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spooky3

(34,460 posts)
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 02:21 PM Mar 2021

What MSM is ignoring or downplaying about the Atlanta shootings

I read the NYT, WaPo, and BBC coverage of the story. Clearly, racist hate may have played a role and the media are stating this explicitly. But where is the mention of misogyny and sexism as playing a role? Missing nearly entirely from the WaPo and NYTimes coverage, even though the suspect admitted that he targeted women because they “tempted” him.

At least the BBC noted that their hate crimes law omits sex and gender as a basis for determining hate, even while race, sexual orientation, and other factors are included.

It is time that misogyny be named front and center as a problem and solutions be discussed.

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What MSM is ignoring or downplaying about the Atlanta shootings (Original Post) spooky3 Mar 2021 OP
And the Deeply Rooted Toxic Religion leftieNanner Mar 2021 #1
Religion will never be recognized as evil. Cartoonist Mar 2021 #3
I agree completely that the media have wnylib Mar 2021 #18
Apparently, "devout" Southern Baptist leftieNanner Mar 2021 #20
All things except murder, apparently. louis-t Mar 2021 #27
I think in our culture LiberalLoner Mar 2021 #2
Sadly it's so common for men to murder women that if you called that a 'hate crime' ... Hugh_Lebowski Mar 2021 #4
It is definitely being reported on cable news that it was all women Bev54 Mar 2021 #33
Yes, and mentioning that only that women were victims spooky3 Mar 2021 #39
They were discussing it as part of the motivation Bev54 Mar 2021 #42
Not in the sources I noted in my OP, as of the time of the OP. Nt spooky3 Mar 2021 #43
He has a sexual addiction? multigraincracker Mar 2021 #5
Ditto. nt iluvtennis Mar 2021 #7
Suicide is preferable to murder, too. At least in my mind it is. LiberalLoner Mar 2021 #9
Or... mezame Mar 2021 #17
There actually is such a thing as wnylib Mar 2021 #23
Oh...is that a disability like alcohol addiction?? Rustyeye77 Mar 2021 #24
Snipes or snips? That's really important. Really. jaxexpat Mar 2021 #30
Any word on suspect's ''pol'tics''? empedocles Mar 2021 #6
End the patriarchy. barbtries Mar 2021 #8
Wouldn't it be wonderful if the world really believed that? LiberalLoner Mar 2021 #10
because republicans and religions. barbtries Mar 2021 #31
Actually shooting led to this article today about sexism and racism playing a role in recent attacks andym Mar 2021 #11
Glad to see that article. Nt spooky3 Mar 2021 #40
Another thing mentioned here last night is Mr.Bill Mar 2021 #12
Yes, I'm sure that was just due to chance. spooky3 Mar 2021 #46
Looks like this terrorist hit the trifecta here: gender, race, religion IronLionZion Mar 2021 #13
THIS malaise Mar 2021 #15
Because Jesus said murder was okay but sex for money isn't. Not. Ilsa Mar 2021 #21
Like Kyle Rittenhouse, they'll probably crowdfund his legal fees nt IronLionZion Mar 2021 #28
It's all a part of a pattern Larissa Mar 2021 #14
War on Women Everywhere mezame Mar 2021 #22
A fair number of those male gropers are also molesting their daughters, remember. I think I read LiberalLoner Mar 2021 #35
AGREE. Treefrog Mar 2021 #16
I tried to convey this in the other thread on the shootings. appleannie1 Mar 2021 #19
Trans Panic... mezame Mar 2021 #25
I don't think there's any question that misogyny was involved peggysue2 Mar 2021 #26
In this particular case, adding hate crime charges wouldn't make a difference in his punishment Hoyt Mar 2021 #29
But using that logic, you would question why the articles raised spooky3 Mar 2021 #41
100% Mike 03 Mar 2021 #32
I doubt this guy has ever had an actual real emotional relationship with a woman BlueNProud Mar 2021 #34
I wonder what his home life was like? Where did he learn that women are just objects so it's LiberalLoner Mar 2021 #36
How in the name of anything holy does a hate crime law cover all the things it does, but not gender? BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #37
That's what BBC reported, and this link says it's true: spooky3 Mar 2021 #38
OH, I believe it's true, as I said. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #44
And with that exception, Ilsa Mar 2021 #45
K&R, the M$M has ran 1241234 stories on Cuomo pre-investigation but wont call this guy misogynist uponit7771 Mar 2021 #47

leftieNanner

(15,124 posts)
1. And the Deeply Rooted Toxic Religion
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 02:25 PM
Mar 2021

As well. He killed those women because his religion told him that his sexual desires were sinful. And it was all their fault.

wnylib

(21,495 posts)
18. I agree completely that the media have
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:26 PM
Mar 2021

overlooked misogyny in reporting about the shootings. But I haven't come across any reports yet that give religion as the cause of his concern about sexual addiction. What is his religion?

LiberalLoner

(9,762 posts)
2. I think in our culture
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 02:28 PM
Mar 2021

It’s so normal to hate women and to use violence against women that we don’t see it as anything bad, as a culture. It’s just the way things are, you know.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
4. Sadly it's so common for men to murder women that if you called that a 'hate crime' ...
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 03:12 PM
Mar 2021

You'd sorta water down the idea behind the particular elevated penalties.

I mean, if we want to have a system where basically men murdering men (or women murdering women) who are pretty much just like themselves, by any reasonable definition ... are basically one (lower penalty) class of murder, and all others have elevated penalties, I guess we could do that too.

That said, getting back the VAWA would be an excellent move in the right direction!

Bev54

(10,053 posts)
33. It is definitely being reported on cable news that it was all women
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 05:17 PM
Mar 2021

They are not ignoring it, but then it is the women that are bringing this forward, not the men.

spooky3

(34,460 posts)
39. Yes, and mentioning that only that women were victims
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 08:21 PM
Mar 2021

Does not identify sexism or misogyny as an issue. It would be like identifying targets as Asian American, but not raising the possibility explicitly that racism would be investigated as a motive, or that this incident calls attention to a broader societal problem.

multigraincracker

(32,690 posts)
5. He has a sexual addiction?
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 03:25 PM
Mar 2021

I have a simple cure for that. Just 2 quick snipes and no more problem. Might think twice if that were the cure.

wnylib

(21,495 posts)
23. There actually is such a thing as
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:44 PM
Mar 2021

sexual addition, often going back to chilhood sexual abuse that sexualizes a person's identity, and there is such a thing as counseling for it.

But if someone really does have a sexual addiction and admits it to himself, why on earth is he putting the blame on women and KILLING them, instead of getting counseling?

 

Rustyeye77

(2,736 posts)
24. Oh...is that a disability like alcohol addiction??
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:47 PM
Mar 2021

There are clinics that can help him overcome that addiction.

I bet he walks.

jaxexpat

(6,837 posts)
30. Snipes or snips? That's really important. Really.
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 05:07 PM
Mar 2021

Can't imagine how introducing some fast little wading birds into the situation would help at all. But if I'm wrong........maybe pelicans could end international warfare. Blue footed boobies can stop bombers before they even get off the ground, I hear. What? have we been misusing the dove as a peace symbol when it should have been a flamingo all along.

LiberalLoner

(9,762 posts)
10. Wouldn't it be wonderful if the world really believed that?
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 03:29 PM
Mar 2021

I’m 59 and not holding my breath for it to happen any time soon. In fact I often think we are going backwards, and fast.

barbtries

(28,799 posts)
31. because republicans and religions.
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 05:07 PM
Mar 2021

obviously they will not go quietly. male chauvinist pigs (now you know how old i am!) cannot perceive of a world where equality exists and they still do well, even though in reality they would probably do much better.

it is beyond annoying how back assward the world is, but i have hope for my granddaughter at least.

Mr.Bill

(24,303 posts)
12. Another thing mentioned here last night is
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 03:49 PM
Mar 2021

yet another white armed mass murderer was taken into custody without a scratch or a bruise on him.

spooky3

(34,460 posts)
46. Yes, I'm sure that was just due to chance.
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 10:22 PM
Mar 2021


So glad that the law officials didn't make his "bad day" worse...

IronLionZion

(45,460 posts)
13. Looks like this terrorist hit the trifecta here: gender, race, religion
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:02 PM
Mar 2021

His neighbors are saying he's from "a good Christian family" so he decided to punish the Asian women tempting him by their existence. If it turns out that these massage parlors were fronts for sex work, he'll probably get sympathy from religious nuts who ignore "thou shall not kill".

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
21. Because Jesus said murder was okay but sex for money isn't. Not.
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:42 PM
Mar 2021

Such hypocrites.

That shithead would have been better served finding a new religion that was cool with his "sex addiction."

Larissa

(790 posts)
14. It's all a part of a pattern
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:04 PM
Mar 2021

Violence and disrespect against women are all of a piece. Male bosses groping and feeling up women in the workplace knowing that she'll think twice about complaining; could be out of a job. She'll smile, wear high heels, make-up and lipstick and like it. Some of these same male gropers even have daughters. Would they like their daughters to submit to such debasing workplace harassment?


mezame

(295 posts)
22. War on Women Everywhere
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:43 PM
Mar 2021

wasn't there something about gauging a society by how women were treated? I guess the lessons we learned watching The Black Panther need a reboot. Passing the Equality Act would help, at least here. But the degradation or elevation of women is playing out globally right now. Much of it is heartbreaking and painful to see (Boko Haram). We absolutely must keep shining lights and lift up our brave, strong women (RBG, AOC, Stacey A. - so many going back and leading through centuries).

The AmEroAfroUro "Beauty Standard(s)" really are double-edged swords. Damned if you do. Damned if you don't. Now's a good a time as any to start thinking about what's important to you. Stop living for things. Start living for each other.

/endrant

LiberalLoner

(9,762 posts)
35. A fair number of those male gropers are also molesting their daughters, remember. I think I read
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 06:02 PM
Mar 2021

1 in 3 females are molested as children. That molestation is not perpetrated by strangers, actually. But society doesn’t want to really look at reality. As a formerly abused kid, I will just say, families suck.

appleannie1

(5,067 posts)
19. I tried to convey this in the other thread on the shootings.
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:27 PM
Mar 2021

It is no different than blaming what a woman is wearing when she is raped instead of blaming the man that is guilty of raping her. He killed them because they were tempting him? BS. They are not the problem. He is the one with the problem and he would have found women to shoot no matter what their job was. Quit blaming the victims whenever they are women.

mezame

(295 posts)
25. Trans Panic...
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:49 PM
Mar 2021

...has also been used to defend murderous behavior. The 'i was tricked and panicked' miscreants have a special level in Dante's Hell awaiting them. Or pump them full of estrogens and start calling them Sue.

peggysue2

(10,832 posts)
26. I don't think there's any question that misogyny was involved
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 04:53 PM
Mar 2021

He blames the women (who he murdered) for tempting him, seducing him into behavior he wanted to stop. As if he had no agency to stop himself.

Women as the seductress, the seducer, the temptress, yada, yada is the excuse. That and having a bad day.

Clearly, this young man had problems with women, so severe he decided murdering them was a solution because they were making him to do 'bad things'.

If he came from a strict religious back ground where sex is blasted day after day as sinful and ugly, then that would only increase the tension and boil over in an unstable mind.

Victimization on steroids. Violence and death is frequently the end note.



 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
29. In this particular case, adding hate crime charges wouldn't make a difference in his punishment
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 05:03 PM
Mar 2021

unless we start torturing mass killers. I think hate crimes charges are only good if the victim(s) aren't killed.

With that said, not in opposition to adding all kinds of hate crime designations.

spooky3

(34,460 posts)
41. But using that logic, you would question why the articles raised
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 08:27 PM
Mar 2021

The question of whether racism was the motive.

This incident is horrifying on its own, but it is also likely an indicator of a societal problem of misogyny and sexism. That needs to be addressed, just as George Floyd’s murder is not an isolated event.

I’m glad to see that Chris Hayes’s guests and he are discussing this and intersectionality now.

I would also like the media to stop appearing to presume that Asian American spas are engaging in prostitution.

Mike 03

(16,616 posts)
32. 100%
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 05:13 PM
Mar 2021

This is the aspect of the story that worries me the most. There are hundreds of thousands of guys just like this out there. Not all of them are mass shooters or spree killers. Some might be serial killers.

I'm just as guilty as anyone else of ridiculing the Incels, but they are not a laughing batter. They are driven by a hatred of women and a ludicrous sense of self-entitlement and a refusal to take personal responsibility for their lives. Some will be propelled into violence. They are first and foremost loners; therefore, more difficult to track than, say, a militia or white supremacy group where members cross-communicate frequently or put themselves at risk attempting to recruit new members. Incels are out there all by themselves, ruminating and fantasizing.

I'm glad there are several posts on this topic.

KICK AND REC.

BlueNProud

(1,048 posts)
34. I doubt this guy has ever had an actual real emotional relationship with a woman
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 05:18 PM
Mar 2021

very stunted world view no doubt fueled by interwebs

LiberalLoner

(9,762 posts)
36. I wonder what his home life was like? Where did he learn that women are just objects so it's
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 06:04 PM
Mar 2021

Okay to hurt or kill them?

He had to be carefully taught...

BobTheSubgenius

(11,564 posts)
37. How in the name of anything holy does a hate crime law cover all the things it does, but not gender?
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 08:04 PM
Mar 2021

I can scarcely believe it's true, although I trust that it is so. Definitely, it should cover gender and any other characteristic that is identifiable.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
45. And with that exception,
Wed Mar 17, 2021, 09:31 PM
Mar 2021

we still can't get the Violence Against Women Act re-authorized. Women are screwed both ways.

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