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iemanja

(53,035 posts)
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:16 PM Dec 2021

Many parents of school shooters ignore glaring warning signs. This grandmother didn't.

She had seen her grandson’s red, spiral-bound notebook before that night, but now, as Catherine O’Connor sifted through its pages for the first time, what she read astonished her.

“School Shootings,” Joshua O’Connor had titled the first page, above a reconstruction of the Columbine High School massacre that left 13 people dead. In the pages that followed, Joshua, who’d just turned 18, described a detailed plan to carry out his own massacre: the shotguns, pistols, assault rifle and ammunition he would buy and the bombs he would build; the doors he would zip-tie “so bitches can’t escape”; the spot by the bleachers where he would set off the first explosion; the route he would take on his killing spree; the moment, when it was over, that he would end his own life.

“I Need to make this shooting/ bombing... infamous,” he wrote in early 2018. “I Need to get the biggest fatality number I possibly can.”

Catherine O’Connor, a retired probation officer who was Joshua’s guardian, showed the journal to her husband, who was equally disturbed. The next day, after O’Connor dropped her grandson off at school, she searched his room and found a semiautomatic rifle in a guitar case. Then she did what many parents of school shooters never do: called the police to report that a child she loved posed a threat to his classmates, his community and himself.


WaPo paywall: https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2021/12/09/parents-school-shooters-charges-crumbleys/

Police found bomb parts in Joshua's room. The day after his grandmother called the police and Joshua was taken into custody, the Parkland shooting happened. He was later sentenced to 22.5 years in jail.




Video from a VA local TV station:

https://www.kiro7.com/news/north-sound-news/teen-who-plotted-school-bombing-apologizes-calls-grandmother-the-hero-/919312094/


I know Joshua O'Conner was a threat and had to be placed in prison, but I can't help thinking about the light sentences for the Capitol Hill attackers who went through with the violence they planned.

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Many parents of school shooters ignore glaring warning signs. This grandmother didn't. (Original Post) iemanja Dec 2021 OP
I have to wonder if he'll get the psychiatric help he clearly needs. dflprincess Dec 2021 #1
If you watch the video linked at the bottom of the OP iemanja Dec 2021 #12
Thanks for pointing that out dflprincess Dec 2021 #22
22 years is too punitive--it will deter parents and other guardians and relatives Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #2
agreed Skittles Dec 2021 #3
I don't know. His life is pretty much ruined. Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #5
He was also the suspect in a convenience store robbery iemanja Dec 2021 #7
The robbery and illegal explosives does change things-- Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #10
wonder if the judge wanted to make sure it extended past the life of his grandparents samnsara Dec 2021 #14
I don't know. I read in some of the WaPo comments that the judge went Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #18
I agree. iemanja Dec 2021 #4
The flip side is Aidan Ingalls who plotted a 2018 school shooting in Michigan, was Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #8
Clearly juvenile detention was completely inadequate for someone like Aidan Ingalis. LisaL Dec 2021 #13
Yes, that was shocking and so random. Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #16
I don't think 22 years is too much Cha Dec 2021 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2021 #21
Its hard to turn in those you love. SYFROYH Dec 2021 #6
The Unabomber was turned in by his brother. tblue37 Dec 2021 #17
We've become completely dependent on "ordinary people" to be the heroes bullwinkle428 Dec 2021 #9
Yes, I had already read iemanja Dec 2021 #11
She did the right thing MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #15
Case in Pennsylvania too, two teenagers had weapons and were casing the school. Archae Dec 2021 #19
Such a relief they caught them iemanja Dec 2021 #23
Man, that's a tough one ... SarcasticSatyr Dec 2021 #20
I'm on the same page as you. ShazzieB Dec 2021 #24
22.5 years for ... a plan CloudWatcher Dec 2021 #25
It was more than a plan canetoad Dec 2021 #28
Yes, but as others have pointed out iemanja Dec 2021 #29
I actually agree with you canetoad Dec 2021 #30
Does The Punishment Fit The Crime? DallasNE Dec 2021 #27

dflprincess

(28,079 posts)
1. I have to wonder if he'll get the psychiatric help he clearly needs.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:32 PM
Dec 2021

If he serves the full sentence he'll only be 41 when he gets out and still capable of doing a lot of damage if he hasn't been helped.

iemanja

(53,035 posts)
12. If you watch the video linked at the bottom of the OP
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 12:20 AM
Dec 2021

Last edited Sun Dec 12, 2021, 01:48 AM - Edit history (1)

It does APPEAR that he may be improving.

dflprincess

(28,079 posts)
22. Thanks for pointing that out
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 01:37 AM
Dec 2021

Though I'm still wondering if prison is the place for him at all. Continued impatient therapy would probably benefit him and society more.

Wingus Dingus

(8,055 posts)
2. 22 years is too punitive--it will deter parents and other guardians and relatives
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:33 PM
Dec 2021

from reporting the plans to the police.

Wingus Dingus

(8,055 posts)
5. I don't know. His life is pretty much ruined.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:39 PM
Dec 2021

If I was his grandmother, I'd be haunted by that. I'd be wondering if I could have just confiscated the guns and gotten him involuntarily hospitalized. Who would have thought that plans alone, by an angry mentally ill teenager, could result in a sentence like that?

iemanja

(53,035 posts)
7. He was also the suspect in a convenience store robbery
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:44 PM
Dec 2021

and was found with a grenade and a pressure cooker bomb. See the video in the final link in the OP.

Wingus Dingus

(8,055 posts)
10. The robbery and illegal explosives does change things--
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:53 PM
Dec 2021

but 22 years, still a very long time. Ten years might have made more sense.

Wingus Dingus

(8,055 posts)
18. I don't know. I read in some of the WaPo comments that the judge went
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 12:38 AM
Dec 2021

for the minimum sentence in terms of sentencing guidelines for the charges he faced.

Wingus Dingus

(8,055 posts)
8. The flip side is Aidan Ingalls who plotted a 2018 school shooting in Michigan, was
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:49 PM
Dec 2021

turned in by his mother--served a couple years in juvenile detention I think, and then went out this summer and randomly shot a couple on a pier and then killed himself.

https://www.mlive.com/news/kalamazoo/2021/09/south-haven-pier-shooter-videotaped-himself-loading-bullets-into-2-gun-magazines-police-report.html

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
13. Clearly juvenile detention was completely inadequate for someone like Aidan Ingalis.
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 12:21 AM
Dec 2021

That poor couple.

Wingus Dingus

(8,055 posts)
16. Yes, that was shocking and so random.
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 12:36 AM
Dec 2021

His emotions and thoughts were so compartmentalized that he went through a lot of trouble to prepare envelopes and give his money away to his favorite coworkers, and wrote to his family to say that it wasn't their fault, and then...turned into a vicious cold blooded killer to a nice older couple just enjoying a walk on a pier. He obviously needed WAY more care and supervision than they thought. Edit to add, it started off like a planned suicide, I wonder why he had to kill people first.

Cha

(297,323 posts)
26. I don't think 22 years is too much
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 02:47 AM
Dec 2021

to be saving kids lives form shooters hell bent on killing them.

In this case his Grandma is a hero.

That story is a heartbreaking tragedy as they all are.

Response to Wingus Dingus (Reply #2)

SYFROYH

(34,172 posts)
6. Its hard to turn in those you love.
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:40 PM
Dec 2021


But she really did save lives.

Of course what she found was way more than a “warning sign”, but still… hard to do.

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
9. We've become completely dependent on "ordinary people" to be the heroes
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 11:51 PM
Dec 2021

in these situations. Check out my thread on the two students in a group Snapchat that managed to alert police hours before a massacre was to take place at a Florida university:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100216136145

iemanja

(53,035 posts)
11. Yes, I had already read
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 12:04 AM
Dec 2021

and rec'd your thread. That was good news.

I don't know what the solution is to relying on ordinary people. We wouldn't want a surveillance state so vast it could see what everyone was planning.
Though some gun control laws would be nice.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,614 posts)
15. She did the right thing
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 12:36 AM
Dec 2021

I can't imagine what this women's been through. I really hope his change of heart is sincere. If that's the case maybe he can get released early for good behavior.

SarcasticSatyr

(1,178 posts)
20. Man, that's a tough one ...
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 01:34 AM
Dec 2021

I think 22.5 years was too long, unless he was deemed to be an ongoing threat. He needed serious long-term therapy, and yes he should have been locked up for a long time ..

ShazzieB

(16,426 posts)
24. I'm on the same page as you.
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 02:02 AM
Dec 2021

I was reading this article and thinking, "Good for that grandma." Then I got to the sentence and was like, "WTF?"

There are situations that don't have perfect solutions.This may be one of those situations, but I just don't know.....

CloudWatcher

(1,850 posts)
25. 22.5 years for ... a plan
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 02:17 AM
Dec 2021

That's just insane. The kid was/is sick and needs help. Jail terms should be punishment and a deterrent, not just locking people up forever because they scare you.

It makes about as much sense as locking him up for life without the possibility of parole.

iemanja

(53,035 posts)
29. Yes, but as others have pointed out
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 03:30 AM
Dec 2021

The harsh sentence may act as a deterrent to other parents thinking of turning in their teenager.

canetoad

(17,169 posts)
30. I actually agree with you
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 03:48 AM
Dec 2021

Sometimes I'm aghast at the severity of sentences in the US. It bears no semblance to 'corrections' but has a lot to do with bloodthirsty revenge.

In Aust. and UK a life sentence is generally 15 - 20 yrs, apart from particularly henious crimes. We have very few people imprisoned for actual life - they can be counted on (I think) both hands.

Something made this kid want to spread destruction; it's not a one-off situation, it happens a lot. Why?

DallasNE

(7,403 posts)
27. Does The Punishment Fit The Crime?
Sun Dec 12, 2021, 02:48 AM
Dec 2021

There is no mention of whether he underwent a mental health examine. There was a time where an individual like this was found not responsible by reason of insanity (serious mental health issue). Rather than 22.5 years in prison where he would get no treatment and be a free man after his term was up he would get treatment and only released after an evaluation that he no longer presented a threat to himself and others. That may be less than 22.5 years or it may be more.

Was this a thing that Reagan ended?

The grandmother did the responsible, tough thing. Parents often look at these issues as a failure of parenting and so they go into denial.

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