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I'm am glad to hear that Ted Cruz's daughter is going to be okay. (Original Post) imanamerican63 Dec 2022 OP
I agree that the expectation Dorian Gray Dec 2022 #1
She deserves love and care - but won't get it with that greasy louse Maru Kitteh Dec 2022 #31
I agree he's awful Dorian Gray Dec 2022 #32
The thing is that privacy of those family dynamics allowed something to occur that needs monitoring. TheBlackAdder Dec 2022 #2
I have no idea how it is in states other than California, but here we have "mandated reporters"... Hekate Dec 2022 #6
A lot of us supported Claudia Conway when she had her issues. no_hypocrisy Dec 2022 #3
whatever i missed.. im on the side of the kid samnsara Dec 2022 #11
I hope she realizes she's stronger than she knows, Bluethroughu Dec 2022 #4
???? link?? New Haven Dec 2022 #5
Several different OPs so far. Hopefully someone will be able to direct you. Hekate Dec 2022 #7
Here you go underpants Dec 2022 #8
thank you New Haven Dec 2022 #34
I know you're talking about the current situation Grokenstein Dec 2022 #9
And... 2naSalit Dec 2022 #15
I seem to remember that he publicly blamed his daughters for his ill-conceived Cancun trip. 70sEraVet Dec 2022 #10
Hope she bdamomma Dec 2022 #12
Great news! Kid Berwyn Dec 2022 #13
Thoughts and prayers for his daughter nightwing1240 Dec 2022 #14
Is this the daughter that came out a while back? Crowman2009 Dec 2022 #16
I can't imagine what it would be like to have someone as cruel as Ted Cruz for a father dlk Dec 2022 #17
Never forget this HAB911 Dec 2022 #18
Her disgust is palpable Mortos Dec 2022 #20
I had forgotten this radical noodle Dec 2022 #24
May all involved receive everything they deserve. niyad Dec 2022 #19
Amen to that!nt Trueblue Texan Dec 2022 #22
She's a LGBT kid with a dad living in a bigot's household Tarc Dec 2022 #21
Sadly, it appears she may be a "cutter" ashredux Dec 2022 #23
I think so too. But I don't think most cutting results in hospital visits MaryMagdaline Dec 2022 #27
I doubt either of her parents can see Bettie Dec 2022 #28
She is a minor obamanut2012 Dec 2022 #25
imanamerican63........I don't agree with you but can understand Upthevibe Dec 2022 #26
I hope she gets the help she needs Bettie Dec 2022 #29
Hope she gets the help she needs and hope Ted sees this as a wake up call for his ignorance and hate Chakaconcarne Dec 2022 #30
For this thread LetMyPeopleVote Dec 2022 #33
We should respect his calls for privacy in this situation ripcord Dec 2022 #35

Dorian Gray

(13,496 posts)
1. I agree that the expectation
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 06:48 AM
Dec 2022

after Paul Pelosi seems hypocritical, but also she's only fourteen and deserves love and care.

Dorian Gray

(13,496 posts)
32. I agree he's awful
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 01:06 PM
Dec 2022

and can't imagine being in her shoes and hoping for him to love and support her. Hoping she gets that support from wherever it's available.

TheBlackAdder

(28,209 posts)
2. The thing is that privacy of those family dynamics allowed something to occur that needs monitoring.
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 06:53 AM
Dec 2022

.

As it stands, the parents can select the counselors who fit their needs and not the child's needs.

At age 14, the parents might also have the right to see all of their child's discussions with counselors.


I'm not sure how it is in Texas, which is a pretty freedumb-driven state, but many start privacy at age 16.

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Hekate

(90,714 posts)
6. I have no idea how it is in states other than California, but here we have "mandated reporters"...
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 07:13 AM
Dec 2022

… who include school teachers and psychologists, who may find out about abuse of vulnerable people (such as a child or elderly person or disabled person) in the course of their work.

As the owner of a preschool, my daughter is a mandated reporter, and had the unpleasant duty to report switch-marks on the legs of one of the toddlers in her care to Child Protective Services.

Texas is unlikely to hold the same views on child protection — the stuff we’ve heard this year alone about the treatment of pregnant and transgender children and adolescents is pretty scary.

Surely a young teen who self-harms needs help. I very much hope she gets it.

no_hypocrisy

(46,130 posts)
3. A lot of us supported Claudia Conway when she had her issues.
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 06:59 AM
Dec 2022

I suggest we keep doing it for Ted Cruz's daughter.

underpants

(182,830 posts)
8. Here you go
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 07:17 AM
Dec 2022

Police and medical personnel were called to the Texas home of Sen. Ted Cruz Tuesday night after reports of a 14-year-old girl at the property suffering from self-inflicted stab wounds to her arms.

The teen was taken to the hospital shortly after. It’s unclear who the girl was—though Cruz does have two daughters: Catherine, 11, and Caroline, 14.

In a response to The Daily Beast, a representative for his office said: “This is a family matter, and thankfully their daughter is OK.”

There “were no serious injuries,” the representative said.

https://www.thedailybeast.com/police-called-to-ted-cruzs-texas-home-for-teen-girl-with-self-inflicted-wounds?source=articles&via=rss

Grokenstein

(5,725 posts)
9. I know you're talking about the current situation
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 07:31 AM
Dec 2022

but she'll never really be okay until she's far away from the clutches of her father.

2naSalit

(86,647 posts)
15. And...
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 08:57 AM
Dec 2022

Heaven knows what the mother is like! Staying married to the heap of smoldering fecal matter that she is, one can only wonder at her personality and child rearing methods too.

Any of their kids stand a good chance of mental and emotional scarring from exposure to those two toxic cads.

70sEraVet

(3,504 posts)
10. I seem to remember that he publicly blamed his daughters for his ill-conceived Cancun trip.
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 08:11 AM
Dec 2022

But now we should respect his family's 'privacy'.

Kid Berwyn

(14,909 posts)
13. Great news!
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 08:24 AM
Dec 2022

One of the things that developed in me after first becoming a parent was a heightened concern for the safety and well-being of all children.

nightwing1240

(1,996 posts)
14. Thoughts and prayers for his daughter
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 08:41 AM
Dec 2022

Isn't that what people like Cruz say after a mass shooting? In this case though, I am serious. I hope she gets the care and help she needs, she cannot help that her father is a despicable man.

Crowman2009

(2,497 posts)
16. Is this the daughter that came out a while back?
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:03 AM
Dec 2022

Of course anyone would suffer the same way if they were in a Talabangelical environment that the Cruz family has.

dlk

(11,569 posts)
17. I can't imagine what it would be like to have someone as cruel as Ted Cruz for a father
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:12 AM
Dec 2022

And who’s to say his wife, Heidi, is any better? I hope both of their daughters are receiving the quality help they need. No one in the family could be untouched by devastating nature of this trauma.

Mortos

(2,390 posts)
20. Her disgust is palpable
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:23 AM
Dec 2022

I always thought this video shows some damaged dynamic between the two of them. Maybe she was mad at him in the moment but her facial expressions, body language, and vocalizations indicate something much deeper going on. I can't imagine what it must be like growing up in that home with that vile man.

Tarc

(10,476 posts)
21. She's a LGBT kid with a dad living in a bigot's household
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:26 AM
Dec 2022

This is sad but honestly not surprising, when the man who supposedly raised you does and says things daily to denigrate and negate your very existence.

ashredux

(2,606 posts)
23. Sadly, it appears she may be a "cutter"
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:38 AM
Dec 2022

“ For most who do it, cutting or other self-harm is an attempt to interrupt strong emotions and pressures that seem impossible to tolerate. It can be related to broader emotional issues that need attention. Most of the time, it's not a suicide attempt.”

This young lady needs help. Let’s hope her father is mature enough to help her.

MaryMagdaline

(6,855 posts)
27. I think so too. But I don't think most cutting results in hospital visits
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 10:08 AM
Dec 2022

This might be a full on suicide attempt if there was bleeding enough to result in hospitalization. Poor little kid.

Bettie

(16,110 posts)
28. I doubt either of her parents can see
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 10:30 AM
Dec 2022

past their own egos to help her or support her.

Look at who and what they are.

I hope she gets help from someone who wants to help her, not her father's political career.

Upthevibe

(8,053 posts)
26. imanamerican63........I don't agree with you but can understand
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 09:58 AM
Dec 2022

where you're comin' from.

For me, kids are off limits......Just my feelings.

I hope she's okay. I'm currently teaching high school and I have a couple of great students with horrible parents. I've reminded these kids they'll be 18 shortly (most of them are 17) and they'll have more control over their lives.

Bettie

(16,110 posts)
29. I hope she gets the help she needs
Wed Dec 7, 2022, 10:45 AM
Dec 2022

but it is probable that they won't allow real help.

Her parents' income stream relies on them being loudly hateful and bigoted.

And I would bet everything I own that Ted loves that more than he does his family.

ripcord

(5,409 posts)
35. We should respect his calls for privacy in this situation
Thu Dec 8, 2022, 12:10 PM
Dec 2022

Not only is it involving a minor but because I thought, until I saw some of the comments since this incident, that we are better people.

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