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I can't imagine the pain Alec Baldwin is experiencing (Original Post) luv2fly Oct 2021 OP
Hag? How easily we progressives reflectively go to sexism. LizBeth Oct 2021 #1
I stand by the word luv2fly Oct 2021 #3
Of course you stand by it. That is neither here nor there. LizBeth Oct 2021 #7
The word perfectly describes her. jrthin Oct 2021 #12
You can call a man a dick or a tool or make fun of his wiener, and nobody will care. Wingus Dingus Oct 2021 #23
Nothing sexist about it at all. Perfectly good word. A Polly Hennessey Oct 2021 #5
:) And to reactionism. Calling her a pig would be swinism, Hortensis Oct 2021 #9
Hagfish are a primitive creature, H2O Man Oct 2021 #20
:) Barbels near their mouths and rough tongues...suggestive of. nt Hortensis Oct 2021 #25
No kidding. nt BlackSkimmer Oct 2021 #10
Oh FFS? Really? Nt USALiberal Oct 2021 #37
using gender specific adjectives/ pronouns does not imply Thtwudbeme Oct 2021 #41
Lol BannonsLiver Oct 2021 #45
I read about that last night. It seems to me that Republicans are engaged in a race Arkansas Granny Oct 2021 #2
Absolutely luv2fly Oct 2021 #6
The American psyche has a dark underbelly, and it is very ugly. Irish_Dem Oct 2021 #4
I was struck by those photos of him afterward Doc Sportello Oct 2021 #8
i don't like raw story. barbtries Oct 2021 #11
Being alive with mental torture is living in agony. jrthin Oct 2021 #14
so is the sudden loss of a loved one barbtries Oct 2021 #15
can we be sorry and empathetic stopdiggin Oct 2021 #26
no. not a contest. barbtries Oct 2021 #32
It becomes about him because he is famous. LakeArenal Oct 2021 #34
I don't think I needed a reminder stopdiggin Oct 2021 #43
+1 n/t luv2fly Oct 2021 #40
It's not a contest luv2fly Oct 2021 #17
Stupid skanky scum. dalton99a Oct 2021 #13
Careful lest thou be labeled sexist luv2fly Oct 2021 #18
Was there a ruling by the Committee for the Promotion of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice? dalton99a Oct 2021 #19
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2021 #36
Heaven forbid we all have a little bit of Grammy23 Oct 2021 #16
Hire Union workers for safety malaise Oct 2021 #21
BINGO! I fear there in lies the problem Cozmo Oct 2021 #28
I ofter wonder if it was non-union XanaDUer2 Oct 2021 #29
It's the pain many who mishandle guns feel Kaleva Oct 2021 #22
First question! mikeysnot Oct 2021 #24
Sadly on point. Codifer Oct 2021 #27
+1, uponit7771 Oct 2021 #30
Alec Baldwin will be in my prayers LetMyPeopleVote Oct 2021 #31
Calling them "deplorable" is putting it lightly. Initech Oct 2021 #33
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2021 #35
The pain of her husband and children might compare. Patton French Oct 2021 #38
Is it a contest? luv2fly Oct 2021 #39
No, obviously not intentional. Patton French Oct 2021 #42
K&R MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #44
What about the pain of the loved ones of the person that was killed? kentuck Oct 2021 #46
Of course their pain matters luv2fly Oct 2021 #47
I wonder how we would feel if dumbcat Oct 2021 #48
It would be slightly different sarisataka Oct 2021 #50
Mine would be. It's a clear accident, unless something else comes to light saying otherwise. Wingus Dingus Oct 2021 #51
I can only speak for myself here MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #52
I believe so luv2fly Oct 2021 #53
thoughts and prayers for Alec and Hilaria in this difficult time cadoman Oct 2021 #49

Wingus Dingus

(8,059 posts)
23. You can call a man a dick or a tool or make fun of his wiener, and nobody will care.
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 11:56 AM
Oct 2021

Use anything approaching a gender-oriented insult on women, though, and watch the alerts fly. It's the DU Double Standard. They should probably work on that. Either allow all gender-oriented insults, or none.

Polly Hennessey

(6,812 posts)
5. Nothing sexist about it at all. Perfectly good word. A
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 10:19 AM
Oct 2021

hag is a hag. I know the three witches from McBeth would be sad that you thought hag was sexist.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
9. :) And to reactionism. Calling her a pig would be swinism,
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 10:36 AM
Oct 2021

and no doubt also rightly be taken as a slur against women. Douchebag is unisex, even primarily used for males, but some would naturally experience it as a slur against women. And any use could be considered sexism, women don't own offence.

We could try to take the high ground and avoid all slurs.

But that does raise another problem. Calling her congressman insults all members of congress and congress itself, and could be considered sexist by some, but the same for "congresswoman." And even calling her Boebert insults other Boeberts everywhere.

Referring to her as a "woman" or "female" would be to insult all women. What to do?

Another way to seek the high ground might be to allow a little wiggle room behind the lines we all draw. Maybe consider, before launching an attempt to suppress or erase expression, whether suppression of innocently meant speech might be the worse offense.

Or ban talking about this particular woman altogether. Because, no matter how anyone puts it, she is just naturally offensive.

H2O Man

(73,666 posts)
20. Hagfish are a primitive creature,
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 11:52 AM
Oct 2021

kind of like an eel. They have the barbels near their mouth, and rough tongues. Very few people have found them pleasant to eat, largely because they have a nasty aftertaste difficult to get out of your mouth. As far as I know, the only culture that values them are found in Korea, where some men consider them to be an aphrodisiac.

 

Thtwudbeme

(7,737 posts)
41. using gender specific adjectives/ pronouns does not imply
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 08:49 AM
Oct 2021

sexism in all cases. Learn to recognize the difference.

Arkansas Granny

(31,538 posts)
2. I read about that last night. It seems to me that Republicans are engaged in a race
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 10:11 AM
Oct 2021

to see just how offensive, ignorant, bigoted and hateful they can be and their constituents are loving every minute of it.

I am a non-believer, but even I know enough about the Bible to say that this is not what is taught in its pages.

Irish_Dem

(47,690 posts)
4. The American psyche has a dark underbelly, and it is very ugly.
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 10:18 AM
Oct 2021

The orange F-wad tapped into it big time.

Doc Sportello

(7,541 posts)
8. I was struck by those photos of him afterward
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 10:34 AM
Oct 2021

The man is in agony. The family of the woman is obviously hurting more, but I feel sorry for him. His life will never be the same.

barbtries

(28,817 posts)
11. i don't like raw story.
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 10:40 AM
Oct 2021

Also I tend to feel sorrier for the victims and their loved ones than Alec Baldwin. I'm sure he feels like shit and did not intend to kill anyone, on the other hand he's still alive.

barbtries

(28,817 posts)
32. no. not a contest.
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 02:24 PM
Oct 2021

a reminder if you will. I do not doubt that Baldwin is suffering immensely at this moment. Because he's famous, this story becomes mostly about him. Victims matter too and I hurt for them and their families.

LakeArenal

(28,863 posts)
34. It becomes about him because he is famous.
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 12:39 AM
Oct 2021

Empathy for all parties is not mutually exclusive.

Perhaps the family prefer the privacy of Alec being the one getting all the press.

Funny how the people involved have no time to process events themselves before the public judges and juries decide.

stopdiggin

(11,404 posts)
43. I don't think I needed a reminder
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 11:23 AM
Oct 2021

that there were others impacted here just because Baldwin's name is splashed around on media sites. I can safely entertain both ideas. But thanks.

Response to dalton99a (Reply #13)

XanaDUer2

(10,803 posts)
29. I ofter wonder if it was non-union
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 01:02 PM
Oct 2021

who killed Brandon Lee in NC.

They moved movies to NC because it's cheaper.

Then Repunlicans killed films here.

Kaleva

(36,379 posts)
22. It's the pain many who mishandle guns feel
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 11:54 AM
Oct 2021

There are no accidents when it comes to guns. Just negligence.

mikeysnot

(4,758 posts)
24. First question!
Sat Oct 23, 2021, 12:11 PM
Oct 2021

Why was live ammo on a Hollywood set.

Second question.

Who had access to prop guns on that set.

Third question.

Was said person a magat supporter setting Baldwin up for mocking the nation first orange president on SNL….

Response to luv2fly (Original post)

luv2fly

(2,475 posts)
39. Is it a contest?
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 08:41 AM
Oct 2021

Your response seems to imply intentionality on Alex Baldwin's part. Accidents are painful too.

Patton French

(790 posts)
42. No, obviously not intentional.
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 10:17 AM
Oct 2021

And, no, not a contest. Just sayin that Baldwin went home to his family.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,672 posts)
44. K&R
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 12:44 PM
Oct 2021

She's scum. I feel for everyone impacted by this tragedy. Unfortunately there's no shortage of people even on the left that have already tried and found him guilty without knowing the full story. I've seen them here on this site.

kentuck

(111,110 posts)
46. What about the pain of the loved ones of the person that was killed?
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 01:19 PM
Oct 2021

Talking about the pain of Alex Baldwin seems a mite out of touch?

dumbcat

(2,120 posts)
48. I wonder how we would feel if
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 05:58 PM
Oct 2021

the circumstances were the same, but instead of Alec Baldwin the actor had been Clint Eastwood, Chuck Norris, or some other more right wing actor.

Would our sympathies and reactions be the same?

Wingus Dingus

(8,059 posts)
51. Mine would be. It's a clear accident, unless something else comes to light saying otherwise.
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 06:19 PM
Oct 2021

Those are all still human beings who would feel shock and guilt and be distraught. I would feel bad for them. If this were a no-name actor involved probably most people would be sympathetic and accept it was an accident, even if some blame can be laid--but apparently Baldwin is a lightning rod and everyone with a grudge will crawl out of the woodwork.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,672 posts)
52. I can only speak for myself here
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 06:26 PM
Oct 2021

Yes my sympathies and reactions would be the same. I don't agree with the political views of Clint or Chuck but as another poster said they're still human beings with feelings and I'm sure both would be devastated if something like this happened to them. I would honestly feel badly for them and wouldn't want people to rush to judgement before an investigation is concluded.

cadoman

(792 posts)
49. thoughts and prayers for Alec and Hilaria in this difficult time
Sun Oct 24, 2021, 06:02 PM
Oct 2021

Alec will persevere through this conspiracy and be back funnier than ever before we know it.

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