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When Republicans worry about children at Drag Shows....But will Sexualize their daughters for PRIZES...There is something very SICK going on here.
?1556582710TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)these nymphets.
But, if they are trying to be as sexy as their big sisters, it's a disgrace. More of a disgrace if ir works
ProudMNDemocrat
(20,622 posts)To please the obsession of their parents.
I have seen some of those shows and I was repulsed by them. Same with mothers who push their daughters at Dance competitions. Similar situations and behaviors.
Dorian Gray
(13,846 posts)smart not to refer to these children as nymphets.
And also, I don't think the children are trying to be as sexy as their big sisters. I think they're conditioned by and dressed up by their parents to compete.
It's the adults surrounding them who need to be checked.
Kids don't WANT to be sexy. They aren't trying to allure anybody.
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)this patental interference doesn't help things.
Dorian Gray
(13,846 posts)These children are sexualized by all the adults around them at these pageants, and it's horrific. The parents are want them to be little dolls and these competitions are more for them than the kids. But the other adults who run and judge these competitions? I do NOT get why they want to be a part of this at all, unless they're literally grooming the kids.
Samrob
(4,298 posts)Sick MF parents.
Lonestarblue
(13,228 posts)What kind of sick parents thinks its great to dress a toddler like a sex queen to parade around in front of judges for a prize for looking pretty and sexy. What a message to be sending girls that their value lies in being pretty and sexy. UGH!!! I look at these pageants as a form of child abuse, but I know people who claim to be good Christians who have subjected their daughters to this abuse.
Alexander Of Assyria
(7,839 posts)Christian ever so offended response. Its part of the cults culture protective shield. Thicker than titanium.
Then its off to hypocrisy land
.drag shows are offending my children!
at which shows are there are any children?
Progressives should introduce exact same state by state legislative bill, word for word the same for child pageant show bans as drag show bans!
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)This makes me sick. Pedo bait no doubt.
piddyprints
(15,058 posts)They do that sort of shit here all the time. One of my friends has a niece whose daughter has been dolled up like that since she was a tiny baby. He shows me pictures and it's all I can do to hide my disgust.
IMO, kids are cute enough just as they are. No wigs or makeup or special pouts and poses.
The big surprise for the parents is when the beauty queen "got herself pregnant"* once she became a teenager and hasn't been taught anything except how to be sexy. One of my other acquaintances became a surprise grandpa a few years back after his daughter had been queen of every local beauty show. I'm guessing the baby is following in mom's footsteps unless someone wises up.
*Yes, every time I hear this, I inform the parent that it's biologically impossible for a girl to get herself pregnant. There is always a boy/man involved, at least at first, before the responsibility part kicks in. And these are the same idiots who won't believe in birth control or abortion.
But do tell about how drag shows are harmful to children, Republicans.
Ferrets are Cool
(22,529 posts)TheBlackAdder
(29,981 posts)RobertDevereaux
(2,023 posts)progressoid
(52,585 posts)RobertDevereaux
(2,023 posts)Previously published in an anthology called Gathering the Bones.
twodogsbarking
(17,580 posts)niyad
(129,560 posts)FlyingPiggy
(3,748 posts)nightwing1240
(1,996 posts)I find it disgusting to sexualize any child at any age. The parents are the most to blame for this. And people wonder why we have children molested, missing or worse.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)that respects the rights of the people to pursue their happiness, neither require societal intervention beyond the usual laws already in place.
Ideologues and authoritarian types who think they have a right to impose their notions of what's "sick" on everyone else always feel otherwise, part of the definition of them, but most liberal Democrats feel our role is to protect the rights of the people from them.
Silent3
(15,909 posts)...it might be something that could be factually proved to be harmful to the girls involved. This should be data-driven, not just a battle of who is most shocked and offended, however.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)any adverse effects of "beauty" competitions aren't even close to significant enough to justify governmental banning.
Maybe the enthusiasm for government suppression of individual rights on this thread alone might encourage some to read a little about left wing authoritarianism. Not everyone on the left is committed to principles of individual rights and freedoms. Of course not everyone opposed to beauty pageants is authoritarian either, but the call for government to ban anything for ideological reasons is intrinsically authoritarian, whether imposed to suit a minority or majority.
Hard to believe that before 2016 disastrously put LW authoritarianism on the national stage most experts were so focused on the enormous, and horrendously proven, dangers from its more aggressive twin, RW authoritarianism, that they didn't bother to notice it.
Lucinda
(31,170 posts)Martin Eden
(15,363 posts)Their parents are making them look and act like sex objects at a very young age, and I doubt these pageants are the manifestation of children seeking their own happiness
meadowlander
(5,097 posts)We already have a framework for evaluating terrible parenting which harms children. Why not build off of that?
Martin Eden
(15,363 posts)However, I sincerely doubt a social service agency which is most likely overburdened, understaffed, and not geared to investigate this specific form of possible abuse is the best means to resolve the issue.
IronLionZion
(50,820 posts)Handler
(339 posts)The Jungle 1
(4,552 posts)These pageants are a pedophiles dream come true.
The midget football cheer squads also need to be ended. No little girl should be dressed up in revealing clothing.
AllaN01Bear
(28,607 posts)TeamProg
(6,630 posts)Response to ProudMNDemocrat (Original post)
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TeamProg
(6,630 posts)Wounded Bear
(63,839 posts)Traildogbob
(12,561 posts)Look like screen savers on trumps phone.
This is some sick grooming Jeeebus freaks are very silent about.
ProudMNDemocrat
(20,622 posts)The point of this post is to bring about awareness of Republican HYPOCRISY when it comes to adults in drag and performing to other adults versus little girls overly made up to look like Lolitas strutting around for trophies.
One is being proposed to be a Felony in many states, while the other is being looked at as okay. I am no prude, but the latter is just plain sick.
Traildogbob
(12,561 posts)Where is the Jeeeebus outrage. And trump walked into dressing rooms of little girls in HIS pageants.
spanone
(141,014 posts)It was his daughter in the pics.
We had young children.
It freaked us out.
We found a new CPA.
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)the tickets and awards. Go after them. They keep this crap alive.
Ilsa
(63,836 posts)As long as there is this much money in child pageants, they'll never be outlawed. Maybe making "drag" shows more lucrative will protect them better.
leftstreet
(38,823 posts)Holy crap.
Yes, indeed, make drag shows this lucrative and they'll be protected
leftyladyfrommo
(19,955 posts)uponit7771
(93,491 posts)NowISeetheLight
(4,002 posts)I remember that cable TV show a few years ago about these pageant moms. I watched an episode. They were like pimps or something. I mean it was just so exploitative. Most of them seemed to be trying to live vicariously via the kids. Kind of like some youth sports parents Ive seen over the years. THAT is real child abuse imo.
Initech
(107,436 posts)That's done more irreparable harm to kids, especially in the last 3 years, than any amount of drag shows ever could.
Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)We cant ban their speech. We have to outcompete them with the truth. Its the only way forward.
Initech
(107,436 posts)But think of where we'd be without the right wing Fox / AM / megachurch echo chamber. One can dream!
Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)Fox News is a blight on society.
Sky Jewels
(9,148 posts)But it fits right in with that religion, whose main purpose is to further the patriarchy. Women/girls are lessers, fit only to be pretty, subservient ornaments and bear babies. And the two major Christian supernatural deity characters in the mythology, "God" and "Jesus" (sometimes said to be one and the same -- go figure), are depicted as humanlike males (of course). These girls are being trained early to fulfill their only purpose -- pleasing men.
Drag shows elevate "femaleness" and femininity into something to be appreciated and imitated by males. Can't have that! They must be stopped!
AllyCat
(18,520 posts)Appalling.