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Did Cuomo really say, I knew there was a line, I just didn't know the line moved? (Original Post) Baitball Blogger Aug 2021 OP
"In my mind, I've never crossed the line with anyone." Niagara Aug 2021 #1
Thank you. Baitball Blogger Aug 2021 #3
You're welcome. Niagara Aug 2021 #7
Maybe, but, if so, not in the context your husband asumes since Cuomo denies that particlar claim. lapucelle Aug 2021 #2
Thank you. Baitball Blogger Aug 2021 #4
I think his argument is greenjar_01 Aug 2021 #5
That makes more sense. Thank you. Baitball Blogger Aug 2021 #6
I think Cuomo displayed a range of behaviors - OhZone Aug 2021 #8
+1 Baitball Blogger Aug 2021 #11
We'll know a lot more once any criminal investigation is complteed and the AG releases lapucelle Aug 2021 #9
Forward is the only functional choice. Baitball Blogger Aug 2021 #12
The line never moved, it's just now safer for women to call men out on their harassment elias7 Aug 2021 #10
Toxic masculinity is another good reason to end the conservative attitudes in this country. Baitball Blogger Aug 2021 #13

Niagara

(7,605 posts)
1. "In my mind, I've never crossed the line with anyone."
Fri Aug 13, 2021, 11:28 AM
Aug 2021

"But I didn’t realize the extent to which the line has been redrawn.”


Quote is 2:25 timestamp.

Baitball Blogger

(46,703 posts)
3. Thank you.
Fri Aug 13, 2021, 11:32 AM
Aug 2021

My husband's version is probably the right one for men in the Boomer era and older. I was a young working woman in the eighties. It was definitely a Trump kind of locker room generation.

Niagara

(7,605 posts)
7. You're welcome.
Fri Aug 13, 2021, 11:37 AM
Aug 2021

I added the additional quote where he stated "But I didn’t realize the extent to which the line has been redrawn" after you thanked me. That's my bad for not adding it sooner.

lapucelle

(18,252 posts)
2. Maybe, but, if so, not in the context your husband asumes since Cuomo denies that particlar claim.
Fri Aug 13, 2021, 11:30 AM
Aug 2021

There is a criminal investigation concerning that charge and we'll all know more when it's completed.

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
5. I think his argument is
Fri Aug 13, 2021, 11:33 AM
Aug 2021

1) He didn't do any of the obvious harassment and illegal touching
2) The "line moved" on the other things, like putting his arm around somebody or saying things to them

His argument is not "It was once fine to grab a secretary's breast without asking, but now it's not."

OhZone

(3,212 posts)
8. I think Cuomo displayed a range of behaviors -
Fri Aug 13, 2021, 11:42 AM
Aug 2021

I mean I agree with you, Bait. As a woman, his behavoir angers and appalls me. Some of the things Cuomo did were OBVIOUSLY over the line.

But some of his touching was just human warmth.

He needed to go, but I think we can understand that

But the answer is just not to touch anyone at work, especially with Covid.

lapucelle

(18,252 posts)
9. We'll know a lot more once any criminal investigation is complteed and the AG releases
Fri Aug 13, 2021, 11:51 AM
Aug 2021

all the evidence and transcripts from her investigation.

I'm a New York Democrat, and we're focused on moving forward with our incoming governor and winning local races in November. I'm already phone banking for county executive Laura Curran and my state senator Todd Kaminsky.





elias7

(3,997 posts)
10. The line never moved, it's just now safer for women to call men out on their harassment
Fri Aug 13, 2021, 12:01 PM
Aug 2021

If he didn’t feel that most anything he did that involved touching another human being was crossing boundaries, he is just a toxic masculine.

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