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lapfog_1

(29,199 posts)
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 03:50 PM Jan 2023

quit saying "not a joke"

it is one of Biden's only speaking flaws...

I love the guy, I have for a long time... but this really gets on my nerves.

If he is running again, I want him to work with a communication coach to eliminate this sort of "throw away" side comment in his speaking engagements.

Unless he is really telling a joke and follows it with a fact.

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Ocelot II

(115,683 posts)
1. Everybody has a few verbal tics but I've never even noticed that one.
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 03:53 PM
Jan 2023

It's pretty unobtrusive; I think everyone who notices it understands it to be just a phrase he uses for emphasis. At least he doesn't say "like" all the time.

newdayneeded

(1,955 posts)
3. Biden was 100%, absolutely, no doubt
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 03:56 PM
Jan 2023

the person we needed to take down donny. But I'm worried about him running against a young, articulate, energetic repub. it'll be a pretty stark comparison on the stage.

This guy votes for whomever has the "D" behind their name regardless, but....just saying.

Ocelot II

(115,683 posts)
6. I'm not, especially if it's DeSantis. Ever heard that guy speak?
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 04:07 PM
Jan 2023

His voice is nasal and his style is boring. He looks like, and has all the charisma of, a potato.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,368 posts)
12. Potatoes are versatile.
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 08:54 PM
Jan 2023

Ron DeathSentence is a one trick pony.

Once the entirety of the American electorate hears him speak a few times, they’ll realize how much of a giant horses ass he is.

rsdsharp

(9,170 posts)
8. I think he really uses three phrases that are all similar.
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 04:20 PM
Jan 2023

“Not a joke.”

“Not kidding.”

“Not hyperbole.”

Polybius

(15,398 posts)
19. And you're young too, and somehow still know that word
Fri Jan 27, 2023, 01:09 AM
Jan 2023

At least I'm assuming you were born in 1986.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
13. I think it's just part of who Biden is.
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 09:48 PM
Jan 2023

I suppose some would like a more polished speaker. There are probably just as many who like his authenticity. I think Biden not seeming like a perfect vocabulary liberal elite was part of the reason why he won rust belt states. I agree with you about it sounding repetitive and some could be annoyed by it. As Gruenemann said in a post on this thread, "maybe it's a coping mechanism he uses to deal with his stutter."

GenThePerservering

(1,816 posts)
14. I feel like Joe Biden is "one of us"
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 10:12 PM
Jan 2023

that is, not born with a silver spoon in his mouth, had to overcome difficulties (a stutter is...uh...no joke), worked hard, family man, worked to get where he is now.

He also says what is on his mind and is well informed.

His verbal tics don't bother me.

DET

(1,309 posts)
17. It Is Distracting
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 10:31 PM
Jan 2023

Doesn’t in any way diminish my admiration for Biden, but I wish he would lose this verbal tic.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
18. That and the whispering
Thu Jan 26, 2023, 10:42 PM
Jan 2023

I don't get point of the whispering, can't even make out what he's saying.

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