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Demovictory9

(32,454 posts)
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 01:39 AM Oct 2021

50-year-old female character was described as having a 'wizened face' in script

Barbara Hershey recalls being 'shocked' reading a script where a 50-year-old female character was described as having a 'wizened face'



She was shocked and thinks audiences are ready to "embrace people of all ages," including seniors.
"The Manor" star told Insider she has "more fun now" and that aging is "not such a fearful thing."

Barbara Hershey thinks audiences are ready to "embrace people of all ages," including older adults and senior citizens, in films and TV shows. But ageism is still a serious problem in Hollywood, and a blatant example of it popped up in a screenplay she read.


As an accomplished actress with a decades-long career - and credits in critically-acclaimed movies like "The Portrait of a Lady" and "Black Swan," among others - the 73-year-old Hershey is used to the industry by now. Still, she's not beyond being stunned at how older women continue to be portrayed onscreen.

"I remember reading a script where, it was a character who was 50 years old, and it said, 'A tear ran down her wizened face,'" Hershey told Insider. "And I just thought, whoa. I looked to see who had written it - it was actually two women, that really shocked me."

https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/lifestyle-buzz/barbara-hershey-recalls-being-shocked-reading-a-script-where-a-50-year-old-female-character-was-described-as-having-a-wizened-face/ar-AAQ4lz6?ocid=msedgntp
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50-year-old female character was described as having a 'wizened face' in script (Original Post) Demovictory9 Oct 2021 OP
Wizened faces should not appear in movies? Doodley Oct 2021 #1
ageism to imply 50 year old female.face is wizened Demovictory9 Oct 2021 #4
I wouldn't have used wizened as necessarily an age context, but OnDoutside Oct 2021 #6
Yeah, "wizened" is weird Withywindle Oct 2021 #7
Except the definition is tied to age obamanut2012 Oct 2021 #15
That's only one definition. Consider these others, OnDoutside Oct 2021 #23
For this character, not for every 50 year old woman. Doodley Oct 2021 #13
It would be ageism to say all are wizened. An individual could certainly fit that description at 50 Amishman Oct 2021 #17
Ok - a bit upset here Lithos Oct 2021 #2
+1 leftstreet Oct 2021 #5
This is a Hollywood issue. Men are allowed to exist up until death age Withywindle Oct 2021 #8
Sounds fabulous, but.... North Shore Chicago Oct 2021 #9
I'd like movies where love interests were within a decade Withywindle Oct 2021 #11
Doubt it will happen on a broad basis. North Shore Chicago Oct 2021 #12
Reminds me of the scene in "The First Wives Club" where Goldie Hawn's character thinks she's betsuni Oct 2021 #3
A lot of Hollywood movies seem patronizing to me. peacefreak2.0 Oct 2021 #10
I don't get it. This seems like what female actors have been asking for SYFROYH Oct 2021 #14
Fifty is not "shriveled or wrinkled with age" obamanut2012 Oct 2021 #16
No, wisdom is not just an age thing, but a life lived. SYFROYH Oct 2021 #18
Right. though harsh environment can help aging along. Very silly authors. Hortensis Oct 2021 #31
And a man would be: AngryOldDem Oct 2021 #19
Yup. nt DLevine Oct 2021 #22
Oh, yes "Crone like" is better for sure harumph Oct 2021 #20
I don't know a single 50-year-old with a "wizened" face. shrike3 Oct 2021 #21
I do. She was a pack-a-day-plus smoker until very recently (she's 57 now). maxsolomon Oct 2021 #26
I can believe that. Smoking does wreak havoc on your skin. shrike3 Oct 2021 #32
I see them everyday madville Oct 2021 #35
I must live a charmed life. shrike3 Oct 2021 #38
Script either written by a 23 year old, or someone who doesn't know what "wizened" means. Wingus Dingus Oct 2021 #24
....And? Definition from Merriam-Webster: Dial H For Hero Oct 2021 #25
Mid-fifties here. I transitioned from coloring to my all silver natural hair oregonjen Oct 2021 #27
so many movies limit the woman's age to mid 30s no matter the age of the male love interest Demovictory9 Oct 2021 #28
Loved watching that show. I did have one problem with it. oregonjen Oct 2021 #33
Gratuitous Demovictory9 Oct 2021 #34
WTF. What's wrong with a wizened face? Goodheart Oct 2021 #29
At fifty my grandma had a wizened face. hunter Oct 2021 #30
It depends on the character madville Oct 2021 #36
My guess is that the writers TheProle Oct 2021 #37
At 50 years old, people mistook me for late 30's/early 40's - haele Oct 2021 #39

OnDoutside

(19,956 posts)
6. I wouldn't have used wizened as necessarily an age context, but
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 03:50 AM
Oct 2021

rather a representation of the harshness of the life the person had lived to that point.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
7. Yeah, "wizened" is weird
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 04:25 AM
Oct 2021

I'm 52 and I definitely have crow's feet, but I wouldn't describe my own face as "wizened"

Many 50+ leading male actors like Will Smith, Robert Downey Jr, Denzel Washington, Colin Firth, etc. don't get described as "wizened" in the scripts.

OnDoutside

(19,956 posts)
23. That's only one definition. Consider these others,
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 11:29 AM
Oct 2021
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/wizen

Definition of wizen (Entry 1 of 2)
intransitive verb

: to become dry, shrunken, and wrinkled often as a result of aging or of failing vitality


https://www.dictionary.com/browse/wizened

withered; shriveled:
a wizened old man; wizened features.


https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/wizened

small and having dry skin with lines in it, especially because of old age:
He was a wizened old man with yellow skin and deep wrinkles.


I've seen it used many times in terms the result of the life led by homeless people, or alcoholics. Yes, the majority of times it would be concerning older people, but it's not exclusively so, it's more to do with the result of a long life or a harsh life.


Amishman

(5,557 posts)
17. It would be ageism to say all are wizened. An individual could certainly fit that description at 50
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 07:54 AM
Oct 2021

Some people's appearance does not match their age.

In a script, I could easily see that word being used to describe a character that was 50 but looked significantly older than their actual age.

Lithos

(26,403 posts)
2. Ok - a bit upset here
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 01:54 AM
Oct 2021

She did not reveal the name of this project... a shame...

Loved this article +1000

Look - focusing on the core theme about ageism - it has been a huge problem with how scripts and story-telling have been marketing within Hollywood. There has been too much of an effort to only think physically perfect and sexually available talent is the only way to sell something. IMHO - Over-optimization and "normalization" have resulted in too many scripts, stories, and otherwise "bland" projects being greenlighted.

What was not stated is this gets worse when you talk about people who are so culturally "bland" and non-representative and who also fail to represent people with other differences (differences are to be cherished as adding, not subtracting).

I do not know, but I think this is one of the reasons for the successes of Alice In Borderlands, Lupin and Squid Games - people are wanting more authenticity.

/soapbox.

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
5. +1
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 02:40 AM
Oct 2021
I do not know, but I think this is one of the reasons for the successes of Alice In Borderlands, Lupin and Squid Games - people are wanting more authenticity.


Well said.

And streaming services are giving people the opportunity to find that authenticity. I have acquaintances who would never in a million years have read a subtitle...watching subtitled programs with gusto because they're done with that normalizing blandness you described.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
8. This is a Hollywood issue. Men are allowed to exist up until death age
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 04:33 AM
Oct 2021

But women start to evaporate from the scene in our 40s.

I would absolutely love a game/show that was all women from 30-death, and no men.

North Shore Chicago

(3,315 posts)
9. Sounds fabulous, but....
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 04:53 AM
Oct 2021

I would absolutely love a game/show that was all women from 30-death, and no men.


Males have a need to piss on anything that may dare to exclude them.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
11. I'd like movies where love interests were within a decade
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 05:09 AM
Oct 2021

Leading man has a leading lady no more than 10 years younger.

50-yo-man's love interest is 40-yr-old at limit

40-yo-man's love interest is 30 yr old at limit.

It shouldn't go down beyond that - and also can we have some movies with an older woman/younger man, please?

North Shore Chicago

(3,315 posts)
12. Doubt it will happen on a broad basis.
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 05:12 AM
Oct 2021

Harrison Ford will play "leading man" in a freaking wheelchair with his oxygen tank and Depends!


betsuni

(25,496 posts)
3. Reminds me of the scene in "The First Wives Club" where Goldie Hawn's character thinks she's
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 02:03 AM
Oct 2021

meeting a movie director to discuss the role of the female lead, but turns out he wants her to be the crypt keeper.

peacefreak2.0

(1,023 posts)
10. A lot of Hollywood movies seem patronizing to me.
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 05:02 AM
Oct 2021

Oh, look at the little old lady, looking for a hook up. Isn’t that cute. The Book Club, Best Marigold Hotel and just about anything with Diane Keaton these days come to mind.

SYFROYH

(34,169 posts)
14. I don't get it. This seems like what female actors have been asking for
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 07:17 AM
Oct 2021

I thought the problem was that if you didn’t look 24 you were done.

The script appears to be asking for a female actress with signs of life lived and now wise.

obamanut2012

(26,069 posts)
16. Fifty is not "shriveled or wrinkled with age"
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 07:41 AM
Oct 2021

Which is what "wizened" means. It has nothing to do with harshness of environment, wisdom, etc.

SYFROYH

(34,169 posts)
18. No, wisdom is not just an age thing, but a life lived.
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 07:59 AM
Oct 2021


If the script called for a wizened 50-year old face that implies that not all 50-year olds have that look.

maxsolomon

(33,327 posts)
26. I do. She was a pack-a-day-plus smoker until very recently (she's 57 now).
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 11:50 AM
Oct 2021

She was my HS crush. 16, 17 when she started smoking. It is still shocking to me.

shrike3

(3,583 posts)
32. I can believe that. Smoking does wreak havoc on your skin.
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 03:58 PM
Oct 2021

My husband's ex, a fine person, was a chain smoker. By the time they reached their forties, people were asking her how it felt to be married to a much-younger man. (Yikes.)

madville

(7,410 posts)
35. I see them everyday
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 05:43 PM
Oct 2021

Heavy smokers, alcoholics, sun exposure. Just go down to the shrimp and oyster boat docks here, there are folks down there in their 40s that look like they are 70.

 

Dial H For Hero

(2,971 posts)
25. ....And? Definition from Merriam-Webster:
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 11:46 AM
Oct 2021
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/wizen

to become dry, shrunken, and wrinkled often as a result of aging or of failing vitality

I've certainly met people in that age range who appear older than their actual age. What's the big deal?

oregonjen

(3,336 posts)
27. Mid-fifties here. I transitioned from coloring to my all silver natural hair
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 12:11 PM
Oct 2021

I’m enjoying my natural colors so much and have really been aware of how “old” women are perceived to be. Men are distinguished silver foxes and women are seen as old hags. Look at women in Hollywood succumbing to the pressure of chasing youth by getting Botox, fillers and plastic surgery. Women are harming themselves just to stay relevant. It’s sick.

Demovictory9

(32,454 posts)
28. so many movies limit the woman's age to mid 30s no matter the age of the male love interest
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 03:50 PM
Oct 2021

the male star gets older and older, his matched partner in movies remains young.

Just watched "only murders in the building" with Steve Martin. He's 76... his love interest is an actress in her early 50s... i guess that's progress.

oregonjen

(3,336 posts)
33. Loved watching that show. I did have one problem with it.
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 04:24 PM
Oct 2021

There was a shower scene with Selena Gomez that showed side boob. No reason for it, just a extraneous shower scene with side boob. Really irks me that they chose to put that in there. I’m certainly not a prude, but after watching a documentary, which of course, I can’t remember the name of, those types of scenes are unnecessary and all too common.

hunter

(38,311 posts)
30. At fifty my grandma had a wizened face.
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 03:58 PM
Oct 2021

The desert sun and her constant smoking did that.

She always had a cigarette in her hand.

It was the smoking that killed her.

TheProle

(2,167 posts)
37. My guess is that the writers
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 06:29 PM
Oct 2021

conflated "wizened" with "wise" rather than its true etymological source, which is rooted in "wither".

haele

(12,651 posts)
39. At 50 years old, people mistook me for late 30's/early 40's -
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 10:44 AM
Oct 2021

And I had been working shipyards at the time...my mom looks like she's in her 60's, and she's in her 80's. No makeup, just mild soap, water, and noxema at night when it's dry out.

Of course, there are women who, if they didn't use Botox, looked like they were nearing 70 when they were in their 30's. (Suspect Margie TG is one of those ladies.

Haele

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