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(67,112 posts)BlueWavePsych
(2,640 posts)Doodley
(9,152 posts)East-A-Squared
(14,505 posts)Sympthsical
(9,143 posts)Partisanship has gotten weird.
But I recently saw a thread celebrating the death of an 18 year old (from a dumb accident - not from Covid), so I don't know where that puts us.
Social media are making us an uglier people.
Rorey
(8,445 posts)I do feel guilty when I actually "yearn" for someone's demise. But when they do something stupid, and then die because of it, I don't feel guilty about pointing out their stupidity.
Sympthsical
(9,143 posts)If a smoker dies of lung cancer, most people think, "That's a horrible way to go." We don't laugh and high five about it.
If an obese person dies of hypertension or any of the other countless maladies associated with it, we don't hop on message boards discussing how much they deserved it and how happy we are to see them gone for their ignorance and refusal to be healthy.
I just don't see all this as much different.
It's all just very sad. I wish people would've made different choices.
We do this with Covid because we have decided it's socially and politically acceptable to be this callous about it.
Now make threads of fat people dying. See how that one goes.
They're still choices people make. They still cost us money in the health care system. We still have people advocating for it (healthy at any size!). But we don't do that. When someone makes poor choices and dies, we feel sad about it. Well, most of us do, most of the time. If we're empathetic humans.
This nastiness is born of pure politics. Mainly, I think, because the unvaxxed are seen as mostly on the Right. They're not, but that's the Narrative. So it's ok to be nasty about it and them. There are other populations, Democratic demographic populations, that are also way undervaxxed.
Where are those threads of celebration and jokes?
Exactly. If you wouldn't behave that way towards your friends and family, don't do it at all. And if you do behave that way with your friends, I don't want to be yours.
Phoenix61
(17,021 posts)else out with them. Neither is the person who doesnt monitor their blood pressure or sugar. The anti-vaxers have chosen to be willfully ignorant and their ignorance isnt just a threat to their life, its a threat to everyone they come in contact with. Whatever celebratory note people take when hearing of their demise is due to having outlived someone who seemed hell bent to kill themselves and as many others as possible. So yeah, when I hear that someone has died of terminal stupidity I may very well crack a joke about it.
Aristus
(66,481 posts)According to the CDC, since 1964, about 2.5 million people have died from health problems related to the exposure to and inhalation of second-hand smoke.
Rorey
(8,445 posts)I've never seen posts of anyone laughing or "high-fiving" about deaths, so I guess I just missed those posts. Pointing out their stupidity is a far cry from laughing or celebrating.
I feel like you're directing your post at me because it was in response to my post, but I've done none of the things you mentioned.
Frankly, I don't think my little post warranted such a response, but if it makes you feel better to unload all that on me, go for it.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)If on the other hand, the only concern is how it advertises the person laughing at the expense of the dead, does self-righteous sanctimony at the expense of those laughing also advertise something just as negative?
Not that anyone would ever be guilty of that. Just a hypothetical, is all.
Scrivener7
(51,059 posts)"Well, yes. That will happen."
I don't like that I feel this way, but I do.
At this point, my hope is that this wave goes hard and fast and at the end of it everyone is either vaccinated, immune or dead. Because that's the only way this ends.
Sympthsical
(9,143 posts)"Well, they made their choices."
It's all you can really say.
But a death is never an opportunity of high fun for me. Unless it's someone like Hitler. But not the asshole neighbor down the street with kids and a family.
Rorey
(8,445 posts)And they don't mind. They're, y'know, dead.
wryter2000
(46,108 posts)"Everyone has to die. If it's my time to go, I go. I'm not going to live my life in fear."
I just saw a clip where a reporter asked the guy, "Do you wear seat belts?" The guy said he did.
Hugh_Lebowski
(33,643 posts)RE: those people, I say 'Hell no'!
But then again ... I've been known to be an unrepentant dick sometimes
Talitha
(6,630 posts)Blue Owl
(50,532 posts)roamer65
(36,747 posts)They wont trust a vaccine that is now administered in the millions of doses, but now run to hospitals demanding care involving far more experimental drugs and treatments.
Its just stupid and needs to be satirized and lampooned.
StopTheNeoCons
(893 posts)Tetrachloride
(7,878 posts)we can use the broad range of our linguistic abilities.
Steelrolled
(2,022 posts)if they are on the other side.
Tracer
(2,769 posts)The only deaths I would make a joke about are the people who cheered on the anti-vaxxers, refused the vaccine him/her self, lay in the hospital whining about the unfairness of it all, or begged for the vaccine just before his/her intubation.
flying_wahini
(6,676 posts)If I was an anti Vaxer I would Be Demanding everyone wears a mask. Right?
Its a clue to what they Really believe.
Binkie The Clown
(7,911 posts)Turbineguy
(37,383 posts)they would most likely get vaccinated.
They are not without blame but those who keep them in this state are responsible.
Initech
(100,112 posts)I'd love to see Mark Zuckerberg dragged before a Senate committee and/or The Hague to explain this.
SidDithers
(44,228 posts)Sid
Initech
(100,112 posts)I say anything is on the table!
SYFROYH
(34,185 posts)I'm not making any jokes about COVID victims whether vaxxed or not.
Kaleva
(36,371 posts)My diet needs improvement and I need to lose 50 or so pounds for starters.
Kaleva
(36,371 posts)Midnight Writer
(21,819 posts)Ridicule may work.
Rational presentation of logic will not.
Appeals to their humanity will not.
ellie
(6,929 posts)I am just flabbergasted at these people and their stupidity. Do they really think COVID is a hoax? WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK? To go through life and think the news is lying to you is just beyond belief. I am vaccinated and I still wear a mask.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Iggo
(47,579 posts)Just answering.
GusBob
(7,286 posts)Said vaxxed folks dying was anecdotal and posted on rofl emoticon. Like it is funny
Just after I found out an acquaintance died this morning
That I found to be in poor taste