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Nevilledog

(51,107 posts)
Tue May 31, 2022, 12:36 PM May 2022

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John-Carlos Estrada
@Mr_JCE
Meet the TX man who’s making customized caskets for each of the 19 young victims and two teachers from the school shooting in #Uvalde. Trey Ganem visited with the families last week so each casket is personalized to include each child's interests.

📷: SoulShine Industries
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They were just babies....
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***sob*** (Original Post) Nevilledog May 2022 OP
Just sad beyond belief!! PortTack May 2022 #1
I cry each time I see the pictures. Nevilledog May 2022 #50
I do too. llmart May 2022 #53
I'd like to put this guy out of business gratuitous May 2022 #2
like art for the living. :( nt Javaman May 2022 #5
oh, he is doing art for the living. barbtries May 2022 #22
+ 1 nt pazzyanne May 2022 #51
I can't agree with you more. soldierant May 2022 #56
There's no way you'd ever put him out of business jmowreader May 2022 #43
That's the business I want to put him out of gratuitous May 2022 #46
I heard a comment the other day and wonder if it came from him... Frustratedlady May 2022 #55
Let's put the gun makers out of business RainCaster Jun 2022 #62
Good for him for doing this but I cannot imagine how difficult it is. LonePirate May 2022 #3
Not enough words for how heartbreaking this is. nt crickets May 2022 #4
What a uniquely American success story! Hassin Bin Sober May 2022 #6
It is very frustrating that he Jerry2144 May 2022 #7
I knew I shouldn't have opened this In It to Win It May 2022 #8
Agree KS Toronado May 2022 #9
Yeah. No shit. calimary May 2022 #30
I don't know how he can get through the day, making these things. Bless him for it though. kysrsoze May 2022 #10
No, just no. This is just too sad and wrong and there is no way to say what I'm feeling. Biophilic May 2022 #11
No words. wnylib May 2022 #12
OMG crying! This is just every level of horrible AllyCat May 2022 #13
Bless his heart. Cracklin Charlie May 2022 #14
Children didn't sign up to pay the ultimate price for freedom IronLionZion May 2022 #15
My heart... nolabear May 2022 #16
Fuck. This shouldn't be happening. Initech May 2022 #17
My God, what have we become as a country??? Beacool May 2022 #18
Caskets for kids is so against nature. iluvtennis May 2022 #19
Indeed ck4829 May 2022 #21
The size of them was enough for me, ugh n/t hibbing May 2022 #23
I think I read they had to truck some in from Georgia. AngryOldDem May 2022 #25
If I remember correctly from a DU post last week, there is only one company niyad May 2022 #41
Wow, as it should be. Thanks for the info. n/t iluvtennis May 2022 #47
See also post 43 in this thread, which I had missed. niyad May 2022 #59
At least in this century AwakeAtLast May 2022 #29
Prior to the 20th century soldierant May 2022 #57
No parents should ever bury their child. AZLD4Candidate May 2022 #20
That is too much to bear Bettie May 2022 #24
What you said. Tears in my eyes. twodogsbarking May 2022 #26
"... little kids, sacrificed in worship of guns." calimary May 2022 #31
+1 great framing lostnfound May 2022 #45
And we have to push it. PUSH it. HARD. calimary Jun 2022 #64
Crying and heart swelling with sorrow--again--for those kids! I wish he would build a replica of each LaMouffette May 2022 #27
Better idea jmowreader May 2022 #44
Yes. That IS a better idea. And after viewing each one, have each Republican sit, one at a time, in LaMouffette May 2022 #49
I wish that would happen and actually affect their thinking, but I don't believe it is possible. Evolve Dammit May 2022 #54
I can't take it budkin May 2022 #28
Nominee for one of the saddest jobs on the planet. SoonerPride May 2022 #32
We can't let this continue. Joinfortmill May 2022 #33
I think I know how he summoned the courage to face such a sad Grammy23 May 2022 #34
+100 ChazII May 2022 #39
Some day there will be one for the FILIBUSTER Captain Zero May 2022 #35
THIS. IS. NOT. NORMAL! Ishoutandscream2 May 2022 #36
Bless him 3auld6phart May 2022 #37
beyond heartbreaking Roc2020 May 2022 #38
Heartbreakingly beautiful Maeve May 2022 #40
All blessings to him. And may all who make his job necessary receive EVERYTHING niyad May 2022 #42
Bless him Withywindle May 2022 #48
Very important post. Thank you. Evolve Dammit May 2022 #52
... Nevilledog Jun 2022 #63
FUCK FUCK FUCK DAMMIT TO HELL FUCK Lochloosa May 2022 #58
To honor the beautiful, brief lives of these kids and their teachers, today's flower. usonian May 2022 #60
Sainted man, to take on this colorado_ufo May 2022 #61

barbtries

(28,795 posts)
22. oh, he is doing art for the living.
Tue May 31, 2022, 01:41 PM
May 2022

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in a big big way. He's giving these parents comfort that is so sorely needed. That it will go in the ground is okay, because it will stay with their children's bones.

it's an amazingly generous and creative thing to do. Serves the highest purpose of art.

soldierant

(6,880 posts)
56. I can't agree with you more.
Tue May 31, 2022, 08:57 PM
May 2022

Many people in and around the business will tell you that ALL funeral customs are for the living. Which of course makes sense.

I had seen the story but not all the pictures. So very touching.

jmowreader

(50,557 posts)
43. There's no way you'd ever put him out of business
Tue May 31, 2022, 05:31 PM
May 2022

There is only one manufacturer of children's caskets in the US. You will always have kids dying of diseases, auto accidents, house fires and other terrible tragedies, so what he does is really needed. He does what the priests call "God's work."

However, I would truly love to cut the percentage of his business caused by mass-shooting victims down to zero.

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
55. I heard a comment the other day and wonder if it came from him...
Tue May 31, 2022, 08:53 PM
May 2022

"We can't continue to make children's caskets in bulk."

That hit me between the eyes. In bulk...

I can't imagine how those families are making it through each day.

RainCaster

(10,878 posts)
62. Let's put the gun makers out of business
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:07 AM
Jun 2022

That's what really needs to happen. Hold them responsible for all this destruction.

LonePirate

(13,424 posts)
3. Good for him for doing this but I cannot imagine how difficult it is.
Tue May 31, 2022, 12:41 PM
May 2022

Confronting the reality of what happened in this manner is undoubtedly difficult for him but hopefully his efforts will help the parents and families of the victims. Every aspect of this tragedy is so sad and so very unnecessary given that we as a country could have prevented it.

Jerry2144

(2,102 posts)
7. It is very frustrating that he
Tue May 31, 2022, 12:51 PM
May 2022

Must use his talents for decorating children’s coffins and not something less sorrowful like Utility boxes, park benches, or school murals.

The love this man has for children is obvious. May his heart survive helping with this tragedy

kysrsoze

(6,021 posts)
10. I don't know how he can get through the day, making these things. Bless him for it though.
Tue May 31, 2022, 12:55 PM
May 2022

What an incredibly beautiful gesture.

Biophilic

(3,659 posts)
11. No, just no. This is just too sad and wrong and there is no way to say what I'm feeling.
Tue May 31, 2022, 12:56 PM
May 2022

The only good part is people will notice. They won't just slide those children in to quiet graves. These caskets make a statement that needs to be made. These were children with childish interests and loves. They were individuals who were living full and interesting lives. The caskets have to speak for them because they can no longer speak for themselves.

AllyCat

(16,187 posts)
13. OMG crying! This is just every level of horrible
Tue May 31, 2022, 01:16 PM
May 2022

Glad to see the good people trying to help where they know how.

nolabear

(41,963 posts)
16. My heart...
Tue May 31, 2022, 01:24 PM
May 2022

Art brings humanity right home, doesn’t it? These were darling, wonderful children who suffered—SUFFERED—and died because a bunch of bastards are perfectly willing to sacrifice them to their god, the gun.

Initech

(100,076 posts)
17. Fuck. This shouldn't be happening.
Tue May 31, 2022, 01:25 PM
May 2022

This is not the America I grew up in. This shit needs to end now. We cannot keep living like this where kids are gunned down senselessly and the POS conservatives repeat their "SHALL NOT BE INFRINGED!!" bullshit until they are blue in the face. It's time to start infringing.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
25. I think I read they had to truck some in from Georgia.
Tue May 31, 2022, 01:53 PM
May 2022

Small caskets like that aren’t readily available, much less 19 of them at one time.

The man also said it gives the families some comfort, talking about the things their kids loved.

I wish there were a way to drive home the true magnitude and the sheer senselessness of this tragedy to those who are in a position to do something about it. Deep down they know, I think, but don’t have the moral courage to admit it.

It’s times like these that I really hope there is a final reckoning for what was done here on Earth.

niyad

(113,315 posts)
41. If I remember correctly from a DU post last week, there is only one company
Tue May 31, 2022, 05:26 PM
May 2022

in the US that makes child-sized coffins.

soldierant

(6,880 posts)
57. Prior to the 20th century
Tue May 31, 2022, 09:00 PM
May 2022

it actually wasn't against nature - it was nature.

Not that that is any comfort.

Bettie

(16,109 posts)
24. That is too much to bear
Tue May 31, 2022, 01:53 PM
May 2022

I appreciate this guy's work, but it just seems that it would be so freaking sad.

Those little kids, sacrificed in worship of guns.

calimary

(81,280 posts)
31. "... little kids, sacrificed in worship of guns."
Tue May 31, 2022, 02:05 PM
May 2022

We should use phrases like this - as OUR weapons.

Speak of it exactly like this.

Describe it exactly like this.

And repeat, repeat, repeat. And repeat some MORE.

Because it IS the goddamn worship of guns!

They hold guns as more important than children’s lives. NINETEEN children’s lives. And that’s just the latest death toll from the latest school shooting.

LaMouffette

(2,035 posts)
27. Crying and heart swelling with sorrow--again--for those kids! I wish he would build a replica of each
Tue May 31, 2022, 01:56 PM
May 2022

tiny casket that could be delivered to Washington, DC, and put on display in front of the Capitol Building so that Republican senators and representatives can be reminded (as they've already moved on) of the horror they have brought upon us by their obstructing gun control legislation.

jmowreader

(50,557 posts)
44. Better idea
Tue May 31, 2022, 05:38 PM
May 2022

Forget the replicas. Set the actual caskets, with the children inside and the lids open, in one of the Uvalde school gymnasiums and require every single member of Congress to fly to San Antonio, be bussed to Uvalde, and to view every casket.

LaMouffette

(2,035 posts)
49. Yes. That IS a better idea. And after viewing each one, have each Republican sit, one at a time, in
Tue May 31, 2022, 07:12 PM
May 2022

a room filled with the grieving parents and other family members and explain to them why they voted no on every piece of gun legislature to date and why they intend to continue to vote no. Then let the parents and family members have their turn to speak.

Evolve Dammit

(16,733 posts)
54. I wish that would happen and actually affect their thinking, but I don't believe it is possible.
Tue May 31, 2022, 08:53 PM
May 2022

I don't think they have the capacity to understand or care about what death means anymore. Too far gone. And their staff would never allow such a meeting in the first place.

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
34. I think I know how he summoned the courage to face such a sad
Tue May 31, 2022, 02:28 PM
May 2022

task. When things like this happen, many of us want to do something for the grieving family. I mean beyond send flowers, cards or a casserole. This man has a unique skill and has decided to pour his heart and soul into doing something meaningful for these children and teachers who were slain. He has a mission — not necessarily in a religious sense — but in a sense of humanity and kindness. It will be an uplifting thing for him to do rather than soul crushing. I commend him for finding a unique way to honor and memorialize these victims and offer comfort to their families. They’ll never forget his kindness in the face of tragedy.

ChazII

(6,205 posts)
39. +100
Tue May 31, 2022, 03:23 PM
May 2022

You said it best 'a sense of humanity and kindness'. I agree it is uplifting for him and a way to help the grieving parents.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
48. Bless him
Tue May 31, 2022, 07:02 PM
May 2022

for his beautiful work, for the time he spent with the families learning everyone's story, for his art that shows the world they weren't just statistics but children with their own passions and interests. For the child who loved TikTok, for the child who loved Superman, for the child who loved dinosaurs...

It's too easy to get into a statistics mindset and focus on numbers and forget each number represents an individual irreplaceable life. This pushes back against that hard. I cried when I first saw it, and it felt right and correct that I did.

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