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The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 03:36 PM Jan 2012

Woman who wore a prosthetic device while contemplating gender change claims J&J Snack Food fired her

SCRANTON, Pa. - A woman who wore a prosthetic device while contemplating a gender change claims J&J Snack Food fired her for it, though it did not fire a male worker who wore female prosthetic devices and dressed in women's clothing.

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Woman who wore a prosthetic device while contemplating gender change claims J&J Snack Food fired her (Original Post) The Straight Story Jan 2012 OP
So was this "prosthetic device" like a plastic penis? Nye Bevan Jan 2012 #1
Because it's inappropriate to discuss one's genitals (prosthetic or otherwise) in the workplace? n/t targetpractice Jan 2012 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author Bunny Jan 2012 #9
Good point. If I kept talking about my (real) penis at work, Nye Bevan Jan 2012 #12
I wear a penis to work every day and never had a problem... rfranklin Jan 2012 #4
What a packer usually looks like (prosthetic penis photo inside) justiceischeap Jan 2012 #19
I thought this photo looked familiar wolfeyes21 Aug 2012 #24
Thanks for this post Vanje Aug 2012 #31
Why do you need two of them? n/t 2on2u Aug 2012 #26
because they don't last very long and obviously the one on the left is not a realistic color wolfeyes21 Jan 2013 #35
16. Plaintiff worked as a packer dawg Jan 2012 #2
Are packer peckers prohibited? rfranklin Jan 2012 #5
You can prick your finger in public... rfranklin Jan 2012 #6
You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you should 2on2u Aug 2012 #27
perhaps prosthetic packer peckers are prohibited. ddeclue Jan 2012 #13
A Plethora of Places Prohibit Plastic Prosthetic Penis Products jberryhill Jan 2012 #16
Choices DryHump Jan 2012 #18
So this is all about a packer plaintiff's prosthetic pecker pecadillo in Pennsylvania? slackmaster Jan 2012 #20
plenty of people partake in prosthetic peckers. Packing paired with prosthetic peckers aka packers Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #25
No, but I have heard that prostate massagers are reasonably priced. n/t 2on2u Jan 2013 #36
No problem if she wore it and kept her mouth shut. Avalux Jan 2012 #7
Shouldn't be a problem if she talked about it either. nt justiceischeap Jan 2012 #8
Why do you say that? Do men walk around the workplace talking about their penises? Avalux Jan 2012 #10
You're assuming that he's talking about his penis justiceischeap Jan 2012 #14
Until the trial, all assumption. Avalux Jan 2012 #17
If she told HR, not a problem. If she told coworkers, might be a problem. REP Jan 2012 #15
Fine line... Generally workplaces would look upon such discussions as potential sexual harrassment. hlthe2b Aug 2012 #29
Right fucking on! Vanje Aug 2012 #32
Untimely arrousal?? n/t 2on2u Jan 2013 #37
Does not compute lumberjack_jeff Jan 2012 #11
It provides a preview of the problems that proper penis possessers pilot slackmaster Jan 2012 #21
A pee-proof pliable plastic penis is perplexing. n/t lumberjack_jeff Jan 2012 #22
Seems like the men here (mostly) think this is comedy gold CreekDog Jan 2012 #23
You and me both, Creeky Vanje Aug 2012 #33
It's Call Me Wesley Aug 2012 #34
It would be interesting if Ilsa Aug 2012 #28
Insurance generally does not cover gender reassignment surgery n/t Ms. Toad Aug 2012 #30

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
3. Because it's inappropriate to discuss one's genitals (prosthetic or otherwise) in the workplace? n/t
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:22 PM
Jan 2012

I'm guessing the basis for the termination was "sexual harassment"... I support the plaintiff's transition, but not sure why she needed to share details in the workplace... probably crossing the line.

Response to targetpractice (Reply #3)

 

rfranklin

(13,200 posts)
4. I wear a penis to work every day and never had a problem...
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:33 PM
Jan 2012

I have heard of other people wearing vaginas without incident.

(She was probably just proud of her new package.)

wolfeyes21

(2 posts)
24. I thought this photo looked familiar
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:32 AM
Aug 2012

As being the one who originally took this photo and being transgender myself, I really think you all need to educate yourselves on the subject. Granted if the plaintiff was using something not deemed a packer, which is usually made of cyberskin to simulate a flaccid penis, then it may have been noticeable by coworkers etc.

But in regards to all of the jokes made and the puns, these really are not funny at all to anyone who goes through this on a daily basis. I don't see anything funny about being fired over the fact that someone can go to work presenting as the gender they identify with. There are no laws in place that strictly protects transgender people from discrimination. And I have experienced similar occurences, being let go because of my transgender status, though being told that "the company had to let the seasonal help go a month early" yet I was the only one whom was let go.

I hope the plaintiff wins, because no one should be fired for a reason like this.

And on a side note, packers are not prosthetics. Packers are usually made of materials that do not last as long or look as realistic as a prosthetic would and are only a fraction of the price.

Vanje

(9,766 posts)
31. Thanks for this post
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 05:38 PM
Aug 2012

Apparently the thread is just hilarious.
Call me humorless, but I dont think discrimination for Trans peoples is all that funny

Welcome to DU. Dont let the A-holes get you down.

 

rfranklin

(13,200 posts)
6. You can prick your finger in public...
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:36 PM
Jan 2012

but you can't finger your prick in public. (George Carlin)

 

2on2u

(1,843 posts)
27. You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you should
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 07:29 AM
Aug 2012

never pick your friend's nose.... anyway, how was she wearing it? Inny or outy?

 

ddeclue

(16,733 posts)
13. perhaps prosthetic packer peckers are prohibited.
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:47 PM
Jan 2012

pardon me while I wipe the spit off the monitor...

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
16. A Plethora of Places Prohibit Plastic Prosthetic Penis Products
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:57 PM
Jan 2012

...especially things like the "Whizzinator" brand of fake penis that is sold with substitute urine for the purpose of defeating urine tests.

DryHump

(199 posts)
18. Choices
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 05:20 PM
Jan 2012

Unfortunately she wore the eighteen-inch, semi-erect, tatooed Plastic Prosthetic Penis Product and did not have the foresight to carry a math book to work to mask the damn thing.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
20. So this is all about a packer plaintiff's prosthetic pecker pecadillo in Pennsylvania?
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 05:24 PM
Jan 2012

I'm confused.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
25. plenty of people partake in prosthetic peckers. Packing paired with prosthetic peckers aka packers
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:59 AM
Aug 2012

is presumably permitted in Pennsylvania.

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
7. No problem if she wore it and kept her mouth shut.
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:36 PM
Jan 2012

There was no reason to inform co-workers she was wearing a penis. And how were they informed? The trial will be fun!

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
10. Why do you say that? Do men walk around the workplace talking about their penises?
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:42 PM
Jan 2012

Depending on what she said and to whom, would be considered sexual harrassment. Any sort of sexual talk is a no no.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
14. You're assuming that he's talking about his penis
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:49 PM
Jan 2012

when it could have been mentioned that he was transitioning. Or someone could have noticed he was packing. No one needs to say the word penis to talk about one's transition and talking about transitioning shouldn't be grounds for firing.

Oh, and I've worked in plenty of work environments where men talk about their penis.

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
17. Until the trial, all assumption.
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 05:08 PM
Jan 2012

We really have no idea what was said to co-workers. I'm just saying that if she did talk about wearing a prosthetic penis to co-workers, it would be considered sexual harrassment. If I worked with a man who talked to me about his penis, I'd go to HR immediately.

REP

(21,691 posts)
15. If she told HR, not a problem. If she told coworkers, might be a problem.
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 04:49 PM
Jan 2012

Coworkers should not be discussing genitalia with each other. Talking about it with a friend is one thing; talking about it at coworkers at work during work hours could be harassment. Without more information, it's difficult to know.

Fired for just wearing it? Big problem.

hlthe2b

(102,247 posts)
29. Fine line... Generally workplaces would look upon such discussions as potential sexual harrassment.
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 08:50 AM
Aug 2012

Vanje

(9,766 posts)
32. Right fucking on!
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 05:41 PM
Aug 2012

...and if I tell my co-workers I'm gay , is that sexual harrassment?

A co-worker of mine in the very early 1990s thought it was.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
23. Seems like the men here (mostly) think this is comedy gold
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 11:58 PM
Jan 2012

I laugh at a lot of random stuff.

But someone going through that? It seems kind of harsh to laugh and make jokes about someone going through something so challenging and already subject to ridicule.

Do people here laugh and make jokes when they watch that show "Little People, Big World"?

To laugh at that is more a reflection on the person doing the laughing --at least that's how it looks from here.

Call Me Wesley

(38,187 posts)
34. It's
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 06:24 PM
Aug 2012

the 'Rush-Limbaugh-Reflex.' Or frat boys hurting due puberty changes. Or to keep it short and in one for them (hopefully) understandable word: disgusting.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
28. It would be interesting if
Sat Aug 18, 2012, 07:35 AM
Aug 2012

she was able to have her surgery, then get rehired as a man.

I wonder if her pay would be higher?

I hope she can keep her insurance to help pay for the surgery.

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