Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

ProudMNDemocrat

(20,622 posts)
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 07:36 AM Mar 2023

BAN Child Pageants NOT Drag Shows......

When Republicans worry about children at Drag Shows....But will Sexualize their daughters for PRIZES...

There is something very SICK going on here.


?1556582710
52 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
BAN Child Pageants NOT Drag Shows...... (Original Post) ProudMNDemocrat Mar 2023 OP
I, like most people (I hope! ) am not turned on by... TreasonousBastard Mar 2023 #1
Nothing like robbing a little girl of childhood ProudMNDemocrat Mar 2023 #2
I think it would be Dorian Gray Mar 2023 #27
I agree that little girls would prefer to be little girls, and... TreasonousBastard Mar 2023 #29
Yeah Dorian Gray Mar 2023 #30
GROOMING. The original. Samrob Mar 2023 #3
Indeed Redleg Mar 2023 #28
I have always thought these pageants to be totally sick. Lonestarblue Mar 2023 #4
Sickness that runs to...how dare anyone think MY child is objectified, YOU perverts...will be the Alexander Of Assyria Mar 2023 #7
Vomit vercetti2021 Mar 2023 #5
I couldn't agree more. piddyprints Mar 2023 #6
This Ferrets are Cool Mar 2023 #8
Those things are just pedo shows for the perv families in the audience. TheBlackAdder Mar 2023 #9
Agreed. Which prompted my story "Lil' Miss Ultrasound" RobertDevereaux Mar 2023 #10
Is this it? progressoid Mar 2023 #51
Yes indeed. It's one of the stories in that collection. RobertDevereaux Mar 2023 #52
Other countries do ban them. twodogsbarking Mar 2023 #11
JonBenet Ramsey, anyone? niyad Mar 2023 #12
Exactly this! I can't agree more with you FlyingPiggy Mar 2023 #13
I absolutely despise these childhood pageants nightwing1240 Mar 2023 #14
How about if we don't ban either? By the standards of a free nation Hortensis Mar 2023 #15
Your answer is probably the best, but in the case of these pageants... Silent3 Mar 2023 #24
:) Agree. But they've already been studied and we already know Hortensis Mar 2023 #35
❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ +1 Lucinda Mar 2023 #33
Do you think it's possible those children are being harmed? Martin Eden Mar 2023 #47
If they are, isn't an assessment for social services to make? meadowlander Mar 2023 #48
I would agree there is a definite need for professional assessment Martin Eden Mar 2023 #49
Ugh, those photos look really wrong IronLionZion Mar 2023 #16
Agreed. This is truly perverse. Handler Mar 2023 #17
I agree 100%. Those pageants are sick. The Jungle 1 Mar 2023 #18
and adult socalled beauty contests. AllaN01Bear Mar 2023 #19
K&R !!! TeamProg Mar 2023 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author TeamProg Mar 2023 #21
Probably a LOT of these shows in Florida TeamProg Mar 2023 #22
I could get behind that....nt Wounded Bear Mar 2023 #23
Those pictures Traildogbob Mar 2023 #25
I Googled Child Pageants and many popped up. This one as well. ProudMNDemocrat Mar 2023 #32
Agree 100 percent. Traildogbob Mar 2023 #34
We once had a CPA and his office was filled with trophies and pictures like the ones in the op. spanone Mar 2023 #26
Last thought--this crap appeals to SOMEONE who buys... TreasonousBastard Mar 2023 #31
Wikipedia says: Ilsa Mar 2023 #36
Twenty billion dollars! leftstreet Mar 2023 #38
Why don't we just quit banning things. nt leftyladyfrommo Mar 2023 #37
omfg uponit7771 Mar 2023 #39
Ahhhh.... NowISeetheLight Mar 2023 #40
Yes, and I'd also rather ban the right wing echo chamber. Initech Mar 2023 #41
Free speech. Elessar Zappa Mar 2023 #42
True. Initech Mar 2023 #43
Oh, I agree. Elessar Zappa Mar 2023 #45
These pageants are big with hardcore and fundie Christians. Sky Jewels Mar 2023 #44
This is horrifying. Parents put their kids in these. AllyCat Mar 2023 #46
yeah and they will be preggers at 13 years of age Trueblue1968 Mar 2023 #50

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
1. I, like most people (I hope! ) am not turned on by...
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 07:42 AM
Mar 2023

these nymphets.

But, if they are trying to be as sexy as their big sisters, it's a disgrace. More of a disgrace if ir works

ProudMNDemocrat

(20,622 posts)
2. Nothing like robbing a little girl of childhood
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 07:47 AM
Mar 2023

To please the obsession of their parents.

I have seen some of those shows and I was repulsed by them. Same with mothers who push their daughters at Dance competitions. Similar situations and behaviors.

Dorian Gray

(13,846 posts)
27. I think it would be
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:07 AM
Mar 2023

smart not to refer to these children as nymphets.

And also, I don't think the children are trying to be as sexy as their big sisters. I think they're conditioned by and dressed up by their parents to compete.

It's the adults surrounding them who need to be checked.

Kids don't WANT to be sexy. They aren't trying to allure anybody.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
29. I agree that little girls would prefer to be little girls, and...
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:15 AM
Mar 2023

this patental interference doesn't help things.

Dorian Gray

(13,846 posts)
30. Yeah
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:17 AM
Mar 2023

These children are sexualized by all the adults around them at these pageants, and it's horrific. The parents are want them to be little dolls and these competitions are more for them than the kids. But the other adults who run and judge these competitions? I do NOT get why they want to be a part of this at all, unless they're literally grooming the kids.

Lonestarblue

(13,228 posts)
4. I have always thought these pageants to be totally sick.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 08:39 AM
Mar 2023

What kind of sick parents thinks it’s great to dress a toddler like a sex queen to parade around in front of judges for a prize for looking pretty and sexy. What a message to be sending girls that their value lies in being pretty and sexy. UGH!!! I look at these pageants as a form of child abuse, but I know people who claim to be good Christians who have subjected their daughters to this abuse.

 

Alexander Of Assyria

(7,839 posts)
7. Sickness that runs to...how dare anyone think MY child is objectified, YOU perverts...will be the
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 08:50 AM
Mar 2023

Christian ever so offended response. It’s part of the cults culture protective shield. Thicker than titanium.

Then it’s off to hypocrisy land….drag shows are offending my children!…at which shows are there are any children?

Progressives should introduce exact same state by state legislative bill, word for word the same for child pageant show bans as drag show bans!

piddyprints

(15,058 posts)
6. I couldn't agree more.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 08:46 AM
Mar 2023

They do that sort of shit here all the time. One of my friends has a niece whose daughter has been dolled up like that since she was a tiny baby. He shows me pictures and it's all I can do to hide my disgust.

IMO, kids are cute enough just as they are. No wigs or makeup or special pouts and poses.

The big surprise for the parents is when the beauty queen "got herself pregnant"* once she became a teenager and hasn't been taught anything except how to be sexy. One of my other acquaintances became a surprise grandpa a few years back after his daughter had been queen of every local beauty show. I'm guessing the baby is following in mom's footsteps unless someone wises up.

*Yes, every time I hear this, I inform the parent that it's biologically impossible for a girl to get herself pregnant. There is always a boy/man involved, at least at first, before the responsibility part kicks in. And these are the same idiots who won't believe in birth control or abortion.

But do tell about how drag shows are harmful to children, Republicans.

RobertDevereaux

(2,023 posts)
52. Yes indeed. It's one of the stories in that collection.
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 08:01 AM
Mar 2023

Previously published in an anthology called Gathering the Bones.

nightwing1240

(1,996 posts)
14. I absolutely despise these childhood pageants
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 09:23 AM
Mar 2023

I find it disgusting to sexualize any child at any age. The parents are the most to blame for this. And people wonder why we have children molested, missing or worse.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
15. How about if we don't ban either? By the standards of a free nation
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 09:26 AM
Mar 2023

that respects the rights of the people to pursue their happiness, neither require societal intervention beyond the usual laws already in place.

Ideologues and authoritarian types who think they have a right to impose their notions of what's "sick" on everyone else always feel otherwise, part of the definition of them, but most liberal Democrats feel our role is to protect the rights of the people from them.

 

Silent3

(15,909 posts)
24. Your answer is probably the best, but in the case of these pageants...
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:02 AM
Mar 2023

...it might be something that could be factually proved to be harmful to the girls involved. This should be data-driven, not just a battle of who is most shocked and offended, however.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
35. :) Agree. But they've already been studied and we already know
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:45 AM
Mar 2023

any adverse effects of "beauty" competitions aren't even close to significant enough to justify governmental banning.

Maybe the enthusiasm for government suppression of individual rights on this thread alone might encourage some to read a little about left wing authoritarianism. Not everyone on the left is committed to principles of individual rights and freedoms. Of course not everyone opposed to beauty pageants is authoritarian either, but the call for government to ban anything for ideological reasons is intrinsically authoritarian, whether imposed to suit a minority or majority.

Hard to believe that before 2016 disastrously put LW authoritarianism on the national stage most experts were so focused on the enormous, and horrendously proven, dangers from its more aggressive twin, RW authoritarianism, that they didn't bother to notice it.

Martin Eden

(15,363 posts)
47. Do you think it's possible those children are being harmed?
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 11:22 PM
Mar 2023

Their parents are making them look and act like sex objects at a very young age, and I doubt these pageants are the manifestation of children seeking their own happiness

meadowlander

(5,097 posts)
48. If they are, isn't an assessment for social services to make?
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 11:27 PM
Mar 2023

We already have a framework for evaluating terrible parenting which harms children. Why not build off of that?

Martin Eden

(15,363 posts)
49. I would agree there is a definite need for professional assessment
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 11:35 PM
Mar 2023

However, I sincerely doubt a social service agency which is most likely overburdened, understaffed, and not geared to investigate this specific form of possible abuse is the best means to resolve the issue.

 

The Jungle 1

(4,552 posts)
18. I agree 100%. Those pageants are sick.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 09:44 AM
Mar 2023

These pageants are a pedophiles dream come true.
The midget football cheer squads also need to be ended. No little girl should be dressed up in revealing clothing.

Response to ProudMNDemocrat (Original post)

Traildogbob

(12,561 posts)
25. Those pictures
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:06 AM
Mar 2023

Look like screen savers on trump’s phone.
This is some sick grooming Jeeebus freaks are very silent about.

ProudMNDemocrat

(20,622 posts)
32. I Googled Child Pageants and many popped up. This one as well.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:23 AM
Mar 2023

The point of this post is to bring about awareness of Republican HYPOCRISY when it comes to adults in drag and performing to other adults versus little girls overly made up to look like Lolitas strutting around for trophies.

One is being proposed to be a Felony in many states, while the other is being looked at as okay. I am no prude, but the latter is just plain sick.

Traildogbob

(12,561 posts)
34. Agree 100 percent.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:36 AM
Mar 2023

Where is the Jeeeebus outrage. And trump walked into dressing rooms of little girls in HIS pageants.

spanone

(141,014 posts)
26. We once had a CPA and his office was filled with trophies and pictures like the ones in the op.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:06 AM
Mar 2023

It was his daughter in the pics.

We had young children.

It freaked us out.

We found a new CPA.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
31. Last thought--this crap appeals to SOMEONE who buys...
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 10:21 AM
Mar 2023

the tickets and awards. Go after them. They keep this crap alive.

Ilsa

(63,836 posts)
36. Wikipedia says:
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 12:09 PM
Mar 2023
The modern child beauty pageant emerged in the early 1960s, held in Miami, Florida. Since then, the industry has grown to include about 250,000 pageants. It is an increasingly lucrative business, bringing in about twenty billion dollars a year to the Americas with its popularity spreading worldwide.[1]


As long as there is this much money in child pageants, they'll never be outlawed. Maybe making "drag" shows more lucrative will protect them better.

leftstreet

(38,823 posts)
38. Twenty billion dollars!
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 12:14 PM
Mar 2023

Holy crap.

Yes, indeed, make drag shows this lucrative and they'll be protected

NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
40. Ahhhh....
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 01:31 PM
Mar 2023

I remember that cable TV show a few years ago about these pageant moms. I watched an episode. They were like pimps or something. I mean it was just so exploitative. Most of them seemed to be trying to live vicariously via the kids. Kind of like some youth sports parents I’ve seen over the years. THAT is real child abuse imo.

Initech

(107,436 posts)
41. Yes, and I'd also rather ban the right wing echo chamber.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 01:35 PM
Mar 2023

That's done more irreparable harm to kids, especially in the last 3 years, than any amount of drag shows ever could.

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
42. Free speech.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 01:37 PM
Mar 2023

We can’t ban their speech. We have to outcompete them with the truth. It’s the only way forward.

Initech

(107,436 posts)
43. True.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 02:00 PM
Mar 2023

But think of where we'd be without the right wing Fox / AM / megachurch echo chamber. One can dream!

 

Sky Jewels

(9,148 posts)
44. These pageants are big with hardcore and fundie Christians.
Thu Mar 2, 2023, 02:00 PM
Mar 2023

But it fits right in with that religion, whose main purpose is to further the patriarchy. Women/girls are lessers, fit only to be pretty, subservient ornaments and bear babies. And the two major Christian supernatural deity characters in the mythology, "God" and "Jesus" (sometimes said to be one and the same -- go figure), are depicted as humanlike males (of course). These girls are being trained early to fulfill their only purpose -- pleasing men.

Drag shows elevate "femaleness" and femininity into something to be appreciated and imitated by males. Can't have that! They must be stopped!

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»BAN Child Pageants NOT D...