucked up, and he left his Mark on his grandkids too.
MyOwnPeace
(16,949 posts)Hope you've been able to work through all of that and are at the top of your game!
hunter
(38,340 posts)Threats like Trump are swiftly neutralized.
My mother, my grandmothers, and my great grandmothers are all very hard women of the Wild West.
My wife is a hard woman of the Wild West.
Zero tolerance of bad men.
They own the land.
Heh. I cannot be emasculated.
My balls are secure.