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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy friend with Covid died last night at 9:04.
He had been working from home since March. He lived alone with his animals. He was a wonderful, kind man. He went home for Xmas, got Covid and died. His family tried to convince him not to come but he just couldn't face Xmas alone.
I am having good luck finding good homes for his animals. Thank goodness. I am his pet sitter and thank goodness his family found me.
Why does it seem like it's the best people who die and the awful people just carry on?
tblue37
(65,483 posts)good ones suffer and die. Thank you for taking care of his pets and finding good homes for them.
Bluethroughu
(5,184 posts)FakeNoose
(32,725 posts)You honor his memory by seeing that his pets are being cared for.
hlthe2b
(102,343 posts)his family, and most assuredly his pets. They will undoubtedly mourn him, no matter how good the new home might be. (and I truly hope they will be re-homed--it sounds like you are making sure of that)
My deepest sympathy for all.
Guilded Lilly
(5,591 posts)fleur-de-lisa
(14,628 posts)Nevilledog
(51,185 posts)Freedomofspeech
(4,227 posts)blm
(113,083 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)Im so sorry.
panader0
(25,816 posts)On Dec 2nd I drove to an old friend's ranch house to look at some work he wanted done.
We were both masked and outdoors, taking measurements. I was there almost an hour.
I called back in a week with some numbers on the work but no answer.
Turns out he had gone to the VA in Tucson and had covid. They put him in a coma and on a ventilator.
The outlook was pretty dim. Well, I spoke to him last night. He was in the induced coma for almost 5 weeks.
He talked like he got religion while knocked out--quite a change from the hell-raiser he was for years.
whathehell
(29,086 posts)Uplifting story.. Thanks for posting.
LymphocyteLover
(5,652 posts)he seemed very humbled by it all. I was worried about him when he told me he tested positive. I talked to him a couple months later and was relieved he made it.
MustLoveBeagles
(11,632 posts)Buckeye_Democrat
(14,856 posts)... to break isolation became too strong for him.
Sorry about your friend.
marlakay
(11,484 posts)We have so many cases now.
dameatball
(7,399 posts)his loss isn't painful and seemingly unjust, but he made a choice that many of us might make. Condolences from myself and DU, if I may.
CaptainTruth
(6,600 posts)sinkingfeeling
(51,471 posts)UpInArms
(51,284 posts)😢
Obvious85
(259 posts)such a blessing
sdfernando
(4,939 posts)I'm glad he had you to take care of his critters and now to find good homes for them. I'm sure they all miss him as well.
Fla Dem
(23,736 posts)My sympathies to you.
Karadeniz
(22,564 posts)Are you also trying shelters, rescue groups...if you need them. Your friend and his pets are so fortunate to have you!
malaise
(269,157 posts)and you ask a good question.
ffr
(22,671 posts)All lanes though are open to heaven.
Lonestarblue
(10,053 posts)Im sure he would be grateful that youre finding good homes for his pets.
BainsBane
(53,056 posts)COVID is so unfair.
MLAA
(17,318 posts)I am so sorry to hear this. Thank goodness you are finding homes for his pets. You are an earth angel.
Liberty Belle
(9,535 posts)He has been on a ventilator for eight days and is not expected to survive, I learned today.
Damn to hell Trump and all of his minions who failed to remove him from office last January, which would have prevented most of this carnage.
electric_blue68
(14,932 posts)leftyladyfrommo
(18,869 posts)Better.
MustLoveBeagles
(11,632 posts)electric_blue68
(14,932 posts)Deuxcents
(16,314 posts)Because your friends heart n deeds were so honorable. My cousin is in hospital with Covid19 n pneumonia n a DNR. I cant say I know how you feel but I have a pretty good idea..its the good people among us that seem to leave us too soon. Maybe heaven just cant do without them and call them early.
LaMouffette
(2,039 posts)And you're right: your friend was so careful, yet took a chance one time, just to be with his loved ones and caught the virus and passed away, while thousands of maskholes who refuse to self-isolate or do something as simple as cover their face with a cloth to keep others safe do not get the virus, at least we rarely hear about them getting it.
There is no justice with this virus. And I am so sorry for your loss!
Moostache
(9,897 posts)This has been the worst 12 month span of my life by far.
May the memories better times find you in the moments you need them most...
Rebl2
(13,544 posts)and I ask that on almost a daily basis.
Tanuki
(14,920 posts)You honor his memory and friendship by looking after his beloved pets and finding them homes. Blessings on you!
❤
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)Healing vibes on the way to you and his animals! 💗💗💗
Ty for helping his furkids.
turbinetree
(24,713 posts)not only for you but his family...........
barbtries
(28,810 posts)that is too sad.
Evolve Dammit
(16,760 posts)healthnut7
(249 posts)yourmovemonkey
(267 posts)I lost a friend and coworker a few weeks ago. He was only 52, and in pretty good shape. The youngest of his 4 kids is only 18. I feel terrible for them. The whole family is so nice, and they were being safe.
All of this was completely unnecessary.
calimary
(81,440 posts)Thank you for that. It will help your friend rest in peace, for sure.
bdamomma
(63,919 posts)is the question that remains to be a mystery.
There's a very long list of awful people esp. past Repig administrations.
stage left
(2,965 posts)for the loss of your friend.
Maru Kitteh
(28,342 posts)Thank you for taking care of the animals.
iluvtennis
(19,868 posts)May he Rest in Peace and his Memory Be a Blessing.
shrike3
(3,741 posts)Why I don't believe in karma. The best people die and the awful people carry on.
I hope your memories of him bring comfort.
Montauk6
(8,079 posts)ailsagirl
(22,899 posts)colorado_ufo
(5,737 posts)Thank you so much for helping!
BlueNProud
(1,048 posts)pazzyanne
(6,556 posts)So glad you are rehoming his fur babies! For those of us with pets, leaving them behind is a big worry. You are an .
William769
(55,147 posts)japple
(9,838 posts)so lucky to have a good, kind soul such as you in his life. We should all be so fortunate. Peace and love to you and yours, and may all of his animals be loved to the end.
BlueIdaho
(13,582 posts)May all who knew and cared for him find peace and comfort in this difficult time.
leftyladyfrommo
(18,869 posts)live with ruined lungs.
bluestarone
(17,025 posts)I hear you about why it seems like the good people always die. I've felt the same way MANY times!
leftyladyfrommo
(18,869 posts)He had a little cat which we have a good home for.
He had 2 lovebirds. 2 flying squirrels and a bunch of fish
He had 2 125 gal tanks and two 60 gal. Tanks. And all kinds of equipment
We got the cat and the fish covered. Mow we need homes for the lovebirds and the flying squirrels
.
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BobTheSubgenius
(11,564 posts)You are honouring him by doing what you are doing for his pets. I hope that leaves you with some of the peace and contentment you deserve.
wendyb-NC
(3,328 posts)That's so sad. What a loss. I hear you, it seems like we lose the good people and the scumbags are indestructible. Look at agent orange.
MustLoveBeagles
(11,632 posts)My sympathies to you, his family and his furbabies. You are a very good friend to find new homes for his animals. Take care of yourself.
live love laugh
(13,124 posts)demtenjeep
(31,997 posts)I have asked that too/. Why did my wonderful sister die and not her piece of shit husband
mfcorey1
(11,001 posts)shanti
(21,675 posts)Losing a good friend is tough.
Gothmog
(145,489 posts)Blue Owl
(50,489 posts)leftyladyfrommo
(18,869 posts)sheshe2
(83,861 posts)Laurelin
(533 posts)For your loss. And so glad you're there for his pets. My pets are one thing that worry me about covid, as in, what would happen to them if the worst were to happen to me and my husband?
At least he knew you were there. I think that probably mattered a lot to him.
qzwv8j
(87 posts)So many who have been hospitalized and/or died without arrangements for their animals have overwhelmed the shelters and rescue organizations to the extent many of the animals turned in at the shelters are being killed as soon as the person dropping them off leave. I mean immediately... straight to the kill room.
Two words, one very important legal document Animal Trust.
I am saddened for your loss. No words can make this right or your pain less. But your friend was lucky to have you, because youre doing what you can to save his precious family. And since he knew he had you, it was something he did not have to agonize over as he realized he would not be coming home. IMO, with each task you take on to find new homes for these animals has you walking on sacred ground.
leftyladyfrommo
(18,869 posts)They were to him.
LibinMo
(533 posts)May peaceh and comfort be with you and all who have lost loved ones.
leftyladyfrommo
(18,869 posts)Just how dangerous Covid is. It just doesn't seem real until it hits you right in the face and then it's too late.
His poor family are trying to live with the grief and the guilt. He just didn't want to be alone for Xmas.
Now his family is trying to pick up the pieces. Their lives are shattered.
gldstwmn
(4,575 posts)You are an angel for taking care of the fur babies.