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billh58

(6,635 posts)
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 02:08 PM Aug 2021

What Is the Male Version of a Karen?

His name is Ken. Or Terry. Or Greg. And he might be you.

It all started with BBQ Becky. But before she was re-birthed as a Karen, dripping in the amniotic fluid of internet shorthand, her name was Jennifer Schulte and she was a middle-aged white woman who called the police to report that a black family was using a charcoal grill in a park where open fires were not allowed. Schulte dialed 911 several times over the course of a few hours, not because she was in any danger but because the family was doing something that she didn’t like (open fires turned out to be permitted, as though that matters). She wielded her whiteness like a buzzsaw.

Once Twitter got wind of the events, Schulte was given a nom de guerre, one of a number of dismissive sobriquets for entitled white women who patrol people of color. BBQ Becky was followed by such figures as Permit Patty and Central Park Karen, each a riff on the theme of racist quasi-distress — the discomfort of the privileged mistaken for an emergency. While the Karen meme has come to make fun of a particular type of middle-aged white woman who demands to speak to the manager, she falls into this taxonomy as well. While less discussed, there is a male version of Karen. He’s Karen’s equivalent partner in quasi distress and his name is Ken. Or Greg. Or sometimes Terry.

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Although humorous, the Karen memes address important social issues that have only recently come to a boil in the current political landscape: namely, white privilege, which is lived and exploited, oftentimes unwittingly, by white women and men everywhere. However, while Karens are burned at the stake online, their male counterparts are often let off the hook. Williams, who may be the only scholar whose given this subject its due time, explains why this is the case and why the internet (and Black Twitter in particular) seem to let Kens (the male equivalent of a Karen) off easy. Her theory, based on an analysis of nearly 100,000 tweets, suggests that racist narratives are deeply internalized and woven into the fabric of American culture.

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To be able to pick up the phone and say, “Hey, someone is doing something that I don’t like” — not even, like, “Hey, someone is doing something that makes me feel unsafe” — is a privilege. Women of color and people of color don’t have that same privilege. And that really is the same centerpiece that connects all of these. Women, and in some cases men, rely on that white privilege and they do it so naturally that calling the police really becomes an extension of upholding the everyday standard of whiteness.

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The "Karen" meme is applied mainly to Republican racist, homophobic, bigoted, self-entitled white women. But then again, this definition fits almost all Republicans (regardless of gender) doesn't it?

The article goes on to point out that one of the reasons that white males don't get the meme treatment as much as white females, is that they tend to take the law into their own hands and not call for help. This is essentially the "stand your ground" mentality which is also steeped in vigilante racism - like lynching.
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What Is the Male Version of a Karen? (Original Post) billh58 Aug 2021 OP
Kyle? Sneederbunk Aug 2021 #1
I call them all Karens. NurseJackie Aug 2021 #2
What's even funnier is to shame girl children who have the name Karen. Just a knee-slapper Hestia Aug 2021 #21
Aw. NurseJackie Aug 2021 #22
Penises have been called dicks since the 1880s EYESORE 9001 Aug 2021 #27
100% agree! USALiberal Aug 2021 #24
Todd Captain Zero Aug 2021 #3
I have heard Kyle, Kevin, Chad and a few others. nycbos Aug 2021 #4
My next-door neighbor's name is Chad. Aristus Aug 2021 #29
It remains "Karen". Non gender specific LakeArenal Aug 2021 #5
how about McCloskey? agingdem Aug 2021 #6
Its got to be snowybirdie Aug 2021 #7
You mean the Esteemed RANK Member of Congress. CurtEastPoint Aug 2021 #8
Dick? pwb Aug 2021 #9
KenBun Budi Aug 2021 #10
A Karen. (n/t) Iggo Aug 2021 #11
Darren. rsdsharp Aug 2021 #12
Too late now but entitled should not be 'Karen'. Should be 'Ivanka'. keithbvadu2 Aug 2021 #13
Kyren. It's English. snort Aug 2021 #14
Archie Bunker. For nearly 50 years. nt madinmaryland Aug 2021 #15
That is a very good name for such people andym Aug 2021 #17
Oh, there are plenty of Democrats and apolitical people who are Karens. WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2021 #16
I always liked Herbert from that Star Trek "hippie" episode. rickyhall Aug 2021 #18
A Tucker? 11 Bravo Aug 2021 #19
I think that's perfect! Haggard Celine Aug 2021 #23
It appears that billh58 Aug 2021 #20
"Karen" is a fucking stupid idea! Wish they would stop it. USALiberal Aug 2021 #25
That ship has sailed. NurseJackie Aug 2021 #28
Most of my neighbors. marble falls Aug 2021 #26

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
2. I call them all Karens.
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 02:10 PM
Aug 2021

It's funny to see Karens get upset about being called Karen. (Typical Karens, eh?)

 

Hestia

(3,818 posts)
21. What's even funnier is to shame girl children who have the name Karen. Just a knee-slapper
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 05:03 PM
Aug 2021

isn't it? They are out there, go look at Social Security who records and ranks children's names by birth year. The name was in the top 200 until the name has been excoriated.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
22. Aw.
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 05:05 PM
Aug 2021
The name was in the top 200 until the name has been excoriated.
Not many guys named "Dick" anymore either. Oh well.

EYESORE 9001

(26,025 posts)
27. Penises have been called dicks since the 1880s
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 06:53 PM
Aug 2021

Hard to explain why parents would just now cease giving their Richards the nickname Dick.

nycbos

(6,041 posts)
4. I have heard Kyle, Kevin, Chad and a few others.
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 02:18 PM
Aug 2021

There doesn't seem to be a universally excepted term for a male Karen.

I feel bad for every woman named Karen who is decent person.

Aristus

(66,503 posts)
29. My next-door neighbor's name is Chad.
Mon Aug 2, 2021, 11:24 AM
Aug 2021

And he's the nicest, kindest, most thoughtful guy you can imagine.

It's a shame 'Chad' has become shorthand for boorish, thuggish, frat-boy behavior.

andym

(5,446 posts)
17. That is a very good name for such people
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 03:58 PM
Aug 2021

though Archie was actually loved by many who were just like him in real life.

billh58

(6,635 posts)
20. It appears that
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 04:31 PM
Aug 2021

most readers have not bothered to read the article. The point is not the name, but the white privilege that is exhibited by the "Karens" and the "Kens" that are identified by their right-wing, racist actions.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
28. That ship has sailed.
Mon Aug 2, 2021, 11:03 AM
Aug 2021
Wish they would stop it.

“Wish in one hand, shit in the other, see which one fills up first.”
― Stephen King, The Dark Tower
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