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Nevilledog

(51,258 posts)
Tue Jan 25, 2022, 01:19 PM Jan 2022

You Are Not Owed a Reason for Somebody's Abortion



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caitlin cruz (she/ella)
@caitlinrcruz
I've really struggled on how to fairly and accurately tell the story of the dismantling of abortion rights as Serious Reporter. I hope you'll read my essay for @Jezebel on my journey: You Are Not Owed a Reason for Somebody's Abortion

jezebel.com
You Are Not Owed a Reason for Somebody's Abortion
For too long abortion stories were split into "good" and "bad." And as a journalist, I walked right into that trap.
10:11 AM · Jan 25, 2022


https://jezebel.com/you-are-not-owed-a-reason-for-somebodys-abortion-1848317442?rev=1643127394643

​Kaia was nearly 42 when she learned her fetus had a chromosomal abnormality that would likely lead to a painful death. Liz found out she was pregnant right after a long-distance relationship ended. Ophelia, already perimenopausal, was raising two children with mood disorders. Natalie wanted to be homecoming queen. Dima knew the dude wasn’t right. Layidua was undocumented and attempting to change her immigration status after getting married. Yas was about to start her senior year of high school. Deb had just graduated college.

I have interviewed dozens and dozens of people who had abortions for dozens of articles. I have spoken to people who chose to self-manage their medication abortions at home, who chose first-trimester abortions in hospitals and clinics, who got later abortions, multiple abortions, secret abortions, people who got abortions as minors, whose fetus wouldn’t survive, who did it to protect their health, who didn’t want to be parents ever or just not right now, and who couldn’t afford the procedure. Every one of these safe and wanted abortions was a good abortion.

After each interview I come away with profound disbelief that this is my life’s work: chronicling the stories of people who decide to divulge their private health information in service of others. They spill their abortion secrets in the hopes that their public honesty might mean those in power finally realize people who have abortions are simply that: people. I am so grateful for them. I wished I could offer them a better outcome than an accurate record of events. All I can offer them now is my own honesty.

It took me years to make so bold yet so fundamental a statement as “every safe and wanted abortion is a good abortion” on behalf of these people, because the notion of capital-J Journalism still had a hold over me. The profession has sworn, from William Randolph Hearst to Marty Baron, to not bring a point of view to practice; journalism forgets that Ida B. Wells was a reporter, too. I trained at newspapers in New Orleans, Seattle, and Phoenix. Even when I moved into political reporting, it was still a toe-the-line liberal blog. When I got to outlets that could take a bit more bite, I held back. I wrote about the fight for abortion access without explicitly mentioning the goodness of these choices. And I was fair, always trying to find the balance between pro- and anti-abortion sources and stories.

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You Are Not Owed a Reason for Somebody's Abortion (Original Post) Nevilledog Jan 2022 OP
K & R! 50 Shades Of Blue Jan 2022 #1
Agree 100%. JanMichael Jan 2022 #2
K&R UTUSN Jan 2022 #3
K&R Solly Mack Jan 2022 #4
None of my (or your) business. MineralMan Jan 2022 #5
This is such an important point, and represents a change in the way even abortion advocates have WhiskeyGrinder Jan 2022 #6
Exactly right Bettie Jan 2022 #7
KnR Hekate Jan 2022 #8
K&R DLevine Jan 2022 #9
+1. Not ever. BeckyDem Jan 2022 #10
+1000 Duppers Jan 2022 #11
K & R - nt Ohio Joe Jan 2022 #12
Message auto-removed Name removed Jan 2022 #13
Umm......what?!? Nevilledog Jan 2022 #15
Exactly. K&R crickets Jan 2022 #14
important reframing drmeow Jan 2022 #16
Kick dalton99a Jan 2022 #17

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,487 posts)
6. This is such an important point, and represents a change in the way even abortion advocates have
Tue Jan 25, 2022, 04:12 PM
Jan 2022

talked about abortion access. Telling the most heart-wrenching stories about "why" people needed abortions implies people need valid backstories to get abortions, when the only reason they need is because they want one. That's it. I'm glad to see journalists understanding this better.

Bettie

(16,139 posts)
7. Exactly right
Tue Jan 25, 2022, 04:38 PM
Jan 2022

Women have the right to make their own reproductive choices.

To have children, to not have children, to become or remain pregnant.

And it is no one's business but their own.

Response to Nevilledog (Original post)

drmeow

(5,032 posts)
16. important reframing
Wed Jan 26, 2022, 08:48 AM
Jan 2022

of the whole exceptions thing.

I always thought of the whole rare part of legal, safe, and rare with a positive spin - in the way abortion is less common in Scandinavian countries cause of birth control and sex ed but I could see the pro forced childbirth types twisting it.

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