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AZLD4Candidate

(6,727 posts)
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 07:07 PM Dec 2021

There is always a guilty pleasure when bullies get what's coming to them

This guy was one of my worst bullies in high school. He also wasn't bright. He tried to start a fight with me standing in front of down staircase.

He belittled me, called me a complete loser, and turned friends of mine against me. He, and most of my teachers, called me a failure. Most of my teachers said I would amount to nothing and would probably be in prison by 25 after flunking out of college.

https://fox56.com/news/local/carbon-county-man-arrested-on-assault-charges

This I am having a major guilty pleasure reading.

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There is always a guilty pleasure when bullies get what's coming to them (Original Post) AZLD4Candidate Dec 2021 OP
Life has a strange way of evening the score sometimes. paleotn Dec 2021 #1
Revenge is a dish best served cold.......nt Heartstrings Dec 2021 #2
But a dash of hot sauce is fine. JHB Dec 2021 #21
Absolutely! Heartstrings Dec 2021 #24
WTF was wrong with your teachers? Skittles Dec 2021 #3
Anti-Semitism along with the "you're not from here" mentality AZLD4Candidate Dec 2021 #4
oh wow Skittles Dec 2021 #5
That is disgusting. I would never... reACTIONary Dec 2021 #14
It's a shame you're wasting guilt on what should be pure pleasure. There are many abqtommy Dec 2021 #6
I so agree!😑 rebe303 Dec 2021 #19
For your benefit only, I hope there are classmates who remember when he taunted you FakeNoose Dec 2021 #7
Just straight up pleasure relayerbob Dec 2021 #8
A local writer for the Pgh Post Gazette used to tell Carbon Man stories on WDVE Probatim Dec 2021 #9
Your story stirred memories 70sEraVet Dec 2021 #10
I am sorry you had to endure that AZLD4. smirkymonkey Dec 2021 #11
The schoolyard bully ends up in jail for assault. Demobrat Dec 2021 #12
Who would have thought, indeed. calimary Dec 2021 #22
Sweet, isn't it? Joinfortmill Dec 2021 #13
Karma has been busy this year. sarcasmo Dec 2021 #15
Tessitore stated, "I'm going to shoot you," to which the victim responded, "go ahead." Jon King Dec 2021 #16
BEAUTIFUL, I love these kind of things ... Thanks for sharing!!! 👍😊 nt Raine Dec 2021 #17
Karma is wonderful. I developed a way of dealing with playground bullies who wanted to fight. CaptainTruth Dec 2021 #18
I would bet $1 that soldierant Dec 2021 #20
When I was in HS, he beat his girlfriend and insulted her every chance AZLD4Candidate Dec 2021 #23
Yup. soldierant Dec 2021 #25
OMG. I hope she got away from him Demobrat Dec 2021 #26
I don't know. But people like that tend to focus on those with personality defects AZLD4Candidate Dec 2021 #27
I love it when I_UndergroundPanther Dec 2021 #28

paleotn

(21,455 posts)
1. Life has a strange way of evening the score sometimes.
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 07:21 PM
Dec 2021

Some call it karma. Regression toward the mean.

Skittles

(169,319 posts)
5. oh wow
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 07:41 PM
Dec 2021

I am so so sorry you had to deal with that.

I was a GI brat who moved constantly, and I liked to hammer the bullies I saw in every school (and yes, they are in every school). I had a distinct advantage in the actions I took because I knew I would never be staying long. It's how I developed my kick-ass persona.

abqtommy

(14,118 posts)
6. It's a shame you're wasting guilt on what should be pure pleasure. There are many
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 07:43 PM
Dec 2021

books and audio presentations and even therapists to help you...

FakeNoose

(40,060 posts)
7. For your benefit only, I hope there are classmates who remember when he taunted you
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 07:50 PM
Dec 2021

I hope they realize that this guy is a total loser, and the awful things he did to you were the actions of a bully.
You are so much better than that!

relayerbob

(7,356 posts)
8. Just straight up pleasure
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 08:16 PM
Dec 2021

Getting what he's obviously had coming to him for a long time. My guess, it's not his first arrest, just a big enough on to make the papers.

A more detailed report:
https://www.tnonline.com/20210730/man-charged-after-firing-shot-out-window/

Probatim

(3,209 posts)
9. A local writer for the Pgh Post Gazette used to tell Carbon Man stories on WDVE
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 08:16 PM
Dec 2021

It was one redneck/hold my beer story after another.

After growing up on the border of Pennsyltucky, I knew how those guys would get in to trouble and some of what you went through.

Provincialism, as you said above, is a shitty thing to experience when you're on the outside.

70sEraVet

(5,215 posts)
10. Your story stirred memories
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 08:19 PM
Dec 2021

I remember times when people were cruel to me, and I remember times when I was cruel to other people. The only times that I wish I could go back and change are the times the I was cruel.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
11. I am sorry you had to endure that AZLD4.
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 08:25 PM
Dec 2021

He does not look like a very bright bulb and I am glad he was finally taken to task for his behavior.

And what on earth was up with your teachers? That is abhorrent behavior from people who are supposed to be educators. They should have lost their jobs for treating you that way. I believe you, but in a way it is unbelievable that any adult would really act that way.

I don't begrudge you your gloating over this person's misfortune. He deserves everything that he is getting.

Demobrat

(10,259 posts)
12. The schoolyard bully ends up in jail for assault.
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 08:35 PM
Dec 2021

Who would have thought?

Makes you wonder what else he’s done and gotten away with. I hope he ends up sitting in jail for a long, long time.

calimary

(88,925 posts)
22. Who would have thought, indeed.
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 10:25 PM
Dec 2021

Hopefully he’ll be out of commission for awhile. A LONG while.

Jon King

(1,910 posts)
16. Tessitore stated, "I'm going to shoot you," to which the victim responded, "go ahead."
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 09:17 PM
Dec 2021

Well....he is a man of his word though.....this sounds like quite a neighborhood.

CaptainTruth

(8,031 posts)
18. Karma is wonderful. I developed a way of dealing with playground bullies who wanted to fight.
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 09:47 PM
Dec 2021

I quickly learned that the ones who wanted a physical fight were not that smart. I could "fake kick" at them in a way that I didn't make contact & allowed me to set up a sturdy stance. I was basically baiting them & every time they instinctively responded by kicking back, which was exactly what I wanted because I jumped back while extending my hands to grab their ankle, which I gripped firmly & leaned back pulling hard. That caused them to fall on their ass & resulted in me dragging them around in the dirt while they thrashed about & yelled. It worked every time. If you fight with intelligence, you don't need brute force.

soldierant

(9,267 posts)
20. I would bet $1 that
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 10:10 PM
Dec 2021

he has some unreported rapes in his past.

I remember a co-worker telling me of the closure she had just received from haveing the dud who raped her in high school executed for murder. Now that's a guilty pleasure, butonly because the death penalty is bad. I was proud that she tristed me to tell me.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,727 posts)
23. When I was in HS, he beat his girlfriend and insulted her every chance
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 10:29 PM
Dec 2021

But he was "so dreamy looking." He took her virginity and really bragged about making her "scream for her life."

AZLD4Candidate

(6,727 posts)
27. I don't know. But people like that tend to focus on those with personality defects
Mon Dec 27, 2021, 10:50 PM
Dec 2021

they can exploit. And she was a really insecure girl who fell for the looks, the body, and the fact he played the right “game" by being the sensitive, caring guy until he "de-flowered" her.

Then he turned into a domineering, abusive monster. Psychopaths have the biological advantage to produce more testosterone so people tend to be subconsciously drawn to them.

I_UndergroundPanther

(13,325 posts)
28. I love it when
Tue Dec 28, 2021, 12:43 AM
Dec 2021

Bullies suffer because of thier actions.

I used to protect the scapegoated kids in school,and I also was scapegoated.

I tried to form a self protective group to take the abusive assholes down.

The saddest part is many of the scapegoated kids
In my school were too afraid to do it.
So I did it myself.

When I saw a bully cornering or hitting a kid I tore them off the kid and knocked him off balance into a wall.

I said fight me instead you chicken shit.

The bullies in the school after that fought me in packs knowing 1 on 1
I could win.

But when I could I would go after the ringleader. Take the ringleader and beat his ass the group usually scattered.

I hate dark triad people with the rage of a million suns.

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