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Police called to Senator Cruz home - 14 year old girl suffers self-inflicted ... (Original Post) DURHAM D Dec 2022 OP
Oh no! Lunabell Dec 2022 #1
Where did you hear that she came out as bisexual? Beaverhausen Dec 2022 #27
I saw this article mentioning it. area51 Dec 2022 #43
Don't see any confirmation yet, but Cruz does have a 14 year old daughter. onenote Dec 2022 #2
Cruz has a 14 year old daughter, according to Wikipedia. Gaugamela Dec 2022 #3
BNO is the Netherlands. Sneederbunk Dec 2022 #4
Jesus. Let me tell you... TomDaisy Dec 2022 #5
Just saw a graph earlier with correlation to social media Nevilledog Dec 2022 #10
Yup. Cell phone life. The stats prove it. lindysalsagal Dec 2022 #18
+1 can't add to this. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 2022 #15
My granddaughter just turned 14, and she is intreatment for self harm, via cutting. msfiddlestix Dec 2022 #21
they are so vulnerable at this age. what is happening to them is not fair. TomDaisy Dec 2022 #22
It's tragic and a crises and yes very very unfair msfiddlestix Dec 2022 #23
At least she has you and is in treatment. TigressDem Dec 2022 #39
HPD called to River Oaks neighborhood where Sen. Ted Cruz resides cbabe Dec 2022 #6
Police called to Houston home of Sen. Ted Cruz LeftInTX Dec 2022 #20
His daughter? chillfactor Dec 2022 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author Effete Snob Dec 2022 #8
You can bet the only thing Cruz is thinking about right now is how to spin this to blame Takket Dec 2022 #9
Word! Beakybird Dec 2022 #12
If it is his family Effete Snob Dec 2022 #13
Sounds like "cutting" vs "stabbing" to me..... TigressDem Dec 2022 #11
It could be "cutting" or it could be a suicide attempt. milestogo Dec 2022 #19
Yeah, even "cutting" is practice for suicide, so it's plenty serious. TigressDem Dec 2022 #36
God, I hope she'll be okay. Both now and in the long term. Mister Ed Dec 2022 #14
I'll be out of character for a minute here.... albacore Dec 2022 #16
I agree with you lunatica Dec 2022 #45
The internet says he has a 14 year old. Renew Deal Dec 2022 #17
They confirmed it's his daughter...now he wants privacy LeftInTX Dec 2022 #24
Are you watching local news? nt DURHAM D Dec 2022 #25
I watched the ABC 13 clip out of Houston LeftInTX Dec 2022 #31
Which I would do as there is a very troubled minor involved Kaleva Dec 2022 #40
I don't wish that situation on anyone who has children Victor_c3 Dec 2022 #26
maybe this will open his eyes on how his dumbfuckery caused his daughter to do this dsp3000 Dec 2022 #28
Very sad... I hope she gets the help she needs. demmiblue Dec 2022 #29
That poor girl. Whether cutting or a suicide attempt nolabear Dec 2022 #30
Very sad. DURHAM D Dec 2022 #33
Perhaps she is cutting and not suicidal? Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #34
Seems a weird thing to hope but I hope so. nolabear Dec 2022 #35
It is not weird to hope for a less serious diagnosis. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #38
I wonder if she is the one Disaffected Dec 2022 #32
BNO News is a completely legitimate Dutch international news wire, affiliated with NBC Celerity Dec 2022 #37
I hope the entire family gets the help they need. She can't and shouldn't Ilsa Dec 2022 #41
Poor Kid Deep State Witch Dec 2022 #42
For this thread LetMyPeopleVote Dec 2022 #44
He won't learn anything. Mr.Bill Dec 2022 #46

Lunabell

(6,089 posts)
1. Oh no!
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:40 PM
Dec 2022

His little girl who came out as bisexual! Poor baby, I really wish her well. Get well, little lady. ❤️

And I hope her father croaks!

TomDaisy

(1,874 posts)
5. Jesus. Let me tell you...
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:43 PM
Dec 2022

right now...

as the parent of a teen girl, there is so FUCKING much stress on these kids. Even those not in the public eye. For grades. Activities. College acceptance. Instagram FOMO. All she missed due to COVID. Everyone, everywhere is demanding so much from them. It is so hard.

And as much as I try to keep an exact temperature on how she is (away at school) there have been times she has a total and complete meltdown because she has been covering and hiding her stress until it is too much.

When she was in high school - three kids committed suicide.

We need to do something. These kids are living in a pressure cooker and the stress on them is leaving a permanent mark.

Something is very very wrong.

Nevilledog

(51,122 posts)
10. Just saw a graph earlier with correlation to social media
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:46 PM
Dec 2022

Pandemic certainly didn't help, but the despair of our young was trending up before it hit.

OAITW r.2.0

(24,504 posts)
15. +1 can't add to this.
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:49 PM
Dec 2022

I was a parent in this age group 15 years ago....but I am glad that my kids didn't have to deal with today's realties at 14. I hate Cruz, but he's brought a lot of this home with his national personna. I hope he he thinks about the reality he's delivered to his kids.

msfiddlestix

(7,282 posts)
21. My granddaughter just turned 14, and she is intreatment for self harm, via cutting.
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:58 PM
Dec 2022

I blame it on Covid Shutdown and social media. combined the isolation and then she enters high school right after schools reopened, and bam. fron a straight A student to this heartbreaking, heart wrenching, gut punching, confusing tormenting situation. just can't describe the degree of heart break and sadness,. and helplessness and all the rest of it.

Thankfully for my granddaughter, she's been in treatment since October.. and it looks until past crhistmas, we don't know yet.

TigressDem

(5,125 posts)
39. At least she has you and is in treatment.
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:31 AM
Dec 2022

I've known two women who struggled with this and one of them not only recovered but went many years dealing with more and more situations that would implode most people's minds.

The other woman was doing well last time we talked and had found her stride and place.

The difference for them they said was supportive friends because their family was batshit crazy.

That and a rubber band bracelet for one. She snapped it instead of cutting. It gave her the "wake up" and her system still released the chemicals the cutting did and took her out of the altered state she got into when her thinking had her at the edge of the cliff.

I hope your granddaughter finds all she needs for healing and becomes the strong woman who results from surviving such ordeals.

cbabe

(3,548 posts)
6. HPD called to River Oaks neighborhood where Sen. Ted Cruz resides
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:43 PM
Dec 2022
https://abc13.com/ted-cruz-home-ella-lee-houston-river-oaks-police-activity-hpd-responds-to-neighborhood/12535892/

HPD called to River Oaks neighborhood where Sen. Ted Cruz resides

ByJessica Willey via KTRK logo
Tuesday, December 6, 2022 7:20PM

HOUSTON, Texas (KTRK) -- The Houston Police Department sent officers to a part of River Oaks on Tuesday night where U.S. Sen. Ted Cruz is known to reside.

HPD told Eyewitness News that it responded to reports of a 14-year-old with self-inflicted stab wounds on the arms at 7:44 p.m. in the 3000 block of Ella Lee Lane, which is just off Kirby Drive.

The video above is the ABC13 Houston's 24/7 Streaming Channel.

The teen, whose gender was not disclosed, was taken to the hospital.

Police could not say whether the call involved anyone living at Cruz's family home.

…more…

Response to DURHAM D (Original post)

 

Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
13. If it is his family
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:48 PM
Dec 2022

He is probably concerned about his daughter.

“Cutting” is a behavior that doesn’t depend on the politics of a home.

TigressDem

(5,125 posts)
11. Sounds like "cutting" vs "stabbing" to me.....
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:46 PM
Dec 2022

Lots of teen girls in impossible situations do "test cutting" and the "close attempt" relieves some kind of tension.

It still needs treatment both physical, mental and emotional to overcome.


BUT it is a huge warning sign that someone needs support instead of constant judgement.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
19. It could be "cutting" or it could be a suicide attempt.
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:54 PM
Dec 2022

It depends on where and how deep the cuts are.

Being a teenage girl is rough, and so is having a parent in political office.

TigressDem

(5,125 posts)
36. Yeah, even "cutting" is practice for suicide, so it's plenty serious.
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:20 AM
Dec 2022

AND having Cruz for a parent?

In political office or not, he sounds a bit rough on everyone around him.

Mister Ed

(5,940 posts)
14. God, I hope she'll be okay. Both now and in the long term.
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:48 PM
Dec 2022

This tragic scene may be more widely noticed because of her prominent father, but there are so many more like her. The young are suffering.

albacore

(2,399 posts)
16. I'll be out of character for a minute here....
Tue Dec 6, 2022, 11:50 PM
Dec 2022

Instead of dumping on Cruz, I'll send my hopes for the best for the kid.
The poor kid... for a number of reasons... the poor kid.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
45. I agree with you
Thu Dec 8, 2022, 03:21 AM
Dec 2022

Poor child! But I have to admit it doesn’t surprise me that it happened.

I hope she gets help! Poor kid.

Kaleva

(36,312 posts)
40. Which I would do as there is a very troubled minor involved
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:35 AM
Dec 2022

We are not talking about Palin's drunken, fist fighting adult son

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
26. I don't wish that situation on anyone who has children
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 12:11 AM
Dec 2022

I have two daughters, 12 and 14 years old. This hits really close to home for me.

nolabear

(41,987 posts)
30. That poor girl. Whether cutting or a suicide attempt
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 12:24 AM
Dec 2022

It’s an attempt to deal with something that feels too big to handle. It’s an indicator of tremendous pain. I hope the press and people around her give her space and the care she needs to try to heal from this. That means not speculating about her parents in this case, or using it in any way.

Poor baby. I’ve treated kids who cut and they’re trying so very hard to be okay. They need all the love and support they can get. From everyone.

Irish_Dem

(47,131 posts)
34. Perhaps she is cutting and not suicidal?
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 01:08 AM
Dec 2022

But yes either way, it is a serious cry for help.

Yes my heart goes out to her and I hope she gets into treatment.

Irish_Dem

(47,131 posts)
38. It is not weird to hope for a less serious diagnosis.
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:27 AM
Dec 2022

One that does not result in death.

Yes I hope her parents do the right thing and get her into treatment.

Disaffected

(4,557 posts)
32. I wonder if she is the one
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 12:37 AM
Dec 2022

who, a few years ago, pulled away from him on camera when he tried to hug her?

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
41. I hope the entire family gets the help they need. She can't and shouldn't
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 11:42 AM
Dec 2022

do this on her own. If the speculation regarding her sexuality is true, her family may have some serious unlearning to do.

I wish her the best.

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