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Jilly_in_VA

(9,966 posts)
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 08:38 AM Mar 2023

A 5-Year-Old Was Allegedly Assaulted on a School Bus and Then Forced to Sit With Her Attacker

A North Carolina school district that has been repeatedly accused of ignoring or silencing students’ reports of sexual misconduct recently failed to do enough to help a 5-year-old girl who reported being sexually assaulted on the school bus, according to a new report from local news outlet WBTV. The girl was even allegedly forced to once again sit next to one of the boys who she says attacked her.

The 5-year-old girl said she was inappropriately touched by two boys on February 6, 2022, according to a school write-up of the incident obtained by WBTV.

“She said one boy was trying to get her to kiss another,” the write-up read. “The ‘fat boy’ was pushing her face against the window of the bus. She told her mother that one of the boys ‘put his fingers inside my cootie and was playing around.’”

The girl’s mother told WBTV that one of the boys also exposed himself to the girl.

After the girl’s mother reported the incident to the school, administrators initially promised to sit the girl next to an older female student on the bus, as well as sit her in front within the eyeline of the bus driver, according to WBTV. But instead, when the girl got back on the bus, she had to sit next to one of her alleged attackers, her mom told the outlet.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/5d3nnq/north-carolina-cms-5-year-old-sexual-assault

Charlotte-Mecklenburg. Again.

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A 5-Year-Old Was Allegedly Assaulted on a School Bus and Then Forced to Sit With Her Attacker (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Mar 2023 OP
CMS chief abruptly ends interview about 5-year-old's reported assault dalton99a Mar 2023 #1
Why is the author of this article communicating in dialect, Backseat Driver Mar 2023 #25
Wow. That is fucked up. SunSeeker Mar 2023 #2
Do the parents of the boys know about this? Emile Mar 2023 #3
They Said They'd Move Her ProfessorGAC Mar 2023 #4
why wouldn't the bus driver handle this? stopdiggin Mar 2023 #8
Unfortunately, the bus driver is severely restricted in what thay can do. OldBaldy1701E Mar 2023 #16
I Wouldn't Put It On The Driver ProfessorGAC Mar 2023 #21
Sorry, she's not the one who needs to be moved. Phoenix61 Mar 2023 #5
This. Delphinus Mar 2023 #6
Rather than grooming them DENVERPOPS Mar 2023 #23
Yes! I don't understand this level of incompetence and negligence. yardwork Mar 2023 #7
Typically when a young child offends it's because they were Phoenix61 Mar 2023 #9
Exactly! Those perverts should be kicked out of school. Texin Mar 2023 #24
I'm disturbed that their "answer" to the problem was to "move" the girl to another seat. Ferrets are Cool Mar 2023 #10
The first responsible person is the school bus driver for making them sit together. keithbvadu2 Mar 2023 #11
I Agree, Sir The Magistrate Mar 2023 #12
Wait, WHAT? Higherarky Mar 2023 #15
I Expect You Did, Sir The Magistrate Mar 2023 #17
I appreciate your clarification. Higherarky Mar 2023 #20
The driver may not set the seating on the bus dsc Mar 2023 #13
If So, Sir The Magistrate Mar 2023 #18
Sue the school and the administrators & bus driver to within an inch of their life! lark Mar 2023 #14
And schools are worried about sexual content IN BOOKS mainer Mar 2023 #19
x1000 judesedit Mar 2023 #22

dalton99a

(81,468 posts)
1. CMS chief abruptly ends interview about 5-year-old's reported assault
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 08:41 AM
Mar 2023
https://www.wbtv.com/2023/03/01/cms-chief-abruptly-ends-interview-about-5-year-olds-reported-assault/
CMS chief abruptly ends interview about 5-year-old’s reported assault
WBTV Investigates pushes for answers parents want to know about school bus safety.

Backseat Driver

(4,392 posts)
25. Why is the author of this article communicating in dialect,
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 02:55 PM
Mar 2023

i.e., "was sat" at least three times in the article??? I'd read that this dialectic use is gaining popularity among those in the UK. This "chief investigator," or anchor? in another article refers to the STEM program, pronounced with a long E.

Is this channel making use of AI-scripted articles or just mocking local readership's use of Standard English language?

IDK, but I'll never forget being told by a Brownie leader that using "I seen" would forever mark me as an uneducated boob, not that there aren't many such misogynist beings with an audience in NC.

Something is off with this story, IMHO, though there was a similar response to a threatened (violence-related) assault to my grandson by an elementary age classmate several years back where supposedly there is zero tolerance. School administers up the line and including the principal were unable to speak about what actions were taken in response to this threat by a fellow student under federal protocol and privacy. Not exactly helpful to the mom of the threatened student but that threat, unlike this alleged one, never materialized and has been largely forgotten, without traumatic effect, with the passing of time.

ProfessorGAC

(65,010 posts)
4. They Said They'd Move Her
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:19 AM
Mar 2023

How hard was it to execute on that plan? And, they just didn't do.
Aside from the callousness, it's super lazy to just ignore it.

stopdiggin

(11,301 posts)
8. why wouldn't the bus driver handle this?
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:34 AM
Mar 2023

A seat close to the front (and withing visual) is always an option. Or is the driver an uninvolved (by choice) contract employee, that simply doesn't care what issues or behavior transpires. (Not the bus driver I grew up with)

OldBaldy1701E

(5,126 posts)
16. Unfortunately, the bus driver is severely restricted in what thay can do.
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:57 AM
Mar 2023

Thank the parents who always complained about their precious snowflakes being 'picked on' by the driver (because the little shiat was being a danger to others as well as themselves by not sitting the fuck down and behaving, but I digress...) and had any ability to handle this type of thing removed. Yes, back when I was going to school, if you were a complete asshat, you were put off the bus. And, the school stood with the driver. Hell, I remember many times when the driver would not start the bus until we sat down and behaved. And if it made us late... oh well... it was our own fault. (You know, that outdated concept of being held accountable for your own actions?) Those days are long gone.

ProfessorGAC

(65,010 posts)
21. I Wouldn't Put It On The Driver
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 10:47 AM
Mar 2023

Beyond the responsibility of enforcing the change, that is.
The administration is on the hook for this, IMO.
Just lazy.

Phoenix61

(17,003 posts)
5. Sorry, she's not the one who needs to be moved.
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:25 AM
Mar 2023

Those boys need to have their sorry little asses kicked off the bus.

DENVERPOPS

(8,817 posts)
23. Rather than grooming them
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 11:19 AM
Mar 2023

for the Presidency or a Supreme Court Justice..............seriously..........

yardwork

(61,599 posts)
7. Yes! I don't understand this level of incompetence and negligence.
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:29 AM
Mar 2023

Those boys are children, too, who desperately need intervention and services before they grow up to be adult offenders. Just a complete failure of the adults all around.

Phoenix61

(17,003 posts)
9. Typically when a young child offends it's because they were
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:34 AM
Mar 2023

victimized by someone. That the school just walked away is insane. I’ll throw in they are mandatory reporters and a child reported they were sexually assaulted. While it wasn’t by a caregiver they still have a duty to report to the appropriate authorities.

Texin

(2,596 posts)
24. Exactly! Those perverts should be kicked out of school.
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 11:22 AM
Mar 2023

I am beyond sick and tired of this current American culture that punishes women and girls and allows boys and men to allow their toxic and raging hormones to get away with everything.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,106 posts)
10. I'm disturbed that their "answer" to the problem was to "move" the girl to another seat.
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:36 AM
Mar 2023

WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS is your answer to sexual assault?

The Magistrate

(95,247 posts)
12. I Agree, Sir
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:43 AM
Mar 2023

That is not only in the driver's limited power, it is the driver's duty as the grown-up on the spot.

Higherarky

(637 posts)
15. Wait, WHAT?
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:53 AM
Mar 2023

It's the driver's duty to make her sit with her abuser? Surely I've misunderstood you, Sir or Madam.

???

The Magistrate

(95,247 posts)
17. I Expect You Did, Sir
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:57 AM
Mar 2023

I replied to a post suggesting the driver could see to it she was seated elsewhere, and I agree. That is in the driver's power.

I regret being unclear.


"The meaning of any utterance is that which the hearer takes from it."



dsc

(52,160 posts)
13. The driver may not set the seating on the bus
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:50 AM
Mar 2023

I don't know how this district does it but some have admin made seating charts for the bus.

The Magistrate

(95,247 posts)
18. If So, Sir
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 10:02 AM
Mar 2023

One would need someone to complain of the variance for any specific reinforcement of sitting the girl by a sexual bully to be imparted to the driver, or any discipline for disobedience meted out to the driver, and that could only cause more trouble for the school administration, as the reason for disregard of the seating chart would figure prominently.

lark

(23,097 posts)
14. Sue the school and the administrators & bus driver to within an inch of their life!
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 09:52 AM
Mar 2023

None of them should have any responsibility for a young child after this heinous lack of caring. I can't believe the agony this young child had to go through, so very wrong!!! My head is exploding in anger at this moment!

mainer

(12,022 posts)
19. And schools are worried about sexual content IN BOOKS
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 10:06 AM
Mar 2023

Maybe they should worry about sexual assault on their campuses instead.

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