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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forums"If I were Black, I'd be picking cotton. But I'm white, so I'm picking you for [school dance]."
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Kansas student was asked to homecoming with a blatantly racist sign. It wasn't the first time the phrase was used to score a date to a high school dance.
"I felt it was important to share that we are working to thoroughly investigate the situation and contact all parties involved, including student guardians," Olathe South Principal Dale Longenecker wrote in a statement, citing a report by local news station KSHB. "At Olathe South and in the Olathe Public Schools, we are committed to creating an inclusive and safe environment for ALL our students."
"The type of behavior displayed in the social media post does not meet the expectations of our core values. Any behavior like this will be immediately addressed in accordance with our Student Code of Conduct," Longenecker continued.
St. James Academy, a Catholic school where the other student attends, also condemned the incident and launched an investigation, saying in a statement that "racism in any form is an assault on human dignity."
Rhonda Windholz, the mother of the teenage girl in the viral photo, defended her daughter after she received backlash and death threats in response to the proposal sign.
"Caught up in the excitement of being asked to her first-ever homecoming, our daughter held the sign that was given to her," Windholz told KSHB. "It was only after actually comprehending the situation, that she realized what was happening. She blatantly said no!! By then, it was too late."
"One Caucasian and one African-American boy were involved. It was the African-American boy who actually made the sign, already marked up and took the picture," Windholz added. "This by no means makes it right but should shed some light on the situation."
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/a-kansas-student-was-asked-to-homecoming-with-a-blatantly-racist-sign-it-wasn-t-the-first-time-the-phrase-was-used-to-score-a-date-to-a-high-school-dance/ar-AAP1ijP?ocid=msedgntp
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)Demovictory9
(32,454 posts)protection.
The internet doesn't play.
marble falls
(57,080 posts)... that said, animal abusers deserve a lot of what they get in a court of law.
Demovictory9
(32,454 posts)marble falls
(57,080 posts)Judi Lynn
(160,527 posts)That's not anyone's "right" just because he/she can do it without being stopped first.
Life looks exciting when you're "free, white, and 21," but sometimes there are legal limits for people who aren't quick to grasp things, or moral enough to care.
marble falls
(57,080 posts)Haggard Celine
(16,844 posts)Hardly anyone does. They have machines that do that now; they've had them for years. I know they were trying to be cute, but that's just stupid.
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Iggo
(47,552 posts)tanyev
(42,552 posts)yardwork
(61,599 posts)Apparently this is a thing? What the? Why would these kids inject ugly racism into a school dance invitation?
JI7
(89,248 posts)and the internet . But it's always been like this.
uponit7771
(90,335 posts)Scrivener7
(50,949 posts)One Caucasian and one African-American boy were involved. It was the African-American boy who actually made the sign, already marked up and took the picture," Windholz added.
What must the culture of the place be, for that to be the case?
yardwork
(61,599 posts)I can imagine the culture being so bad that a black kid might go along without, but I haven't seen corroboration of the mother's claim.
Caliman73
(11,736 posts)The United States.
Look up "The Doll Test". Started in the 1940's the doll test has been repeated decade after decade with similar results. Black children and Brown children will often point to the doll that has similar skin color to them when asked, "Which is the bad doll?" and "Which is the ugly doll". Both White children and children of color will point to the White doll when asked, "Which is the smart doll?", "Which is the good doll?"
It is ingrained in the culture of the United States. For children of color to participate in something that is historically denigrating to their own cultural heritage and ancestors is not that uncommon.
In my own culture, and in my own family I have heard Mexican immigrants called "illegals" or even "wet backs". We are of Mexican heritage and I am born of Mexican Immigrants on both sides. Go figure.
Scrivener7
(50,949 posts)Judi Lynn
(160,527 posts)His delivery was "I'm impossibly ignorant, nearly criminally insane, and I can see you are, too. Come on out to the dance with me and raise your profile a notch or two."
uponit7771
(90,335 posts)LiberatedUSA
(1,666 posts)Shell be having to explain it for the millionth time 20 years from now when it comes up in job searches.
MissMillie
(38,553 posts)Or, more accurately--why do other people think that's funny?
Racist sh!theads
Treefrog
(4,170 posts)yardwork
(61,599 posts)Apparently it's a thing in some high schools. Appalling.
gulliver
(13,180 posts)The article said it was the two boys who made the sign, one Black and one White. The White boy is in the picture while the Black boy took the picture. Maybe they intended it as a joke on her or that she be in on the joke, but, if not, it was a truly rotten thing to do to the girl. Dumb, for sure, but we forgive that in teens.
And, of course, the adults all reacted in a knee jerk, CYA, thuggish, and foolish way. The adults are supposed to be wiser than that.
jmowreader
(50,557 posts)This is how you pick cotton in 2021.
A black man with one of these is a rich gentleman...in part because they're about $600,000 apiece, and also because you contract to all the farmers in the area to pick their cotton and haul it to the gin.
Having said that...not sure whether promposals or gender reveal parties have gotten more out of hand, but they're both pretty far out there.