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dwayneb

(768 posts)
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:46 PM Jun 2022

Will you fly an American flag on July 4th?

I never thought at any point in my life that I would not consider flying my American flag on Memorial and Veteran's Day and on July 4th.

But this year it is becoming clear to me that the country that so many fought and died for, and that I viewed with pride and joy for my entire life, is destined to become just another chapter in the long history of failed attempts at democracy.

I feel especially bitter when I think about all of my relatives that went to Europe in WWII to stop the Nazis, that set the stage for a half century of progress for everyone, and those that fought in all the other armed conflicts along the way. The ChristoFascists and the Radical Right that are essentially opening their arms to neo-Fascism today are violating the memory of those soldiers, and I will never, ever forgive them for that.

So next week I have a decision to make. Will I fly my flag? If I do, will that flag represent freedom or will it represent fascism?

I'm not sure yet.

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Will you fly an American flag on July 4th? (Original Post) dwayneb Jun 2022 OP
Or fly it upside down. Hassler Jun 2022 #1
Under cover of age, I no longer, since long before TFG, pledge, nor stand Backseat Driver Jun 2022 #10
Depending on how many RWs live near you (I want you and your home safe) u might fly it upside down. electric_blue68 Jun 2022 #2
I live in the heart of darkness dwayneb Jun 2022 #13
hooo, boy! brooklynite made the same point. I see it as a call of distress since... electric_blue68 Jun 2022 #22
I don't own one or have a flag pole so no. beaglelover Jun 2022 #3
That attitude is a huge problem. brooklynite Jun 2022 #4
Maybe dwayneb Jun 2022 #16
Hang it upside down. VGNonly Jun 2022 #5
I never do Freddie Jun 2022 #6
Wear black on 7/4? I'm in. Novara Jun 2022 #25
No Deep State Witch Jun 2022 #7
I put ours up on Flag Day (6/14) and will leave it up... VarryOn Jun 2022 #8
The only day I fly my flag is the day Emile Jun 2022 #9
No we can do it Jun 2022 #11
yes, why not. Real patriots support reproductive freedom for all AlexSFCA Jun 2022 #12
Who would have thought Timeflyer Jun 2022 #14
This is exactly what I mean dwayneb Jun 2022 #24
I fly one every day Dave in VA Jun 2022 #15
Nope. Never have, never will. 634-5789 Jun 2022 #17
Me neither Novara Jun 2022 #21
Same here. Left the church 50 years ago Ritabert Jun 2022 #31
Never have, never will. Ritabert Jun 2022 #30
No Glorfindel Jun 2022 #18
Yes I will. It is my country and I will not cede it to the unwashed loser rightwing. Demsrule86 Jun 2022 #19
I fly one every day Kaleva Jun 2022 #20
Hell no. Jirel Jun 2022 #23
Those are good alternatives dwayneb Jun 2022 #27
I've never flown a flag. I know in which country I live. NewHendoLib Jun 2022 #26
I haven't flown one since the day the US invaded Iraq. sinkingfeeling Jun 2022 #28
Not this year. Ocelot II Jun 2022 #29
NOPE! PortTack Jun 2022 #32
Yes. n/t ChazII Jun 2022 #33
I haven't flown an American flag since shortly after 9/11... Iggo Jun 2022 #34
Yep SickOfTheOnePct Jun 2022 #35
Yes. I won't let the Deplorables take it from us. Mister Ed Jun 2022 #36
Better questions: Will "you" vote for our country? Hortensis Jun 2022 #37
Not until it's my country, again. Paladin Jun 2022 #38
Amen. Boomerproud Jun 2022 #44
Don't disagree - but WHAT work? What's the plan? dwayneb Jun 2022 #45
Yes LetMyPeopleVote Jun 2022 #39
Yes I will. Those fuckers will NOT play claim to our flag Bucky Jun 2022 #40
Yes. Elessar Zappa Jun 2022 #41
Yes, it's not me who is not being an American. Hugin Jun 2022 #42
I flew the flag mostly every day until kacekwl Jun 2022 #43
i'm definetly not feeling it this year......... Takket Jun 2022 #46
Thanks for the thoughtful and interesting replies dwayneb Jun 2022 #47

Backseat Driver

(4,392 posts)
10. Under cover of age, I no longer, since long before TFG, pledge, nor stand
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:53 PM
Jun 2022

for its passing in review, heart over hand. Ummm...yeah - I got issues!

electric_blue68

(14,906 posts)
2. Depending on how many RWs live near you (I want you and your home safe) u might fly it upside down.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:48 PM
Jun 2022

🤔 I put an upside down flag in my window after something really bad happened but Our apt building in the back part was high up on a hill looking out over rooftops.

dwayneb

(768 posts)
13. I live in the heart of darkness
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:55 PM
Jun 2022

They aren't the sort of Trumpers (for the most part) that would burn my house down, but there is no doubt that it's a risk.

I think I'd rather not fly it at all than fly it upside down. When I think about all the battles in WWII on land and sea where that flag was flying proudly, right-side up, it sickens me to think how the neo-Fascists have perverted and violated the meaning of our flag.

electric_blue68

(14,906 posts)
22. hooo, boy! brooklynite made the same point. I see it as a call of distress since...
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 04:05 PM
Jun 2022

that's what it is.

Not that it hasn't been before, but this action is so far reaching, and up ending.

brooklynite

(94,585 posts)
4. That attitude is a huge problem.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:49 PM
Jun 2022

What you're saying is that the conservatives and the fringe represent the entire country. That there's nothing to appreciate or celebrate about the country. And when you give up the flag, you hand it to the conservatives to claim that THEY'RE the patriotic ones.

dwayneb

(768 posts)
16. Maybe
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 04:02 PM
Jun 2022

That's the inner debate I am having.

Of course the Radical Right does not represent the entire country. They just CONTROL the entire country, the tyranny of the minority.

Where I live here in rural Ohio, there's not a lot to celebrate. After Trump rose to power, I am watching this region devolve to pretty much what it was when I was growing up in the 60's - racism and bigotry are springing up again, stronger than ever.

It's becoming "great" again in a sickeningly familiar way.

Freddie

(9,267 posts)
6. I never do
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:49 PM
Jun 2022

Haven’t since TFG was “elected”.
Saw a suggestion that women wear black on 7/4. I’m in.

Deep State Witch

(10,427 posts)
7. No
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:50 PM
Jun 2022

My husband for some reason LOOOOOVES fireworks. We have to go to the fireworks every year, because he's secretly a 9-year-old boy trapped in a 59-year-old man's body. I told him this year that we are NOT going, because I don't want to celebrate an America that treats women and minorities like second class citizens.

Emile

(22,778 posts)
9. The only day I fly my flag is the day
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:53 PM
Jun 2022

after the presidential election when the democrat candidate wins!

Timeflyer

(1,993 posts)
14. Who would have thought
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:55 PM
Jun 2022

Who would have thought we'd see Americans using the US flag as a weapon, to attack the US Capitol Jan. 6. Those images have tainted our flag for me. I jumped around and waved the flag after Biden & Harris got elected. But now? Guess we need to reclaim it, but the Trumpuglicans have wrapped their guns and bible in it so much that it needs cleaning.

dwayneb

(768 posts)
24. This is exactly what I mean
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 04:06 PM
Jun 2022

These sewer dwellers have desecrated our flag.

In the end I am sure I will fly mine, if nothing else for consistency. I guess I am becoming an old creaker, I don't like change.

If nothing else it can be flown in memorial of those that saved us from the Nazis in WWII. Of course those soldiers never dreamed that the real threat to our freedom would one day come from inside our very own country.

Dave in VA

(2,037 posts)
15. I fly one every day
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 03:59 PM
Jun 2022

and have for all of my adult life. House would feel naked with out on on the front of my home.

Novara

(5,842 posts)
21. Me neither
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 04:05 PM
Jun 2022

And it's the same reason I left religion years ago and became an atheist: I can't stomach the blatant hypocrisy.

Jirel

(2,018 posts)
23. Hell no.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 04:06 PM
Jun 2022

I already wasn’t flying one or putting up bunting for the 4th during the Dump years. Now, I will only fly Ukrainian, BLM, rainbow, and/or reproductive rights flags.

dwayneb

(768 posts)
27. Those are good alternatives
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 04:09 PM
Jun 2022

I have always flown our flag in memorial of those that fought and died for our freedoms. It was never to represent my allegiance to a scumsucker like Trump.

Iggo

(47,558 posts)
34. I haven't flown an American flag since shortly after 9/11...
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 04:52 PM
Jun 2022

…when what I saw became too much for me to stomach, and I declined to further participate in the patriotic circle jerk.

And don’t get me started on those “Thank you for your service” bullshitters.

Mister Ed

(5,938 posts)
36. Yes. I won't let the Deplorables take it from us.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 05:19 PM
Jun 2022

I will wear black all day and evening in silent protest.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
37. Better questions: Will "you" vote for our country?
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 05:24 PM
Jun 2022

Will "you" vote in both the primaries and GE? If you do, will "you" vote Democrat to save it?

Paladin

(28,262 posts)
38. Not until it's my country, again.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 05:26 PM
Jun 2022

And to you Democrats who still believe that a show of hyper-polite manners will cure what ails this nation at this point in time: Kindly step out of the way. There's some work that needs to be done.

dwayneb

(768 posts)
45. Don't disagree - but WHAT work? What's the plan?
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 09:12 PM
Jun 2022

We know the end goal, but right now we don't have a road map to achieve it. The bridge too far is of course the 40% to 50% of the American public that don't even bother to vote. We can get Democrats out all day long, we may even flip a few Republicans, but how do we solve the problem of the apathy of the average self-absorbed American?

For the Fascists, their road map is crystal clear; let's be honest, it's a battle plan, and they effectively won a major battle in the war on democracy on January 6, 2021. They will keep expanding the propaganda machine, keep corrupting our election systems, keep spreading the Big Lie, gain control of Congress in 2022 in order to pave the way for a coup if needed in 2024; and then once their chosen autocrat is place in power, proceed to demolish the rule of law right down to the studs.

Many Democrats as you noted don't really comprehend yet that we are indeed at war. In fact, it's the most important war that we have fought since the founding of this country. In many ways the threat that the Radical Right presents to all of us today is greater than the threat that Hitler posed back in the early 1940's. Make no mistake, Trump or DeSantis or their successor will work relentlessly to sort out how to turn the power of the US military/FBI/CIA/Homeland Security against the people. When that happens we will be moving from a war of words to a war in the streets.

Hugin

(33,148 posts)
42. Yes, it's not me who is not being an American.
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 06:03 PM
Jun 2022

The un-patriotic shithole developing why-we-can’t-have-anything-nice trash are the GrOPpers.

kacekwl

(7,017 posts)
43. I flew the flag mostly every day until
Sun Jun 26, 2022, 06:09 PM
Jun 2022

trump was "elected". When he lost it went back up again. I'm angered about many things this country does but in my mind the absolute worst was allowing trump to foul the White House. I fear for the future of America but hopefully we have learned a lesson from trump and fascist Republicans.

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