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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Wed May 5, 2021, 09:09 AM May 2021

I am both embarrassed and disheartened about how many posts I type and then scrap

because what needs doing cannot be discussed.

As Sean Connery put it, "What are you prepared to do?"

(This is the heavily edited version of my OP.)

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I am both embarrassed and disheartened about how many posts I type and then scrap (Original Post) Atticus May 2021 OP
Am intrigued now.... secondwind May 2021 #1
;-{) Goonch May 2021 #2
I often feel that way about replies and then think it is is just not worth the effort so efhmc May 2021 #3
I do the same Bettie May 2021 #4
Same here Rebl2 May 2021 #25
My fear is the people who purposefully Bettie May 2021 #32
I do that too. The reason I decide not to post after reading what I wrote is usually... Towlie May 2021 #5
Same here... jcgoldie May 2021 #12
Lol. Thanks for the chuckle! KPN May 2021 #24
Most of the half I do post probably shouldn't have been posted either. I appogize. marble falls May 2021 #6
+1 rampartc May 2021 #13
Same here... MiHale May 2021 #7
Ha malaise May 2021 #8
I'm not. 😂 boston bean May 2021 #9
lol 😂 secondwind May 2021 #11
As the saying goes "Never telegraph your actions." harumph May 2021 #10
. world wide wally May 2021 #14
for sure, same here HAB911 May 2021 #15
I think it is a good thing to do. marie999 May 2021 #16
I wish that motherfucker would hurry up and dalton99a May 2021 #17
yeah, the POS already showed the crack in the second Vi MadLinguist May 2021 #20
my inner editor has issues stillcool May 2021 #18
I think most of us do that, but it's a good exercise. For one, you get your thoughts down and Frustratedlady May 2021 #19
Same here. Another way of looking at it is, you pick your battles. What's worth dealing with. ancianita May 2021 #21
Embarrassed for yourself, or for a portion of the DU community ... Martin Eden May 2021 #22
Wow. You read my mind this morning! KPN May 2021 #23
Sometimes it's just, "Wait a minute do I really want to post this?" FakeNoose May 2021 #26
On average I send out about 20% nevergiveup May 2021 #27
K and R and... PCIntern May 2021 #28
Well, above all, we have to be RESPECTFUL of those trying to destroy us. Atticus May 2021 #29
Sometimes I do that, yes. Elessar Zappa May 2021 #30
I've been here a long time. cate94 May 2021 #31

efhmc

(14,726 posts)
3. I often feel that way about replies and then think it is is just not worth the effort so
Wed May 5, 2021, 09:21 AM
May 2021

use other avenues for what I want to say.

Bettie

(16,109 posts)
4. I do the same
Wed May 5, 2021, 09:21 AM
May 2021

all the time. Probably more than half of my posts are typed, retyped and then discarded.

Rebl2

(13,507 posts)
25. Same here
Wed May 5, 2021, 11:37 AM
May 2021

A lot of times I write it and figure I will be attacked for what I say, so I don’t post. Recently I decided to post my reply to something and sure enough I was attacked.

Bettie

(16,109 posts)
32. My fear is the people who purposefully
Wed May 5, 2021, 01:38 PM
May 2021

misinterpret what I've said, to try to make it something other than what I said.

I'm willing to take the heat for unpopular opinions.

Towlie

(5,324 posts)
5. I do that too. The reason I decide not to post after reading what I wrote is usually...
Wed May 5, 2021, 09:24 AM
May 2021

 


Oh, never mind.

 

marie999

(3,334 posts)
16. I think it is a good thing to do.
Wed May 5, 2021, 09:50 AM
May 2021

You can get it all out of your system without being deleted. I do it all the time.

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
19. I think most of us do that, but it's a good exercise. For one, you get your thoughts down and
Wed May 5, 2021, 11:01 AM
May 2021

clear some of the garbage we carry around out of our brain...even for a short time.

My inner self talks to me all the time. Sometimes it's even right. Sometimes we argue the points ad nauseum, that's when a post and its responses straighten everything out. LOL If the post doesn't make sense, scrap it. The exercise keeps us sane.

ancianita

(36,055 posts)
21. Same here. Another way of looking at it is, you pick your battles. What's worth dealing with.
Wed May 5, 2021, 11:19 AM
May 2021

We learn to make concessions to our priorities. We just can't address everything. Don't be embarassed about being judicious. Besides, writing is thinking, and sometimes you just have to write to get your thoughts clearer for yourself, which is a good thing.

I feel okay about it when I realize that Biden uses the same scrapping process every damn day.

Martin Eden

(12,867 posts)
22. Embarrassed for yourself, or for a portion of the DU community ...
Wed May 5, 2021, 11:28 AM
May 2021

... which will respond with attacks of righteous indignation rather than calmly discuss the ideas you so carefully considered and worded before deciding to scrap?

FakeNoose

(32,639 posts)
26. Sometimes it's just, "Wait a minute do I really want to post this?"
Wed May 5, 2021, 11:45 AM
May 2021

It happens to me a lot, the hesitation to post something tells me what I needed to know. If I can't be clear about a subject, then maybe I don't have a full grasp, or maybe I haven't thought it all the way through.

Scrapping a post that's not "ready for prime time" is often the BEST way to go.

nevergiveup

(4,760 posts)
27. On average I send out about 20%
Wed May 5, 2021, 11:51 AM
May 2021

of the posts I type. I can't explain this but my longer more thought out posts are the ones I am most likely to scrap.

PCIntern

(25,544 posts)
28. K and R and...
Wed May 5, 2021, 11:59 AM
May 2021

I know exactly what you mean. In fact, the other day, I had a post removed because I must have had the bad luck of having my jury be the entire DU fan club of Marjorie Taylor Greene - i won't repeat my post of course. I've been posting here since 2004 and had my share of posts removed, but this is the first one wherein I said "WHAT!!??" out loud. Whatever....

I had thought about posting it but was certain that it was OK....what do I know? I just work here.

Atticus

(15,124 posts)
29. Well, above all, we have to be RESPECTFUL of those trying to destroy us.
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:22 PM
May 2021

Have mercy! I just about GAGGED as I typed that!

Elessar Zappa

(13,991 posts)
30. Sometimes I do that, yes.
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:24 PM
May 2021

But overall I find the moderation on this site very reasonable. I've had some posts deleted but most were deserved.

cate94

(2,810 posts)
31. I've been here a long time.
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:38 PM
May 2021

In fact, I came here when having a post count of 1000 meant you were an old timer. As you can see, I never kept up. Deleting what I write seems to be a favorite past time of mine.

And, of course, somethings just can’t be said.

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